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Archived questions from: 13 November, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Ever since we got really drunk one night and had sex, he'!s been acting weird

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - So my best guy friend and I got really drunk and had sex one night. He doesn't remember a thing, but ever since then he's been acting weird. Before I go any further I think I should give some background information: Before the sex, we were a...

I just transferred colleges and now find myself critiqued, marginalized and hearing snide comments about me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5281 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - I am not someone who normally takes things personally or to heart but I have been overwhelmed lately by the negative reinforcement I have been getting by people I go to school with. I am a senior in college, just transferred, and while some m...

Why do I always drift away in relationships or is it just fate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - I am 14 years of age and I'v only had 2 proper intimiate relationships. Everytime I get intimate with someone, you would think that would bring me closer to that person but somehow we drift apart. I know it's somthing to do with my extreme s...

Should I trust him again and move forward,or cut my losses and go home?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - I have been involved with someone for 8 months. Going in, we discovered early on, that we needed what each other had to offer. We were both burned from previous relationships, and genuinely were grateful to have found each other. I told him about ...

I lied about a pregnacy and abortion to hurt my ex...should I come clean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - I lied to my ex by telling him I was pregnant and aborted the baby. I only did it to hurt him because I found out he was sleeping with my friend. I know it's horrible and at the time it made me feel good to hurt him like he hurt me, but now I feel ...

Why did my wife stop having sex with other men and is unwilling to discuss it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

13 November 2009 (M) - My wife and I have acted on my fantasy of watch her have sex with other men - four times and three times with one of the guys. I was so turned on! Before this fantasy became a reality we talked about it and she was okay with it because it was for ...

Why do men cheat? Why don't they just leave the relationship if they are unhappy?

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13 November 2009 (F) - why do men cheat? is it more likely for an older man to cheat with a younger woman? if a man is unhappy in his relationship why doesnt he just end it? im just curious about this topic, and would love for many opinions, thanks...

He texted me 5 times saying he was going to call, but he never did. Why does he bother to text he's gonna call in the first place?

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13 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year now but it became a long distance relationship about 4 months ago (i had to move for school). we argued before but nothing serious, got mad at each other, but nothing that lasted more than a ...

Help! My bf is way too jealous!

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13 November 2009 (F) - Hey, im having a jealousy problem with my boyfriend of 8 months. Everytime I speak to lads he gets jealous, but today is his birthday and some lasses commented on his facebook whome are WAY prettier than me, like I don't wannah be in a relationshi...

Finding out my gf's family secret is really 'eating me up inside'! How do I cope?

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13 November 2009 (M) - Recently I found out that my girlfriend of 5 1/2 years was molested by her brother from the 3rd grade through middle school (she was 9 and he was 14 when it started). Her brother and I met in our freshman year of high school and have been best ...

If he is ready to move in with me then why is he not spending more time with me?

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13 November 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for almost two years now. he has been unemployed for over half of our relationship. he is currently living with family outside of the town we live in. when he first moved in with his parents he started a ...

Everytime my boyfriend has sex with me, his penis gets soft.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3514 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship with this guy for almost 2 months now, and about 2 weeks ago we were having sex and his penis just got soft. He completely satisfies me sexually, I mean he even makes me squirt. He tells me that it is a turn on for h...

Why don't men spend money on me?

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13 November 2009 (F) - Hello, I have always dated men who do not spend money on me. They would have splashed out on their previous gf's but not on me. Usually I am the one to get them great gifts but I rarely get anything cool in return, just cards and some random gene...

Friend with benefits, why is this such hard work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - A few months ago I saw this guy I knew of through a friend while I was on a night out. Wouldn't have normally spoken to him but he spoke to me and we had a dance and a kiss and swapped numbers. The next week he text me literally non stop and we ...

I can't compete with his ex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - Dear All, I have been with my fiance for two years but I cannot get over HIS Ex. When he and I met, he had been single for two years after breaking up with the first woman he was ever emotionally involved with. He lived with her and her child ...

He said he will always love me but we cant get back together because his mother will never accept me!

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13 November 2009 (F) - Hi there I was in an abusive relationship for 10years and was ready to end my life when i had an old boyfriend call me up. He is also in a married . He told me that he couldnt stop thinking of me no matter in which part of the world he was in ...

What did he mean?

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13 November 2009 (F) - my bf and i had a fight a few weeks ago, and he was being very stubborn and said this line "if u really loved me then why are u making this a big deal" ive been thinking of wat he said, and i know he's not great in argueing and tends to say things w...

Why does my boyfriend want sex all the time?

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13 November 2009 (F) - y does my boyfriend want sex all the time and am not confortable with that...

My life has changed for the better for ever but how can I now deal with my friend/ work colleague who I suspect is jealous?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - Hello all. I wonder if you might offer me some advice on how to cope / deal with a jealous freind/ work colleague? I recently changed my life, and now have an active , busy life , and am pursuing my interests, goals and hobbies, doing well at wo...

How should I avoid him? And what should I do to completely forget that man?

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13 November 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm mentally tortured and need your help badly. The agony of my life started when I've met him and we became close to each other. I thought he is a gentleman guy as he revealed to me all his past. He was married with one daughter...

Why don't I always get the right guys?

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13 November 2009 (F) - i am into a relationship now this probably my 5th relationship after 4 heart breaks we have jst datted for 3 months and we had a minor misunderstanding bacause he didn't cal me for 5 days i got angry cos it's very unusual of him,so wen he eventually ...

He showed no concern when I had a miscarriage and I am at the stage where I no longer know what to say to him, should I leave?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - I have asked for help before and always received helpful and unbiased advice. My problem stems from the fact that I feel that I have not been treated very well and would like other peoples views on whether I should leave this relationship. I was ...

Should I be jealous of this picture with my boyfriend being kissed by another girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - So this is a question of whether or not i should be jealous, i opened my fb and i see a tagged picture of my bf, with a girl giving him a big side smooch on his cheek, but thats it, no other picture. for some reason im not bothered but i feel like ...

My boyfriend's sex drive has decreased dramatically and I cannot figure out why!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm going out with my boyfriend for nearly four years and love him to bits in every way. Over the last year his sex drive has decreased dramatically and I cannot figure out why I'm every bit as attracted to him as I was from day on...

Is he trying to make me jealous, or is he saying we are just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5131 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - Hey, i have been friends with a guy who is 30 on and off for about 2 years now, but recently the friendship has become more intense. i like him a lot as a person. We have started to chat online a lot and spend some nights out together with friends, ...

How do I stop him from going away (after he slept with Thai girls the last time?)

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13 November 2009 (F) - How do I stop him from going away? Hi all, Me and my partner have been together for three years now and have just had a baby together, recently my boyfriend went to Thailand for a nice holiday after coming home from deployment (he's in the ...

He just out of the blue changed towards me and it hurts not talking to him

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13 November 2009 (M) - im a 16 years old sophmore im bi and i think im in love with a good friend of mine. hes 17 years old and a senior.he is straight and used to date one of my best friends. now i told him i was bi and he said he didnt really care.things were going ...

He says he likes me, but I do not see any affection

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - a friend told me his good friend liked me so I started seeing this guy. This guy emailed me, gave me him number, and invited me to coffee. I think I scared him during out first two dates because I was not sure about my feelings toward him. Recently...

My ex has given me an ultmatum: get back together or no contact!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5282 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend a while ago because I needed a little break. He's a little clingy and way too insecure and he wasn't really my type. Plus, he's 19, and I'm younger than 18 years old. He took this hard and said he couldn't just go back ...

I'm pregnant and my boyfriend blames my anger on hormones!

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13 November 2009 (F) - I just have a question...how many of you women out there had a baby by a man and felt like he couldnt understand what you were going through? Im getting so fed up with my boyfriend because everytime we get into a fight he wants to blame it on the h...

My boyfriend flinches at my touch and doesn't like my teenage son. What's wrong?

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13 November 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years,when i first met him he had been on his own for 10 years and had drugs/drink problem and was very depressed. I supported him completely whilst he was coming off the drugs and drink and did everythi...

I will have my car fixed soon so I can see him, what do I say to make things better in the meantime?

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13 November 2009 (F) - so i have currently been talking to this guy ive known him for a year and he is 2 years older than me in college i am still a senior in highschool, i litterally never get to see him. we text costantly and recently it is just about how he doesnt get ...