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Archived questions from: 26 November, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My ex-boyfriend faces prison for what he did, should I continue case against him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - I stupidly met up with an obsessed ex boyfriend reasons I do not know nor can explain. We met up and returned home to his house by taxi around 11.30. On entry into the house I went to the toilet. During this time he had taken my mobile and proce...

He can't let my past go...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend wont forget what has happened to me in the past, he is always saying how it affects him and makes him upset, but he still says that he loves me loads and its only when he is reminded about what happened he hates me and wonders why he is ...

It's been 5 days and he hasn't called me! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - My Long distance guy and I have been communicating and see each other once a month, about 6 months ago the last time i visited for a week and he had been behaving very distant but his excused was because he is getting too close to me so he says he ...

My boyfriend physically and mentally drains me... I'm so unhappy...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3393 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - Hello to everyone that responds to my question. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. The relationship started out ok, and its been alright since. I enjoy his company sometimes, but half of the time he mentally exhausts me. Once upon a t...

Is he going off me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - i been dating this boy since i was a freshmen in high school, he is now in college and im now a senior. He agreed that we would stay together. The first year of college everything was ok but this year everything went wrong, he would only call me ...

My boyfriend slapped me... what should I do for him to forgive me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - What should i do my boyfriend slapped me? What should i do for him to forgive me? me and my boyfriend got in a big argument about where we will spend thanksgiving and i said a few things and kicked him where it would hurt the most.. cause he was p...

What is the cure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

26 November 2009 (M) - I need to know is there a cure? My girlfriend and I broke up last June. I thought I was fine and over her, I do not want to get back together with her or even see her again. But for some reason I found out that she is dating again and has a new ...

He held me tight all last night and he said he loves me more than anything, but now I am in fear of him leaving...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has Huge trust issues but i trust him completely, he is a very honourable, loving man. he has a bit of a reason though, as i had taken anti-depressents and didn't tell him about it because he was always telling me that i'm such a downer ...

It's killing me now that hes not talking to me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5265 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - So around the beginning of summer i ran away with two friends an met their friend, he is the best guy i have ever met, i talked to him on the phone all the time an facebook an msn an he came down for a couple a days, btw he lives like 2 hours away ...

I need your opinions please. Is he worth staying with in the long run....?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - Ok so my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 and a half years. We both have a child (My son is 4 and his daughter is 3) although both children are from previous relationships. He is currently incarcerated and has been since March of this ...

My boyfriend says he isnt "in love with me anymore"..what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

26 November 2009 (M) - My boyfriend of two years told me yesterday that he isn't in love with me anymore. He said that he still loves me to death, he is just not in love with me. So he moved out yesterday and said he needed to get away. He said he still wants to be ...

My so called friends took pictures of me naked when I was very drunk and posted them on the internet...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

26 November 2009 (M) - I recently posted about a situation where 5 years ago i got drunk and naked and everyone took photos of me and passed it round my home town and they still haunt me today-everyone that i meet gets shown them and while i didn't want it to (i really ...

Age gap with problems

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - I am 15 and am year 11 at school, i met this guy in year 9 (two years younger) about 3 months ago. over these 3 months we have got closer and closer, last month though i slept with another guy and this really made my close friend very angry although ...

What can I do to prove to him that I'm for real this time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - I am 23, me and my boyfriend (26) have been on and off for 5 years, i say on and off as ive dumped him now 4 times....it boils down to me being easy led and people tell me hes to nice hes to quiet bla bla and i was young and felt i was missing out ...

Why would he invite me out for dinner but then never call or texts to arrange the date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - I sent an email to a guy I used to work with--just a "hi, how are you doing" email. He answered and said "we should get together for dinner and catch up on things." He included his cell number. I called a couple of days later, we talked for abt 15 ...

Why do I feel like I miss him if missing someone is not a sign of being in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - I am seeing a guy, whom I got to know at work. We have been hanging out and I get a sense of 'missing' when we are separate.I have been told that it isn't a sign for being in love, but if this is not the case, then why do I feel this way? Out of all ...

I've just come out of a relationship, so why am I attracted to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - hope you guys can help me her. a couple of weeks ago a new guy started at my job. ive just come out of a very bad relationship 7 months ago so want a nice stress free life but i dont know whats wrong with me but im strangelt attracted to thi...

I don't want to leave but I cant carry on like this! How can I talk to him about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - I've been with this man for four years after my divorce. Things go well until recent months he's always got pain and aches. He is near 70. Our sex life has gone downhill. He has tried his best to please me but the strength is just not there. Im ...

After having an affair with a married man for 18 years he has finally left his wife, but now he is seeing another younger woman!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - i have been having an affair with a married man for 18 years. he and his wife of 28 years have just filed for a divorce. i didn't encouage him in fact i told him to rethink and try an make up with his spouse. he sais that its too late and that its ...

My pregnancy hormones our affecting our relationship and now he doesn't want to be around me!

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26 November 2009 (F) - Hi I am 18 weeks pregnant and know that my mood goes up and down. last week i acted prety damn shameful towards my partner.i was just moody and snapped at him a bit. i felt really really bad, i apolgised and tried my best to make it up to him. th...

How can I rebuild my trust for him after I found these texts on his phone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - Iv been with my partner for a couple of months now, and he knows i suffer from really bad trust issues due to a past relationship. But yesterday i was looking on his mobile ( yeah i know its wrong but its something i do to make myself feel better) ...

Guys opinions needed, whats up with his late night phone calls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - I need guy's inputs mainly. I have a guy friend and there is obviously something more than friendship between us. He currently has a girlfriend and things have been going on lately that seem to point towards them not being together much longer. The ...

What do I do about my boyfriend's drinking problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - My bf wants me to spend Christmas with him and his family, and although I really want to share that occasion with him, at the same time I want to be with my family. The decision wouldnt be so hard if it wasnt for my bfs drinking problem. I am sick ...

Girlfriend allows her Ex Boyfriend to stay the night with her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

26 November 2009 (M) - This is very complicated. My girlfriend who has a 2 yr old with her ex... who abandoned them for a high paying job out of state.... began dating me knowing that I was married but ending my marriage. While we fell in love ..over a two month period of ...

Plz help me my fiance is driving me crazy wit all his lies....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - My fiance for 15 months has lied over and over and im sooo tired of all da lies.. We always argue and he always makes me feel bad like its my fault... When we argue he is always rude and says hurtful things and says he is gonna take our daughter ...

I want to stop loving him so I can find someone who I can love and love me back!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - Ok where do I begin!! My ex husband and I were married 6 years together 10! I caught him with another woman which was his ex girlfriend! OH I caught them!! I divorced him and met someone new! He begged me and begged me! I realized that the man I was ...

I feel like my boyfriend doesn't care any more, should I end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - I'm in a long distance relationship, and have been for almost 7 months. It went pretty well at first, and I thought it was 'perfect' during the summer (but perhaps that was just the honeymoon stage). Once school started, we both began to get very ...

Very confused by his behavior and don't know what to make of it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - I'm currently rather confused about what is going on between me and a guy I have been involved with. I met him about 2 months ago when I started at university, and it was obvious from as soon as we met that he really liked me. After about 2 we...

My husband has developed feelings for another woman and I don't know how to handle it...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - me and my husband have been married for 3 and 1/2 years and recently he realized that he has feelings for another woman. I'm in a battle for him with her. My friends tell me to go but my heart tells me to stay cuz he will pick me, what do u think I ...

No one is attractive to me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - i'm 20 years old and in all these 20 years i haven't found a single person whom i would like, either on physical level or personality level... i mean, i can appreciate someone's looks, be it a girl or a guy. i usually find many people visually ...