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Archived questions from: 27 November, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How can I get some 'me' time in this smothering relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

27 November 2009 (M) - Okay, so my girlfriend is very needy and possessive. We've been dating for 6 months now, and we're both 15. Over the last few months, it's been getting worse and worse. She LITERALLY expects me to hang out with her every second of my spare time, ...

My husband is a devoted teacher, maybe too devoted to his....work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - I can't believe it's come to this-posting an anonymous question on an advice forum. I hope someone can help! It started a while ago, four years ago. My husband is a teacher, a very dedicated devoted teacher who is respected and high up in his s...

Betrayed by a friend I fancied

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

27 November 2009 (M) - Hi all I fancied a friend of mine who I had been helping out. I am a gay man and so is he. What happened is I kept hugging him when he was upset and we rubbed each others shoulders, I ended up rubbing his face and he didn't like it. He told m...

Revenge is sweet...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I need help, can you pleaseeee tell me a way to get back at a guy you really like but recently you found out he is making fun of you behind your back? please don't tell me ignore him because I can't. Please help ...

Will a married man ever leave his wife if he doesn't have any children?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Back in June I met a man at a convention while on a business trip, although it was just friendly. We exchanged email addresses to be in contact about work-related questions. At the time I was engaged to be married (I have been with him for 3 ...

I miss her so badly, but should I forgive her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Hey, I need help. A week ago me and my girlfriend (im 16 shes 15 and we're both female) broke up, as she had sex with another guy at a party whilst very drunk. We'd been togther on and off for about a year. What I dont get is that a week before the ...

I feel he is too old for me... should I end it with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5267 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - I've been married for 20 years. He didn't treat me right. All I enjoyed was what my husband could provide for me (everything.) I just focussed on bringing up my only daughter. At forty something I finally gathered my courage and ended my miser...

Totally confused with two girls... eughhh!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5266 days ago

27 November 2009 (M) - Hey guys, I have been in a relationship for two years now. My girlfriend have been through several ups and downs. Not to sound cocky but I have a thing for pleasing girls who have been hurt in a relationship. For a true example at school there is...

Forceful sex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

27 November 2009 (?) - im 16 and ive been hooking up with a guy who's 26 for the last 5 months. it has been good, we just have sex, no dating. we have really good sex up until the last time which was a week ago. he really hurt me and left bruises all over me. he came ...

How dare he try to dictate her life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

27 November 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I met 4 months ago and are totally in love. Her husband left her for another woman 1 year ago and their divorce is in progress. Unusually, my gf is on very good terms with her in-laws (she's known them 26 years). The in-laws don'...

Long distance relationship, I'm not sure if it's working! what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - I've been in a long distance relationship for almost 4 years now and it only worked out 'cause ever since we started dating, i've been doing every thing he wants. For example, in the first year that we were together, he was insecure and didn't trust ...

I performed oral sex on my best friend. Now he won't talk to me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

27 November 2009 (?) - At the beginning of this year, I met possibly the most amazing guy at my university. We became almost best friends through the course of the year, we did everything together and talked everyday. However, I had fallen really hard for him. Although he ...

He cheated and I thought I was over it but I still feel paranoid. Is this normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - I have a problem. Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 3 years. He is my first true love and I haven't been able to notice any other guy since. I am at Uni now and we are still together as we had agreed (he is still at home). He has...

Quick advice needed - how do I handle our date tonight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - advice needed asap!!! ok here goes iv recently posted a question about why my man is ignoring me .... the thing is im going to see him tonight. well im hoping hes out. what i want to know is how to handle my situation. what can i say withou...

I'm ready to end relationship and pregnancy..help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - I'm so hurt I think its time to end my relationship and not continue my pregnancy. Yesterday was my birthday my co-workers bought me flowers and took me to lunch. My boyfriend did nothing for me. When I got to his house from work he had already ...

Is my boyfriend poor? Or just cheap?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is fairly poor. He lives with four other people but his rent is still around $350 a month. He makes a little more than minimum wage at a dead-end job and generally has little spending money that he uses for money and gas. Now let m...

Who to choose; my long distance boyfriend who I love very much or the new guy who lives close by?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - i have a boyfriend who tells me he loves me very much.but i rarely get to see him coz he is very busy with work,we live miles away anyway there's this new guy who i have recently met and he also tells me he loves me yet he is very close what can i ...

How do I stop myself in the future from feeling the need to snoop?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

27 November 2009 (M) - Hi all, Im feeling guilty about something bad that i did, it was shady and not very nice, and i am lucky to still have my gf afterwards (it seems). I promised myself i would never do this, but i managed to, hate myself for it, and i got caught ...

How can I move on and completely forget this man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I had a short affair with co-worker and end up to a big fight. We became close to each, send SMS and phone each other. He was married with a kid and I'm single mother with 2 kids. He is very vocal to his feelings and running afte...

I was so angry with my married lover that I sent a letter to his son revealing all about our relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, Can love be so true when he is with other women at the same time he is with me? I am 38 yrs old and separated. I met a 68 yrs old married man through internet chatting. I fell intensely in love with him and we shared feelings onlin...

I'm having problems with my mother, she is just too strict with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Basically, I have issues with my mother. Don't get me wrong, I love her dearly and all but most of the times, she's just TOO unreasonable and conservative for her own good. To begin with, she won't allow me to wear make-up. I'm 16 by the way and I ...

I would like to be together with him but how can I make this a reality?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - The man i dated last year although he made clear that he wasn't interested for a committed relationship, this year he calls me sometimes to go out together. I usually accept to go out with him although i have told him in the past that i would like a ...

I broke up with him because of his manipulative ex, but now I don't know what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - I have a very complicated situation here. I'm in a long distance relationship with this guy. Now before I actually met him he had this female friend, I knew this girl was secretly in love with my bf. So he and I were just friends in the beginning ...

Should my partner tell his daughter that he is her real father?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5267 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - im desperate for someone give some advice about my fella and his daughter.this is going to be long because if i give proper details then you might understand it clearer..my fella (mike) of 8 years told me when i first met him that he had a ...

I love him really inspite of how he treated me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - hello! i just want to share with you 0n what i experienced, honestly because i really d0n't understand.... i have 24 at age going 25 next month. i have a live-in partner for 3 years and having him helped me lot to changed in a way that i am befor...

I'm afraid I could be falling for the man I am having an affair with!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - i had an affair with a guy i met at work. i work at a hotel which he stays there from time to time cause he travels on his job. hes married and so am i but i was instantly attracted to him and we ended up having sex. it was a really good night for ...

Why do things always turn sour once you are married?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - why is it always like this? when a women and a man is on the relationship, no matter how long the relationship goes even its 5 or 10 years long or more they are most of the time always in good term. the sweetness, the cares, the dream, the love, ...

It just hasn't felt right since she decided she wanted a break

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5266 days ago

27 November 2009 (M) - I've been with my gf for almost a year...we had been friends and hooked up several times in the past...we've known each other for about 5 yrs...a few days after we started dating she got a dui and lost her license...she moved in with me almost rite ...

How can I get his trust back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5265 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Hi, me and my boyfriend are together for 2years and at first everithing was perfect but after like 5 months he asked me to go and try to go dance at the strip club, so I was thinking about that and went. I work there for 1 year and right now at this ...

Should I be social with her if she does contact me, or am I being used?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5267 days ago

27 November 2009 (?) - I'm confused about what to do with a certain friend of mine. When her life isn't going well, when she's sad or lonely and she needs a friend she'll call me or e-mail me asking to hang out, but when everything is going well for her she completely ...

Why does he care if I have met someone when he was the one that rejected me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - okay so here is my situation..well a couple of months ago i got rejected by a guy that i really liked lets call him Vic..okay so after like a week that he rejected me he would still send me text messages everday asking me about my day and what i am ...

Why does he want to see other women if he is seeing someone that makes him happy?

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27 November 2009 (F) - Theres this guy I am seeing and I am not too sure about what exactly he wants. I met him over a year ago at school. We didn't start to hang out and 'date' until 5 months later. My two previous relationships have been bad and I didn't feel like being ...

Cheated and fell in love..what now?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

27 November 2009 (M) - Here's my predicament... I've been married 17 years, contently, i would say, but not always happily. I love my wife but am not in love. we have two children (14 and 7). Two years ago, I started an affair with a co-worker. She and I each seemed to ...