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Archived questions from: 3 November, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

She is 30 and he is 74. Is he actually interested in her mind?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - He is 74. She's 30. First of all, let's say he is a thin, very attractive, elderly man. It may seem gross to some people, but she says she is actually attracted to him. It may be weird to some, but she said something about him is fascinating to h...

What is so wrong about me and my body?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years, we live together and he tells me we are going to be together, we've talked about marriage and tells me I'm beautiful, although I don't feel that way! I just found out that he has been lying ...

I am tired of this woman texting my husband with her problems!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - my husband continues to be friends with a woman that i don't approve of. i told him several times that she wants more than that,but he says i'm just jealous. everytime she has drama in her life she text him at least 15 to 20 times and believe me is ...

He was abusive and now he's clingy. I want out, but how do I deal with the emotional blackmail?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - Ok I don't even know where to start. I've had a boyfriend for just under 2yrs. The last 6 months he's been different...like taking me for granted. He wouldnt take me seriously, didnt want to hang around me, would make fun of me and my weight and ...

Boyfriend's best friend has interfered with our relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - I met this guy a year ago and we have been taking it slow. Recently his best friend came back to town and is thinking about moving back. He is with us all the time. I don't mind, but... Things he is doing creep me out. He calls me all the time. ...

Is my ex leading me on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5291 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have split up after 4 years, of being togeather. we are not just a dating couple, we lived togeather, raised his daughter togeather, bought cars togeather. everything was about us. he split up with me because he says he wasn't ...

I'm in love with my ex-husband, even after 9 months!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - how do i stop loving my ex and the father of my 2 children? its been 9months sice we finished and im still head over hells in love with him, i asked him move out because he stopped all affection towards me we were like 2 flat mates instead of a ...

I'm afraid my 20 year old marriage is over. Am I right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I have been married 20 years. My husband was laid off from his job, but got hired same type of work at a company in another state. We own a big home here and have a big labrador pet. I can retire in a year so I could not go. He left, calls me ...

I want to spend quality time with my boyfriend, but he just uses my house as a flop-house!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - so i just got back with my boyfriend but the thing is i only see him when he comes over and sleep which is like at 2 or 3 in the morning, he gets up at around 11:30 and then just lays in bed until he is ready to leave which is around 1:30 or 2 and ...

Boyfriends make me feel drowsy. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - I was wondering...everytime I am with my boyfriend I feel extremly tired. Like we will be sitting close (touching and holding hands) and all of a sudden a strong wave of drowsiness come over me. So I lay my head on his shoulder; but I dont sleep...

I feel like I'm her brother and not her lover!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - Hi all. I'm 22 and I've been in a relationship for about 3 years now. This is my first proper relationship. Shes 19. Things have been okay. But its starting to feel abit like a brother - sister relationship, instead of lovers. Plus the fact ...

How do I wow my girlfriend again? She seems to have changed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5291 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 2 and a half months, its been exciting and stressful,alot has happened but i love her, there was a problem with her ex who kept phoning her and trying to come round and one day he did. what made...

While I love the way things are, I want room for more in the future.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5291 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - Ok here goes I'll try to be brief. Im 39 divorced with two childen in a relatioship with a divorced guy no kids who lives an hour away. Weve been together over 2 years having broke up several months back as he had never said he loved me and didnt ...

My girlfriend is icy cold and won't even cuddle!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - Hello aunts! I am 21, have a girlfriend for 2 years and I love her more than my life. I am in deep heart ache these days recieving each romance restriction from my girlfriend every other day. 1st of all, she is never willing to go on a date with me. ...

I want to shower my girlfriend with gifts, but is it too much if we are on the rocks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend are sort of on the rocks- it nearly ended last week but i've booked a surprise holiday to Vienna for our first year anniversary tomorrow and although she doesn't know where we're going she's agreed to come and we'll hopefully ...

If I leave my girlfriend, will she let me see our son?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - I'm 23 and my girlfriend is 22. We've been together for a year and a half. But, we consistently have problems in the relationship, and the love just faded a long time ago...anyway When I let her know whats wrong, or if I have a concern regardin...

I suspect I am not my girlfriend's first choice. She is so unhappy with her life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - My gf was crying again yesterday. She says that she has given up so much to be with me. She gave up her accommodation which was rent free for the last 4 years. This she regarded as her independance. She wants a house with land and outbuildings to ...

My husband says I am over-reacting to his online affair!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - My husband and i have been together for 15 years and we have 2 little girls we only recently got married in March, we have grown up together he's been my best freind my lover my everything. 5 weeks ago i came home from work to find him asleep on ...

I quit my job to be with my girlfriend! Is she cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5291 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid... I have problem with my girl friend now, she is divorced with two girls, and i'm divorced also, after 1 year living together i was reassigned to work 2 weeks on site and 2 weeks on leave, after 4 moths i found that she love somebod...

Is it Mistake Identity or is my Boyfriend Lying?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5212 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years but things haven't been easy. I realised i didn't want a future with him for cultural reasons which I told him. He said its not a valid reason but it's fine and that we don't have to break up just because ...

I'm overwhelmed with the thought of something happening between my girlfriend and her ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

3 November 2009 (?) - My girlfriends Ex is coming down he is threatening our relationship and me(we use to be friends) im terribly in love with my girlfriend.I get the feeling something might happen this makes me feel so empty and unhappy and agitated and a voice in my ...

What should I do about my ex-girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - Me and this girl met in senior year of high school and we had a bunch of the same classes. I liked her in high school but I didn't really care about girls so I never really got to hang out and get to know her. Then we both went to college. I stayed ...

How can I talk to my gf to make this better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - Hey, me and my gf have been going out for a week, i like her so much...we always ask each other about past relationships...sunday i heard her past relationship lasted so long because they had sex, then i asked her about it and it put her is a really ...

Have I made the right choice by giving up on my friend and starting a relationship with his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5279 days ago

3 November 2009 (?) - [Moderator's Note: 2 Questions from the same poster have been merged into one post] Question 1: Hi, I have been in a relationship for over 6 months now with the girl of my dreams.We are very happy and wish to spend the rest of our lifes toge...

Do you think that he is texting in the hope we get back in contact and get back together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - hi me and my boyfriend broke up two weeks ago, i didnt want it to happen but he said it had too due to him needing to sort out his life. he has a lot of debts plus we live some distance apart. he told me that the decision will haunt him for th...

Was that a form of verbal abuse that I went through?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - i was in a relationship with a guy for 7 months, and when the relationship started it was all good he would talk nicely well a week after talking he wanted to meet up for coffee i said we can. We spoke for long and after dropping me off he asked if ...

In a relationship where he's never said I love you

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - My bf and I have been in a relationship since June this year, and he has never said "I love you". He says he loves being with me and can't imagine his life without me. He says he thinks I'm perfect like an angel. When songs come on that t...

Alcohol takes over me and I attack my husband... do I have a drink problem?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - Please help guys...? I'm not sure what to do anymore. When I have far too much alcohol (which isn't often) I have attacked my husband (scratch and bite)(I'm sounding like a wild dog which I'm so ashamed of)...it's as if I have a blind rage and t...

She is confusing and I don't know what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5279 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - i was dating this girl for a year and a half. everything was good. i made the decision to enlist in the military. during the couple months beforei left. we grew really really close. i ended up getting discharged cause of a health condition and came ...

She broke up with me, is seeing another guy and yet says nothing is going on

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5292 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - my girlfriend recently broke up with me after 4 years and 2.5 year old twins. she started talking to a guy she just met and im losing my mind. she said nothing has been going on and i called him and he said the same. but she continues to talk to ...

Faced with choosing bewteen my education and marriage. Why can't I have both?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - I am confused about my future. I have been in a relationship with my bf for almost a year now. I am 20 years old and he is 25. Lately he has been talking about getting married and having kids, within the next few years!!!! To me that is very scary ...

Does he love me or is just afraid to be alone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5292 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - I broke up with my bf about a month ago for a week because i thought that i was too young to be in such a commited relationship. after that week or so though we got back together and are now dating long distance. i found out when we got back ...

Is it normal to act differently after a break up and reunion?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5292 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - me and my ex recently got back together,after 2 and a half months of no contact ( my choice) he called me one day and told me that he still loves me and misses me alot and if he can have another chance, i agreed! since we have been back togeth...