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Archived questions from: 12 November, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He threatened to put me out of my misery. Should I dump him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about 8 months now. Currently, I am not speaking to him. A couple days ago, we were talking on the phone, suggesting ideas about what we should do that day. Well, I put him on speaker phone so I could view my ca...

He used me for sex and now he ignores me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - Ok this sounds really strange i no. about a month ago i got this random txt from this guy, we meet on a nite out im may and swapped numbers then out of know where he txt me again, we meet up 2 weeks ago 2day for a drink and from then carried ...

My dad is having an affair!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - I really need some help/advice. I recently found out my dad was having an affair, if it was physical I’m not sure but it was definitely emotional. I was the first sibling to found out about it (Or to have my suspicions) but a month later my s...

He's only accessible to me when it's convenient for him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - Before I met my current boyfriend, I had just come out of a long-term relationship in which my boyfriend (now ex) cheated on me. I know my boyfriend isn't cheating on me, but there have been 4 or 5 instances now where he just hasn't answered his ...

Can he really ever love me again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - My bf of nine years had "more than a friendship" with a girl at work. He claims they never slept together and after a lot of revelations and tears, he is trying to make our relationship work again. He says he has cut off all contact with *her* and ...

Guy friend crossing the line - how do I tell him no?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5282 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - So, I have a close guy friend, let's call him D, who also happens to be an ex. We broke up over three year ago. After about a year of not talking we decided to be friends, which worked out because we both had significant others, so our new ...

Is it me...? Am I being selfish?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - I have been with my 20 year old boyfriend for 2 years and i still love him more than ever, i just feel like throughout our relationship i have never really been treated. even on my birthday i didn't really get many presents and he complained when we ...

Was I wrong to be upset, why would he lie and try to hide it??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5282 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - hi i've been with this guy for about 4 years we recntly had a baby together, since before i got pregnant our relationship was rocky, but we decided to have the baby because we both thought it was the right thing to do, so far our baby is not the ...

Time to leave? She ignores how ill I look and how low I feel.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5282 days ago

12 November 2009 (M) - Is the writing on the wall? Is it time to call it over? My girlfriend and i had a problem on haloween which left me hurting bad. I told her the following day that i needed to talk to her about it as it would fester inside me if i didn't discuss ...

Should I be feeling guilty because of how my ex's life turned out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

12 November 2009 (M) - My ex fiance was back in contact after 20 yrs. When we were engaged i would do anything for her. We broke up because of unknown reasons. When got back in touch what she told me was disturbing. Here is the list. She was prego by me but lost it. Her ...

Help!!! Torn between two men

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - Dear all, I am a 30 someting mother of two torn between two men: my boyfriend T(who is the father of my two young children) and F who I have fallen in love with. T and I have been together for 5 years. We met at work and it was love at first...

He's my fiancee but I am no longer attracted to him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for a little over a year. We have been throught a lot in our short relationship. He has a child from a previous relationship and that caused a great deal of stress in the beginning of our relationship, he was ...

How do I know nothing happened between her and this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5282 days ago

12 November 2009 (M) - hi i am seeing a girl, i started liking her, before i even proposed i asked her about her past relationship, and she said she liked someone on the 1st day i met her, but there was no commitment. later on when i was deeply in l...

Could one little white lie ruin my relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - Me and my man have been together since may this year and i feel like he does not trust me. For example, yesterday i had to work and had only two dollars to get me to work and no money to get home. I called a couple of my friends to pick me up but ...

How do I encourage him to show a greater interest in me, without scaring him away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm have just started a new relationship with a man who is going through a divorce. He is still young and has no children - he was only married for a few years before he realized it wasn't working - he has been separated for ne...

I refuse to be his sex buddy...I want to move forward to the next step. How do I tell him this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - Met a great guy in the summer but as time went by - it was obvious that he just wanted a no strings attached relationship. The sex was amazing but I knocked it on the head and said no - I wanted and deserved more.... Well he recently has bee...

He's a great guy...but not sure of I respect him enough.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5282 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - Hi, some ideas please! I am worried cos with my boyfriend for 2.5 years now (not living together yet but planning to) and sometimes feel bored. Basically I feel I need to admire and look up to him (based on previous relationship) and while I think ...

I need to save this relationship! How can I show him I am trustworthy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - Hi. I'm having trouble with my boyfriend! We've been going out for a year. I've lied about a few things to him and he found it all out. I've asked for forgiveness and made promises to be better, to be more trustworthy. Unfortunately, i went against ...

I don't know how to help her with this grief

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12 November 2009 (M) - I recently was on here and asked about my friend who took his own life and his sister brought me out of my seclusion. last couple of days have been different. im not sure how to deal with all this. the morning I went back home to see her. when I g...

Am I setting myself up for another fall?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - hi im 28 and the guy i love is 23. i know him since i started my current job, i started 2 weeks b4 xmas in 2005 he was 19 and i was 24 when i first met him we connected on many levels then at the xmas party we kissed. at that stage he was in a ...

I feel locked out of part of his life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - Ugh. I just don't feel like dealing with this, but I have to. My bf and I have been together for more than 6 years. He says he can't stand any of the guys at his school and he is almost always at my school, but if they ask him to do something, ...

How can I maintain a healthy relationship?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

12 November 2009 (M) - So me and my ex girlfriend have been together for 3 years now. We split up recently because our relationship went downhill, mainly because of me. At first, our relationship was perfect, about halfway, I started letting things that happened in my ...

Best friend angry with me now her brother/my bf won't speak to me. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - ** none of the names are real** All are edited** This is going to seem rather long but i dont know how to make it any shorter. Please bare with me. About 10 months ago, i met Ashley. We didnt get along well and first but eventualy we got to be...

Bf thinks I am cheating... how do I prove my love and loyalty? I am lost without him as my best friend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - ugh I hate to say but the man ive been datin for almost a year thinks im cheating on him he hacks into my myspace and things and says im looking for sex with other guys which im not and when i go back and read the thing he sees it says nothin about ...

Why does he prefer masturbation over a beautiful loving wife he says he loves?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4496 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - I need some good professional or exact advice from a professioal or from someone that has gone through what I am going through! I have a no sex marriage, when I no sex I mean no sex, in any way, touch or any form at all whats so ever. My husband ...

How do you respond to such demands???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5283 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - This is a petty issue but I'm really annoyed with a friend of mine. I've known her for about 13 years. We catch up about once a month and she calls me when she needs someone to talk to. She can be a bit rude sometimes but it's almost as if she...

Could this mean she still has feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

12 November 2009 (M) - Me and my ex broke up back in August. However we remained friends. About 2 months later I brought up the idea of hangin out 'just as friends' and she said we could. Well one morning she texts me and says that she didn't want to hang out. Well one ...

He let the girl he cheated on me with make comments about me and my marriage!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - My capricorn man cheated on me and got caught. When we met, I told him I was married, unhappily, and lived a seperate life from my husband. He understood and we have been together 8 months. We recently got a place together, but often times, I ...