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Archived questions from: 25 November, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Awful step mum!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - This is going to be long, i really appriciate anyone who takes the time to read this and any advice I will be sososo happy with!(: Ok, I'm 15, and my mum and dad split up when I was 5. I've always been close to my dad. He see's me about one a month,...

My friend is getting in the way of my relationship!

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25 November 2009 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend 3 weeks tommorow. Every time we go out in a large group, loads of people come out. But i have this one friend who i used to be really close too and now i can't be becuase i'm busy every day!! But when we're ...

Help! I like him... but does he like me enough???

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25 November 2009 (F) - Okay. I've had a few relationships, most of them ended badly. I go for the 'bad boy' type I think. I've been cheated on a lot and it's really knocked my confidence. Recently I met a guy who I really liked, but he got really clingy, and then I met on...

Oh my god - why would a guy just ignore you right out of the blue??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - Oh my god - why would a guy just ignore you right out of the blue?? with no explanation or anything, it just don't make sense to me, i really like this guy so much i would do anything for him and he knows this. We have been back together after a 6 ...

I don't understand why would she block me and stop talking to me when she told me she would give me one more chance?

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25 November 2009 (M) - I need to know if my ex still has feelings for me and that she has blocked me out her life. We broke up 8 months ago and went out for 6 months but she live down south now. anyway it all started when we had an argument 1 month ago cause she told me ...

I feel like I need my space! Is this the right thing to do?

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25 November 2009 (F) - Been Together with my Boyfriend for Six Months now, we both love each other and are really close and get along very well, but i woke up today and realised i need space, i dont wanna break up with him or anything because i love him, but i just feel ...

Guys, would you really love someone enough to let them go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up. He feel into legal trouble, financial issues and family issues. I tried to be supportive, my life just kept progressing. We were happy together but we didn't spend as much time together since he was working to pay off ...

His wont talk to me and acts beyond weird...does he like me or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - Well i aint to sure whats going on here. I have a guy mate who yes i do like, Ive never thought of us than anymore than mates however other people and myself have noticed he doesnt exactlly act the same with me as anyone else. There are many girls ...

He says vaginas are gross and doesn't want sex anymore. What can I do to have sex in my marriage?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - My husband and I are very much in love, we have been married less than a year and we have been together about three years. Before we got married, sex was great. I was intimate and exciting. I am very much aware that this stage will fade some as ...

Am I being unreasonable to expect him to help out?

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25 November 2009 (F) - The other day, my Italian boyfriend says to me "why do you always get quiet whenever you clean the kitchen". I tell him that it would be nice if he were to help someday, even just once, too. Immediate defenses go up and he tells me that it...

Will I just sound needy if I tell her how I feel?

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25 November 2009 (M) - Well me and my ex broke up back in August. We still texted each other every now and then. We were getting along really good and then one day she says she wants me to leave her alone, so I do. I deleted her from my facebook and I deleted her number ...

Is my best friend jealous?

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25 November 2009 (F) - ok, i'm a girl and i have this best friend of mine who's a girl. she's a bit of a loner but she's still pretty close to me. we've been best friends for a year or so now... i have a lot of best friends now and try to go out of the way to make all ...

My client keeps on mentioning our drunken evening of flirtation, what is he really thinking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5269 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - So My Client and I went out for a official party once and I got drunk and there was a lot of flirting..Nothing happened but he did give me a talking to the next day. We spoke about it a couple of weeks later and said it's all behind us. My problem ...

For the men out there: Why would my husband be looking at naked pictures of women but not masturbating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - Hi...I need a guy's point of view on this...and obviously if a lady would like to add, then all help would be appreciated. It's to do with porn! (like thousands of other questions on here!!) why does it seem to be such a problem? My h...

He dared me to slap him and now he is holding a grudge against me!

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25 November 2009 (F) - So I met this guy. We chilled and everything. Everything went good until near the end where he had to leave. I was joking around by pretending to slap him. He said go ahead slap me I dare you to. I slapped him, but not to hard. Now he is kind of ...

What are people's opinions on hen parties and stag do's and strippers?

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25 November 2009 (F) - Hey, I'm 20 years old and been with my boyfriend now for nearly 3 years. Our relationship has been on the rocks a little over the past few months and were not as close as we used to be. I have been invited to go on a hen party at the weekend whic...

Do I consider this relationship over? Do I give him space and try and move forward whilst hoping he'll get back in touch?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I hope someone can help - It might be a long story! About six weeks ago, I reconnected with an old classmate on Facebook. We got chatting and sharing stories. I told him about a recent break up which I'd gone through which although was ...

So I'm thinking about leaving this absolutely wonderful relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5269 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - I’m bisexual, and met my girlfriend in high school. We dated for three years when, this last April, she broke up with me. It was not entirely unexpected- we had hit a bump, and communication had pretty much completely broken down between us, ...

How do I deal with a self absorbed friend and how can I give her witty comebacks?

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25 November 2009 (F) - I have a good freind (friend only) who I get along with, we get along well mostly. She is very self absorbed, as she has a few health issues and works only 2 and a half days a week, she has in past years been a workaholic.. she has had an abusive ...

I've never had a partner question my love for them as often as she does! What do you guys think of the situation?

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25 November 2009 (F) - Sooooo..... I love my girlfriend..a lot...we have been a couple for a year and a half and through this time have had a lot of ups and downs...we dated for 6 months and then moved in together...within he first few months of living together I realized...

I have no idea what he is feeling and I guess he doesn't either?

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25 November 2009 (F) - So this is quite a long story. I have been dating my boyfriend for exactly 1 year last week. We have a long distance relationship and have from the beginning. We talk and have always talked allll the time whether through texting, phone, email and ...

My husband doesn't listen to me and I think there is more to his 'friendship' with an older woman

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - HI i just got married this year in may and me and my husband are having a difficult time. i am currently pregnant this is the second baby our first i miscarried and i have a hard time believing that he still loves me. i accuse him of cheating...

I don't want to hurt his feelings! So how do I turn down this guy's unwanted attentions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - I have recently started talking to a guy via work email. He works in a different part of the country and we started talking by accident after a case of mistaken identity. On the first day he made an inappropriate comment, but I rolled with it and ...

How can I show her I have honestly changed and want to be the man she needs?

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25 November 2009 (M) - Recently I broke up with my girlfriend of one year. We spent everyday together and fell deeply in love. The moment after the break up I knew I wanted to right things and get her back. But she seems like the type of women that doesn't just let anyone ...

How do I know if he is right for me? And why am I fantasizing about other men?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - I have been in a loving relationship for over a year and a half but lately, it feels like things have changed. I haven't been wanting sex as much and I'm afraid that it may be because he isn't exactly in shape, but he never really has been, either, ...

Do I tell someone about how abusive he was to me?

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25 November 2009 (?) - me and my bf broke up about a month ago and i am heartbroken even tho he was very abusive. he would torment me about being raped before we got together, smack me, shake me, scream in my face, call me names, and even spit on me once. it was horrible ...

She's been lying, going out to wild parties and clubbing behind my back!

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25 November 2009 (M) - Lately my girlfriend has been lying, and going out to wild parties and also clubbin behind my back. We have been together for almost 2 1/2 years now. We had broken up back in March because of this. We then got back together in July, and everything ...

Clingy boyfriend!

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25 November 2009 (F) - I am living with a super clingy boyfriend. Yeah... I never thought I'd ever have a problem with an overly clingy, affectionate man, but its been happening to me for over 3 years now. I am still so much in love with him but to an extent he's almo...

My wife has no sex drive but loves me very much. I don't want to cheat but what can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

25 November 2009 (M) - I am bored with my wife. She has no sex drive and I don't know how to get her going. Every other part of our marriage is great. We get along great, in fact, we love each other very much. Everyone says how lucky we are to have each other but if they ...

Is sex with my wife once or twice a week too much to ask?

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25 November 2009 (M) - Is sex with my wife once or twice a week to much to ask? We used to have sex 4 or 5 times a a day then we got married and she just stopped wanting me and I don't understand what I did or if I don't look good anymore. We have only been married for a ...