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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Help!I understand that guys will be jerks to you infront of their friends but can you just please tell me about it. I am very heart broken because my sweet boyfriend of almost 9 months was an arrogant asshole to me today, for the first time ever. I mean I can't believe this shit. The 20th was my birthday and everything was fine and then today I went to the movies with my friend and ran into him there and he was just such a jerk. He wouldn't look at me, or even talk to me. He was just being such a jerk to me and being EXTREMLY overly sarcastic. Anytime his humor is funny but this was just overly being a jerk asshole face. I think by the many times I have called him an ass hole you can tell I am hurt. But, it just is so annoying. It was one friend that he was with that I actually know, and I was very kind to his friend and wasn't rude at all. But, on the other hand my boyfriend was an arrogant ass hole to me and my friend that I was with. I even went to give him a hug and he just hung his hands. Like what the hell. He never does this and it just really cut me up inside. I know guys are jerks when they are around their friends but this one time he was very nice to me infront of his other friend and held my hand a lot, and that was a friend of his whom I do not like and his friend was rude to me. But, infront of his nice friend he was SUCH an arrogant basterd. I just can't believe it when I said " O can I have a hug ?" he refused so his friend was like "o i'll give you a hug" but it took like 2 minutes of my friend and his friend to be like give her a hug for him to do it like I was torturing him. I have never been treated like shit by anyone and he will hear about this tomorrow because i'm not taking this shit. He was rude. He was an asshole, and he was a prick. And honestly I feel really horrible inside and it just makes me wonder why he treated me like that. I feel really hurt and sad. I'm not in an all out rage because I know guys do that, but it just really hurts. Plus my boyfriend has depression and social anxiety disorder so I know he's not exactly affectionate like how I am but it just hurts that he would treat me this way. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2009): Not sure what kind of relationships you have been in but this is not normal behaviour for your age group at all, people in their 20's don't act like that.The only reason a boyfriend would act like that is if you did something horrible to him like fight with him for no reason, cheat etc. If he did it for no reason at all and you did nothing to make it happen then he really does not care about you that much. It means he is embarassed or ashamed of having you in his life and his friends knowing about it. In other words.... friends you.Other then that, the only other reason would be mental issures like bi polar or some other thing.
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reader, Six_Floors_Left +, writes (22 August 2009):
 My guess would be that he might have thought something was going on between you and the friend that you went to the movies with. That is if it was a guy. Either way you should confront him about it what he did was more than just joking around with his friends. What he did hurt you and you need to let him know.~SFL
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