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writes:OP's own title:hi, i do sex even i enjoyed it a lot we both satisfy each other but the thing is i never squirt like the way i saw on different videos n clips i want too squirt like that n even i do masturbate my self but never had that sort of lots of squirt. can you help me please?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2010): Most girls in porn are peeing. You can clearly see the fluid coming from their urethra. Women who squirt supposedly ooze or squirt from their vagina. It's an overblown niche porn thing that i dont see the eroticism in. I've never been with a squirter or known any guys who have. Drippers, yes, but not squirters. It's the equivalent of guys getting obsessed with Peter North-type cumshots and doing everything they can to attain that "monsterload". Most women don't care to be facilly bathed in cum, so why do some women get obsessed with squirting. I think it is maybe a desire to show how aroused she is. Kinda silly if you ask me.
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reader, katieleeds  +, writes (30 July 2010):
Just "Google" female ejaculation, loads of tips on there. I did and I managed to do it, but had to practise a few times, it was fun trying and most of all amazing, I loved it and my fella did too, want to do it all the time now ! Sometimes it works and other times it doesn't but that doesn't matter.
Best to do it when he is giving you oral, and hits your "G" or whatever spot (he certainly hits something) at the same time either with his fingers or vibrator, luckily my fella has a tongue like a lizard so that helps ! ha! ha! enjoy yaselves !
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reader, Illithid  +, writes (30 July 2010):
 Only a small portion of women are capable of squirting at all, and even then it's virtually never the geyser you see in fetish porn. A small amount of fluid is possible, sometimes, but very uncommon.
But let me quote your own question title here: "ENJOYING SEX but not squirting like rest of girls" (emphasis added)
You and your guy BOTH enjoy yourselves. You have a fulfilling and fun sex life. Don't worry about what you can't do, just try to be happy with what you can do... which in this case is have lots of sex with a man that loves you. :)
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (30 July 2010):
 Those 'videos' are pornography - and not even normal porn at that. Squirting appears to be a fetish these days and there is a genre of porn that caters specifically to that demographic by having the actress probably drink several litres of water before getting down to action.
What you're experiencing is the normal way to have sex. Quit worrying about it.
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reader, laura585 +, writes (30 July 2010):
I once saw a show that said you do it by just "letting go" she said it feels like you're going to pee but it's not pee.. just don't hold anything back and when you feel like you're about to orgasm just let it all go... ha.. well I've tried a few times, never worked for me.. but I suppose it's worth a shot. :)
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reader, Miamine +, writes (30 July 2010):
 ahahahaah.... you watch too much pornography and haven't realised that it's fantasy not real life... The majority of women don't squirt, and a lot of the things you see in pornography is just fake, they have tons of tricks they put in the video's to help them sell..
Whatever your doing is just right, that's how the rest of us human's have sex, we don't squirt, and we don't have perfect tits or long 20ft penises.... real life is nothing like the movies, if you think it is, you'll always be comparing yourself to perfection and fake things and crying and feeling disatisfied...
You have an orgasm, that's it, that's the whole big thing about sex.. no squirting, no gangbangs, and NO, most women don't do anal sex, just like they don't do gangbangs.
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reader, rcn +, writes (30 July 2010):
 Do you think these video's are reality? Don't place your expectations in comparison with porn. I don't know how squirting happens. I do know that when I give a girl an orgasm, no matter how intense it may be, I've never experienced one squirting like it's seen on those movies. That doesn't mean it wasn't good, or that something went wrong. Have sex your way, and what's enjoyable to you. Don't rate what you experience to what these videos show.
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reader, loraemoon +, writes (30 July 2010):
 it never happens like it does in films, or video clips, ur an individual, if you enjoy it then just carry on with it
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