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How can I win my husband back?

Tagged as: Marriage problems, Sex, Three is a crowd, Trust issues<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (30 July 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 31 July 2010)
A female Pakistan age 41-50, *eshmal writes:

Hi everybody, My husband says he loves me but i am not his love... his love is virtual.. he will not say it to anyone.... but i found some e.mails to his colleague, he admits his love for her. This girl was teasing me for 3 years, long cals, chatting and mobile msgs..... my husband found my mistatake and become worst for me... that i have no trust in him and the trust is the base of any relationship, if you have no trust on me.... leave me.... on the other side he says only i will because his wife till death.. just wait and remain patiance.. calls have ended but now the girl is always sending sms when he comes home... when i talk he says you do not know the matter.. i am in front of you.... with you... you know what am i doing? i know he is texting but what?

When i talk about this, he always becomes hyper. One day he says if i have big boobs he will love me more... i know he likes large boobs but he did not say it during 6 years.... he says if we are having sex its mean i love you.... he asks me to play with him and remain busy with his cell.... i cannot enjoy the sex because he comes soon and did not care about me.... he is healthy and sexually hot. Often he goes to the office early.... no plan, no meeting, what should i do? I love him too much... I cannot live without him... how should i treat him.. how can i win him... should i talk to that girl? (She also has large boobs....)

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A female reader, eeshmal Pakistan +, writes (31 July 2010):

eeshmal is verified as being by the original poster of the question

hi guys....agony uncle and aunts.....it is my 4 cry on this website....plz read it with full devotion...and help me....i do not want to talk on eggshells but how can i stop myself when he remain busy with cel;;..it can b his job matter but i can feel reply ...reply....non stop reply...if not why he hide his texting from me while we r laying on bed...but still want to be patient;..i love him but can not show my love....plz.;plz give me advice and tell me how can i convince him that ihis is wrong...heart touching words.....

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