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writes:lookin for advice from any ladies,iam a decent lookin guy, but my penis is 6 inches long and only 4.5 inches around.iam very insecure of it,any advice?
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reader, pewee +, writes (5 August 2010):
pewee is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank u all for your responses,i actually feel alot better and more confident now.ive never had ne complaints,just always felt insecure about it,thx to u all iam feelin better!
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (31 July 2010):
 Here, read this... http://www.the-penis.com/size1.html
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reader, Miamine +, writes (31 July 2010):
Measuring penis to worry about it's size seems illogical to me... women never measure their breast size, we go to the bra shop and let a proffessional do it.. the only reason we measure is to get a good bra fitted...
All I can see from this measuring thing is you guys then worry for no reason at all... you can't change the penis size, so measuring it is a waste of time...
Sorry guys, but you keep asking for reassurance for a problem which dosen't exist.
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reader, Illithid +, writes (31 July 2010):
 Miamine, I'm not sure it's that insensible. Unnecesary, but totally understandable. Why do people work out or diet? Why do people use makeup, or shave, or coordinate clothes? Why do people worry about their hair? Why do women worry about their breast sizes (and the number of breast implants climbs each year)? People just want to be as attractive as possible to the other sex. Even if you DO have small breasts or a small penis, or even if you are bald, or even if you are overweight, you can still be attractive in other ways, but people want to be as desirable as possible. That's just human.
Though again, the OP is fine. He most certainly does NOT fall into the "small penis" category.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (30 July 2010):
mmmm.. new employment opportunity.. I'm available to measure penis thing, and will tell you if your big or small...
*******************WOMAN LOOKING FOR JOB********************
For men who watch too much pornography or listen to other men who want to steal their confidence....
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reader, cocoqueen88 +, writes (30 July 2010):
 first of all you have really good size. but i've discovered that a lot of guys think they're small when they arent like my bf who is like 8 inches keeps talking about he's small. You guys keep looking at those pornos thinking that every woman likes that.... nope not true.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (30 July 2010):
Illithid, thank you... I thought there was a sensible reason for measuring men, there is not.. well, unless it's to check if you are bent like a banana.. (thanks also Cerbeus)
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reader, Illithid +, writes (30 July 2010):
RE: Miamine, it's not that hard. Measure along the top of the penis while standing, measuring from pelvis to tip. Try not to press into the flesh at the pelvis or you're artificially inflating your result. For circumference, measure at the base, near the tip, and in the middle and average your numbers. There are some variations on measuring, but this is the standard method used by most scientific surveys for compiling statistics, most notably the Lifestyles survey in 2005.
And FYI, 6" long is about the 75th percentile, which puts the OP above average in length (porn stars notwithstanding). His 4.5" circumference is about the 40th percentile. So he's absolutely fine... a normal, average man all in all. (Though locker room boasting might claim otherwise.)
But why do men measure? For the same reason women stuff bras. Men love ANY breasts, regardless of size. But women compete to attract men and men worry about being satisfying for women. It's normal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2010): i know guys with huge penis but boring to death. it depends on the performance. I only have 3 guys in my whole 34 years of life. 2 are about 6", and one is like 9" ( scary,painful and boring )..so you're fine...
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reader, totty-flossy +, writes (30 July 2010):
 First of all 5-inches is average so your not small, if anything your bigger than average... i dont know what has made you think your small?? :S Maybe your friends are really luck down there and your comparing yourself to something that isnt average!!
Its not the size of the boat, its the motion in the ocean! ;)
As long as you get your moves right then the size wont really matter anymore.. Try doggy position or try her lying down with her legs over your shoulders, these are always a sensative positions and so will make you feel bigger inside of her :)
Good luck! xx
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reader, prettydancer13  +, writes (30 July 2010):
 we honestly dont care i can give oral to a guy of any size but if i have sex with a guy of 8in it hurts like hell and really is not fun, i would rather have sex with a guy with a smaller penis
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2010): Size doesn't matter.
The first boy I had sex with was 9 inches. He impaled me and it hurt like hell. Not good.
My boyfriend now is 6 inches and he is amazing. By far the best ever. 6 is the perfect size!
As a friend once said, "It's not the size of the boat but the way for rock it."
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (30 July 2010):
 Let me second that -
A) It doesn't matter, really.
B) Six inches is perfectly good. In fact it's just about that right size - very big ones are difficult to fit in and they hurt badly.
You really have nothing to be insecure about. In fact, speaking about myself personally, while I'm prefectly happy giving oral to a guy of any size, I'm only comfortable engaging in vaginal intercourse with men around 5-7 inches.
You're in the sweet spot, cowboy! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2010): We use a tape measure Mia. Some of us have curves you know, also need to use it wrap around and measure circumference.
Pewee just remember, it will do exactly what it's supposed to when you need it to, as long as you learn how to use what you have.
The curve, shape and size of mine means some positions do nothing but others hit all the right spots.
Did I mention WOMEN DON'T CARE?
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reader, romany +, writes (30 July 2010):
 I'm a woman, I agree totally with Cerberus.
My ex was small, but confident, he even used to joke bout the little chap, he used to pretend it talked, and say, look i'm like a real willy, only smaller!. lol.
Truth is, it was fine, Personally, (cant believe i'm saying this on public forum-lol) I prefer smaller ones, my ex husband was big.......... it really wasn't good, and it was painful at times too.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (30 July 2010):
I'd be grateful if any men could tell me why they measure and how they do it properly.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (30 July 2010):
Cerbus, you are very wrong.. I wasn't going to say that at all...
I want to know something from the men... Why do you sit there measuring your penis and how do you do it? Do you get out a ruler or a peice of string...
Also maybe we ladies should do that too... never met a woman who measured her vagina and came back feeling inadequate.. maybe we women should do that because I don't know if our vagina's are too big or small..
PLEASE MEN TAKE NOTICE!!!!!!! WE DON'T BLOODY CARE ABOUT THE SIZE OF YOUR PENIS, WE DON'T NOTICE SUCH THINGS.. we only know if guys are nice and whether you know how to use the penis properly...
IT'S NEVER THE SIZE.... IT'S ALWAYS THE TECHNIQUE...
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2010): Here's the answer all the ladies will give, in a nutshell. I doesn't matter. End of.
You can't change it, women don't care about it so you shouldn't either.
That's a good size by the way, that's the size most guys have.
Let me say it again so you get the message, it REALLY, CATEGORICALLY, DOES NOT MATTER. Nobody cares about your penis' size but you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2010): You sooo shouldn't be insecure about it. 6 inches and 4.5 around is GOOD. Besides, it's the way you use it too :p My best friend told me her boyfriend was about four inches but, she also said he was the absolute BEST lover she had because he knew how to push aaalll the right buttons lol Not all women want an enormous penis, it can be so, so painful and just frightening. Believe me, what you have is more than fine ;)
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