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36-40,
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writes:Well its been about a month since my boyfriend and I broke up. The thing is that I can't seem to get erect during sex like I used to. I feel awkward and it feels really different. I am versatile so I can top or bottom. I have done both but I don't seem to stay hard or I will lose that initial libido. Or if I am hard I am not feeling satisfied. I constantly envision my ex being there but when I realize he is not it kills my sex drive. We were together for 2 and a half years. Is this natural, will I stop feeling that sexual pull towards my ex or do I need to make a stop to the doctors and get Viagra. I am only 23.
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reader, jc2008  +, writes (29 August 2010):
forget pills for starters. This is a strange world we live in where people believe they can solve problems with pills... anyway rant over. What you need to do is work out why you keep thinking about your ex during sex? do you think about him everyday and have a feeling of loss? perhaps your not totally over him and almost feel like you are cheating on him. If your having a rebound, maybe your not really attracted to the guy your having sex with and deep down would perfer a loving relationship. At the end of the day, even though were gay men doesn't mean were all just after sex.
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