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I feel I just can't say no...

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Question - (30 July 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 July 2010)
A male United States age , *arry4u writes:

I'm a male and after a divorce I didn't want to have sex with a woman again. I didn't believe I was gay but was followed home when leaving a rest area. The guy followed me home and right into my apartment without an invitation. I had heard stories about gay guys and was starved for sex, but as I said didn't want a woman again. I tried sex with this guy and enjoyed it. I didn't think I was gay but to say I was bi was a lie. I went to a gay bar, met this black guy and he came home with me and I gave him a B/J. Ever since I've tried this several times and have been told I give the best they have ever had. I'm attracted to thoses of other races but prefer Black men. My problem: once I've given head how do I keep them from calling me or coming over for repeat sessions? Some will call several times, one guy brought a friend, also black and now he comes over to bring other friends. I just cannot seem to say no. Am I just being used or do they really like me?

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A male reader, model101_t800 United States +, writes (30 July 2010):

model101_t800 agony auntYou are letting yourself get used.

Move your residence and dont let anyone know. Change your phone number. Get out of the situation.

Secondly, you enjoy doing what you do with your sex life. Dont think too much about it and go with what you want. But just be safe. You know gays are more prone to STDs and AIDs because they are less safe!

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A female reader, Over..worried.  Canada +, writes (30 July 2010):

Over..worried.  agony auntYour being used. Cause none of then want an actual emotional relationship with you .

And if you want to or not I do believe you are gay.

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