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Archived questions from: 9 July, 2010 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

How do I experience an enjoyable time without being treated like a strange, creepy person?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

9 July 2010 (M) - I'm middle-aged. I am separating from my wife, at least for six months. The reason we are separating is that she has been unfaithful in several ways, and I want her to experience life without me. As for myself, I have been hurt by her behavior and ...

After intercourse I get what feels like urinary infection what is causing this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - Thanks in advance for any answers! Recently, after intercourse, I get what feels like cystitis or a urinary infection. Sometimes it's a day after sex and other times only a few hours. It stings and my bladder feels uncomfortably full yet I only ...

Why did my friend give her virginity to two strangers?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - I am seriously worried about my friend.So here goes the story... me and my three best friends Well call them A,B and C. So A is older than me by 3 months and lost her virginity many years ago but that was before we were friends so we dont know muc...

My friends are sexual at 14 and they keep telling me to do it to

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - ew. two of my close friends gave a blow job when they were thirteen, but all the guys gave them more attention, so instead of regretting it they have done it again, and they have turned really sexual at 14, i am also 14 but have not done any of ...

How far can Christians go sexually without violating our faith?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4247 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - I'm 17 years old and have been with my bf 6 months. I am a Christian and am unsure how far sexually it is ok to go. He has fingered me and I've given him a handjob but have began to think this is wrong and so my question is, how far, as a Christian, ...

Does anyone know of any orgasm enhancing lubricants in the UK?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - hi there, its mine and my boyfriends 2 year soon, and ive decided i want to try an orgasm intensifying lube for myself. ive heard of durex play o, but am quiet sceptical because reviews have said its just a cold feeling that helps orgasm a little ...

Will losing my virginity to someone more experienced make it less painful?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - Hey guys! question, i'm a 16 year old virgin, really thinking about losing it now, ive waited for a while and i genually want to do it, if i lose it to a guy who's quite experienced in that area, will it feel good? People say all first times are ...

My boyfriend keeps making excuses not to have sex with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - I don't understand why but for a while now my boyfriend doesn't really want to have sex. When I met him we were like friends with benefits and he always wanted sex. But now he's always giving me excuses saying that he's too tired. I feel so bad cuz ...

My boyfriend and I have decided to spice things up with a little competition

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together just over ten months and we have done most things (sexually) 'cept him on me (oral) and intercourse. (Just FYI, both 16) We're quite active sexually but we're not going to see each other for two weeks as we'...

Why can he only get erect while performing oral?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4945 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - This may not sound like a serious problem but it's beginning to be annoying...My boyfriend only seems to get erect once he has given me oral. This is the first guy I have ever allowed to do this. I am attractive, in shape and the sex is great. We ...

Hurt myself while masturbating. Will it get better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5050 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - Hey, well this is embarrassing but i was on the phone with my bf one night. I was masterbateing and i was really turned on so i wanted more pleasure but i dint have a toy or any thing else i could use, So i used the handle of a screw driver but it ...

Am I being selfish when it comes to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5050 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - i love thia guy and i want him to be all mine. we have "talked" numerous times and each have blown eachother off once. now i really want to be with him, but he doesnt want to just blow off the girl hes talking to. the one time i urge to have a ...

I can't ejaculate with my partner, she thinks it's her fault.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

9 July 2010 (M) - hello there, i have trouble ejaculating with my partner and she is saying that it must be her that she is not turning me on, but she is, she gets very sore because i'm well hung and can't ejaculate can you please help me!...

I'm not sure whether I should break up with my boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - I am having a problem with my boyfriend. He seems unable to be comfortable with my sexual history. I am 22 yrs old. I decided long ago to abstain from sex until i was able to do it under my terms. I had boyfriends and dated guys but i often felt ...

Is my sex life normal at my age?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

9 July 2010 (M) - I am over 60 and still have sexual intimacy on average once a week. Question; I prefer to 'finish off' outside her body is this normal and is once a week at my age normal? How much longer can i expect to be able to 'step up to the plate'?...

I don't think our sex life is healthy, but he says I have just got sex on the brain!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend just over a year and live with him at his parents. There is always a problem when it comes to sex. I have to wait months each time. I've tried alsorts to get his interest and nothing works. He told me last nig...

How do you have anal sex painlessly?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - my boyfriend wants to penetrate me from the 'rear' can anyone offer advice on how to do it painlessly?...

Why didnt I bleed when I lost my virginity?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - Is it normal if a girl loses her virginity and doesn't bleed and if she hasn't used tampons got fingered rode horses or played any sports of any kind?...

Should I have sex with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - uhm , last year i lost my virginity around the age 12 going onto 13 and this year the guy i knew and i still trusted likes me and we started going out for almost 7 months and i think i want to try it out with him i am 13 going on to 14 and this guys ...

Descison about sexual experimentation!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

9 July 2010 (?) - I have a big choice to make. I really do love girls but I only like to masturbate to gay porn. Now the opportunity for me to try and experiment with another guy has arisen, and I need to know if you guys think I should explore my sexuality and ...

Any suggestions on a sex life gone south?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

9 July 2010 (M) - hey guys and gals just a quick question. what do i do here? i have been with my gf for 3 years now almost. we have a 1 year old kid which is tough but life is great. it gets hectic at times but i expect that. but our sex life has gone south. when we ...

What are we supposed to do in the Missionary position?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - Hello! Just a quick question. How does a woman perform during sex? I know there are various sex positions where the woman is in control for example, when she is on top. However, I am referring to the traditional position of 'Missionary' - I know...

My husband is interested in shemales, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - My husband and I have so much love for each other almost 9 yrs. We are a very loving couple in other people's eyes. However, I found out he is interested in shemale two months ago. Not only spending thousands of money to chat with them and even ...