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writes:Is there any condition or anything that makes it really hard for a guy to - finish- , i'm asking cause i just cant get my bf to finish, i would give him a hand job and he would pre cum and then a little fluid but doesnt finish, stays hard, we dont have sex, just what people call - outside intercourse - with our clothes off and he seems to enjoy both but he doesnt finish, i know he did with his ex but they used to have sex i would really like to give him that pleasure but dont seem to be able to and oral is out of the question for me btw.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni doubt it has anything to do with him being anxious , i'm pretty sure has nothing to do with it cause he is pretty at ease around me , and about asking him i do and he tells me to do it faster sometimes which i find hard bt do and can tell then that he likes it more like that bs still he just doesnt finish it is pretty frustrating really !!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009): It's amazing just how many girls have no idea how to administer a successful hand-job. Maybe you need to improve your technique. Ask him to give you a commentary next time you do it about how fast, how slow, how tight, where and how should I be holding it etc.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009): 95% probability it is psychological.
On the outside he probably seems quire macho.
He is likely extremely quite anxious. He is really, really concerned about your approval. Approval of how he looks, how he performs, what you think about him, latent penis size doubts, and on and on and on...
When he is at ease and trusts that you approve, it will all improve.
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