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writes:A month into our relationship, my wife confessed to me that she is bi-sexual and had had a few girl-on-girl experiences back in college. It's now been five years since we got together and two years since we've been married. No children yet, but the other day, she mentioned wanting a threesome with another woman. I thought she was joking around, so I played along.Well, today, she mentioned it again and actually wanted to talk about the possibility that it could happen soon. Now, I know we're in love with each other and nothing could come between us, but should I worried? Or grateful, that my wife wants to have a threesome with me and another woman?
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reader, malum424 +, writes (2 May 2009):
 The thing I feel you should ask is she doing this for herself or is she doing this thinking it'll make you happy.
It seems to me that you're not really comfortable with this so tell her that you don't feel right about it. As for fearing she may leave you that's natural when such things are come up.
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reader, brian646 +, writes (2 May 2009):
 bro.....although another woman being naked with you and your wife (although hot..hahaah), sex is best deserved between man and woman...one woman....your sweetie......B
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): seriously, you need to ask yourself, would you be comfortable in a threesome situation with your wife and a third person?
I personally would be grossed out if my boyfriend wanted to have a threesome with me and one of his male friends. I wouldnt feel threatened even if my boyfriend was bi-sexual, but i just wouldnt be okay with the whole idea. What you share in bed with your wife should stay just between the two of you - a third person would be too crowed.
Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): I am the original poster of this question. I apologize on the gender confusion. I did click 'Male', perhaps there was a glitch?My wife did want to talk about this particular issue and I have a feeling she still does. The only reason I'm worried is that she might leave me and go with the other woman. I'm just curious as to what others might think given if they were in this situation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): Well how do you feel about it? And do thou think its just to please her or you or both? This is a tough question because I could not see many women sharing their man with another women! But on a personal level I know a few women who do things like that and their reason is they aren't satisfied or they are bored but don't want loose their man because they do love their husbands! You should question her on why she wants this so bad and then you can conclude on weather or not you should be greatful or worried. Try talking to her and be sure you update us and let us know if our advice helped any! Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): Since your profile shows you as being a female, I'm confused.
Are we talking about a same-sex relationship and your partner is looking to add a third woman for a threesome?
Did you yourself bring this up with your husband and would like our opinion on whether he should be worried or grateful?
Are you just asking this question hypothetically?
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