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Archived questions from: 4 September, 2011 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Letting go of my abuser

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - I was in an abusive relationship on and off for 4 years. I am a recovering alcoholic and this man approached me when I was three months sober and he was around 6 years sober. I never knew the relationship was abusive until I was in it on a regular ...

Texting male friends constantly while we were watching a movie, should I be okay with this?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

4 September 2011 (M) - So I met this girl, we hit it off And started seeing eachother. One of the things we talked about was how her last boyfriend was very controling, wouldn't let her have male friends, go out to the bar with her girlfriends And so forth. Well I don't ...

How much contact between first and second date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

4 September 2011 (M) - Hi Guys, This follows on from the last question I asked really, which was about getting a second date / level of contact / not being too needy. To put you in the picture, I went on a first date with this girl I met on a dating website. Now, I...

Perfect one minute, drifting the next, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4572 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - So I have been depressed and heart broken for the past two weeks and a half now. I was engaged to be married and he recently broke up with me saying that he gave up on me a long time ago because I wasn't as affectionate to him as I use to be. The ...

Urgent help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4621 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - Dear cupid i need solution of this complicated problem. I have nobody to share my grief. My mother died when i was small, since then i am a very sensitive kind of girl. Recently i am perplexed and really need your help..so here it goes : i have ...

Confused Signals

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

4 September 2011 (M) - I have a female co-worker who has been displaying some flirtatious behavior toward me when it is just us talking. These include: playing with / stroking her hair, pushing her hair to one side, exposing her neck to me; having pretty good eye ...

Lesbian friend going too far!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - Hey everyone, I am a 16 year old female, I have a boyfriend and I love him to death but my best friend is really starting to get in the way! She admited to me two weeks ago that she is a lesbian and she hasn't stopped harassing me since. She keeps ...

My girlfriend and the new house

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

4 September 2011 (M) - Hi guys, please let me know what you think about this... recently, I told my gf that I'm working (painting, getting furniture, etc) on the house I bought recently so she did not have to worry about anything when we get married, she would just mov...

Why do exes from years ago get in touch when they're single and have nothing to do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

4 September 2011 (M) - Why do exs from years ago get in touch again when they are single and having nothing else to do ? This has happened to me ...again , im with someone , have been for two years , my ex knows this , her other half is in prison, she married him whil...

Whats the right way to ask my Gran if I can move in with a guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - To give you a background I dated my ex for 5 years lived with him for 2 ended up not working out so i moved in with my grandma who is very traditional when it comes to dating and living with someone before marriage...(did not think it was ...

I always attract the wrong guy, how do I bring the focus back onto my own life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I need to understand what is going on with me as I'm back in the same position I've been in several times before and I've got to break this cycle. The problem is that I only seem to go out with guys who have an emotional disab...

Is going on a work retreat acceptable without a spouse?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - Hi - Thank you for taking the time to read my post. My husband’s work has an annual retreat for 4 days and it has been stated, “Spouses are not welcome.” Would this bother anyone else? My husband and I are having a lot of issues as is - this ...

I've uncovered the truth, but he won't say anymore!?!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - I have a huge problem! I started dating this man, he told me that his past wife died, I fell in love, well through time things were not adding up, red flags. Come to find out his wife did not die! He is married. I confronted him and he said he would ...

Any suggestions on how to help someone with depression?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4621 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is going through depression and I want to help him. Any suggestions? He has always had this, even before me, but I feel like it's partly my responsibility to help. I've brought him chocolates, I wrote him a poem and left it on ...

Is this relationship really going to work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for about a month now and I really like him. I think he likes me too. He's texted me every day since day one. I take that as a good sign. We've been on a few dates like movies, bowling and dinner. His work schedule makes it ...

Should I tell him or hope that one day he'll like me like I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - ok, im only 14 but i like this boy who is 18, its really complicated because my mum is his boss and he has a gf, we text all the time and he seems to like me but not like i like him. should i forget about it and move on or still be friends and hope ...

How do I come clean with my man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - hello all. I need some advice on how to tell the man ive been planning on being in a relationship that i have just been diagnosed with herpes. We have not had sex, as we have been taking it slow for about a year now. I freaked out over it so im ...

Snooped and found out that my some guy kissed my GF! Now what?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

4 September 2011 (M) - So i did something bad. I snooped my GF facebook. I found a conversation that she had with her friend. They are talking about a party that my GF friend attended. her friend said something like "3 guys tried to make out with me , they pretty much...

What can I do about my wife who is refusing to take her medication for Depression? I cannot sleep as she unsettles me so much.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

4 September 2011 (M) - My wife has stopped taking her Fluoxetine (Prozac equivalent as an anti-depressant) and so she has become really angry and edgy again. As a result I'm finding it really difficult to sleep and concentrate on work. A little while ago I visited my pare...

He was jealous but now he wants me back...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4621 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - Wel i advice you see my ex boyfriend broke up with me because he was jealous that i was always talking to my guy best friend that he l8r never liked.i was hurt and now he admits that he was wrong and wants to get back together. i mean i do love him, ...

Is this girl, who I love, worth another try, or will I get hurt again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4621 days ago

4 September 2011 (M) - My ex-girlfriend and I dated about 11 months before she dumped me. We had a fantastic physical and emotional relationship, we had great chemistry, and often stayed up to the late hours of the night talking and just enjoying the companionship of one ...

Why is he so committed and so confident that our LDR can last the distance until we can be together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - I'm in an LDR relationship which has gone on for about two years. We have met and want to see each other again. Problem is, there is a huge distance between us, and it will be another four years perhaps even longer until we can live closer to e...

I feel unfeminine. Should I get breast implants to fix this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - Ok, I have small boobs, because of my age they won't grow anymore. I have an otherwise curvy build, I have a small pronounced waist and wide hips, big butt and thick thighs. I'm slim, though. My face is well, some say pretty, I'd say average, but ...

My friends have suggested my Gf is emotionally abusive. Should I try to make this relationship work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

4 September 2011 (M) - I have been in a relationship for 2 years with a girl. I am 24, she is 23. First off I would like to say I know I am not perfect, I dont think its entirely her fault and no I dont know exactly where my fault lies, nor will she tell me half the time. ...

Why not cheat? I am interested in all your ideas and suggestions please

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - I have been married over 10 years. Before marriage had a very active sex life. As soon as we were married, it became less, and less and kept getting less until it was 3 years. I brought it up to him, then we went to counseling, then I brought it u...

Is it me? Or do I need something? Low testosterone? No pheromones? Would supplements help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

4 September 2011 (M) - Hi everyone. It's not easy to talk about this but maybe you can help. I'm in my early forties, and all my life I've had almost no luck with women in terms of romance and sex. I had one girlfriend in school, and I've had a few dates over the y...