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writes:Firstly, I would like to say thanks to everyone who have helped me in here. I really appreciate all those valuable, useful and wonderful advisers. Especially those really harsh which makes realise how stupid I am to love someone who doesn't love me.Secondly, I would like someone to tell me is it stupid to fall for someone. After this emotional exhausting journey, I started to question myself on that question. Thirdly, it is strange that I still love her even though she has ignored me and kicked me out of her facebook friend list. I still feel jealousy; I still feel pain; I still feel hatred. Why?Lastly, I have found out that when I love someone I am not logical at all. I am a very logical person but when I am with her I am irrational and not logical. Instead, I only followed my feelings. Is it wrong?
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reader, 83puremage1 +, writes (7 May 2011):
83puremage1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2011): No its not at all stupid we are all only human. You just got bit by the love bug. However it is stupid to constantly pursue somebody, that you know isnt really interested in you, doesnt care about you, is playing you or cheating on you, in other words doesnt return the love you give. That would be stupid. Of course it doesnt mean you can just stop loving them, you cant switch it off like a button (if only) but you can make a conscious effort to get over it and move on. This just takes time, you need to do things that make you happy and bring out the best in you, sports, socialising, hill walking, whatever you thing is and before you realise it those negetive feelings have become less intense, but still there, until eventually they are no longer there and you have moved on. Just be around friends and do fun stuff to bring a bit of positive feeling back into your life.We are all only human at the end of the day and love is a perfectly normal natural thing. We have to give in order to recieve, but when we are not receiving its important to recognise that and move on. But never feel stupid for loving somebody otherwise we'd all be very cold, lonely people.
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