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Archived questions from: 4 October, 2010 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Morally confused about lesbianism.. Don't know what to do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - Morally confused about Lesbianism. Dont know what to do??? I am 25 and married, been w/ my husband for 9 years,since I was 16.He was my 1st boyfriend.I have felt sort of attracted 2 other girls since middle school, but I always just convince...

I don't know if it's wise to pursue her... advice needed!

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

4 October 2010 (M) - I am a man, I was in a long term relationship that ended and left me hurt. I tried to get back in the dating game but I found meeting available women very hard. Long story short, I was lonely and I answered an ad on CL one evening for a women who ...

Do women tell their friends EVERYTHING about their boyfriends???

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

4 October 2010 (M) - Ok, to all women, do you talk to your best friends and tell them everything about your bf. i mean everything, like dirty details?...

Boyfriend caught on dating sites and texting other women...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - Hi I am new to this. I just did not know where else to turn. I have no one else to discuss this with. My boyfriend and i have been together 3 years. He is considerably older than me but it has never been an issue for either of us. WE get on ...

What do I do? I want to get him back, because everything in me tells me that this is wrong.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4960 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - I don't know what to do. I started seeing this guy in July and by August we were a couple. He lived an hour and a half so we didn't see each other every day, but we constantly communicated. We told each other things that we'd never told anyone ...

He doesn't know I have kids... Help!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - Hi I am married with 2 kids, but the guy i love i have known him past 10 years. Well in between we lost contact. Then now we are back in contact. He doesnt know I am married with kids and that i am still with my husband(verge of sepeara...

Why can I not forget him and why do I want to see him again even though the relationship did hurt me so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4959 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - The reason for being here is that... i feel like i cannot forget my ex long distance lover... a have a new partner now, long story, i comitted not to be alone and wanting to kill the memory of my ex... have been through all stages of emotions, and ...

What can I do to fix it???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

4 October 2010 (M) - I'm just plain confused. My (ex) fiance told me "I'm just not in love with you anymore. After four years together I thought we were pretty much set and until just recently she seemed very much in love with me. But what I'm confused about is that ...

Should I tell her about my past? I'm afraid of what she might think!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

4 October 2010 (M) - I am 39 years old. I was raised in a house filled with deceit. Which is why I am writing today. I met a wonderful woman and have been together for 4 months. I believe in complete openness between lovers to help ensure the best compatibility. I have ...

Married a Thai girl and now have regrets.....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4797 days ago

4 October 2010 (M) - Hello, In 2004 I found myself coming to the end of a 3 year relationship and started looking online on dating websites. To be 100% honest I liked the idea of having a very beautiful gf and I am only average looking myself but I am kind and success...

My husband is infatuated with another woman. Can we get past this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - My husband and I are going through a rough patch in our marriage- he's infatuated with another woman, who also happens to be my coworker and is dating his best friend. (Yes, some of you may recognize this situation from his Dear Cupid post.) In a ...

Troubled love, a constant cycle.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4960 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - Hi I'm a 17 year old girl and I have been going out with my boyfriend for over 3 yrs. In the fall of 2009 he left me b/c his friends told him that he should live his life and experience other girls so he left me but he was at my house everyday ...

Possibly in love with my roommate... but is it worth the risk with his ex still around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - I tried to make this short… I’m sorry! I’ve signed a two-year lease with Frank while I finish my degree. We found each other on the schools roommate search and instantly hit it off. We had been talking/emailing every day for the month before we ...

Is this just a mind game or more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - Not sure if this is just a mind game for sexual validation or more.Thanks in advance for all advice, I work in a small office w/ about 20 people. To know my past I have been only w/men and have been very picky so I have only been with two and I am...

Am I a nag or does my partner have a problem with drink and drugs?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - am i nag or does my partner have a problem? im 11 weeks pregnant with my 3rd child and been with my partner on and off for 9 years. i left him last year as he drinks 5 times a week and used to take cocaine spending 150 a week on it i just couldnt ...

Girlfriend suddenly broke up with me last week - am I doing the right thing?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

4 October 2010 (?) - Hello. I'm just trying to get some advice here. My girlfriend unexpectedly broke up - by text - last week. Her reasons were that she needed to concentrate on studies (she started University last week) and family, and that she felt I wouldn't suppo...

I feel like no boy will ever want me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4960 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - hey, i know theres people much worse off people then me out there but im so fed up of my life. people have told me go get out there and meet new boys, as i was going for the wrong type (just wanted 1 thing). so i did this and met this boy i really ...

Is my boyfriend still interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - how do i know whether my bf is not interested in me anymore. its been 10 months for a relationship before he used to call me everyday but now for the past 2 months it has reduced. he tells me that he's been busy lately with work n stuff. how can a ...

I want to show my girlfriend that I love her but she's not easily impressed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

4 October 2010 (M) - Me: I'm 19 years old, I'm in college, I live 1 hour and 50 mins. away from my girlfriend. (I have a car) We've been together for 1 year, 2 months and 14 days. We love each other to death, and I trust her more than I would even trust my mom. (I...

Guys, would you be reluctant to marry a virgin?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - I'm 16, and never had a boyfriend before... I went to an all-girls school and have just started at a mixed college. A lot of the other girls I know are sleeping around and stuff. But I don't feel like I want anything like that. Hearing about ...

Is online flirting considered cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - Is ONLINE flirting considered cheating? My boyfriend gave me his Facebook password, and I check his messages (he doesnt know) and he's always flirting with this girl, he even asked her to be his sideline girlfriend, she said no but they still ...

Stay at home mom wants to go back to school

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

4 October 2010 (F) - hi everyone, well i been a stay at home mom for about 2 1/2 years now and my husband came to me recently asking me what was i going to do next either go to school or get a job. im only 22 and i do want to go back to school is just that im scared ...