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Archived questions from: 28 October, 2010 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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I'm no longer attracted and we barely speak. Can we rekindle this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

28 October 2010 (M) - I had an amazing relationship with this girl that was beautiful. We hit it off right away, and moved in together a few months after dating. It seemed perfect at the time, but now its so drab, our entire relationship is dying. Im n...

We both like each other but are too shy to talk!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

28 October 2010 (?) - Hi guys, I think this is a tricky question to answer but this guy is interested in me, i know this because he has told me and i have also told him how i feel. I don't know him that well as i met him at college at the start of Sept, the problem is ...

I broke up with my girlfriend 4 years ago but now I feel regret.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

28 October 2010 (M) - I don't know if this is a really stupid question or not but here goes: I broke up with my girlfriend about 4 years ago, she was quite jealous and it drove me nuts. In the end I didn't treat her very well, I started to ignore her. Until one day sh...

I thought he liked me but he talks to so many other girls. Is he just a player?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - Hi there.. I think I just need a little bit of help with this one. Hope I don't tire you all out while reading this. I met a guy in our accounting class about two months ago, and he took the effort to come up to one of my girlfriends sugg...

My breasts are swollen and swore, what's wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - My breast are swollen and sore for the last week or so . But now there are still big and swollen but not sore . I took a test last night and it came back as no. Just wondering what's going on with me?? My last peroid was over on oct 7 and we had...

29 year old virgin and waiting for the right one. Will I find her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

28 October 2010 (M) - hi am 29 many say am a good looking guy, thing is i have allways bin shy around women god knows why some girls ask how come u havnt got a gf ya such a lovely guy thing is am still a virgin i wanted to save myself for the right person am not re...

I can't stop masturbating over my co-worker!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

28 October 2010 (M) - i need help i work with a polish women shes 23 small blonde hair big boobs face and smile like you wouldnt beleave she just looks awesome, shes so friendly get on well every time i speak to her or even look at her i get an massive erection neve...

Is it possible to have sexual chemistry but not like the guy as a person?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

28 October 2010 (?) - Is it possible to not like someone as a person but still be really attracted to them? I ask this as a guy friend of mine, who lets just say has a reputation AND a girlfriend of nearly a year, is to be honest a bit of a sleaze when it comes to women. ...

I don't feel as though I belong. Is love enough to keep us together anyway?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4936 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - I have been married to my husband for 9 years. I love him. He is the only man who has been in my boys life. He"s been a father never had to be. I'm not very close to my husband kids I feel as if I don't belong, is love really enough to keep us ...

My hair stylist hurt my feelings. Should I go back to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4935 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - i'm quite upset. i went to the hairdressers today, and i didnt like some comments that my hairdresser made. she said my colour had faded( i had my hair dyed blonde, but the person who dyed it didnt put much blonde in ) and i didnt even think it ...

How do you hire a private detective?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - How to hire a private investigator? Is it expensive? I need professional help to discovery truth about my suspicion. ...

Do you think he is interested in me or using me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4936 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - Hi, I'd just like some help with figuring out if a man I've met is genuinely interested in me or is just trying to take advantage of me. We met a few months ago and he comes to my workplace most evenings in the week (not specifically to see me...

How can I repay my mom for her kindness?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - Hi guys, this isn't a relationship question, but i'm sure you will do your best to help me out. Ok, here goes. My mum is the most amazing person I've ever known, we have been best friends ever since Dad (her husband) died in 2001. She has always d...

How do I get myself together and what do we do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4936 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - When i get angry sometimes, I tend to say stuff I dont mean(names or things, that I manipulate him into believeing) I hurt him, and was lowering his self esteem, He wasnt happy so he got out. WHat do I say he said hes not holding grudges but he also ...

He says I try to control him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - I try to control him, I have been hearing this a lot. We are broken up now but I want to work on this for myself even if WE still happen to get together. How do I manage that. I know it may do with trust but I dont know how to solve it. Also he used ...

I feel like I have lost another family member, I don't know what to do anymore....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - Hello. Im hoping somebody can help me get some answers to whats wrong with me at the moment. I am 37 years old and feel like im going mad. I shall start at the begining. When I was 6 months old, my biological mother left me out in the rain over ...

Do they still have control in this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - Hi could someone please help me with this question? If somebody is trying to control you by refusing you something and they probably thought you would chase them for it, then do they have any control over you if you walk away and say ok i will go ...

After we broke up I was so angry I went to his mum and told her everything! I know this was a terrible thing to do but I still want to be friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I of a year and a half just called it quits 2 days ago. I feel a sense of anger but I still can't get the sadness out. I told him I still wanted to be friends and I know he agreed just to be nice. So last night I did something ...

Should I start a long-distance relationship with this guy, or stay with my boyfriend who will never leave me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - I have been dating a guy for nearly 4 years. At the beginning we were deeply in love with eachother and we had so much in common and we would talk for hours and hours and we never fought and were so happy with eachother. Two years into the relatio...

How can I ever be her special guy when she was a prostitute who slept with 300-400 men?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

28 October 2010 (M) - Hi All - this is a follow up question from one of my previous ones - How do I cope with my girlfirends past - those that read my last message will remember that she used to be a bargirl in both the Philippines and Singapore and has admitted to ...

I have a probation officer, should I tell my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - I need help debating on if I should tell my boyfriend, that I have been with for over 5 years, that I recently got charged with stealing from my job. It's been a year or so and I now have a probation officer. I've never been in deep trouble like ...

Need advice on how to be a modern day Elizabeth from Pride and Prejudice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - To have a Mr.Darcy you must first be an Elizabeth... I fear I'm closer to being a Lydia, what a fool I've been. I'm upset at myself for not trusting my instincts and falling for an a**faced jerk. Now I'm trying to maintain my dignity and my sense of...

I'm having trouble concealing my penis!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

28 October 2010 (?) - I have a very odd problem. My problem is I am having trouble concealing my penis in my pants(especially shorts). I guess you could say its above average in size, 8 inches long and 6 inches around. The problem is many times it just looks like I ...

I want to regain my husbands trust and confidence

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - My husband and I dated for three years and were sexually active. When we got married, I just stopped wanting sex at all, but I did continue to masturbate. I dreaded sex and just had no interest. And when I say dreaded I mean I would just pray I ...

I don't know which of the two men to choose from!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - So here's my problem, 5 months ago I met this guy (GUY B) at work and at first I didn't really get attracted to him. But after like 2 weeks of working with him I got attracted with his physical appearance and personally I usually get attracted to ...

How do I tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4936 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - How do i tell him how i feel?? i live with my boyfriend...im 8 months pregnant... the thing is that every time im sad i cant tell him why im sad...we have been through a lot of things together....he change when we started living together. he put...

Should I take the chance and borrow from him or file bankruptcy to get a fresh start and rebuild my credit??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4936 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - This is a financial question that involves my current boyfriend of two years. It will take some explaining so stay with me..... THE UNEMPLOYMENT: I am one of the many people who lost their job and haven't been able to find another. I've been...

Posh doesn't mean rich!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

28 October 2010 (F) - Today I went to a University open day. As to be expected a lot of people from up and down the country went along too. I'm from London and though I knew I probably sounded 'posh' in comparison to the other possible students having a look around, I...

How common is it to see women that resemble porn stars in reality?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4920 days ago

28 October 2010 (M) - I got a question its kinda weird.. Minus the girls with boob jobs, Is the natural breast in porn really what most girls breast look like? How common is it to see pornstar material in reality? Just wondering.. its not that its important to me, i ...