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writes:My boyfriend broke up with me last Friday, and we decided to still be friends (even though I still have feelings for him) and I've tried talking to him about what went wrong and talking about the good times we had in the beginning. But he's told me to move on and let it go. I'm confused though, because yesterday we talked online for at least four hours straight on YIM and played games together. And then he had to go, and at one a clock he got back on and we stayed up until four in the morning talking and having fun like how we used to...and there was one point where he had to leave and go to the store to get something for his family and he actually texted me ...it's like he wanted to keep talking to me...I want to get back together, and try to fix the problems we had. But when we broke up he told me that he couldn't be happy with me....but I don't understand..because when we talked yesterday we were happy...it was like we were together again..without the romance. And he still makes time for me and will hang out. I'm so confused..is he over me and wants to be friends? Or does he still have some feelings for me?I want to get back together with him so bad, but I don't want to waste my time trying if I'm not sure it will be a waste. How should I go about trying to get back together with him?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (17 February 2010):
Sorry, my first answer was sent to early. What I was saying was that he has made it as clear as he can that your relationship will go no further than just friends. I think he wants you as a friend, but is clear nothing else will happen. You need to let it go and move on, because if you don't you're going to be very hurt for a long time.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (17 February 2010):
He has told you that you need to move on and let it go. And he has said he can't be happy with you. He can't be clearer.
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