A
male
age
30-35,
*obTaylor
writes:Hi I am a gay 18 year old male, closet guy and I have had a part time job for about a year, And new guy started and at about 3-4 months ago at first I hated him and now think I fancy him, I have spoken to him a lot and we have so much in common we even have the same birthday. He has a girlfriend but I think he is gay but I am not shore. Sometimes I fill like he is leading me on like he knows I am gay, just the other day he took me in to the toilet and told me he was worried he might get fired I talked to him and managed to calm him down I told him he was being stupid and he was good at his job, After he gave me a big hug and told me that I “was the nicest guy he ever met”. I am at my ends of my wits I don’t like going in to work when he is around, I think I starting to interpret his action the way I wont to see not the way he intended.What do I do? What is wrong with me ?
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reader, AlexCM +, writes (2 September 2009):
there is nothing wrong with you honey, but you need to realise that this man is off limits, he has a girlfriend. even if he is gay it wouldnt be a good idea to get involved with him untill he has split up with his girlfriend.
your best bet is to avoid him but be civil. make excuses to get on with your work and just see how things go.
he should start to realise why. if he is interested he will be up front if he knows your gay. since you dont know a hundred percent that he is gay you dont want too cause any embarassment since you have to work with the guy by making a move!
good luck sweetie xx
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