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Big Questions: Help and advice

What are crisco parties?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5265 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - What are crisco parties and bird whatever? I looking for some ideas for some kinky fun not spanking so hard I'm bruised but fun and exciting for both of us....

My little sister is pushing me away

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - hello everybedy, I have a problem with my sister, she is two years younger than me and she is a teenager now; all my life she was telling me everything, we used to share everything, there were no secrets between us, but now I feel like she is ...

Is she overweight, and how do I handle this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - Okay, well my niece is 12 years old and keeps asking me if she is overweight. I tell her that it is going to be alright and she isn't. She is about 120 lbs and hasn't had her period yet. Is she overweight? I don't know because when I was 12 I ...

My husband of four years watches gay porn and denies it! What should I do

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - I have a real problem! My husband of four years watches gay porn online and denies it. We have two children and I’m 8 months pregnant with our third. I first caught him about two years ago. He refused to admit it! So, I confronted him with ...

Computer game idea for g/f?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

1 December 2009 (M) - Hi guys, I'll keep this short and sweet. I'm a computer games development student, and I want to make a nice little game for my girlfriend to play, nothing big and complex, but I want it to be fun and entertaining as well as cute and a reminder t...

NYC or Los Angeles?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

1 December 2009 (M) - Hi I wonder if any of you can help me out here. I am planning a travel with my gf (who lives in Spain) and I would like some advice...we are intending to go to the USA next summer and would like to know what is a better City. New York City or Los ...

How big of an issue is it that he prefers anal and I dont?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - Hi, I would really appreciate some advice. I split up with my long term partner a year ago (he left) and although I still love him I started dating another guy, who I do really like but the problem is that he is really really into anal sex and I am ...

Am I Pregnant...Or Being Super Silly???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - I've been having sex with my boyfriend for 18 months now and I have never fallen pregnant! And when I was with my ex-husband (who later went on to have 2 kids with another woman, damn him!) I never fell pregnant and always presumed I was ...

I fell like such and idiot!!! Where do I go from here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5265 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - I feel a bit stupid at the minute because if Im honest, I feel like I set myself up for a fall. Basic back ground..Met lovely Italian guy 2 years ago in Isle of Mann during the races, we stayed in touch after the races on what I thought was only a ...

I don't want to destroy this woman..should I really stay in a relationship out of pity?is there a good way to end this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

1 December 2009 (M) - Back in 1998 my wife of 10 years walked out of our marriage and moved to the US. There was no sinister reason - she basically just got tired with married life. Fortunately we had no kids, so the break was clean. Within 6 months I was back in the ...

Oral sex and aging...will it still be as good?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - Help I LOVE oral sex but am concerned that being an older woman it just wont be as good HELP ANY ADVICE ?...

Do I tell her the rumours about him?

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1 December 2009 (F) - Okay, so about a year or so ago, my cousin started "talking/dating" this guy..well me and this guys best friend would talk alot and hang out also..one day he told me that my cousins guy cheated on his last girlfriend..and a couple months ago my ...

Although my instinct here is to end it...i want to salvage this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

1 December 2009 (M) - Bit of a long question here, but I'll try to be concise: My girlfriend has said some things over the last month that have made me very suspicious of her and some of her male relations. For context: She has a lot of male friends, who are all...

Is she telling me her own story, from a third person perspective?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

1 December 2009 (M) - Hello Long story short: We are 24. My girlfriend was in a 5 year relationship with an abusive drunk. We always liked each other and hooked up right away after she broke up with him. It's been rocky, but after 5 months and confrontation an...

When I'm with my boyfriend it doesn't feel like we are a couple...any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - ok, so ive been with my boyfriend for a year and 2 months now and we hardly ever see each other, but when we do we dont act like a couple what i mean by this is we dont hold hands and walk and i guess the reason for that is because he walks fast and ...

Please can anyone help Me? ..I am headed for a breakdown!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - right, here goes... i don't know what to do with myself. in theory my life is good, i'm at college, got a decent relationship with my mum, got an absolutely amazing guy who would do anything for me and has asked me to marry him. but underneath i...

My live in rarely wants sex..is it me or our situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - My live-in boyfriend and father of two of my children never wants sex. We are intimate maybe once every two or so months. Our two yo does sleep in the bed with us, but when he or I really really want it we move to another room or move our child in...

Is he giving me the cold shoulder, or is there something really wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend was supposed to come on a trip with me last friday, and he never showed up...a few hours later he texted me and told me his mom was in the hospital, and that he was there all night and his phone was dead, so his room mate brang his ...

Should I end things with my wife in order to be with her sister?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

1 December 2009 (M) - i am overwhelmingly in love with my wife's sister, and have been for almost 4 years since her divorce. she has 2 boys. i am not in love with my wife and we haven't been intimate in years (at least 10). i want to divorce my wife, and begin a ...

How do I deal with listening to my friend's love interest rants?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5265 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - I'm tired of listening to my friends complains about all her love interests.... Is it normal? ...

He says he won't contact me again. Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - Hi i have a question. I met this man we started dating for 7 days everything was good then suddenly i was at work he tried to call me i could not answer, He sent me an e-mail saying he tried to talk to me but i refused so he will not contact me a...

Wrong makeup! How do I handle this buying situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - Hi,this isnt a relationship question but i desperatly need some advice. 2 months ago my lady who does my wax and facials etc held a make-up party where we could test the items and then purchase etc... I was after some foundation and she found me...

One year anniversary ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - hey guys, its coming up to my one year anniversary with my partner in january. i like to plan ahead for things. ive really got no idea. guys ur advice wud be appreciated... my bf is not the romantic type and dosent do soppy very often... howe...

Romantic interest... or not???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - If a guy says "Thanks for being my friend" or "Thanks friend" does this mean he has no romantic interest?...