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Archived questions from: 22 December, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Was this guy just playing around?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - Okay, so I met a guy online through Facebook and we've been talking for about 3 weeks. We have mutual friends and he goes to a law school in my hometown. He asked me if I'd like to go for coffee sometime this week and we both decided on Tuesday. We ...

Should I be bummed that he didnt ask for my number?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5244 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - I met this guy through work. He is a truck driver who drives for the company I work for but works for another company he is 50 I am 49. He is divorced and a single cat. (He says this many times in front of me) to let me know? possibly? I am newly ...

I don't want to be alone for Christmas but I feel like an intruder to join my friend and her family...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5243 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - Does this make me pathetic? So I can't make it home for Christmas this year, and I'm trying to make the best of it. I told myself "this will be an opportunity to have a moment to clean house and organize my life a little", but I started thinking ...

His family is breaking us up...i am pregnant with our second child and don't know what to do. please help me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - I'm 7 months pregnant with my ex's child and he wont answer my calls, letters, emails, or texts. I'm 20 and pregnant with our second child. We have a 19 month of baby girl. We're expecting a baby boy in early feb. He has currently been to a universi...

Do I date him anyway...his culture will not accept me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - I am currently at university and have fallen for a guy, I found out that he also likes me...everything was good! Then he told me that before we get together he needed to tell me something, He was completely honest and said that if we got together ...

Is my husband cheating on me with his brother's girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - So, my husband and I have been married for over 3 years now. His brother has been dating the same girl for 2 years. My husband used to tell everyone how much he hated his brother's girlfriend b/c of a lot of her personality traits and ...

Does Sex hurt as bad the second time as it does the first?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5219 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - I had sex for the first time with someone I really care about a few days ago. But it hurt- a lot, and when I went to the bathroom afterward, I noticed I was bleeding a little. At first, it hurt so much and I think part of it may of been because I ...

He wants boob pics, but I don't want to give him any..?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend keeps asking me to give him a picture of my chest to him. I keep saying that i dont want to because i feel he might eventually might use it against me one day. I really love him and he is just really persistent! How can i stay with him ...

Am I really that hideous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5244 days ago

22 December 2009 (M) - I feel kinda dumb talking about this on the internet but I'm so shy in real life I wouldn't even begin to know how to. I have absolutely no confidence in physical appearance's attractiveness towards the opposite sex. I'm 17 years old and I've nev...

Did he mean what he said about my private parts or was he really joking?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

22 December 2009 (?) - My boyfriend and I were in a fight and I was making fun of the size of his penis. Then he said well what do you call that stuff sticking out of you. He meant my labium majus. I asked him about it later when we had made up. He said he was just joking ...

Why does my brother always want to wrestle?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - why does my brother always want to wrestle with me he's always asking me if we can wrestle i don't like to cause he's always on top and i can't move he's eighteen and i'm thirteen ...

Too many women in my life....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5244 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - So I'm not sure if I'm a lesbian, I've dated guys but i've always had stronger feelings for girls, lately I have had a crush on my teacher who is 26 and my cousins friend who is 15, I'm also in a relationship that is going down hill very fast. I'm ...

Fitting the mold...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - I am so sick of women falling into the trap of thinking that they are just a piece of meat for men to goggle at. Women are required to wear highheels and make up and such or they are not considered attractive...if they are not skinny and slutty ...

How do I stop this? I don't want to jeopardize my marriage!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - Confused by attention! Im happily married for 6 years and working. I was initially working on a project with a colleague in a different location. Later I moved to a new office location. Since then, this ex-colleague has been chatting with me...

Should she get a divorce because of our love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5244 days ago

22 December 2009 (M) - i am a 24 yrs old guy. i m in love from last 4 yrs i love her so much but last month she got married. i tried a lot to marry her but i couldn't make her father agree bcos of castism.she told everything that guy about us before marriage. that g...

Getting back with my ex feels like we are a new couple again, how do I handle this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - Hi, I need some advice about sex with my bf. I'm getting back together with my ex after being apart for a year and we agreed to give it another go. We've been talking on the phone, meeting up for lunch etc, sort of like dating all over again I ...

How to have sex life with porn star boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - There is a man I have been seeing for the past 5 months we are now boyfriend and girlfriend. I found out he was a porn actor on our third date. He has mention introduced everybody even people he has worked with and caught him in the act on the job ...

My partner has problems keeping it up once as soon as he enters...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - (Mod note: Original Title)my partner, gets a ecrection fine... its stays up fine.. but as soon as he places its in...it wont last even two mintues...he releases too quick. he has tried masturbating before make love.. till nothing seems to work. as ...

Why did my on and off again boyfriend get me nothing for this Christmas this year?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - (MOD NOTE: ORIGNAL POSTERS TITLE) I got my on and off again bf of 1.5 yrs a christmas gift - he loved it. But was acting kinda weird after. We have just gotten back together. Its been bit tense between us. Anyway, the next day, he txts me ...

Built up resentment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - what to do like four months ago. my cousin n this guy i like told me im boring. i didnt speak to them about it were not that kind of people to talk things out. lately he flirts with n tried to hug me like 20 times saturday because he liked my ...

How does love work inside the brain?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - Hi-- I was wondering if anybody could send me a link or explanation of how love works inside the brain. What causes the joy? Butterflies? Electricity? Pain? I haven't really understood the sources I've found, and I'm just curious. The pa...

Should I wait to have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

22 December 2009 (?) - I have been dating the same man for 2 years now. We have been friends for several years before that. I am 19, in college and still a virgin.My question is for those who have had sex and are married, do you think that it would have been more special ...

Am I scared or just being smart?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - I met a wonderful guy about 3-wks ago and I feel that he is moving entirely too fast. He is about 9-yrs my senior. Has been married x 4 (now divorced 8-yrs). *He says he is crazy about me *He wants me to move with in with him *It seems he only...

Young girl with a big problem...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - I seriously need help. And I have absolutley nobody to talk to so if u could, tell me ur advice. I turned 18 and moved a state away from my whole family to be with a 34 year old man. Now, don't get me wrong, I love him with all of my heart. And I ...

What's a good present for your friend-with-benefits?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

22 December 2009 (F) - I met this guy at work during the summer and we've been in what could be considered a casual relationship for the past 5months, meaning that we have a sexual relationship but we also do just hang out and talk. It's very relaxed, no obligations. ...

Please tell me why people (mostly straight guys) think I'm gay

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

22 December 2009 (M) - I don't get it. I love women, perhaps too much. I am a college student and haven't had a girlfriend in years, but occasionally have a random hookup. I am very passionate, especially in bed (of course), but I think that people are mistaking this ...