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How do we meet other couples?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

3 December 2009 (F - how can me and my boyfriend meet other couples to go out with and things? Im at college, hes at uni. VERY few/none of our already existing close friends have partners, any ideas? x...

How to get thru to my depressed boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

3 December 2009 (F - Hi, I have only been with my man for 2 months. It was all going great - I had met all his family he said he liked me unlike any other girl he had been with. but then a week and a half ago he told me he felt weird and needed some time to think. S...

Is flirting considered cheating?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

3 December 2009 (F - If your in a relationship, and you flirt with someone else would you consider that to be cheating? I haven't done this, i'm just curious to what people think......

Are relationships just about love or is there more to it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

3 December 2009 (F - My ex and I broke up about six months ago, but all the feelings are still there. Lately he and I have been talking about getting back together, but I told him I wanted to wait to meet up in person and see where things stand (I'm at school 800 miles ...

I was perfectly happy with the new guy before my ex came back..now I'm questioning everything?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

3 December 2009 (F - I am torn between two men. One is my ex, who broke up with me a month ago. We were together for 3 years, and he was deployed for the last year. He evaluated our relationship while over there are decided to end it prior to coming home. He said he ...

My anger got in the way of my relationship, is it still salvagable?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

3 December 2009 (M - So heres the situation I have been with this amazing beautiful woman for the past three years. Howerver I have an anger problem that has come in the way of our relationship. When i get to angry I just go crazy i punch holes in the walls break ...

How do I emotionally detach myself from an unloving husband?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

3 December 2009 (F - How do i emotionally detach myself from an unloving husband? when i say unlove it means he is never mentally or emotionally attached to me... i have tried to please him in all way but he prefers to be left alone most of the times. the only way i r...

Do I move on and start a fresh new life where I know I will never get hurt and looked after or risk my ex going back to his old life???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

3 December 2009 (? - I had been completely madly in love with my ex for 8 years, he loved me, we had a 7 year old but he was an addict, I'd been messed about for so long and in the end he ended it. Now he is in prison asking for one last chance saying he's changed, he ...

Blood drops in my urine, what could this be?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

3 December 2009 (? - hi this morning i had blood drops in my urine after 3 to 4 drops the urine went clear this happened the whole day i went 8 to 10 time to urine each and every time what could be the reason.please help i am afraid.i havent masturbated for ...

Need advice on dating women. I'm starting a bit late at 25!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

3 December 2009 (M - I'm a 25 yr old from India and work as a software engineer. I'll be moving to the US for grad school (Computer Science) soon (by Jan 2010 or Jun 2010). I've had a pretty interesting and different childhood. I've got an extremely strong i...

Is this what a normal relationship is like?

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3 December 2009 (F - Hi, I have been in love with my BF about 2 years +, I feel my relationship is not normal. He is a White guy and he is a Boss of one factory in asian (Switzerland), I am Asian girl (Chinese), he always told me their culture in Switzerland is d...

How do I find the RIGHT kind of woman...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

3 December 2009 (M - I'm a 25 yr old from India and work as a software engineer. I'll be moving to the US for grad school (Computer Science) soon (by Jan 2010 or Jun 2010). I've had a pretty interesting and different childhood. I've got an extremely strong interes...

I'm looking for positive quotes and sayings to write in my notebook.

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3 December 2009 (F - Im looking for quotes and sayings...or anything i can write in my notebook. I want to fill it, with positive things, and memories. Im going through a really tough time in my life, with things like school, "friends", my bf that ive lost c...

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