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Archived questions from: 28 July, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Why do women keep dumping me right after we have sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

28 July 2008 (M) - I have a big problem. Girlfriends keep dumping me after sex. Allow me to explain. I have had a total of 4 proper girlfriends to date. Every single one of them has dumped me just after we'd had sex for the first time. My first girlfriend, who ...

How do I set up the right situation to get more intimate with a boy I like?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - Hi, basically i like this boy. I got off with him a couple of weeks ago at a party and we've been talking loads ever since. i'm meeting up with him soon -- i really want to go further (ie fingering handjob etc) and so does he. but i don't know how...

How can I get over the effects of prior sexual abuse?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - Hi. I have just found out that a guy who i met on holiday sexually abused (unwanted touching, comments etc.) i didnt know it was abuse until a recent event. since then my flashblacks have occured more often, and my reaction is much higher ...

He didn't believe me when I told him "no". How can I trust him again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - I split up with my ex about 3 months ago but he wont 'give up on me' he insists that it would still work and that i should give him another chance. he is nice enough and i kind of believe him when he tells me he loves me. but i cant trust him. i t...

I have boyfriends, but find myself looking at women too. Is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

28 July 2008 (?) - im really confused. am i straight?! i this normal? im 16 and since i was 13 i have had boyfriends, in real i think boys are very attractive, i always comment on cute guys i see or if im out with my friends and i see someone i like, which is pretty ...

We're together, but he's not ready to be serious. Should I stick with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - Which do you go by, actions or words. I have been dating a guy for about 3 months. His actions towards me shows he cares, and does like me. He even says "we have a great time together" "loves what we have" and "loves the way I treat him." Well, ...

Why do women like "bad boys", and why do so many people cheat?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

28 July 2008 (M) - Just wanted to know people theory's why there are so many in relationships who cheat? Can you really love someone and cheat on them? What is it with women and the whole "bad boy" image? It seems the better you treat a woman the worse they treat...

I chased him, but how can I start over and get him to chase me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 165 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - I was very stupid and got very intense with a man i didnt know too well and barmarded him with e mails and msut have come across as despoerate to say the least HOWEVER I KNOW all this was wrong. WE have got a lot in common and am wondering ifd you ...

He is determined to move back to his parents with me now we have money problems. I don't want to, but I don't want to upset him.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - Hi I'm an 18 year old girl and I've been seeing my boyfriend for over 2 years. I love him very much and last year we decided to move in together. To pay the rent I had to quit college and go working and since I lost my job a few months ago we are s...

A long distance relationship may be trouble!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - I have been dating someone 4 hours away now for a little over 6 months. We have had no huge problems and everything for now is running quite smoothly. I am completely honest with him, which is a first for me. We see each other about every other ...

I have a strong lack of confidence and negative thoughts, please give me some ideas, as to how I can build my self-confidence and self-esteem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

28 July 2008 (M) - i feel stongerless with my confidence.i feel thoughts which is unwanted for me but that cames automatically in my minds,please help me for that and answer me...

Separated and soon to be divorced, and now I've met someone else. Should I go for it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

28 July 2008 (M) - Hi, Me and my wife have sepperated permantly, aiming to get divorced. The problem is, i've met a girl who I like alot and she likes me. Should I go for it?...

Are girls turned off if guys have hairy asses?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

28 July 2008 (M) - I've been complemented on having a nice and big ass, but the thing girls don't realize that i have a hairy ass. So here's my question, is it a turn-off, or do girls mind if guys have hairy asses??...

I get really turned on, but I can't "get off". Why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 165 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - I'm a 19 year old girl and have noticed that I can't get off by masturbating to someone I'm attracted to. The weird thing is... if I see them or am around them I get REALLY turned on. Why is this? Could it be that I don't think they're attracted to ...

I managed to chase off a 'player' at work, but it cost me my dignity. How will people perceive me now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 157 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - I let myself become victimized by a "player" at work. Recently I brought things to conclusion by chasing him everyday to back him off once and for all. My strategy worked, but at the risk of causing me feel like a fool. Now I have to go back to ...

Should I wait for her to call? And can I believe anything she says?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 166 days ago

28 July 2008 (M) - If a girl I've been dating for over a week is having a sexual identity crisis and isn't forthcoming about it, what should I do? She had been postponing/cancelling dates, lying, promising to call but not calling, and stringing me along. The last tim...

Where can I find articles about questioning your sexuality?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 165 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - Can you tell me where i can find articles or blogs about questioning your sexuality later in life? Most of the articles are geared toward teens....

My girl isn't keen on body contact, how can I deal with my sexual frustration?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

28 July 2008 (M) - Hi everyone... I started going out with this girl around 2 months ago but before that we were really close and known each other for almost a year. Eventually we got together and we're both virgins. I really love her and I try my best to be a goo...