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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have a big problem. Girlfriends keep dumping me after sex. Allow me to explain.I have had a total of 4 proper girlfriends to date. Every single one of them has dumped me just after we'd had sex for the first time. My first girlfriend, who I met in highschool, dumped me the day after we lost our virginity to each other. She never gave me a reason. Then, when I was in college, my girlfriend - who I had gotten on so well with - broke up with me a few minutes after we slept together for the first time. The same happened with my next girlfriend. My most recent girlfriend and I has a great relationship until recently. We dated for 8 months and were very much in love. Then, last Saturday we had sex for the first time and the following morning she started acting really distant towards me. 2 days later she broke it off without explanation. What is going on?
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (31 July 2008):
 A: You are truly goddamn awful in the sack. Really setting a new low because just being mediocre or even poor doesn't get you dumped so fast. How I know? None of your business ;)
B: You do something very weird that just repulses women. Again, considering personal experience and stories I heard, this got to be extreme. Violent, selfish, insulting, it got to be something so bad they don't even want to try and fix you, and women LOVE fixing men (and yes, in the way dogs are fixed).
C: You got an extreme size, either very small or very large.
D: You raped them.
E: You do something while asleep that not one of your gf's could put up with.
Anyway, what do you expect us to say, you give no details. If it truly happens every time you have sex the girl dumps you straight after something is going seriously wrong. Unless you are the luckiest man in the world and women just want to use you for sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2008): Maybe you are doing something very unusual during sex or have a fetish?
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reader, LaydeeOfSorrows  +, writes (29 July 2008):
 Wow, you definititly need to ask your ex what you did wrong.
Becasue I have no idea.
It's very strange for a woman to break up with a guy, straight after sex, most women get clingy and tend to fall in love.
Please keep us updated!
Good luck.
xx
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reader, Karra +, writes (29 July 2008):
Lets see have u checked to make sure theres no strange oder coming from ure genitals. Also have u thought about contacting ure previous girlfriends and asking them, because if u have been broken up for a while u could tell them ure situation and ask them to tell u why. I mean they probably didnt' tell u before, because u had just broke up. But maybe they would be willing to help u out now! It has to be something more than just the sex cus a girl doesn't just break up with a guy after sex. Its usually the other way around.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2008): Are you doing something really freaky to them? Usually women fall in love with men they have sex with, this is very odd.
Can you describe your penis, are you circumsized, how big is it, is it too big, or too small, is it purple or green, does it have some warts on it.......just kidding, but we need more info.
I would start by asking your previous girlfriend to be honest with you.
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reader, howcomehoney  +, writes (29 July 2008):
 I have no idea. My advice to you is to call up your most recent girlfriend and ask her what went wrong, and to please be honest with you. After all, eight months is a long time, and you were in love - you deserve the truth. Ask her.
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