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writes:I was very stupid and got very intense with a man i didnt know too well and barmarded him with e mails and msut have come across as despoerate to say the least HOWEVER I KNOW all this was wrong. WE have got a lot in common and am wondering ifd you could give me soem advice as how to put the clock back top scratch again and perhaps give him chance to persue me IF he wants to (I know Ive probably frightened him off) so please can wer look on the positive side and see if we can rescue soemthing here.Perhaps its best if I go all quiet so he MIGHT wonder how I am or should I make out Im having the time of my life not bragging about sleeping with men etc(Im not) just a good life so he thinks oh good she isnt reliant on me. I know Ive probaly killed it but PLEASE some positive ways of giving it ONE more shot????? Hold back, dont contact him????? Please try and give some positive helpful advice and not tell me off I know this already!!!!! Only one life so a shot????? Reply to this Question
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reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (28 July 2008):
No, don't email him telling him "how great" things are. No matter how you put it, he's going to see right through that. DON'T CONTACT HIM. That's what makes him start to wonder what you're doing. I've read so many things on "playing hard to get." What the key is, is not PLAYING but BEING. You need to get out there and make plans and keep your life full and busy, that way you'll have to make time to fit him in. It's better to be that way anyway so you don't having to come up with lies and excuses as to why you can't see him--just seems manipulative. Just don't pursue him, guys like to chase. Not the other way around.
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