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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My friend never listen to what I have to say!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Your Open Question: Why would my friend behave like this? am sick of her attitude.? I went away for 4days with my mum it was my cousins wedding.. Anyway, it was one of my friends birthday but I couldn't wish her a happy birthday because the battery in my phone died. S... (216 words)

Why do I feel jealous if he's just a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4736 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) age 30-35 - Ive known this guy for a long time and have only recently got to know him well and see him for who he is. We have a great laugh and have become closer than we were before. He is older than me and has a girlfriend who he has been dating for a long time. Although I've got to know ... (117 words)

How do I tell him I was just flirting to have a little fun?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4736 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) age 26-29 - So I have a problem with what to do with this guy now. Today I met this guy and I was flirting a bit. It was harmless, not meant in anything serious at all I was just having a bit of fun. Anyway he started showing quite a bit of interest in me. So he asked for my Facebook and ... (182 words)

How do get my BF to keep a condom on during sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - when my boyfriend and i have sex we alwasy start with out a condom then later put one on but then he'll take it off for me to give him head or something then keep having sex or just finish with out it. i HATE them mess, besides the fact it makes me feel very porn star-ish with ... (87 words)

Why don't I feel anything when I have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i've had sex like 5-6 times and i dont feel anything. is there something wrong? i've read online where people say to try masturbating and i've done that but it's mostly clitoris stimulation, nothing vaginal so do you think i'm just to use to clitoral stimulation than vaginal ... (58 words)

Who would want me and where would I go if I leave this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, i'm new here. I'm 28 wit my boyfriend same age for 4 and half years. We hav been livin 2gether for 3 and half years. I'm just not sure if i want to continue in this relationship. I've been sick and had brain surgery recently and he has stuck by me. But he speaks t... (377 words)

My dream girl already has a fella

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4736 days ago

9 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - i have fallen for a girl who has a boyfriend.. i am not one to break people up and i know that this girl has some feelings for me. i have asked her to spend a night away from the town we live in. she said yes and i felt happy but its not for another two weeks and i cant take it ... (195 words)

Unexplained Pain and Bleeding After Sex-Really Concerned, Please Help Me! :(

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4735 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, Well I started taking the pill for the first time around two weeks ago. It's all working fine and I was having no problems, but then the first time I had sex while on the pill I had a stinging feel after i my vagina and i bled quite a bit too. This now happens every... (146 words)

Boyfriend doesn't believe in marriage. Will he ever marry me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together near two years, both early thirties, known each other since we were fifteen. I have been married and divorced twice and have two children and cannot have any more, he does not want children of his own. We have lived together for a year, and ... (380 words)

How can I please my BF more in the bedroom?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4735 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well this question is a little different to what i'd usually seek help for...so bare with me as im a little nervous haha. My sex life is that of a healthy and enjoyable one. But with one flaw. Me. I SUCK in the bedroom! My boyfriend tells me that im good when i try and make the ... (234 words)

Straight Female - Transgender Male

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4734 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a near perfect relationship with a Male who wants to be Female for almost three years. When we first met we had hit it off easily. He has had issues with relationships in the past (always flings) presumably because either they only had fucking in mind or he ... (340 words)

Should I blame myself for what happened between us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I need help I need to know if I am right. So there is this guy I met in primary school we hadn't talked since we moved to secondary school as he left but we got talking on Facebook and he came ovet. After a lot of talking we hugged and kissed and ended up in bed together and ... (178 words)

My best friend's little brother has a crush on me, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hii, I just slept at my frieds house because my mum went away for the weekend. Just before i went homemy friend told me her younger brother has a crush on me. Just before she told me she was in the kitchen making me and her a sandwich i was outside on the trampoline with ... (185 words)

I feel like I'm living in sin having sex with no marriage and b/f thinks we're not having enough sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey ppl, i have a question, my boyfriend and i have been in a committed loving relationship for two years, but we had been best friends for one year before, we also live together and are both in college, he is 25 and i am 20, my problem is dat i want to be engaged soon, we cld ... (208 words)

My husband was cheating on me with prostitutes!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband cheated on me with prostitutes, I had just gave birth to my first child. I had no clue he was sleeping around, I found this out about a year ago. We are still together but it's not the same, everytime I see him I think of how he hurt me. I get a sick feeling ... (89 words)

My Ex's new guy is abusing her, should I try to help her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4734 days ago

9 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a dilemma I just want some advice on... Me and my friend "N" (former gf) broke up about 5 months ago, long story short we were fighting and physically abusing each other, it stopped, everything got better, then she cheated on me and we broke up. We've been friends for... (296 words)

All of my girlfriend's friends think she's single!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

9 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Been with girlfriend just over 4 years. At begining she didnt want to tell anyone just to see if things would work out between us. As time has gone on, she comes up with more and more excuses for not telling anyone. All her friends think she is single. Everyone at her works ... (298 words)

Why do I get butterflies when I think about her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

9 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hello everyone i want to know about these feelings that i have been having. i like this girl alot and everytime i see her or speak to her i get butterflies in my stomach and i also get this when i thing about being with her which is all the time i think about her. i ha... (104 words)

Dirty messages to other women, can I forgive and forget?? help!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, At Christmas my boyfriend starting telling me he loved me all of the time. I asked him why he was saying it so much, he told me it was because up until then, he didn't honestly love me, but then he realised how much he does love me. We had been together about 5... (787 words)

There's no reason why I should be into this guy, but why can't I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4736 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Why am I having such a hard time moving on from this? There's no reason why I should be this into this guy. I barely know him, we went out once. It should be easy to break all ties with him seeing as how there aren't any. Yet I constantly find myself cyberstalking him. The only ... (88 words)

Do I or don't I want kids?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4736 days ago

9 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm at a rather hard turning point in my relationship. We split up for reasons that can be easily fixed with some counseling and a lot of work. However, how we go forward from here hinges on whether I can provide her with the future that she dreams of. All she really wants... (305 words)

Ex-Boyfriend sending me confusing signals?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4735 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Well I have been broke up with my ex-boyfriend for about a year and lately I have been trying so hard to get over him, but deep down I know I still have feelings towards him. I have had one not serious boyfriend which probably lasted a month, and he has been dating alot if ... (236 words)

Can birth control make you infertile?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - im seriosuly thinking of going on the pill or birth control as some call it, but ive heard many things about it, which is what i would like answering. could it ever make you infertile?? can the pill make you put on weight or lose weight? does it have serious side effe... (58 words)

Idk what to do, help! :( guys could give the best advice

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've had a relationship with a guy for about a year and a half now, we have never actually called eachother " boyfriend, girlfriend" but when him and I are on good terms, he doesn't mess with other girls and I don't mess with other guys. We have sex, but we also go out to ... (779 words)

How can we be friends when I still love him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My ex bf and I broke up about a month ago. We just recently started talking again, and now i feel so sad. We havent actually talked face to face, weve been passing notes. Well in one of those notes he told me that he still loved me and probably always would. I know i still lo... (118 words)

Should I open up an old wound and contact her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

9 May 2011 (M)

- Hey, I broke up with this girl about 12 months ago. It wasnt a bad break up by any means. We did keep in touch for a while but she asked me to stop contacting her as it was confusing her emotionally. I respect her for honestly and strength and didn't continue to cont... (230 words)

He says things are over, should I try once more or just leave things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4736 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend just broke up with me five weeks ago and of course I've been very sad and been wanting him back. We've been together for 14 months and have had our ups and downs from the beginning. I've been very scared of relationships and have not been very good at showing my ... (705 words)

Does he just want the sex without love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4736 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Been dating a quiet/shy guy for about 5 month exclusively. He's only been in love twice and the 2nd time devistated him (unrequited love). Now he's fearful that it could happen to him again so he's not moving forward in our relationship towards love. He says he just needs some ... (125 words)

Does he have to be wasted to have sex with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - after a while of not having sex with my fiance, we set a side a night to chill a little and then do the damn thing, if you know what i mean. he is not a regular drinker, but we'll sip together sometimes. this particular night i was in the bathroom freshening up and i came out ... (150 words)

Will watching porn make me lose my imagination?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've started watching porn, and I now masterbate at least twice everyday, before i could only cum with vibrators and now I orgasm every day since the last two months, but do you think that by watching porn I will lose the ability to use my imagination to cum? ... (49 words)

Why does she want a 10" dildo?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

9 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex girlfriend asked my to buy her a dildo, she want it to be ten inches, i asked her why? she said she wants something different, keep in mind we've been together for five years and we just recently broken up. and i want her back ... (49 words)

I like her but she doesn' t like me, so how should I act around her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

9 May 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - i liked/like this girl alot !! for one whole year now and nothing happened bcoz i new she doesnt like me. and eventually after a long year in hope, i got the answer saying that she doesnt like me. This was when my friends asked her abt me. i truly understand what its li... (283 words)

"I'm afraid my new BF wants to have sex at the Prom with another girl"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4735 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - ok well, about a week ago a boy added me on facebook and started talking to me and we've been talking ever since but last thursday he told me "i think you're really pretty...good music taste..makes me laugh...and...maybe you give me butterflies and maybe i like you ;)" and so ... (638 words)

Boyfriend has baby with me then gets another girl pregnant! Do I close this chapter?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a "MAJOR PROBLEM"....my boyfriend of 5years had cheated on after i had my baby the year of 2009. We decide to adjust to becomung young parents. But it wasnt my idea to break-up due to the fact i just had his son. So with that being said he end up getting with someone ... (143 words)

Am I being unreasonable or should he just stop all contact with this girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok.. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years and half now, we had a difficult time last year 2010 when he left to study in france (was mainly my fault I was so mean to him and acted like a cold bitch, I guess I couldn’t handle the long distance relationship very well) so we ... (223 words)

He stares at very pretty women right in front of me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I never thought I was a jealous person. Me and my boyfriend had a big row as I caught him staring at a woman when we were out yesterday for lunch. I turned round to talk to him at the bar and he was very obviously looking a young woman up and down a few times and didnt even ... (295 words)

I do miss him. Does he just want me as FWB? He is unresponsive.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i was dating a guy, but then i realize he just wanted me as a friend with benefits, so i wrote to him, that i felt that he just wanted me like that, and he was not intesrested in me. I know he was interested in dating many girls at the same time he was with me. We had sex ... (261 words)

I pay for most of our outings. He fails to make me feel special. How can I get him to be more attentive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. As we have gotten older, he has had increasing financial responsibilities. I have much less financial responsibilities and I understand this so I usually pay for going out, dinner, trips, etc. I feel really upset sometimes that... (193 words)

I missed the audition. How do I tell my parents the reason why I need my own musical instrumment and why I need to re-audition?

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9 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I play a musical instrument. I have private lessons, but I also play in a band, and the band provides my musical instrument. I would like to carry on practising the musical instrument, but to do that I need to stay in the band, and to do that, I need to re-audition. Me... (132 words)

My best friend of seven years didn't want me at his 21st birthday party!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I am going to be as brief as possible, because I don’t want to take up your time. Basically, my friend turned 21 last week, he had a party with his flatmates, people from his course and a girl he has had a crush on, but he didn’t invite me, his best friend of 7 years.... (419 words)

Does everything need to be close to perfect before you propose?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

9 May 2011 (M) age 51-59 - I am in love with my girlfriend and she says she is in love with me. However, our relationship is not without problems. There are still a few complex issues we are working through with the help of a therapist, some of which are not directly related to "us" but to baggage ... (191 words)

How should I let this lovely girl down gently, because I have gotten with my childhood sweetheart?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

9 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 29 year old male, have been a bachelor for the past 3 years, and have previously experienced a long-term cohabiting relationship. When I was 17, I fell for a girl, lets call her Girl A, who lived nearby in my home-town. We dated for 6 months, until she ended it. At thi... (1575 words)

What should I do about my friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice, as this issue is really getting me down. I have been friends with a girl for the past two years, am in first year of uni (almost done) and I met this girl in upper sixth at school. I will refer to this girl as "lucy". Even though Lucy had been at the same ... (887 words)

He seems to be hiding something.........

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years now and for about the last year hes been very secretive about his phone. He never used to care if I messed around with his phone but now all of a sudden he does. I have questioned him about it a few times and he just got defensive ... (154 words)

We had a big fight. I need advice on what to do next.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey! Today we fight, me and my boyfriend "It's a big One." He started yelling and swearing at me. I didn't say anything. I told him I wanted to go, and he told me if you go, you will never talk to me AGAIN, and I told him THAT'S WHAT I WANT. Then he threw his phone on floor an... (87 words)

I got into trouble with her in the past. Should I make contact again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age - I had a friend for about 20 years and often had holidays and nights out I used to defend her with some of the men verbally. She then met another female friend she worked with and we often all used to go out but then trouble seemed to appear-the other lady was nice but it was ... (236 words)

Stunningly beautiful girl, 28, never had a relationship: red flag??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

9 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Aunts: I met this girl who seems real nice, sweet and down-to-earth from Europe (Poland). She seems to like me, flirts a hell of a lot, and I been thinking of asking her out. She is stunning, does some modeling, is here on a work visa. Only thing is, in the past few... (228 words)

Guys, do you like tall girls?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Question for the guys, Do guys prefer a woman to be tall? Not taller than them, but not too short? Why do some guys dislike dating short women? Is is to do with the sex? lol ... (46 words)

Please, can anyone suggest something I can do to get over him because I cant stand feeling like this.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have split up. His ex kept getting involved and tried to split us up so many times and then started getting his babies mother involved and it got to be too much for him so he ended it. We are still in contact and he still says he loves me and cares for me... (122 words)

He says slaggy looking girls are adding him on Facebook, but that's not true. Should I say something, again?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've being going with a guy for nearly 7 months. We met over facebook. He lives in the same area as me, but I didn't know him. Hasn't being the easiest of relationships. He really gets to me about his facebook habits. He is adding girls all the time, but they are skanky, ... (127 words)

I am crushed. I read what she wrote about my size and don't how I am going to work this, or our new LDR, out with her.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

9 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I need help with a difficult situation. I met a girl about three months ago through a work friend and we hit it off. We have been dating since then and I feel as if the relationship is the most amazing thing that has ever happened to me. Unfortunately, she was only temporarily ... (357 words)

How do I deal with this situation with my ex? I cant move away from the area, but I cant go out and live my life because of him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

- Many years ago I divorced the husband of my children. For years he cheated as he travelled with his job and he gave me an STD twice. He was jealous and possesive and played mind games. I eventually filed for divorce and from the day he received the papers he told me I was dead ... (244 words)

I accidentally gave him the wrong number and I don't think I will ever see him again! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I started out in my first job a couple months ago and I met this guy called max who I ended up working really closely with almost every night and we became good freinds till it sort of became obvious neither of us wanted to be..Just freinds..how cliche is that..anyway.I lost ... (269 words)

Do women buy sex toys before having sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok silly question but will you buy a sex toy before having sex with your BF? My girl friend bought one and told me. I am puzzled: Am I not good enough. How embarrassing. ... (34 words)

My partner cheated on me but I do see he had his reasons, can the trust be re-built?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive been in a relationship with a man for 11 years now, for the past 5 years i got diagnosed with multiple sclerosis, i have been very ill and over medicated on many meds, and when my partner is home on leave from working at sea, all i do is sleep all day long m.s related ... (415 words)

Why can't I forget about my lover and move on?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I would really like some help. I have been having an emotional and physical affair with a co worker for 18 months. We started as friends and got close over a period of time. We have had many ups and downs during our time together, arguments, fell out, weekends aw... (357 words)

Should I give up on him? Or should I try a long distance relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4736 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So theres this guy i really like him i think he likes me too.he would ditch his friends in class for me.and sit next me..and when i asked him to hook me up with his his cousin but i was only joking and every time i asked him he a smile on his face like he was jealous and then ... (172 words)

Bleeding between period...Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, Gosh I'm having such an annoying problem. I've been bleeding between my period for 9 days straight now and not even due on my actual period until this Wednesday. 2 Wednesdays ago, 27th April I missed that pill but didn't start spotting until the following Saturday... (223 words)

Boyfriend doesn't want sex? At 21?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I'm 20, my fiancé is 21 and we've been together for a little over 5 years. About a week ago, he refused to have sex with me. He says his libido has just decreased. However I find that odd since he's at the ripe age of 21 which is his sexually peaked age, right? He never ... (108 words)

What should my role be in his life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4736 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age - I was a kind of most innocent and true persons. When i got a job in a new city, i found my coleagues trying to exploit my weaknesses, viz. weaping easily, new to the city, having no relatives and house etc., at the same time undergoing the biggest problem of infertility. On ... (1102 words)

What does he want from me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend keeps calling me and wanting to chill, when hes not with my ex gf (im bi) and it makes me feel for him more but i dont want to feel like this for him again! What should i do?... (42 words)

Should I get back with my son's father after he cheated on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Should i get back with my son's father? He cheated and betrayed me several times and I'd given him a lot of chances. I found a new man through online and he indeed helped me forget about my ex; however, this ex is down on his knees begging and promising he'll be a better ... (107 words)

Do guys usually have an idea of how a girl's body would look like without clothes?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Do guys usually have an idea of how a girl's body would look like without clothes? Or are they completely surprised when the clothes come off? I have an average body type, more so on the thin side. But I'm not lean and fit with muscles. Guys can see that WITH clothes ON, can'... (82 words)

How can I talk to him about not trusting him anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4736 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex left me for someone else and shattered my heart completely. Was my first broken heart in life. Since then, we have been trying to reconcile but every so often I lose it a bit. If he takes too long to call back, text back, or if I feel he is acting funny I begin to nag. ... (129 words)

How to test if Contraceptive is Actually Working??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

9 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hormone contraceptives are supposed to be 99% effective... is there a way to test the patch/pill to see if it is defective preventing pregnancy? - rather than just wait for my period every month...?... (34 words)

Am I just scared to be vulnerable again? Am I trying to avoid love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4736 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So I used to see a guy named "D" a year ago during the summer. We were friends (more like acquaintances) for three years prior. He had just gotten out of a relationship (of 3 years) when I started seeing him. He told me they had broken up 2 weeks before we went on our first ... (1131 words)

Tips on phone sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Where do i start.... I want to have phone sex with my bf but i an completely clueless on where to even start. i can talk the simple things but as for the down an dirty stuff i can seem to get it out. not even in a text.... (49 words)

Should I jump the gun to let him know I want him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - If you felt that a man showed interest in you, would you reciprocate even further? There's a guy - an older man - at my university who I'm physically attracted to (just thinking about him turns me on!). He's recently let me know that he's noticed me, and has started small co... (151 words)

Is something going on? babydaddy n babymama what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4736 days ago

9 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my boyfriend over a year and then we have a baby. The only problem is..he have a babymama n a child with her I don't know her but I know of her (drama) and everytime they have an arguement she constantly texts me saying she slept with him. I always ask him ... (128 words)

Boyfriend's ex is putting me down in front of their children

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9 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has two children, aged 11 and 13 and shares custody with his ex-wife. He has no contact with his ex herself, all communication regarding the kids is done through an intermediary (normally the kids or grandparents). I have never met her, although we have some mutual ... (225 words)

I promised to stay with husband through thick and thin but I can't take his drinking anymore!

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9 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have been married for almost two years now. At the beginning of our marriage he was drunk all the time and very abusive, both physical and verbal. I promised to stand by his side through thick and thin, but lately I just feel like I can't take it anymore. He ... (163 words)

Can we be friends? or should we just go our seperate ways?

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9 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been talking to this guy for about 3 years now. In the begining things were great..he was wonderful..i felt like he was really the one..I mean I had so much faith in us, like we were going to be together forever..he seemed almost too perfect and almost 3 years later, I ... (207 words)

If I can't win her back, how can at least show her how sorry I am?

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9 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - To answer you imminent question, No I’m not a clingy stalker guy. I’m just a person who made stupid, STUPID mistakes, regrets it and wants the woman he loves more than the entire world back so I can treat her how I should have to begin with. Anna is the best thing that happe... (1149 words)

How can I speed things up and make my period start?

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9 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 13 years old and I have all the signs for my period but i havent gotten it yet and i want it to come faster... Is there any way that I could speed it up just that little bit without pain or pills? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!... (47 words)

What can I do to sort out my/our feelings?

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9 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have moved into the situation now where the guy like- does like me too! Unfortunately he is in a difficult relationship and thinks it might not last. He doesn't want to string me along and therefore doesn't want to pursue anything. Fair enough and the truth. BUT I can't move ... (82 words)

How do I give a blowjob that makes my boyfriend feel good?

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9 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok i need help. My boyfriend likes getting blowjobs but i dont think im doing it right.i dont have guy parts so i dont know what feels good. How do i give a blowjob that makes my boyfriend feel good?... (40 words)

Tips for giving a guy space?

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9 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I just want tips on how to give a guy space and if I'm right for doing this Ok so this weekend my guy has talked to me all day Saturday and I mean no contact at all.I try to make contact he doesnt reply at all so I leave him alone thinking he's busy.Today he hasnt talked t... (256 words)

My girlfriend might be moving away for University.

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9 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for four years now and we have a very stable, happy relationship. Last week everything took a bit of a shake, as I found out she had feelings for another guy (not huge feelings... but feelings) and It really felt like my world came cra... (317 words)

What is "Masculine"? - A body language question

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9 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello all, Allright guys. Amidst all the serious questions on relationships, dating, marriage, break-ups etc, I thought of giving you guys a breather. This is a sort of trivial question, but am sure it can make for a casual chat topic. I am a 24 year old guy. Recently at m... (329 words)

I'm scared that my mother has ovarian cancer

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9 May 2011 (F) - I am so nervous and scared. My mother had blood work done and urine as well recently. She is 60..the found blood in her urine..they tested again and still found blood. They did a urine culture. He said it was bacteria but not a UTI which i thought was weird b/c i thought ... (213 words)

Every time I look at him or try to make love to him, I can't get the images of his past out of my head..

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9 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys. so I'm in my early 20's and so is my husband. we've been through so much to be together. our parents kicked us out when we both decided to get married. he put up with so much from my mother and i put up with so much from his step mom. we are finally going to live ... (445 words)

I broke up with her over a co-worker but now I want her back!

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9 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Im so bothered right now, I dont even know where to start. I recently had been dating my girlfriend for one year. I met her at work, I had my eyes set on her the first time I set my eyes on her. Now im not an athletic type of guy and def not no model. I remind myself of a fat ... (714 words)

Why am I dreaming about being pregnant?

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9 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been lately dreaming about being pregnat...... Like one dream the other night, there was something happening but we all got rushed to aN evacutaion are because tgere was bomings but i found out i was pregnat i could fell its heart beat, like i could fell its tiny ... (74 words)

Boyfriend still calls his ex "darling" and "sweetheart". Those are my names!

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9 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I've been dating my boyfriend for 10 months. He is in the Marine Corps and is currently on a deployment. He and I knew each other from high school, and have been good friends for years before we started dating. He had dated a girl for maybe three months (if... (344 words)

Girlfriend told me she wanted a break and now keeps calling to see if I'm ok!

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9 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend told me she needs a break even though shes the one whos mistaken, and now shes calling to make sure im ok and im not answering any of her phone calls, i dunno what to do im about to break up with her but i want her to apologize over everything and promise not to ... (64 words)

Do you think you can tell what a person is like by their photo?

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9 May 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am just curious: do you think you can tell what a person is like by looking at their photo? I do a lot of online dating and sometimes contact a girl by their profile photo...but I am thinking this might be a silly approach, since often you really cannot tell what a pers... (85 words)

Husband told me he doesn't love, and he never really has!

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9 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been married 20 years and my husband is curently deployed overseas. He's been gone for about 5 months. about a week ago he told me that he doesn't love me any more and never really has loved me the way a husband should... He has recently had surgery over there and ... (158 words)

I don't have confidence about sex!

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9 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know how to voice my opinion well doing the deed. I also don't know how to take control. I can see that it is making my bf is a little bit disappointed that he has to do all the work. How can I, get more confidence and since he is my first for everything what is the ... (102 words)

I'm very depressed after loaning friend money, she hasn't returned the money.

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9 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, Just need some advice. I dont know exactly what is happening to me. All i feel is i am not happy. Im not happy to where i am, who i am, what i have now. Friends cant easily notice it, because i can simply go with them, laugh with them, have party with them. With my hu... (393 words)

Does it sound like I am paranoid, or is this likely to be my gut instinct telling me something?

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9 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Am I just being paranoid over this or not? I am deeply in love with a man I have been in a relationship with for the last nine months. We work together and are keeping this under wraps because of the company rules. We are very close in all aspects and he says he is deeply... (402 words)