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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it okay to experiment???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

1 May 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Hi. i am 23 years old and about 1 year ago i came out of a serious relationship. i then seen quite a few rebound guys. and to be honest, none of them really floated my boat... and for the first time in my life i am starting to look at women in attractive and sexual ways. i ... (78 words)

After some time together, he won't give me any oral.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with this guy for 1 and a half year now, the longest relationship so far, and I have noticed that his sexual habits have changed somehow during this meantime. In the begginigng, he used to give oral sex to me every single time we had sex/slept together, and mostly he ... (318 words)

Things just seem to go weird every now and then

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1 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm slighty confused at the moment with my bf. We have been together for 4 months and things are going well,however sometimes things seem to be a bit weird between us. For example sometimes i get the impression hes a bit moody, on friday we had been out together for drinks and ... (192 words)

Can he go to prison for being with me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Im 15 years old and my boyfriends 20, we are in love no doubt about it, but can he go too prison for being with me?... (28 words)

I put my feelings out there for this guy but all he did was smile!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4742 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - After two years of seeing this guy at the gym, 8 months ago he caught my eyes and 3 months ago we started talking. From getting to know him just a little, I find myself drawn to him. He's quite shy, very polite, well mannered, but from time to time I'll catch him staring or ... (295 words)

My boyfriend makes me very insecure

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4741 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am dating this guy about one month and a half, I'm 21 and he his 28, at first things were going really good, we went out like 2 times a week and we spoke every day at night. But now, we are like 3 or 4 days without talking, I sent him message's and he doesn't answer, and ... (142 words)

Bothered by the idea of losing my Virginity to a non-virgin....

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

1 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all, Just gonna be simple about this. I am a 17 year old boy who wants to save my virginity for marriage but I am bothered by the idea of losing my virginity to a non-virgin. I would just feel slighted in that I wasn't their first and they didn't have the same level of co... (158 words)

Am I still a considered a virgin if I got fingered...?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay. Im 15 and I was just fingered for the first time. My question is, am I still considered a virgin even though he did finger me?... (27 words)

I'm always scared that my b/f is cheating on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - im 19 and in a relationship with a boy i love, its been over a year know and things couldnt be better, exept that i always get paranoid, when ever he leaves my house just to go home i get scaed that hes cheating on me and if he gets a message i asume its from another girl, i ... (114 words)

The new guy? or the old guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4741 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - am in a new relationship am not even sure wether i love this guy or if i want him or not ,, my ex-bf wants me back and he knew i told him that am in a relation-ship .. It`s been about a month since we broke-up ,, i still dont know what to do he told me that we should stop ... (94 words)

I run out of things to talk about!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

1 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a relationship and l get out of words so l need help on what l can talk about when l'm with her to keep our relationship live.... (28 words)

Should a guy really forgive a girl for being rude because she is on her period?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

1 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Is a woman's cycle really a reason to forgive her sudden bitchiness? ... (12 words)

I'm exhausted with the games, the lies and all of it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a mess. First of all, I met this guy a week ago. I was out drinking, so theres my first mistake. My second mistake, I went home with him. I ended up spending some time with him and it turns I really like this guy. I spent the rest of the day and the night and some o... (615 words)

B/f wants to know whats wrong with dating 5 years before we decide?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I are in our mid 30's and have no children and been dating nearly two years. We live an hour and 10 mins drive apart and meet up mid week and week ends. He says because he doesn't earn much he can't afford to commute even further and says that he's not ready ... (104 words)

Can you really just be friends with a guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I was having a friendly conversation with a guy I just met. I could tell he was interested in me, but I have a boyfriend (of four years). I'm a pretty friendly person, so I didn't mean anything by it, except maybe enjoying the attention (being unavailable makes you miss being ... (138 words)

Did I react with too much jealousy over this situation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Did I over react? Last night my boyfriend of two months picked me and my best female friend up after an evening out clubbing. Me and my mate had both had quite a bit to drink. My boyfriend said he would drop us both home. He dropped me off first as my friend only lives ro... (448 words)

I hate the revealing photos she has posted on facebook!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

1 May 2011 (?) age 30-35 - my girlfriend has some very revealing photos of her slef on facebook and almost none with me. i hate it and i have told her. she just keeps telling me im paranoid. but i am just looking out for her, i think, because you can get pervs on facebook. i also hate the comments under ... (67 words)

I broke things off before I get hurt but his texts confuse me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I'm 20 and have been seeing this guy (27 years old) for 6 months now, but we haven't progressed at all. He hates relationships and said from the start he didn't want one, which was fine by me as I was still getting over an ex and didn't want anything serious. However, ... (494 words)

My husband was cheating with my best friend and he left me for her!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband was cheating on me with my best friend and I think it is fair to say that I am devastated. I love this man with all my heart. We have been together 7 years and he is now in a relationship with this woman. How can they do this to me? Why as she gone near him knowing ... (320 words)

Gross words...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

1 May 2011 (?) age 26-29 - Because I am a lesbian everyone think it's appropriate to talk dirty with me, for example the boys constantly talk dirty with me thinking I find it 'a turn on' like they do. But I don't. And I really don't mind people talking dirty with me as long as they're not badgering me ... (152 words)

What am I doing wrong that is making men turn gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

1 May 2011 (?) age 30-35 - my two ex boyfriends have both turned gay after having sex with me. now i havent had sex in a while because i am scared. what am i doing so wrong that is making men turn gay. ... (37 words)

Wot the heck... Is he trying to make me jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4742 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I know a guy who I have been friends with for a while, we occasionally talk in school, but more on MSN. He always starts the conversations with me, I havent ever started a conversation first with him as I dont want to make it obvious I like him. My friends said that they rec... (216 words)

Why is she cheating just 6 months into our marriage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

1 May 2011 (?) age 30-35 - me and my gf have been dating for 2 years, married for 6 months. the other day she left her computer for work left on. i went to switch it off but in the screen was one of these "meet up for sex" websites. i read her messages and she'd been talking to some1. he the last message ... (103 words)

My boyfriend asked him to take me out! What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a Very low self esteem. I had this boy friend for 3 months. Well 1 because he dumped me. Because he could no longer take me putting myself down. Well i met this guy. He was really sweet and geeky. He wanted to take me on my first date. My boyfriend lives in a differennt ... (281 words)

Should I become a total jerk for my own advantage ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

1 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex-girlfriend dumped me three times and it's been one year since she dumped for the third time for small reason. I have heard that girls always find nice guys easy target to be dumped and retaken , is it true? If it's true, than why not should I convert myself into a total ... (84 words)

I don't understand what's going on between us!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have worked at my new company for 8 months, and he was in a senior role to mine. He's always been very helpful in helping me in the new role, and just a very friendly guy, well liked in the office. I actually thought he was gay when I first met him, but then learned he has a ... (173 words)

His ex wants him back! Why did he tell me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4740 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hai. Ive met this guy online since then we have been texting alot and we are about to meet tomorrow. I love this guy very much even thou i havent met him yet, and he said he love me too so we decided to date online. We have been dating online for 3months now and still ... (164 words)

How far can you go sexually with someone...without actually having sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - so, my bf and i are doing wonderful together. and things have started to get a little physical. but the problem is, im not a virgin, and he is. and he says he plans on staying that way. i am completely fine with that, im actually kind of proud of him. but when i'm with him, i ... (94 words)

How can I deal with the past so I can love my current boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

1 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - In the first comment, I talked about an affair I had in South Africa. Now, let me talk about another person in this history: my present bf. He´s a wonderful person, we live in a very nice relationship, but in spite of this, I can´t forget the other one I met in SA and it makes ... (103 words)

Help me get out of the 'Friendzone'

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I've known him for about eight years and I like him alot, but I think he only thinks of me as a friend.. is there anyway i can get out of the friendzone before it's too late? Thanks :)... (41 words)

Should I be worried that my gf seems to have a guy she dated still on her mind?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

1 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with my girl for almost a year now... We really love each other.. and are very secure that the other person wont leave us or cheat. She has a past, has been a wild girl and has dated many many people,and one of them--the one she dated before me--was a friend... (708 words)

Should I tell my best friend I am in love with her, even though she is in a serious relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4742 days ago

1 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - i need some advice. i fell in love with my best friend. it's slowly progressed over the years i've known her. as we've grown closer and closer, my feelings have deepened and deepened. we don't have your typical relationship. we never have. acquaintances even notice and point... (496 words)

Should I be mad that my boyfriend wants to "hang out naked" with another girl?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are currently having a fight over this. I'd like to know if I'm wrong to be angry about it. Last night we were in a hot tub with some friends of his (male and female both). He had done a fair bit of drinking and wanted to take his pants off, which he did. One ... (371 words)

Addicted to my ex even though he treats me badly

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I feel addicted to my ex even though he treated me badly. I finished the relationship but he keeps contacting me even though I asked him to stop each time. I don't contact him but we spoke for an hour the other day after 2 months. I know he's no good for me and he won't... (178 words)

Should I still marry the man I love despite his family's antagonism toward me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all reading this. I am a very strong individual and never imagined i would be even writing here to ask for help but im so much entangled in this situation i just do not know what to do. Please help me. We met over a matrimonial site and fell in love: I was from the UK ... (734 words)

It seems like my b/f just can't wait to watch porn!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - What to do about boyfriend's porn usage? I know alot of people would say that watching porn is perfectly normal, something that guys do when their girlfriend's aren't around or to watch something in particular that they wouldn't want to ask their partners to do. I do agree wi... (585 words)

Why do women need to constantly be in contact?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

1 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend wants some sort of daily contact, but me I'm fine if a go a week w/o so much as a text. Why do women seem to need to remain in constant contact?... (36 words)

How do I deal with my sadness and frustration at still not being married?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I envy my friends that are married. Well except for the ones that are in bad marriages. I dreamnt of getting married ever since I was a little girl. I have been engaged a couple times in the past but the relationships didn't last because those guys were not the one. One was a ... (379 words)

My children or the woman I love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

1 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. I am in love with another woman and I am married. But I no longer love my wife of 12 years. It has become a marriage of convenience. We have two young children who mean the world to me. If my wife and I separate, I would not see my children as much and would be a ... (137 words)

Can two completely different people be in a happy relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4742 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with this guy for about 2 months.He is into rock, heavy metal and I like pop.He likes to get drunk and smoke pot, and I'm just not into it.We have a good chemistry and we like to debate about our differences, but there are some things difficult to accept. It affects ... (126 words)

Should I let this guy know that his fiance sleeps around?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - There is a girl who works in my office who is getting married in less than 6 weeks time. However, she continues to sleep with other men. Friends of friends and men she works with. She does this when her fiance is working(a policeman so does his fair share of nights). I... (131 words)

What exactly is the nature of our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

1 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I was over her house recently to hang out with her brother. The first few hours that I was there, she kept looking at me the way she normally did. She also seemed hesitant around me like usual. When it was time for dinner, things became quite different. For once, we were both ... (724 words)

No eye contact with my old flame, does that mean he's not interested/

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age - Help!!! I am in my mid fifties and met up with the boyfriend who gave my first snog about 13 years of age, I met up with him 7 years ago and since then he has kept in touch but told me of the ladies he is dating and then got back with his ex wife. To cut a long story short, ... (184 words)

I (male) had sex with my (female) friend's bf (male) and don't know if I should tell me friend or not!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4742 days ago

1 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my b/f started dating on phone and it took us about 3-4 months before we could see each other. It was a week after me and my b/f started dating that a friend of mine came to visit me and i told her about my new boyfriend and showed her all the texts my b/f sent to me. my ... (257 words)

Perfect Man... But Not Sexually Attracted To Him! HELP!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 22 years old and Ive been dating this guy for around 3 weeks, and he is seriously the sweetest, affectionate, caring man i have ever met in my life. But the problem is im not sexually attracted to him. I do fancy him, i think he is hansom but the sexual attraction doesn’t ... (361 words)

We've never met but he said he loves me. Is this strange?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - On the 7th November 2010, i started to talk to this guy online, he is 19 from California and im 16 from London, it wasnt on a dating site. So, we started talking on msn, it became every day that we would talk for at least 3 hours i asked if he had web cam, he said yes so we ... (319 words)

Did he cheat on his g/f with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, im here for some advice on a friend. we are17 and juniors in high school. he has a gf. but we've become really close. we flirt a lottt. so i added him on fb the other day, and he immediately mssgd me. he asked to hang out and gave me his number to txt him so i did. he came ... (447 words)

Is ex just keeping me around so he won't be lonely?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4742 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I know half of you are going to be upset with this, but I have been talking to my ex-boyfriend for the last month and it seemed like he was ready to get into a relationship with me again. We dated two years ago, but we've kept in contact over that time period. Anyways, when I ... (216 words)

What does he mean he can't give me what I want?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - What does a man mean when he says he can't give you what you want?... (15 words)

Anything sexual with b/f makes me depressed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Relatively recently I've been having an issue with sex with my partner. We're on two and a half years, and still strong, but recently after every time we have sex, or anytime things have become sexual, I begin feeling depressed. I have had a history with being used, and also... (259 words)

If a guy wants to sex with you does that mean you turn them on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - When a guy says they want to have sex with you does that mean you turn them on? My boyfriend said he wanted to but he won't because we are too young and we are. I rather not be a prego teenager. That would ruin my whole life plans. Anyways this is how it happened. I was texting ... (157 words)

How do boys act when jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - How do boys act when they get jealous? ... (8 words)

He asked me out after we broke up, does that mean he really cares?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4742 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So my boyfriend and I broke up in march but got back together in April. He said that he missed me and still loved me and he said his life was a total wreck without me. By him asking me out again, does that mean he really cares about me or what?... (52 words)

Is it a good idea to contact him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/need-your-help-to-get-back-to-being.html Thanks all for the help and answering my quest(the above url). On this context i want to say you I am doing much better and doing my work good.But I still feel an urge to contact this guy from my heart... (64 words)

Her parents made her feel guilty about our relationship

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1 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing this girl for awhile now and up until just this week we were head over heels for each other. Somehow her parents found out about the relationship (we are both adults) and they made her feel very guilty and upset about it as they are not comfortable with her ... (74 words)

I'm pregnant and he's dumped me

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1 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - 2months pregnant for a married man that played me for the fool i've been. am now 21 and he is 41, he has left his wife for not me but another woman with whom he is clearly in love with. i was there before her and he promise me the moon and stars but now he is in love with a ... (135 words)

How do I catch my boyfriend cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is cheatin on me nd he is denaing it pls how cn i catch him redhanded... (18 words)

Boyfriend has lied and cheated throughout my pregnancy

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1 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 33 weeks pregnant my boyfriend has lied to me cheated on me threw my pregnancy everytime I catch him his excuse is "I'm scared your gunna cheat on me or I thought you were cheating on me" I have not not gave him any reason 2 believe I am. I have not once cheated or thought ... (137 words)

I'm not sure what to do on a date

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4741 days ago

1 May 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi I'm 16 and I met this girl at a farewell party for one of my best friends. We started talking and practically didnt stop talking the entire night. We both have an interest in stuff like old time musicals and music. I really like her, and we kept in contact. I was talking to ... (100 words)

Did he just use me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4742 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid My bf asked me to loan the amount which i got from IRS to pay some bills. I loaned him the amount 3 days back and he didnt call me after that and i tried to reach him, he is not picking up the call and never got any reply for the text i sent him. We were togethe... (117 words)

Keeping my ex as a friend. Is it pathetic?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Its almost been 1 year since me and my ex split up and im still finding it hard to get rid of the feelings. I did love him, then i found out he cheated on me, which caused us to split. Now i dont love him, i just feel certain things for him. I go out with my friends and try ... (116 words)

Why don't I feel good about myself despite all the attention I get?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't want to sound arrogant, but when i go on a night out, I get a heck of a lot of attention from guys!! Yeah sure, at the time it's fun and i love hearing guys compliment me and approaching because it makes me feel great!! Most girls would love that, so you would think me ... (229 words)

Guys, can you give examples of when you have made a significant change in order to keep your relationship?

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1 May 2011 (?) age 41-50 - This question is to the men out there who are, or have been, in a serious relationship. Can you share a story of when you have had to make a significant change in your life for the good of your relationship? Things like quitting a damaging habit, breaking an addiction, getti... (148 words)

No boys have any interest in me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 13 and never had a boyfriend. All my friends have had atleast one and everyone says I'm not ugly and I'm interesting to talk to but no boy has seem to have any interest in me!! Is there something wrong with me??!!?? Help!!... (44 words)

But he's a player. He loves another. I love him. How do I breakup with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I fell in love with a guy... and he is a player.. I know that he is a player. He is my good friend. We met online. I know him from 4 months.I am 16. And He is 23. He helped me to come out from my last break-up. We do sex chat. (We don't do on cam we only chat). I do because I lo... (198 words)

Do I end the relationship? He has made his ex pregnant. We had planned our wedding for the end of this year

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a dilemma,my boyfriend cheated on me with his ex girlfriend and now she is pregnant. The girl, my boyfriend's ex, will have the baby. This girl sent me an email detailing that my boyfriend is being horrible to her and that he doesn't want the baby. I am stil... (161 words)

Why can't feel happiness for her? My long term friend is getting married and having a baby.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some help dear Aunts. I feel like I am a terrible person right now. My best friend is getting married and having a baby. We have been inseparable since we were babies and I love her to bits. She loves me too and has been an outstanding friend. I am her bridesma... (515 words)

I knew he was going to dump me and he did

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay. So I knew my boyfriend was going to dump me and he did. On the phone, and so I cried and begged him not to. I think I made him feel bad but he said he was sorry and that he didn't know what was going through his head and five minutes later we were back together. Anyways I ... (136 words)

Is it okay to hangout with a guy I recently met and know is interested in me, even though I have a boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - The other day at work, I met a guy (not affiliated with my place of work) who seemed very friendly and genuinely nice (and cute, too!) After a little bit of talking, he asked me out on a date, to which I declined and stated that I had a boyfriend of five years. Feeling bad ... (149 words)

Husband very violent and physical, can I ever trust him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Been married for nearly 6 years. 4 months after we were married he got violent and did a few thousand dollars worth of damage to the house. I was horrified since we were not even arguing at all. He is mean in front of my girlfriends or when we are with other people. ... (223 words)

Is he afraid my boyfriend will beat him up so he doesn't talk to me anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

1 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend (the father of my baby) who i dont love anymore from being being violent and abusive towards me, we are on 2 years now and me and my neighbor have been friends since me and my boyfriend and our daughter moved into the flat in january. me and my neighbor have ... (347 words)

Girlfriend deleted me from favourites on her phone?

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1 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - if your girlfriend deletes you from her favorites on her phone, is she losing interest in you? i saw on her favorites a few minutes ago that she removed me from her phone favorites. i know its silly but i love her and really dont want her to leave. please help. thanks ... (52 words)

My ex has invited me to have lunch with her tomorrow and now it's all I can think about! Is this normal?

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1 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex has invited to me lunch tomorrow and now I can't stop thinking about it. We broke up because I'm leaving university and she didn't want to commit to a distance relationship. A few weeks after the break up she had a new boyfriend. We're trying to be friends, but I h... (169 words)

How do I keep living in this twisted room mate situation?

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1 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm questioning if I can be friends with this girl and guy that i live with. We met as she was friends with a friend of a guy I was seeing. While seeing him she would sometimes be around, and on one occasion I invited her to sit with us, big mistake as she soon started ... (537 words)

I need to get over him. He has a GF. But I also have to work with him daily. How can I do this?

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1 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been head over heels for this guy for over a year now.. we work together, share a desk, do the same job, and need to communicate for those reasons. i was seeing someone when we met and kind of blew him off for my boyfriend. which was a huge mistake. he eventual... (247 words)

I don't want to care about him any more. But how do I get over him?

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1 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - It has been four months since my boyfriend of a year and a half, I'll just call him "J" broke up with me. J and I met through mutual friends a year and a half ago and were instantly into each other. I felt an instant attraction with him that I hadn't felt before because in my ... (1035 words)

He's cheating, I keep forgiving him

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1 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now, but I still have feelings that he is cheating. About 6 months ago he left his phone open to some messages from a girl he used to work with saying, "We should meet up" and "Your not just a plan-b piece of ass". I immediately ... (152 words)

What's his problem and why is he treating me like this?

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1 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I asked a guy I am talking to over the internet who lives in another state why he had deleted my recent comments on Facebook and he said he didn't know what I was talking about and that he hadn't touched Facebook. I retyped my comment again and today not only has my comment ... (331 words)

Does it become harder to find love beyond the ages of 40 and 50s?

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1 May 2011 (M)

age - Hi all! I just turned 51 and its been six months since my last breakup with my girlfriend. It was hard for me to end that relationship because I feel like I am getting older and may not find love again. But that relationship had to be ended because there were fundamental ... (90 words)

Newly wed and my husband is disappointed with my breasts. Do I have to be perfect for him to love me?

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1 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ahh, where to begin. My husband and I are newly weds, and we both waited til marriage to have sex. Anyhow, when I took my clothes off for him for the first time, he was disappointed. Reason being my boobs are smaller than he thought they would be (he told me this.) I never ... (394 words)

What do I do, how do I behave to win back my lady's love?

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1 May 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi Everybody I am in a strange situation as things evolve. The background is as follows ; My wife and I have had a up and down relationship for 8 years - from it we have two beautiful children whom we both love. I have provided all they want and need financially but particul... (353 words)

Shall I avoid my nasty sister in law by avoiding the wedding? My husband could go alone.

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1 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok...I have been married for 10 years, my inlaws live in country so we have never really gotten to know each other as never see much of them. They have never acknowledged birthdays etc. and everyone just goes about there owns lives basically. Like all in laws there are issues... (337 words)

I'm 17 and scared! Am I going to lose him?

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1 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so me and J are doing perfect in our relationship. but i am only 17 and he is only 16 and jus recently i found out i am pregnant... will our relationship go downhill? will he leave me for another girl again? will he continue to smoke weed even though i told him tht he will ... (101 words)

My boyfriend's addicted to porn! How can I help him?

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1 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend of 3 years is addicted to porn, and he has asked me to help him quit. how can i help him? are there any hotlines i can have him call, or a meeting he can attend? i told him if there is a class and he doesnt want to attend it alone i will go with as support. please ... (109 words)

I'm moving away for school! What should I do?

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1 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 23 and have just started an amazing new relationship. I've been dating this girl for almost two months now, and while I realize its still in the new honeymoon phase, I couldn't be happier. My only issue is, I'm moving in about 3 months, to a school that's 8 hours away fro... (161 words)

Our first time wasn't great! What happened?

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1 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend sex me and it was my first time,but why is it I dont feel so much delight? yes i admit it hurts cause im still a virgin,he has a tiny penis,lol,and it doesnt feel so much good,I think im not satified,why is it? Do i need a guy who has a lot bigger penis than he has ... (81 words)

Should I tell him I love him or wait?

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1 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So- I am in my early 20's and I was a single mother for over two years (during all of my pregnancy and till my son was about one and a half)... I met this amazing guy (who is almost a year youner than me) and we started a relationship. I soon found out that he was a virgin- ... (291 words)

My mom controls the way I dress!

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1 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Know that i am a teenager in high school. So I like the way I dress. I basically wear jeans and a baggy shirt because they are comfortable. I enjoy this, but my mom is now FORCING me to wear dresses and skirts. She says that I walk like a man. Now my whole life has been in her ... (237 words)

Am I wrong? Or can it be as black and white as this?

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1 May 2011 (?) age 51-59 - I've been thinking about this for a while and I think I finally have my answer. Tell me if you think I'm wrong. (or right? LOL) If a man knows that his porn viewing is hurting his girl, and he continues to do it, doesn't that mean he doesn't love her????? SERIOUSLY. It... (506 words)

Do you ever get over your first love?

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1 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hi aunts and uncles. I would really appreciate some advice. I met my first love 4 years ago we started off as friends and at 16 we became a couple. It was intense and we saw each other every single day (not even an exaggeration) I was his first but he wasn't mine, although t... (354 words)

More than friends, less than lovers.

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1 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Will taking a relationship slow really count in the end? Well, the guy I like and myself aren't even in a relationship. But, we know how we feel about each other. All our friends know how we feel for each other and encourage us to get into a relationship, but neither of us ar... (178 words)

Is it good sex that leads to these feelings I have?

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1 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi dear agony aunts, I am bisexual and got single one year ago. I decided not to get serious again until I know myself and have had some fun and experience. I started this affair with this guy. And we both agreed that we never want to make this an exclusive relationship a... (302 words)

Why does my friend want to be friends with my ex?I feel betrayed :(?

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1 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my best friend have been friends ever since we were little we met in 1st grade and have been friends ever since, but now I am rethinking the whole friendship because A guy I was going out with that treated me really bad and broke my heart is now talking to her ( he ... (311 words)

I'm worried about being out of place in life!

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1 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 25 years old and will be getting out of the active duty military next week and returning to civilian life. I'll still be serving part time with a reserve unit back home though. Thanks to the GI bill I'll be going back to school in the fall and am really excited to start ... (265 words)