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Do you have to be a "bad boy" for girls to like you?

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14 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - This question is for women ,I never had a girlfriend and I'm still looking. But I heard girls like the "bad boys". I'm a sweet heart guy and I do have confidence, faith, and not a pushover. I am responsible and I would protect my girlfriend from any harm. People say I'm a... (104 words

On and off with my boyfriend, but have frustrating feelings and desires for a woman? Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4730 days ago

14 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - Okay, I'm really confused at the moment as to what to do. I have been with my boyfriend for three years, although we've been on and off quite a lot. I love him to bits but recently we both decided to take a break from eachother, not break up so to speak, but just take some time ... (347 words

I lied to this hot girl and told her I've had sex but I haven't

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14 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hi dear cupids I m 18 and I don't really have any sexual experience. I tried to have sex with a girl like a year ago but I had no acctual idea what I was doing and my penis couldn't fit in her. We tried it 2 other night but I still counldn't put it in and I only got a BJ f... (275 words

I can't quite figure out what to do!

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14 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - I have a friend who told me he loved me and we have a lot in common . . . I really like him. I'm a virgin and he is not and I don't know if I can be with him now because of it. I wanted a virgin boyfriend, and I look at him differently for it, I asked if he has feelings for the ... (109 words

Should I show him the real me?

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14 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - I asked a guy if he liked me and he said no. His reasons were that I was mean and that I was hurting a guy I had ended it with half a year ago. It may be a stupid question but I really don't think I can get over him anyway, with our friendship. He's so nice and every time he ... (199 words

I'm terrified of relationships and dating!

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14 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I avoid relationships and I'm always worried about them. I'm extremely paranoid, though I've never been cheated on or actually never been hurt. But I see my friends and the relationships they've been in. The online dating or physical dating. People using the other for sex or as ... (1238 words

Not sure how to tell my boyfriend I have probably passed genital warts on to him?

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14 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I have recently been to the clinic because I have developed genital warts. I asked the doctor if I needed to inform my current sexual partner about them and she said not to bother as he would know if he had them. I'm really embarrassed about this so was relieved to hear... (170 words

13 guys in 7 years...too much?

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14 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - Is having had sex with 13 guys in seven years making me look like a slut?... (16 words

Is what I'm feeling just a girl on girl crush?

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14 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hi,so to start I will tell you that i have really polymorphus eomtions and sometimes i don't know what i'm feeling. My queston starts by telling you that i have this friend. I admire and adore her, she is perfect to me. she's smart, outgoing, and so cute. I love her company... (207 words

Why wasn't he able to sort himself out at home?

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14 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - hi my husband of 13 years left a week ago, after i told him too, he has an anxiety disorder so he didnt work, i work 4 jobs, have 2 children the youngest is his and a month ago my eldest moved out to live with my mum when asked why she was unhappy she finaly told me that she ... (185 words

Does he want me to chase him?

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14 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - So ive been seeing this guy for 5 months now. Things started off great, he would contact me every day and we would see eachother every few days. We admitted feelings for eachother, but he also told me he hasn't had a girlfriend in 4 years and the last girl broke his heart. He ... (296 words

Boyfriend says "he doesn't do family things"!

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14 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - my boyfriend of just over a year was invited to my nieces birthday party today. he said he would go 3 weeks ago when asked, then the day before it said he couldn't make it and made up a lame excuse about the time it started conflicting with something else. I told him that was ... (305 words

The sex isn't that good, what can I do?

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14 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Theres this boy I've been talking to since September and I'm really falling for him now. I thynk I'm in love with him, I hvnt told him tho. and he's soo fun to be around, but the sex isnt that good. I know that'll be a dumb reason to stop talking to him if I claim I'm ... (77 words

My husband wants 7 kids! I thought he was joking!

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14 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - My husband and I have been together since we were both 20 years old. I told him from the beginning that I don't care where we live as long as we get married near my hometown. He grew up in rural farm-town America and now that's where we and our kids live because he wanted our ... (352 words

Is it possible that my feelings may be reciprocated?

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14 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - ok so im bi/lesbian and i think i hve good gaydar you'll understand in a second... ok so i think this girl likes me and wondering if you thought it too heres the evidence shes usually sad and moody and think its bout me coz shell be sitting alone and when her frends go up to he... (205 words

I don't want her to think I'm desperate for a girlfriend!

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14 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - well i like a girl but shes got a boyfriend and my friend has told me that i should move on from her which i am doing. i met this girl at a friends party in february and i decided to speak to her for the first time since on facebook this afternon. we go to the same college... (200 words

Dealing with guys who have just been through a breakup. I don't want to be their rebound!

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14 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - How do you deal with guys who just broke up with a girlfriend? its hard b/c i wana talk to this guy and he seems interested but i know i could possibly be the rebound girl. I like him though and i think something good could come out of this so what do i do? i dont wana just be ... (64 words

I don't want to be treated the same as everyone else!

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14 May 2011 (F - Dear Cupid, My Ex and I broke up when were about 14. i am now 16 and so is he, and i feel like he's grown up alot more now (we broke up because he was really immature and kind of clingy) but since we broke up, he's changed so much. like alot of people have told me that i h... (389 words

Do I believe what people are telling me or what I know in my heart?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

14 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - hello i recnetly answerd a question on yahoo answer, it was to a guy who wounderd why he was hated at work. with what he said i belived him to be hated because of how he treated gay people at work. i am a christian and was sooo shock at how he talk about people who are gay as i... (248 words

Does he ever think of me like I think of him?

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14 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - My ex and I broke up last november, so 6 months ago, it would have been our 3 year anniversary today! We started going out when we were both 15 and are currently both 18. I'm going to bullet point what happened to make it shorter: -Last year of our relationship, we started ... (1279 words

What are my chances of getting my husband back?

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14 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hey need some help here guys, my question is what do you think my chances are of getting my husband back and us being a family again? We split up 8 weeks ago after he cheated on me with my good friend, he is in a relationship with her and living with her. We have a 11 month ol... (575 words

I do not want to live the rest of my life never being french kissed and having that closeness and intimacy!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

14 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - I am 29, and have been dating a 40 year old for a little over 6 months now, when we first got together, he joked all the time about sex, but never made a move. Said every other relationship he was in, he was in bed in the 1st week and he really liked me and wanted this to be ... (208 words

Is this pushing the limits?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

14 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - It is starting to get warm now and us girls are starting to wear more comfortable clothing. But this one girl in our class is crossing the line, she wore a very short mini skirt to school and when she bent over to get her bag from her locker she had no panties on!! Me and my ... (69 words

Wife just admitted to sleeping with my friend when we were dating!

This question has 35 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

14 May 2011 (M age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I am a 33 year old man who has been married for almost 9 years. When I was 19 and gettign ready to go into my second year of college, I met what would end up being my future wife. i was instantly attracted to her. She was amazing. I liked her so much that even ... (1485 words

Former "friend" with benefits said he wants to sleep with me, that I'm "hot" and doesn't seem to see anything wrong with it.

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14 May 2011 (? age 36-40 - I ended up having a "friends with benefits" type thing with a guy "friend" for nearly a year. He lives hours away so when he was in town we'd meet up etc. I ended up (stupidly) liking him, which was a shame because I found out that he was a complete man whore and not a very ... (289 words

Normal for a married man to have pics on his phone of his male friend flexing his muscles at the gym?

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14 May 2011 (F age 51-59 - Is it normal for a married man to have pics on his phone of his male friend flexing his muscles at the gym? I don't think my husband is gay but others say it's a weird thing for a straight guy to have. He says they were just comparing muscles and taking photos! ... (53 words

I'm going to create a fake love interest to test her feelings for me!

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14 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - I am not sure shall I go for another girl and turn my back completely on her just to see whether she will come back to me. BTW the girl I am going for is only fake. Me and her are going to be in relationship on fb and send love messages to each other but due to she is not my ... (155 words

Boyfriend lied about being sexually active

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14 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend has lied to me about being with other women, or so he said to me. We've been together for over seven months, and he just told me now. He also recently found out that I would prefer to be with a virgin. I'm having trouble deciding if I should believe him or not. He ... (95 words

I give him oral 24/7, but NEVER has gotten it in return, am I being selfish?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

14 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hello, I am a 18 year old female and i am mixed. I am native american and black. I been with my boyfriend for a year in a half and i have done everything to please him. I even pay for every single damn thing. I wait for him all the damn time everywhere we go. He sould be ... (247 words

I don't want my boyfriend to know that I'm not a virgin!

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14 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - im not virgin n i dont want that my boyfriend know that im not virgin on our wedding night plz help... (22 words

I want to meet someone for the first time, but I'm insecure.

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14 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Okay, so I was in this big dance production at my school, and after I went home I had a message on facebook from this boy. I was already friends with him, and he goes to a neighboring high school. We were friends because we know of each other, but have never talked. He also ... (301 words

Why are guys reactions rude when they hear I don't have facebook, or drink alcohol!?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

14 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Right. So I'm 18 and i don't have facebook or drink by choice. Many guys tend to find this strange or don't believe me! And I don't like the reactions they give! But whatever, it's my choice right? I'm just not interested in facebook like everyone else is and i stopped drinki... (198 words

I feel like my older bf is headed towards a crisis. What do I do? How can I really be there for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4730 days ago

14 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I'm nervous. Last week, my boyfriend was telling me he was a little depressed. Things were not going well at work and he felt he needed to change his life. He said he only spent time with me (which was nice) but maybe he needed to see his friends more like I see mine. But then, ... (199 words

I gave out TMI to a gossipy friend and now I'm afraid my b/f won't forgive me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

14 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I'm 19 and this guy I was sleeping with for a while is 20. We were really good friends and he told me alot of things in confidence. He told me his ex-girlfriend miscarried about 8 months ago and it hurt him deeply. Well I found out the other day I'm pregnant with his baby, I ... (186 words

She doesn't trust me anymore and won't be with me

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14 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - So ive been with my gf for two years. And she doesnt want to be with me no more because she doesnt trust me. Because her parents don't like me. And because I messed up too many times in our relationship, she always getting hurt. But I just can't let her go:( what should I do??... (56 words

He never tells me that he loves me anymore

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14 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - i love my bf like COMPLETELY, i have never met anyone like him, we have been going out for a year. he has never cheated on me or anything, we are the same age, and we see each other almost every week for example we like going to the movies, mall, beach, fair, or just hanging ... (371 words

Wife cheated, got pregnant then didn't have the child. Why did she do this?

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14 May 2011 (M age 51-59 - Hi my wife had an affair 20 months ago, when she was pregnant, said the baby was mine and had an abortion. A few months ago I found out that the baby she made me grieve for was not mine. She would not talk to me about it. Eventually I have got so angry I made her tell me the ... (117 words

My friend that I like has a mystery girl but I don't think its me!

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14 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - im 18/f hes 19/m okay so i really like my bestfriend, alot. and for the last 6 or so months we've been extremely close. he got out of a 5 year relationship 7 months ago, and he wants to enjoy singledom. but at the same time he told me of this mystery girl that he has sign... (1473 words

What's going on with my best friends brother?

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14 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - So I've Been best friends with this girl for about 2 years now ( were both 18) and she didn't used to live with her brother (21) until recently. Before he moved in with her he lived at his dads in the same town and I would only see him occasionally. When there dad wen... (512 words

Is my bf not interested in me

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14 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - hey m committed and in ldr since 1 year and 10 months.recently my bf went to goa with his friends.he enjoyed a lot. but one thing that made me mad was that he took pic with bikini babes. he said he wanted to show all that he has gone to goa. i mean the girl was in bikini ... (163 words

I've fallen for a guy who doesn't want a relationship!

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14 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hey guys............ Ok, so the obvious has happened, I've fallen for a guy who Doesn't want a relationship. His 4 years younger then me, been single for 5 years and sleeps with lots of women...his honest and upfront about it. (which I appreciate) but we text everyday and see ... (279 words

B/f is now 2 grades behind me! Will it work?

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14 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Pleaase help me, i need so much help!! Well here's how it goes.....me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a WHOLE year, its been 11 months and a half, i love him SO much, he is wonderful but the thing is he failed the grade, when we first started dating he was only 1 ... (102 words

I'm a lesbian in love with my friend but I know she's not 100% lesbian. CONFUSED!

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14 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I'll try and make this short and try not to bore you all to death! Basically I have been in love with my friend since I was 16 (I'm now 22). We used to be very close up until around a year ago, to the point where friends and family thought we were dating. We would act lik... (419 words

He says he has hurt me too much for us to be together again

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14 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hi there! I am very confused because of my ex. He was really in love, I was too. And one day he had a mental breakdown. Suddenly he felt nothing for me, for none, so he carved my name on his arm. I decided to break up because he was always saying: I feel nothing for you. I b... (188 words

Will my life always suck?

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14 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hi, firstly thanks for reading this and your advice. I'm having a big stress out at the moment!!! Number one is I'm unemployed and looking for job, but nothing out there. I'm looking to get into media again, but not had one interview. Signed up with loads of recruitm... (229 words

She kicked me out and I'm absolutely devastated!

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14 May 2011 (M age - April 24 after a 3 1/2 years relationship I was told "leave". End of story, have had no ability to contact in any way. I go between depression so deep I'm suicidal then I go to anger. I will flesh out the problem. Met this person and it was love at first sight for both. ... (858 words

Don't want to live in my bf's parents house anymore but don't know what to do.

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14 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I don't think I need any advice as such... I guess I just need somewhere to say how I'm feeling about things at the moment. I'll warn you now, this is going to be very long. Just to give you little insight - Me and my boyfriend met over the internet. We first started talking ... (892 words

How would you deal with things if your spouse died?

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14 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - How would you deal with death of your beloved wife ? Can world make sence after that ? Can you ever be happy ? ... (28 words

Does he feel the same? Or is it just wishful thinking?

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14 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I'm 25, female and, like so many others, want to know if my crush feels the same way about me as I do him. It is a rather complicated situation as he is one of my lecturers at university. It sounds instantly like a 'no go' and at the moment, it certainly is but as of three ... (747 words

What should I say/do in this situation?

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14 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - I was seeing a friend of a friend over the summer. He was staying at a friends house. The guy my friend was staying with must be in his fifties/sixties. He has two daughters, one is a teenager, the other is 10. But he only sees them on weekends, as he's split up with the ... (190 words

Ex of 4 years ago, does he just want to be friends?

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14 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I have a ex who ive been friends with for 4 years now, i still love him heaps but people are telling me that he probally doesnt anymore and probally just wants to be friends. his been keeping in contact with me like talking to me over facebook, his been looking at me everytime ... (277 words

Love on the amtrack...

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14 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I planned a trip to Florida by train and I met a wonderful man who happens to work for Amtrak. The whole ride he was slowly talking to me asking me if I was okay and if my son was too.. At first I thought okay this is excellent customer service and Then after a while had ... (312 words

Alone and single because I'm still a virgin and I'm scared people will find out!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

14 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - So i'm 19, and NEVER had a boyfriend. I've only ever kissed 4 guys and thats always been when i'm drunk. I'm getting quite depressed about it really. I have guys who like me alot, but i'm too frigid to do anything about it, i think to myself, right i'm going to get with him... ... (136 words

Did I make a mistake telling him?

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14 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - Just last night I told my partner that I have had anal warts before. We still haven't had sex and I was so afraid to tell him, but I knew he had to know and so I told him. I had to tell him partly because we were about to head in the direction of sex. He seemed rather perplexed ... (157 words

I feel like I can't stay away from her!

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14 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hey guys... There's a girl I've got some kind of a crush on. We started communicating closely about 2 months ago. Since that time there's not a single day that we haven't been texting each other, I usually text first, and if I don't, she always does. We had several dates, b... (202 words

She says he cheated, he says he didn't. They both lie, so who do I believe?

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14 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - He allegedly cheated, should I give him another chance??? I'm currently in a long-distance relationship, we have been together for almost to years and we've been through a lot together(my boyfriend's dad died unexpectedly). The thing is that even though we have the best ti... (235 words

When its time for the date I freak out!

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14 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi guys,Most people ask me out on dates but when i am supposed to go meet them up i freak out and cancel evrything.,is this normal??... (26 words

I can't live without him but can't live with him either!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

14 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - Me an my bf been having alot of problems. Im super jealous but i have reasons to be. He has been caught talkin an texting other woman in the past but i never saw anything crazy. About two weeks ago i saw a number with no name in a text an asked him an he got all mad an said he ... (200 words

What does love buddy mean?

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14 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - hi i would like to know what does love buddy mean.... (14 words

He cheated and then proposes with a $6000.00 ring?

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14 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - I just caught my boyfriend cheating on me. He took me on a trip a couple of months ago and took his side chick on the same trip a month ago, and I busted him down to the city and the hotel they were staying in. He appologized of course and said it was over with the other girl ... (86 words

The one girl I truly love, but I keep hurting her somehow

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14 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - Okay so I've been with my girlfriend for almost tow years. We both lost our everything to eachother. She is the type of girl that never lied to me, she never tried to hurt me. In any way possible did she ever disappoint me at all. So where is the problem you may ask? Well the ... (861 words

What is the best way to stay out of gossip at school and not look like you are trying to be too goody goody?

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14 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - What is the best way to stay out of gossip at school and not look like you are trying to be too goody goody? I hate it when the girls get catty because I was on the receiving end once and the only way I got out of it was to change schools and keep a low profile. But I really ... (95 words

How do I handle this. My mom is traditional and doesn't understand my friends with benefits relationship.

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14 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - My mom doesn't understand the type of life I'm living. I'm 20 and I tell my mom everything since I began wanting to be full honest with her. I decided that relationships aren't my thing right now but I do like the feeling of sex and the role I get into when I do it, so a frie... (346 words

Why has she turned cold on me? I thought we had possibilities.

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14 May 2011 (M age 36-40 - Im just curious. why is it that a girl i have been friends for quite some time (appx 6 years) is all of a sudden cold towards me. She would rather be a groupie and chase musicians to various states, then have the nerve to say that it was just trips she went on with friends, ... (247 words

I'm at a loss. what can to do? I love him very much but my parents don't

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4731 days ago

14 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I am currently in a relationship for four months. I am a picky dater and I rarely allow a relationship to go past a week. I have dated one guy previoulsy that lasted 6 months. Most guys don't even get a kiss, so it's not like my relationships are sexually based. My current ... (332 words

I have been cool to his approaches before. Then I said yes. But now I am wondering did I move too fast?

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14 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - I've known this guy for about 2 years, or known of this guy. His mom worked for my mom at a daycare and I was always up there helping out. The first time he saw me I was 14, he was 15. He told his mom I was hot and that he liked me. I never really pursued anything because ... (269 words

If you give good help does it feel horrible if no one likes your answers? This is for the people who answer a questions here ever please

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

14 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - This is a question especially for people who like answering questions here. About their relationship on screen between the people they try to help and the people who get answers. The people who answer here have so many things they know and sometimes I have read their Column's... (440 words

Should I tell him how strongly I orgasm when I masterbate? I don't want to unsettle my boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

14 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend suggested I masturbate since I never had, so I could find out for my self what I like so when it comes to sex, I can tell him what I like. So I decided to give it a try. And I DEFINITELY found out what I like. The problem is now I don't want to tell him because ... (189 words

Would a really heart broken guy latch on to a new girl friend (me) so fast?

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14 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - I have liked this guy for few months now. He just recently got rejected by a girl and she's dating someone else. he told me he liked her but oh well. Anyway we are not from the same class and not very close so i thought he barely care about how i am anyway. Then when i skipped ... (125 words

How can I best show support for this girl? I love her to bits. What can I do to get her to trust me?

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14 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hello, my friend who is 18 comes from a very broken home. She is pretty stressed out about her life. It started when she told the police what her step father did to her in 2007. Her mom does not believe that she is telling the truth and thinks that she is only saying that ... (487 words

I want her back but how do I regain her trust and convince her I will not lie to her ?

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14 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - So my ex girlfriend just broke up with me a month ago after 2 years together because I lied to her and kept the secret for a while. I REALLY want her back, but i dont know how I can get her to trust me again...I've tried telling her how I felt and even writing her a poem, but ... (205 words

Please tell me, is this repairable, how I can fix my relationship with my friend who is the sister of my Bf?

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14 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - my best friend of 4 years and i have lately had a falling out, it happend about a year ago, and i was wondering how to fix it? here's the the story, all names were changed My friend 'A' and I have been best friedns for forever. Her older brother and I decided to date about a ... (230 words

What Makes A Cute Couple?

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14 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Just a simple question. when im with this certain guy strangers will approach talk to us and say we are a cute couple its strange! but really what makes a cute couple? i never get it with other people so what is your definition of a cute couple?... (49 words

Why would your friend let you get hurt?

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14 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Why on earth would a guy who likes you, not tell you that his friend who your with has a girlfriend? I just don't understand it! Why would they let you get hurt and feel that way!?! Surely if the guy liked you, then he would tell you so you don't get your feelings hurt and be ... (67 words

My desire for good sex is taking over and ruining the relationship

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14 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - I am finding things difficult with my partner. He hasn't been with many women. He always insists we have a bath just before sex (I am the cleanest person so this is ok) and everything is very mechanical. He says he wants to be really good but even after 12 months kissin... (365 words

There is a rumour being spread about me and I need to know what to do to contain this rumour?

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14 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Okay, so one night i hears from some friend that have you heard about a rumour that is spreading about you, i'm like no, but then i have some weird feeling in my stomach and have an inclination to ask, what rumour, and i am right. Somone said that i am gay and i have feel... (285 words

Questions about size and hair.

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14 May 2011 (M age 36-40 - Hey, I was wondering if a larger penis was more visually appealing. Does it turn girls on more than a normal sized penis? How about pubic hair, do most girls prefer completely shaved or trimmed? Thanks.... (42 words

How do I confront my alcoholic dad?

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Do opposites like these ever work out?

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14 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - OK, I like this girl. we get along great and everyone says we flirt. she flirts with me a little but not enough for me to be sure. I'm confident with women though so this isn't the problem. Problem is she comes form a conservative Cristian background, and has a 4.0 GPA while I ... (95 words

Why do I feel this way about this guy? I barely know him.

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14 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Your Open Question: Why do I feel this way about this guy? I barely know him.? There's a new guy at my Church, he's a strong Christian he leads the youth sometimes and also plays the piano. He's really cute. Apparently he's looking for the right girl.. and I feel I m... (238 words

Mother has Psoriasis, any tips or advice on how to deal with it?

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He's cheated before, and I'm wondering if he's cheating again?

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14 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I just took my bf back and now i feel as if he's cheating. Every time we're around each other, we're always arguing or it's just silent. When he leaves out of the room to go to the bathroom or anywhere else, he takes his phone. When he leaves it around me, he locks it. He even ... (154 words

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