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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What does his reaction mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - What does it mean when a guy points you out for staring at him? Like, I'd sometime unintentionally look at my crush, and he used to stare right back, but now he'd be like, "What?" and it'd snap me out of my daze.... (46 words)

Would it be rational to resume the friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Few years ago, I had to go through a painful break up from my first serious relationship of 2 years. My ex also immediately started seeing something a month after we split which was very hard for me. But at our friend's party (we were both there as well as his new girlfrie... (374 words)

Is it wrong of me changing my mind about marrying my girlfriend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

3 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been with my girlfriend for 3 years, in this time she's had severe drug problems and has cheated on me three times, I love her. but now she wants a commitment and wants us to get married, I said Yes initially after we got back together but I just can't get over the ... (164 words)

I like him, he ignores me. I ignore him, he likes me. What the hell?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a question about the male psyche. Why is it, when I seem to pay him attention, he sometimes is really nice then other times he's cold and ignores me? Like this year, he has been staring at me, but upclose he acknowledges everyone and ignores me. I'm sick of it. So the ... (163 words)

How do I get girls to hug me, to kiss me and how do I get popular?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

3 May 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - 1. How do I get a girl to hug me that goes to my school like a bunch of them that I don't even date 2. And how do I get girls to kiss me for no reason and all ways hang around me 3. And how do I talk to them and get them to all talk and ask me to help them with there p... (90 words)

We live together, we share a son. But she says she is also in a LDR. How can I cope with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

3 May 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - my girlfriend of 19 years with whom I have a son, says she is dateing someone out of state, but lives with me, sleeps with me, and i hold her every night. She says she might leave me, but goes to counselling. what is she doing? also says she might leave. then she talks about ... (71 words)

She cut contact after her husband made a pass at me. I miss her, should I contact her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Im not sure how to put this.....my life long best friend and I havent had any contact for more than 5 years and I really miss her. No, we didnt have an arguement or anything. Her husband made a pass at me and I did not tell her. He has done this to many of our other friends ... (339 words)

Does being in a romantic relationship contribute to happiness?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Does being in a romantic relationship contribute to happiness? Romantic relationship meaning a committed, stable, relationship. you also must be with the same person for at least 2 years.... (30 words)

Do these few seconds he had inside her count as him losing his virginity?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Right I don't know if this question belongs on the site but it's too hard to find out on google ... Basically I don't know wether my boyfriend is still classed as a virgin or not he said once when he was on holiday he met this girl and they kinda liked eachother Qnd he went ... (147 words)

Feelings for a female friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4740 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hey, so i have this friend called L---. she is just, amazing. i have had feelings for her for a very long time now, almost a year. and we have a flirtatious banter going on. so what i want to know is: does this girl like me? she always continues this flirtatious manner... (269 words)

My boy friend sometimes just walks off and leaves me alone in a bar. no explanation. what do you think I should do about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I dont know whether to stay with my boyfriend or not. Sometimes, when he gets in a mood, and we have been out in a bar, he has left me on my own at the bar. It's happened a couple of times. The first time it happened, he left but then came back a short while after but last time ... (146 words)

We broke up January. Now I can't seem to control my urge to have sex. How can I control it better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend and I broke up and have finished our relationship in janruary. i have been going out with friends and i have also slept with 2 people since my boyfriend and i broke up and i feel so bad about it. however i just seem to be wanting sex all the time. i dont know how ... (77 words)

Update: Why is this teacher acting like this

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I know you’re all going to think I’m being childish here, but please hear me out. I’m 18, and very mature for my age.I don't really understand body language. Last year, I met my college lecturer, and we hit it off straight away. There was one point though where I got close to ... (460 words)

How do I improve my performance when I'm with my partner? Is there anything I can do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

3 May 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - When we have sex, I find that it takes a long time to climax and I am not always sure that I have done so. I continue thrusting for at least twenty minutes. Is there any way of trying to improve trying to climax during sex?... (54 words)

Does anyone else feel this way?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys! I was just wondering something. When you're in a relationship, do you ever get bored of the person you're with and find faults with them easily? This happens all the time with me and is the main reason I find it hard to make relationships work. I've got a habit of l... (84 words)

How important do you think chemistry is when choosing a bf or gf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in my mid 30's, I think I have a pretty face but I don't really have a good body (I've abused it in my 20's and I have the physical scars to prove it). My ex husband (with whom I was with for over 15 years) divorced me 5 years ago because he said he wasn't sexually ... (223 words)

My boyfriend never texts me back!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have a lovely relationship, but he never texts me back! Only if I'm in a bit of a mood with him and then he texts me loads! It's really annoying because I can't get in touch with him, and it feels as if he never thinks of me. If he wants to see me, he texts... (72 words)

Fiance won't get rid of pictures of his ex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half, he recently proposed and I said yes. Only problem is he won't get rid of pictures of him and his ex girlfriend. They had many issues, he said they would break up and get back together, that happened for five years. He ... (134 words)

Is it too soon to move on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Please give me advice as im confused. I separated from a 5 year relationship about 12 weeks ago. Although my ex is saying in his head its been over for approx 18 months. We have a child together and I love him but he says we will never get back together. A few weeks ago I st... (190 words)

Our relationship lacks intimacy and sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age - My husband has never wanted to kiss me or caress me. I am not ugly, I take care of myself and exercise an wear makeup well. If I try to kiss him he scrunches his nose like I am a disease. I have to give him head but he never gives it to me. If I want to be close he gets mad. ... (76 words)

Should I give my abusive boyfriend a second chance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear all, I'm 26 yrs old and I'm an introvert. I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months and within this short period he's showed me acts of violence 4 times already! It include: spitting, strangling, hitting, pushing and all the worst parts you can imagine. Not to mention t... (498 words)

Freaking out before orgasm

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've never had an orgasm before. Tried solo a few times, still didn't happen. My boyfriend and I have been trying...and every time I get really close I freak out! I just have to stop. Don't know why. The only thing that gets me to that point is clitoral stimulation (g spot ... (194 words)

Doe it mean he's trustworthy if he wants to be your Facebook friend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Simple question, if a guy you're seeing wants to be friends on facebook, is this a good sign that he is genuine? Because i think that if were friends on there, then he is honest about not having a girlfriend or dating anyone else. Like he doesn't have anything to hide, could ... (64 words)

We are too incompatible to live together. How do I tell him?

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3 May 2011 (F)

age - Hi I need advice. me and my boyfreind live together he is a demanding person and a very I mean clean person but his ways are starting to send me crazy again I asked him to move out last month let him come back, been back a month now here last 2 times he goes out he has come ... (327 words)

We talk on phone but never on facebook. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, i appreciate u guys alot. Just have a quick question i need answers to. My boyfriend and i are very much in love with each other, we are both on facebook, but he never posts on my wall or say anything to me on facebook, he talks to others often but never me, i've ... (76 words)

Why is it bad to lose your virginity to a Prostitute?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3575 days ago

3 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a 28 year old male virgin, who has never had a girlfriend. I have asked dozens of women out in my life though I was always rejected. There were plenty of women that I liked but did not approach them because I knew they had boyfriends already. I tried online dating believing ... (409 words)

Would you be so kind as to comment on my poem?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm entering a poetry contest can peeps tell me what thy think bout this poem thanks xx to be with you is all i desire, with out you my hearts on fire, my hearts in pain ,bleeding,aching for you, only in my dreams u luv me 2 . m battling with my head and my heart, ... (132 words)

I am in love with my psychiatrist. Please advise.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I am in love with my psychiatrist and I dont know what to do. I am tired of waiting but he smiled so much at me last time and looked so flirty. When I tell him i want to leave country he tells me to stay etc. On the other side I want to give up as I know he has kids but ... (107 words)

We haven't, but one day I would like to. How do I ask her about having a sexual relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

3 May 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey guys i need some help with my relationship. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 1 month now and I want to someday have a sexual relationship with her. Can you please ignore my age for this but if you have to know I'm 15 and almost 16, my question though is ... (70 words)

He is attentive in every way, but he won't be my FB friend. Should I be worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys, I am confused. I am in a LDR, and he is very attentive, as soon as he sees me online he starts a conversation straight away, sends me photo's of himself and is very loving and caring. He makes me feel special and very loved. What is confusing me is that he tells me... (178 words)

How do I forget my years of abuse and learn to love again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age - I lived in abusive marriage for 20 years. I finally got out of it and started a new life. But the marriage keeps haunting me. How can I turn around again to find someone to love?... (41 words)

He doesn't want to touch me much. Is this a bad sign?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age - dear cupid: I'm a middle age lady that is starting to date again, I'm curious. when my boyfriend and i are starting things up I'm all over him because he has a body that i like. A little cushion. I love it and i let him know it. with me he hardly touches me, he will tell... (123 words)

I haven't heard a thing. Is it time for me to move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i am feeling so depress right now.. i really need someone to tell me what to do.. i am so freaking out here..i have a bf online..we been in a LDR for 16months now.. the relationship became really serious.. we talk about our future and we even plan to meet this end of MAY 2011.. ... (319 words)

I forgave her, but I think she is at it again. What should I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

3 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i feel like my GF is cheating on me because she is not talking to me from last week till today..she is not replying me for my any messages on facebook..but she is chatting with others..but suddenly when i said hi today, she said "hi i love you, and she told me if you wanna make ... (127 words)

What's the secret to attracting a woman?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

3 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Please tell me what REALLY TURNS ON A WOMEN. What gives her that spark to feel so attracted she'll jump into your arms?... (23 words)

What constitutes a healthy relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Have been enjoying reading a lot on this site. Thanks to you all. This is my question.how do one know a healthy relationship .... (27 words)

I feel horribly jealous of the attention my husband is giving my newly widowed GF. Please advise.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend of 16 yrs and I are very close to destroying us. It's both of us, not just one. he says it is all my fault and that im crazy. we have been close friends with a couple for about 10 yrs now. she and i are/were very close. the guys were very close as well. about 6 ... (877 words)

I have never had a BF because I always fall for married men. Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm 25 years of age, a girl. no boyfriend since birth and i don't know why. every guy i met told me that i'm beautiful and a bit shocked that i haven't got any boyfriends at all, but i don't know why i am always attracted to "attached guys" (literally they have a wife or a ... (77 words)

Her past is tearing me apart, but I love her so. I don't know what to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

3 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So I've been going out with my girlfriend for 4 months now, she's my first real girlfriend and I do love her so much. Everything is perfect except for the fact that I can't get her past sex life out of my head. She's 18 and has been with 10 guys before me, I'm 20 and had been... (623 words)

I have a very strong need to talk to my coworker about "that night." Should I?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been happily married for almost 9 years. About six months ago while away on a business trip I had a brief encounter with a married coworker. We didn't have sex but we kissed and a bit more. Ever since I met this guy there has been a clear physical attraction between us ... (308 words)

Not impressed. he asked me to go skating, but instead he ignored me. Why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4740 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, so I met this boy over the week end at a leisure place near me I had no idea who he was, but he was hanging around my older brother and some of his friends. He introduced him self to me and we started to hang out. We were talking and he was asking me things, after we got t... (318 words)

Is it time to seriously talk about 'where is this relationship going'?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - i've been with my man now two years and it's a LDR. We are fully commited, and i am looking to move closer to him, so we can see him lots more. we see each other as often as we can at the moment. but i'm just wondering, is it time to have the 'what's the future?' talk, For in... (286 words)

Why do guys talk to ordinary looking girls while gorgeous unattached girls exist?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this is an insecurity problem, but I don't know how to overcome it? I know i'm not ugly, but when I meet a guy who shows he is interested in me, it's then i think 'why would he want to talk to me?' The next day, I'll be out and see these gorgeous girls and think, tha... (174 words)

Why did the doctor ask me if I'm in a relationship? I can't see the relevance

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - i'v just been to see my doctor i'v got a sore throat. So what relevance was there to his question to me, asking if i'm in a relationship? why did he ask me if i'm in a relationship? How was that appropriate?... (43 words)

Is he cheating or maybe thinking of cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

3 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi Guys, Just wondering what the signs of cheating or possibly cheating with someone might be. My boyfriend and I live together and are very happy, however I recieved a text one night when he was drunk at a BBQ to pick him up so I set off for him and the received another... (195 words)

Will he understand how hurtful he is if he gets dumped one day too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I was going through some stuff the other day and found some mememtos of my relationship with my ex. I ended up throwing them out, I don't like keeping stuff from exes. I've told my story here before: He dumped me completely out of the blue one day, by phone. Then he insu... (152 words)

Did he just not like me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically went on a date for the first time in ages :) but I'm kinda confused, because although we had good banter and he kindly paid for my cinema ticket and also wanted to pay for my dinner (I didn't want him to though because we're both students and both skint) but he didn't ... (150 words)

Should I give her a birthday gift? She's made it clear we are just friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

3 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - alright, long question here: ok so about 6 months ago i had told this girl whom i had been really good friends with for about 2 years that i liked her as more than a friend and she was super cool about it but she told me that she liked someone else which i accepted and so we ... (350 words)

Guys: Do men forget to text back for days, should a girl make this next move?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This question is for the guys because only they can answer guys actions with good insight.. (I hope) Anyways, i met this guy out i spoke to him for about 5 minutes and he asked for my number because i was leaving and he said he wanted to speak to me again. Anyways, there w... (150 words)

Sister very pushy when she visits out mother. Should I stop the visits?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My sister bounded in at the weekend. She does not want to look after our mother and rarely visits. She knows I have taken leave from work to look after our mother after three strokes. I walk her to get her legs working again. I get up in the night if she calls me. My sister ... (308 words)

Dealing with missing someone when on a break?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all. I'll post this quite quickly as I dont have much time this morning. Me and my bf have been struggling for a while and as scarey as this may be, we have decided to have a break from eachother for a month. This is basically going to involve not meeting up for a month but ... (161 words)

I like the idea of romance, but its just not for me. What does that make me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So this is a strange question. Ever since i was young, i wanted to be a guy. not in a literal sense, but i like to wear guys clothes, i like things most girls dont, i dont have the best manners, i dont really care much about being feminine, i dislike girly-girls (exceptions, of ... (167 words)

I don't want to fall into the non returnable friend zone with my ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Its been two months, since then my ex and I are now 'friends' I suppose. He texts me every day and asks if i want to hang out; I've told him we aren't doing the friends with benefits thing. He's told me that eventually he wants to give us another try and I believe the same. I'm ... (134 words)

Girlfriend will no longer give oral sex, says she hates it. Why did she do it to every guy in the past then?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3398 days ago

3 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and me are together for a year now.. and have a decent intimate life.. we stay in different cities so meet just maybe once or twice a month.. Since the past 5months she hasnt given me any oral sex.. and i didnt pressurize her.. she wouldnt let me go down as we... (767 words)

Gave him heads and he refused giving me oral with him tongue.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night i was making out with my boyfriend and i ended up giving him a blow job, after that i asked him to give me oral sex with his tongue and he bluntly refused, i begged him and he still refused. I was hurt so much that he couldn't do that to me but i did it for him and ... (107 words)

Girlfriend left because I am too aggressive

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

3 May 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - MOD NOTE: Please do not put your posts all in caps. It has been corrected this time. Next time it will be rejected. THX My ex girlfriend says I am too aggressive, I explain to her its my response to the way she is treating our relationship. Now she has left me. What do I do?... (57 words)

How can feel safe about falling in love again, and how do I get a girlfriend?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

3 May 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I have been having love trouble forever. I used to like people a lot, but after heartbreak, I haven't had the guts to fall in love again. I do want to fall in love, but I am a bit afraid of what can happen along with it, as well as what other people think of me and how it will ... (149 words)

Why do they go soft when we try to have sex? Is it me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age - dear cupid i have been with my boyfriend for a while now everytime we start to make love hes try to inter me and he gets soft on me and leaves me hanging. he is 50 years i am 53. i have had this same thing happen t me in the pastwith other men. is it me i need to know th... (127 words)

How do I find an older man that will not use me for sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 years old and graduated high school a year ago. I'm single and i've been looking for a relationship, but there's an issue. I like older men. I didn't think it would be such an issue. I mean, I am attractive. I run so i'm fit, I read a lot so i'm educated, I'm ... (184 words)

What is it that boyfriend wants to ask but doesn't ask!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so thee past month or longer my boyfriend always says he loves me more. and i ask him why and he said that he would tell me on my birthday as a birthday present. so my birthday was saturday he said he would tell me. so saturday comes he has work all day. and he sai... (141 words)

Do I contact him again? Or wait for him to contact me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So, I joined an internet dating site. It's been pretty fun. So far I've met up with three guys. The first guy is now a friend, the second didn't go very well, and the third...aw, the third. He messaged me a couple of months ago and I could tell he was one of those guys just ... (298 words)

How dos an 18 year old introvert get laid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

3 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and I'm still a virgin but I'm not very bothered by this, except when my friends make jokes about me and when I get the horn on. So, I'm coming to realise that I know absolutely nothing about how to get into a girls pants. I understand that I suffer from a complete... (183 words)

She lives with me but says she is dating someone out of state?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4740 days ago

3 May 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - iam in a 19 year relationship we have a house and a son my girlfreind says shes dateing someone out of state and still lives and works with me and isent sure weather to stay or leave what dose this mean ... (43 words)

Shall I fly over to plead with him to reconsider not breaking up? I don't know what to do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband had to go to a conference. I even helped him pack. And put some sweet notes into his case so when he unpacked he would know i care. We had a bad patch last year when he was unfaithful when he promised he would never never do it again. I was so looking forward to him ... (403 words)

If you give a blowjob are you still a virgin? Is he?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - If you give a guy a blowjob are you still a virgin? And is the guy still a virgin too?... (20 words)

I want her to pick me but she always choses the wrong guy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

3 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - i love this girl weve hang out a lot she has mixed felings she said that she only love one guy but she cant see him . but i think shes afarid to get hurt again she seems to get all the worng guys i do love the girl neaver felt this way with any one before i dont whant to lose ... (87 words)

I'm 13. How do I get a girl to like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4740 days ago

3 May 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I am 13years old in sixth grade and no one likes me and I dint know y any ideas on how to get a girl to like me... (28 words)

Does it really hurt that much to have sex the 1st time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My mom told me this "since you are now 14 and have a boyfriend I want you to be more careful with your actions. Don't do it it with him. It hurts to have sex for the first time and it hurts even worse to have a baby" is that true??? Does it really hurt to have sex? I know... (79 words)

How do I feel that spark?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4740 days ago

3 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 months and he is in love with me and I really like him too, but I don't know If I feel the same way. And he has many family things happening at home and I know it will crush him if I broke up with him and I really don't, I want ... (94 words)

Girlfriend more interested in being on facebook than being at functions that are important to me!

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3 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a little less than a year. We are both 18 and go the same highschool. I play lacrosse and she plays girls lacrosse. We never get to see each others games because we both have sports at he same time. Something that she has done is ... (453 words)

I live with her, I love her but I'm afraid if I tell her it will ruin our friendship

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3 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi there, I've been living with this girl for almost a year now. I actually also work with her as her supervisor. We get along great, hang out in work, talk a lot at home and we even go out sometimes with her friends. Over the past few days, I realised that I love her. I miss... (282 words)

Does he still care about me even though we are broke up?

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3 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have to write this again because apperantly I didn't have enough information my boyfriend and I broke up in march and got back together in april. We broke up because we weren't talking and I told him that we would talk but he didn't believe me. So I just didn't talk too ... (251 words)

I feel uncomfortable during oral sex and don't want to be deceived if he's just saying he likes it!

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3 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Kind of hard to ask this, it is very personal. I have been sexually active with my new guy for just a week, but I have loved him for a long time. He has gone down on me and I am not sure I have liked it, I suppose I was tense and nervous about it so I didn't appreciated it very ... (276 words)

Is it possible for me to make a girl like me if she is straight but never dated a guy?

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3 May 2011 (F) age 30-35 - Is it possible to make a girl like you if she says she is straight (but has never had a boyfriend)? If so, how? She's younger than me and I'm around 18.... (33 words)

Why is my g/f acting so blank lately?

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3 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Well lately my girlfriend has been acting quite blank lately. We used to talk from dawn to dusk over texting. We would alternate on who texts eachother first in the morning. Yesterday, she never said goodnight. So I said goodmorning. She responded with 1 or 2 word texts. Then ... (132 words)

Loving me ex but knowing I need to move on

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3 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Please Read...My bf dumped me a month ago. He dumped me because he got depressed and love and relationships was just something he no longer wants at this moment in time. Im still in love with him but I dont hurt as bad as I used to. Yes I want him back but Ive decided to ... (572 words)

Is my boyfriend trustworthy? Is he getting better, or just better at lying?

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3 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello! I'm frustrated about a situation and not sure if i'm over-reacting. I've been with my boyfriend for 6-7 months, we both got out of really bad relationships and we're older, we moved in with each other because of University (we're grad students different departments) ... (444 words)

Is it okay for me to date my ex's little brother?

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3 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it okay to date my ex's little brother? Me and my ex broke up years ago and the last time we spoke was 2 years ago. His little brother is one year younger than I. Is it okay for me to date him? Considering we are both in the mid 20s? Before I dated my ex, before i wa... (113 words)

We can't and won't be together, how can I stop loving him?

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3 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This is the classic, 'Oh no I'm in love with my best friends brother' scenario. However, It's not a silly crush and unfortunately really do love him. He's not perfect, we get on really well and but well never actually be together, I've accepted these things and I still can'... (302 words)

I always feel second place in my boyfriend's life

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3 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf rarely puts me first. In most aspects of life. The one I understand most is the job one. He's in a 3 yr training period which he must pass to have a job. So I get that that comes first cos he's investing in both our futures. But he promises me after that I'll always come ... (141 words)

My ex is destroying my life because I broke up with him!

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3 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - ** I know this is long but I desperately need your help ** I need some help about an ex of mine. He is playing mind games with me and its driving me insane. I have borderline personality disorder so my mind is already a bit warped so I am hoping someone here could offer... (518 words)

Boyfriend wants me to get tattoo of his name! Should I?

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3 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my partner Shane says he is not the marrying kind. but we do everything together. He was my fiurst boyfriund and I never want any other boyfriend. He does shift work and i get scared at night sometimes when he is not home. And I cant go out without him at night and i dont want ... (282 words)

I love him but I find him very unattractive. Am I shallow?

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3 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am happily seeing someone and I don't find him physically attractive, in fact I find him rather ugly. I recognise this and accept this and am still very much in love with and attracted to him. People make jokes and say that he is ugly and they worry it will offend me but I ju... (134 words)

Moving on after your first love?

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3 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - how do i get over my first love? i've tried the usual things like losing contact with him, hanging out with my friends more, taking up new hobbies but it isnt working. I cant lose contact cause we was good friends. I still have feelings for him though, i dont think its love but ... (82 words)

Why would a guy treat you like you are everything when he is cheating on you?

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3 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why would a guy do such a horrible thing? Why would a guy treat you like your the only girl for him in the world and tells you how amazing you are and how much he's in love with you and all the while he's cheating on you behind your back and eventually dump you and... (100 words)