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What to think about my boyfriend's 'best friend'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

13 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hi a few months ago I met a friend of a friend and we became very close. We started a relationship about a month ago and things have been great. My only problem is his best friend. Now His best friend's boyfriend is one of my close friends so we all kind of know each other.... (374 words

Ex took off when he found out I was pregnant, but I'm thinking of taking him back

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

13 May 2011 (? age 30-35 - 14 months ago me and my bf were in a great relationship. we had so much love for each other it was unreal. however, i fell pregnant. he said he would stick around and support me even though he didnt really want it. anyway, that night he took off. he left me a note saying sorry. ... (221 words

My married boss asked me out?!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - Am a girl and my boss is asking me for dating.he is married with two kids.what will i do.... (19 words

Asked her out and now having second thoughts?

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13 May 2011 (M age 26-29 - So I have liked this girl for about 2 weeks. She is pretty and we are good friends. I found out from a friend that she had liked me and so I asked her out today and she said yes. The only problem is that I am starting to get the feeling like "omg why did i ask her out??" ... (89 words

Why am I still so attracted to him when I know he is a cheat and a liar?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

13 May 2011 (? age 30-35 - I have completely fallen for the wrong guy. He is a liar and a cheat. How do I know this? Because he sent my best friend to the other side of the world. She, like i, had a crush on him. When they were going out, she said he was amazing. But it turned out he was sleeping with ... (98 words

How can I teach him a better technique?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Every time my boyfriend fingers me, the day after I am really sore. I also feel like i get dry a lot faster when he is fingering me rather than when i am masturbating. I am guessing this is all just results of him being too rough?? Does anyone have any advice for teaching ... (139 words

Should I go blonde because my boyfriend prefers it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hello Everyone, Me and my boyfriend were talking the other night about music and we were both watching the video to this song. I said one of the girls in the video was pretty and he said 'Yeah but the blonde is fitter'. I asked him if he likes blondes and he said he loved th... (122 words

Unhappy with my boobs. Is surgery the answer?

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13 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - Recently I've been thinking of having a boob job. My Mum can and will pay for it if it's what I really want but now that I have the opportunity, I'm beginning to have some doubts. I don't like the way they look at all, they're very small at 28-30A and not perky and firm, in ... (382 words

I'm in love with a girl who every other guy has made love to! How can I get over her past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

13 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - I have been with my girlfriend for 6 months now, but we've had a thing for a year. Only problem is now that I'm with her, all I can think about is how she hurt me countless times before we officially started dating and how much it hurts to feel so used, as if I was her last ... (475 words

I've broken up with my partner of eight years - have I done the right thing?

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13 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - I've recently broken up with my boyfriend of eight years and I can't decide whether to make the split permanent. It took me ages to make the break - he's kind, generous, affectionate, good round the house and he loves me. On the other hand, our sex life was never great, even at ... (173 words

Insanity from taking birth control pills?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Questions about birth control! I've been on my birth control (Loestrin 24 FE) for over a year now. I've taken it everyday, same time. Lately however, I'm feeling some very awkward side effects. I no longer have ANY libido which makes my fiance believe I'm no longer sexually... (126 words

Why would a 48 year old man be interested in an 18 year old?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Why would a 48 year old posh guy be sexually interested an 18 year old working class girl??? ... (18 words

I married a mama's boy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age - I am just starting to realize that I have married a momas boy,he cant take a dump without asking his mom and dad first,the woman even had the nerve to try and pick out our bedroom suite a few weeks ago,my husband tells me shes just trying to help but shes a spitefull old ... (189 words

Should I lose weight? Would it make my breasts look better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - I'm ashamed to ask anyone directly, and I realize you shouldn't get medical advice from the internet but this isn't a sign of something serious, just something about my appearance that I can't stand! My breasts are disgusting... they're not firm enough, and they are way too... (252 words

My close friend is friends with girls who bullied me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - I have a friend who I don't see very often but we're close and can talk about anything. She went on a school trip abroad with these girls who used to bully me at school and still talk about me behind my back. The only problem is is everyone thinks they're angels because t... (326 words

She hugs me a lot, does she like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

13 May 2011 (M age 26-29 - i like this girl in my class. I've seen her looking at me across the room and she's been hugging me more, i have no idea if she likes me for real or if she's just being friendly. Also i can't stop thinking about her, whatever i do i'm always thinking about her. Any ideas?... (55 words

I like him, she likes him, how can we settle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - I've secretly like this boy about a year, just a little crush, but I never told anyone. So recently I've liked him alot, we've met up in town and we text alot, and I started to properly like him. But, he has a girlfriend, so I wasnt being flirty or clingy. So today, he t... (212 words

How can I make him listen to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - hi..i have been in a relationship for five years now, since college..i am still continuing my studies, while he had just graduated and is currently working in the medical field..i love my partner very very much..he says that he loves me too..he keeps calling me as his wife, and ... (643 words

City girl falling for a country boy, does he like me too?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I just need some clarity without judgment, please! I've known this guy for about five years and over the last couple of years, we've been hanging out a lot. NOT dating; just hanging out and being great friends. Now, I've always been into British men; I've always wanted to go to ... (438 words

Don't know what she means, please help me!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

13 May 2011 (M age 36-40 - Please help me! I just don't know what she means now or she really doesn't want this relationship anymore? Really sorry for the long post but i'm really out now and don't know how to explain it... Thanks so much if u can help me! The questions i'd like to ask: - What d... (1414 words

I can't tell if my boss likes me.

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13 May 2011 (F age 51-59 - I can't tell if my boss likes me or not. Sometimes he'll stare into my eyes and hold long contact (I usually break). He stands very close to me, but I notice he stands close to others at work but maybe a little closer to me. He's very helpful (I now rent his rental home, ... (162 words

What can I do to win this girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

13 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - This is long, but I hope I've made it easy to read! As I sit here typing away, I am crying; crying as so many do, over that one person who is more special to me than life itself. I know my problem is a common one, and doubtless one that is never happily resolved, but a ... (632 words

How could he say this to me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - My husband and I fought over something stupid on Mother's Day...we have not talked to each other about our child since then. On Monday our son had his last soccer game. We all went and some man held the door open for us as he was going out. I said thank you and I heard my ... (153 words

How do I help my boyfriend when he's having trouble ejaculating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I need some advice about my boyfriend's difficulty in ejaculating please. We've been together 6 months and everything is great :) But, when we have sex, although he gets an erection easily, he has difficulties actually ejaculating, so we often stop intercourse as we're ... (424 words

I don't like the changes my body is going through!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

13 May 2011 (? age 41-50 - I have just turned 30 years old six months ago and I am worried because my body is changing in ways I do not like. My breasts are shrinking and it is not because I am losing weight because I have gained 10 lbs in the last six months at the beginning of this year. I was a D-cup ... (118 words

I love my husband but find myself thinking about this other guy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - I've been happily married for 6 years. Suddenly I meet this single guy acquittances from the past and we start chatting everyday. We both realize and keep saying we're really drawn to each other. He also tells me stuff like he wishes I was single and could be in a relationship ... (200 words

I'm worried about my daughter

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4730 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, Is a parent who is really concern about her daughter. My daughter has a baby, she's not with the father, she has another child of 8 years, and she not with the father of either children. The baby's father wanted her to get rid of the baby, but my daughter decide... (241 words

What's a good size diamond for an engagement ring?

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13 May 2011 (M age 41-50 - What is a nice size solitaire diamond for an engagement ring to a tall, slender lady who has a ring size of 5.5? I am looking at just over 1 carat. The quality is impeccable, so I'm not looking for comments on clarity and color...just size. I know they say one month's sala... (161 words

I still love her, is it possible we might get back together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

13 May 2011 (M age 41-50 - I need help deciding what to do about my ex-girlfriend, whom I still love and want back very badly. We dated for about 15 months and everything was great. Then she started feeling overwhelmed by the thought that we might be together forever and she said she needed "a break" ... (385 words

I think my best friend is mad that I'm dating her ex! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - My friend and I have known each other since we were like 7 or 8. I started to really like one of her ex-boyfriends. I asked her how mad she would be, on a scale from 1 to 10, if I liked him. She said about a 2, and told me she wouldn’t care if I dated him. Well, now I’m dati... (140 words

My boyfriend spends a lot of time with a woman in her 60's. I think he should spend more time with me. Am I being unreasonable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Can someone help me with this question? I don't know of anybody being in this situation ever. My boyfriend of nearly 7 months chooses to spend his time with a lady in her 60's rather than with me. He goes to her house every night and through the day on a weekend. He says he ... (141 words

He has photos on his phone of another guy.....what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4728 days ago

13 May 2011 (M age 41-50 - Hi I wonder if you could give me advice. LAst night I had to work late and I checked my BFs phone (we are a gay couple) and seen photos from another guy which he recieved the same night. THe pics are from a guy who he met up with before we got together a few years ago. ... (182 words

My partner wont help with the finances......

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I need some advice. I have been going out with this guy for over a year. We get on well most of the time. But he constantly insults me - he doesn't mean to but it offends me. He doesn't make me feel special anymore. We work togethere and noone at work knows about us. ... (335 words

Why is she acting so cold towards me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

13 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - About four weeks ago, me and the girl whom I love has disconnect me completely by kick me out of her friendlist on fb and ignore me during school time. During these four weeks I did send her messages for asking for forgiveness since there were too much things happened between ... (151 words

He is on holiday with his ex wife and kids, and I havent even had a text from him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - My partner has taken his ex wife and children on holiday this week. He went on Monday and is due back tomorrow. We don't live together officially but have been seeing each other for about 18 months and I love him and he says he loves me. He stops at mine when he hasnt got his ... (213 words

The choice between self-respect and love.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - i need help in making a decision, i dont know whether me and my boyfriend should be apart, my family have come between us. my brother accusing my boyfriend of sleeping with his wife, which is absolutely ridiculous, as he doesnt even know what she looks like. he has embarrassed ... (394 words

How do I get my unambitious too laid back boyfriend to move out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4730 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age 51-59 - I have this live in boyfriend. We have been together for 17 yrs. He's a caring guy but he doesn't want to hardly work. I care about him and I was so in love with him when I first met him.... But he just don't have drive to want anything in life. I feel sorry for him and I stil... (110 words

Should I let her go? My wife says she loves me but is not in love with me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

13 May 2011 (M age 41-50 - My wife told me she loves me, But not in love with me. how should i react to a statment like this. She's been comming to me with these crazy idea's. Like wanting to move to FL. from MI and discussing what would happen to the kids if we were to diviorce. We have been Marrie... (62 words

Am I exaggerating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I'm having a baby in August and my husband wants my inlaws to come two weeks before I'm suppose to give birth. I told him that it was a bad idea because I did not know how I was going to feel. And his family didn't know how to act and that all I wanted before that was ... (252 words

I'm tense about my husband talking to our neighbour, a lady.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - My husband talks to the lady who is our neighbour by hiding from me. I m really tensed about it. He says me she is just a friend. Her husband is also unaware about it....my husband tells me that she is just a friend an now they have shifed to another place and he goes for a ... (105 words

What does the female g-spot feel like? And where is it?

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13 May 2011 (M age 41-50 - hello. Just wondering if you lovely people could tell me what the female g spot feels like. And how far in it is. Many thanks ... (25 words

If your ex is trying to make you jealous, does it mean they want you back

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13 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - If your ex is trying to make oy jealous, does it mean they want you back? He up with me after an interferring relative made him believe I was bad-mouthing him behind his back to her. He never confronted me about it he just ended the relationship. he wanted to remain friends... (231 words

Is ignoring my ex a bad idea? I want to get back together but I don't think he takes me seriously

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - i broke up with my ex because he stopped spending time with me. he had a lot going on in his life, including being depressed and incredibly unhappy with himself (before all of that, we had a blast/great relationship and he talked about the future/possible kids./marriage etc). i ... (405 words

Why is my ex acting like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4670 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I've known my ex for 4 years now, we met in 2007, were friends with benfits in the end of 2007 after being friends for a year and also in 2008 and sometimes on wards if we didn't have partners but he would always want me over anyone else. so i basically call him a ex. i've been ... (303 words

Dating him for 4 years but he is flirting with other girls! Why am I not enough?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - I've been dating him off and on for four years. I peeked at his phone hes flirting with other girls and trying to hire hookers. Why arent I good enough? Why is he so verbally abusive? ... (38 words

Why wont he tell his family about me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Can someone please tell me why my boyfriend of 7 month would not tell his family that he is going with me. He hasnt nothing to be ashamed of about me. I just dont understand him. My friends and family know about him and have met him. We even live in a small village and live ... (191 words

A good friend screwed you over.....what would you do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Let just say a supposed good friend lied and screwed you over and you weren't happy with them about it. Would you... Give them the benefit of the doubt? Let them know you are annoyed at them? Not say anything about it and just move on? I'm just curious on which one... (138 words

He will not share the computer fairly. How do I get almost equal time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - My boy friend and I share the Internet. He lives in our home as his Dad is away working where he can get work, and his mother left them a long time ago. We both paid for it, but he did put in a little more for the computer as he wanted a better computer. Anyway the real pro... (157 words

Can I have some ideas on how to stand up to him please? he bosses me around all the time. Everything is his way.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - Is it normal when you are in a relationship for the guy to make all the decisions? If we want to choose a video it ends up not being we. It becomes him. I wanted to watch film that his sister said was really cool about a fashion designer called coco chanel. and he just said no ... (123 words

How do I stop myself getting so attached to guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi there, agony aunts. Just wondering if anyone has any tips on avoiding getting attached to guys. I am recently out of a long term relationship and very much playing the single card, but every time I get with somebody, for example, making out in a club, or hanging out a ... (240 words

How do I get girls to notice me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

13 May 2011 (M age 26-29 - I don't really have any friends, and I want to know how can I make friends, and get girls to like me. Throughout life, I haven't been good at this at all. I don't go to regular school, I attend cyber school. I realized that by attending cyber school, I would have to give up my ... (175 words

Confused boyfriend....what to do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - I've got a confused boyfriend...the last 2 weeks hes been distant with me and today was the icing on the cake, ive tried to be patient but in the end i had to cut to the point and tell him hes been distancing himself and if he wants to end things he should just tell me. He ... (179 words

I'm reluctant to reccomend my friend for a job at my workplace

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - About 2 years ago a woman I worked with left the company as she decided she wanted a more flexible job  so she could have more time with her 2 children. I kept in touch with her via facebook and she often texts me. She has now decided that she wants to come back to her old ... (375 words

Suggestions needed please on how to cope with his ex's and still be friends with them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4730 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hey so this isn't a huge problem but my boyfriend is still friends with a couple of his exes from high school. We have been out of high school for 4 years and none of their relationships were very long. But he wants us to all hang out together. I don't have a problem with this, ... (89 words

Will I lose him it he continues to text his ex? It really upsets me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hey, I have a problem with this girl texting my boyfriend and would really appreciate some advice on how to control my emotions over it. My boyfriends been with me for 8 months and things are okay. The only time we argue is over this girl. She's his ex-girlfriend fr... (579 words

Should I go to tell him I'm sorry and get back to him again? Or should I dump him?

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13 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - well, I knew the guy who from Europe. he's in the same school with me. Last Friday he gave me a booty call at 3 am. I took my friend there, he was so mad at me but later he took me to his room and grabbed my boobs.He realized that he did a wrong thing and sent me home, after ... (227 words

Our relationship ended. but now I want to talk. How do I open negotiations to re-start our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I want to be happy. Im going to be happy with my boyfriend, we're going to be happy. And we're going to shut everybody else out. But right now, i need help, okay he's called all that day when i ended it. And now today's the second day and no call not even once. So if i'm read... (173 words

How many friends do you have?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

13 May 2011 (M age 51-59 - OK I am wondering how many friends--and I mean real friends--can a person honestly have. I am not counting Facebook friends, but real friends. To me a real friend is someone you feel a kinship with, someone you identify with and who identifies with you. The older I get... (90 words

My boyfriend and I got selected to same college, but he doesn't want to come along

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - me and my bf love each other like mad.we are in a ldr since two years. recently we gave entrance exams and i and my bf got selected to the same college. but my bf doesnt want to come.he said he will drop this year and will try for some better college. i tried to con... (195 words

20 yr old female virgin

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I'll be 20 years old in a a few months and I'm having a hard time being ok with being a virgin. I've also never had a boyfriend. I had my first kiss last year. It took forever because I would always reject guys thinking my first kiss was gonna be perfect. One day I got ... (286 words

Why does oral sex make him feel like he needs to pee?

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13 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend wont let me give him oral sex for some reason..he says its because when i give him oral sex it makes him feel like he is going pee!!i dont understand why its very fusteratung like im doing something wrong but he says its not me..why does it make him feel like he i... (58 words

Do I come to grips with losing everything I know?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

13 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - My girlfriend lives 8 hours away. I want to move down there with her but would prefer her to move here, it is so far away from everything I know. I am a country guy bread in full; she lives in the big City L.A. It feels strange to think I would be living some place with a huge ... (169 words

I'm scared my mother has ovarian cancer!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4730 days ago

13 May 2011 (F - I am very upset and keep crying. My mother had blood work done and urine as well recently. She is 60 years old..they found blood in her urine..they tested again and still found blood. They did a urine culture. He said it was bacteria but not a UTI which i thought was weird b/c ... (277 words

I don't know why I cheated in the first place...

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13 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - dear cupid ok ive been with my boyfriend for 5 monthes and im completly in love with him he treats me right! he knows when im happy and sad and he doesnt even have to look at me we can be talking on the phone he knows exactly how to make me happy and i cant stay ,mad at him for ... (285 words

I have nice guy syndrome

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

13 May 2011 (M age 26-29 - I'm a freshman in highschool and as you would assume, I have a huge crush on a particular girl. She's really nice and we've been good friends for a long time now but it's only recently that I decided to confess my feelings to her (via text... if that matters) It went like ... (507 words

I did something I regret... What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I did something that I really regret on web-cam a few months ago. It was with my internet boyfriend. I still can't believe I did that. Now that we've already broke up, all I can feel is regret. I'm still a virgin, never been a real relationship, kissed, touched or whatever ... (151 words

Guys, after a fight with a girl, how would you act?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I had a fight with this on again off again guy of mine (he was being hypocritical and two-faced) half a year ago and we haven't spoken to each other since. Yet, if we're ever at the same place (we have a circle of mutual friends)he'll always stands REALLLLY close behind me.... (149 words

My love story...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

13 May 2011 (M age 26-29 - Hi, I'm a 16 year old boy living in a very popular city. 5 months ago i went with my family to Mexico for Christmas vacation, and i fell in love with a girl. :/ My parents actually introduced me to her when she started crying over a mistake she made about love. We both started ... (322 words

How can I feel better about my appearance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - So I was recently talking to my boyfriend and I mentioned that I don't like myself and feel fat. He then gave me a big speech about how much he loves me and that I look beautiful and attractive, even though I am overweight(though not obese, I'm 5'2" and about 155lbs) Now ... (181 words

I'm not sure if I love him for the right reasons. Should I marry him anyway?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - Here's the thing... my fiance and I have been together for a year and a half, and have lived together for a year. We are planning on getting married in October on our 2 year anniversary. But... I have many doubts about marrying him. It's not wedding stress, because we're ... (222 words

I can't trust my crush...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - So this story has four main people. My Crush "Al" The Evil Girl "EG" My crush's and my mutual friend "Pete" and me I have like Al for a long time. I was kind of starting to think that he liked me too. EG also likes him and figures out that I like him too. Peopl... (199 words

I need help !

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4731 days ago

13 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - I need some help and this is my last resort. I'm 14 years old, and well things have been building up in my head for a long time and now its starting to come out. My whole life people have made me feel like scum people who clamied to be my friend have made me feel like im ... (709 words

Is anyone else annoyed at Facebook?

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13 May 2011 (M age 41-50 - I hate Facebook. There, I said it. I hate the way most people use text messaging, too. I do not participate on Facebook, but most of my friends and family do. That's fine. It's a nice way to connect with a lot of people at once and share those photos of the Grand Canyon... (811 words

How can I make the best out of what I got?

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13 May 2011 (M age 36-40 - Hello, I have a small penis and have entered a relationship with a curvy woman. We have had sex before and she says she has enjoyed it, but has also told me it could be better. She has told me she was going to ask her friends about positions for men with a smaller penis. I... (84 words

Why does he think he can control me just because we have a child?

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13 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - okay my ex and i have a child together he is with someone else which is fine cos i am now seeing someone to. but he won't see our baby he says he tries but he dumps her when he has something better to do. well anyway he was supposed to mind her while i went out he told me ... (136 words

Internet love gone wrong...

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13 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hey :) Okay i really need some help x im 15 years old and well im on a couple of teenage dating websites, i only joined them at first to make some friends but i met this really lovely guy. Hes so sweet and we clicked instantly. weve been talking ... (450 words

I'm ready now, but he isn't. What should I do?

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13 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for about 8 months. We are very close and care so much for each other. It's like having a best friend and a boyfriend in one, and I'm really happy, but I'm getting a little frustrated with the fact that we aren't having sex. We've both made sex mi... (380 words

Please give me suggesstion what shall I do?

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13 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - i am female of age 20. i am in love with man who is married and has three kids. he love me first and put proposals. i refused and said its not good. then he said me he cannot live without me. he will die, but still he says me he wants his family as well as me. when i talk him ... (117 words

What elements make for mindblowing sex?

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13 May 2011 (M age 41-50 - My wife and I have been together 10 years and I am trying to figure out why sometimes sex with the same partner can be so blah and other times so incredible. Usually, for us, it's blah or double blah. I have a hard time making my wife cum and I want to be a better lover. H... (552 words

Troubles in the bedroom, how do I ask him to get checked?

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13 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I am currently going out with a fantastic guy. We are very much in love; however, whilst engaging in sexual intercourse he has problems ejaculating, and even if he does so, it usually takes hours, which puts him off sex. I am inquiring as to whether it is me, psychological (ie. ... (127 words

I thought we were a long term couple, but now I'm not sure what to think...

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13 May 2011 (F age - Dear Cupid: I feel like my boyfriend is getting distant from me and i don't know why. i thought everthing was going good, he hardly calls me or text's. i'm the one that calls him to see how his day went. I love this person i waited a long time to find a man like him. He... (114 words

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