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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Every woman I get close to regards me as a friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello World! So here's the situation: I am fat, which is a physically unattractive thing but that's it, I'm too weak to lose weight. Besides my physical disability, cause it is one whether you accept it or not, I am a very humorous and entertaining young male specimen... (288 words)

Shall I move in with my boyfriend now or let my parents get used to the idea first?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need abit of advice from any parents or people who have recently moved out of their parents house. My boyfriend has his own house, shared with a house mate at the moment, and it is alot closer to my work than my parents house where I live. Over the last couple of weeks I have ... (315 words)

35 year old virgin - have I missed the chance at relationships?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Do guys prefer virgins? Cause I'm still one at 35 years old. :( Been told its something to be respected. I've never really thought I was pretty. Is there still a chance for me or am I officially done in the "relationship department"? ... (45 words)

Is there an alternative to viagra?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - my friend has a problem we haven't had sex in 8 years we have two kids,he won't take viargra. is there something else that i can give him like a liquid? he doesn't like taking pills, or using cream. I need help in a hurry. And oh by the the way he is not gay or cheating.... (59 words)

How can I coax guys out of the closet and have a boyfriend again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

16 May 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - OK, so, in March, I ended a year and a quarter length long-distance relationship to be with a guy who was in my local area, who I then got broken up with by for stupid reasons, long story xD Basically, the latter of the two was my first 'real' boyfriend, and although I'm ove... (200 words)

I dumped my boyfriend and found out his best friend had plotted against me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend of three years split up a week ago. It was mainly my desicion because *cue long background* a few weeks earlier we went out and got drunk. He was aggravating me, and being stupid, I bitched him to his best friend (who is a woman). We didn't speak for days ... (1273 words)

Is she looking for reasons to break up with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

16 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi peeps, I'm feelin' a bit down at the moment, namely because I'm on the edge of breaking up with my girlfriend, last saturday she said some things... reasons why we should break up, the day after I called my best friends to come over, I talked it over with them and according ... (302 words)

Jealous Husband

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband (I’ll call him Karl) and I married last year. I’m in love – my husband is the best person I’ve ever met and will ever meet. We’re expecting our first child in a couple of weeks and are very excited (and nervous!). My problem is this: Karl is dealing with depressi... (845 words)

Is there any way I can pull her towards me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

16 May 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - i like this girl and have always been since the past one year but nothing has happened bcoz she said that she didnt like me that way but only as a friend, so i didnt even bother asking her.....this is infact the first girl i have liked soooo much. She is very smart, pretty, f... (273 words)

Afraid of getting into a relationship, hate the guys who just try to 'get some' and don't know how to talk to girls. Help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

16 May 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey, I dont think there is a clear way for people to have answers for my problems but eh it's worth a shot right? - First off, I'm afraid of getting into a relationship because I feel I wouldnt be as good a boyfriend as the others that are out there. Is this really somethin... (137 words)

What's the best way to tell my friends I'm back with my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hello everyone. ive recently got back with an ex after considering it for ages. he hurt me badly but i've decided to give him a second chance and so far everything is going well. i told my family and they weren't best pleased about it as he had hurt me before. i'm now dreading... (91 words)

My extremely irritating guy friend is ruining my love life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have an extremely irritating guy friend and he's wrecking my love life. Sometimes his inappropriate jokes or comments make my skin crawl. He keeps flirting in a really gross way, and I know that he thinks that if he keeps doing it, that I will fall for him. It's really ... (99 words)

My friend really frustrates me and I feel I have to isolate my time with her so she doesn't become upset.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

- Dear Aunties, I have been in a friendship with my best friend for over 10 years. We have had our share of ups and downs but we have always promised each other to be upfront and straight if we had a problem. Recently, we went for cofee and I bumped into a guy that I had an af... (579 words)

Girls: Do her actions say she is annoyed but won't admit it and why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - If something happened between two friends of yours but you in some way had some involvement in it, but aren't sure if one of your friends are annoyed at you for it. Does these actions say that they are.... I briefly saw my friend back at college a few days after this incid... (252 words)

Decoding boy signals - friends with benefits

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, So I'm new here, but have been reading a lot of previous questions with great interest. I'm in a bit of tricky situation, which to be honest is probably my own making, and I'm feeling a bit lost as to where to turn. The background - I'm 27 he is 31. We have the same jo... (1301 words)

I'm thinking about a threesome but am worried it will ruin what we have.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been together for 3 years now and we have a 3 month old baby. We have talked about having a three some with a girl i used to party with and occasionally mess around with. I had problems trusting him in the past but after our son was born i completely ... (76 words)

On the inside I feel ugly and fat.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have put on loads of weight recently, and now i feel really ugly. It makes me feel awful, but i'll be honest, knowing that i'm pretty stops me from doing anything about my weight. I'm a size 16, but have quite big bones, so i'm just really lucky it doesn't look that bad. ... (267 words)

Should I meet this guy at a hotel?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Should I meet at hotel? Hi, Any advice is really appreciated! Im just out of my only relationship 3 1/2 years and have never really 'dated'. Well i met someone when i was away down the country a few weeks ago, we kissed and me and my friend went to his hotel with his... (245 words)

How do I behave toward his daughter when she comes to visit?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age - My partner has one daughter who lives with her mum. When I first met her it was on a day out with her dad when we went to visit her and I thought she had no time for me on that day. I kept my thoughts to myself because I was unsure. About 6 months after our visit to her she... (364 words)

I want to tell my professor how I feel but I don't want to make her never talk to me again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - heeeelp please!!! I have a huge crush on my female professor. I am also female. She actually is no longer my profesor because I have now graduated. She told me to keep in touch with her and we always got along very well. I know she is married but that doesnt always matter ... (124 words)

How do I ask out this friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So here's the thing, I have this friend (female) that I'm actually really into, I see her about 2 times a week (but in a group of friends, not one on one). She's coming to a house party on this week, I just want to know how to pull her aside, out of earshot from others and say ... (84 words)

I need to walk away from my married lover for good!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some help to walk away from my married lover for good. We have been together for 4 years, hes in his early forties and im 26 with a young child. Over the years he has hurt me numerous times, told me he was leaving his wife almost every week, got me pregnant several ... (164 words)

Did she purposely text me and pretend it was an accident to let me know that she's thinking about me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - So I've been seeing this girl for about 2 months and about 3 weeks ago I found a text to her ex bf that lives out of state now and I approached her on it. For the next few weeks we have not hung out at all, we've been texting here and there, just casual conversation now. So ... (450 words)

He doesn't trust me because of his past but how can we go forward with no trust?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - hi aunts and uncles, i would really appreciate your perspective on this. i have been with my partner 3 years , been living together for 18 months. i moved to the other side of the country to be with him. he has 2 children from his previous marraige who we have most weekends and ... (622 words)

He left me to be the 'good son' of his parents...he will go through an arranged marriage

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - We're both from the same cultural and religious background, except his parents are conservative and very traditional. We were in an on/off relationship for 5-6 years. Now his parents have recently started talking about finding a girl for him. I tried persuading him to tell his ... (299 words)

A quick (honest) survey: How often do you and your partner have sex?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - This is something I am interested in as this often comes up on Dear Cupid, how often are couples actually having sex? I know personally I feel that my boyfriend and I are not having enough sex, I am 24 and he is nearly 28 yet we have sex once or twice a month. I have sp... (409 words)

I have asked her to be my girlfriend but she has not given me an answer! What can I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I love my Friend, we are like just friends for about 1.5 years, now I feel that I am in love. I want her as my Girlfriend and i've told her but she is not giving me positive answer. one thing which could be important that she does not want to break our friendship and i want ... (90 words)

I'm a girl and do you think this girl likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so im bi/lesbian and i think i hve good gaydar you'll understand in a second... ok so i think this girl likes me and wondering if you thought it too heres the evidence shes usually sad and moody and think its about me because she'll be sitting alone and when her frends ... (209 words)

Questions following a break up.......

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16 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, My BF and i have been together for 4 years. He broke up with me once before and then asked me back and i accepted. Then last year around September i found him talking to some girls online that he met online on a social networking website. He was talki... (572 words)

I don't like the way my friend acts now that she has a boyfriend. It's like they're bullying me! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I posted this question before but didn't get any replies :/ probably because I posted it quite late at night, anyway.. Me and my friend have known each other for around 6 years, she always used to joke around and was always up for a laugh. Recently though I have noticed tha... (478 words)

She says all I want is sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hi. My fiance makes me feel like im a sex pest. Since we have been together i am the one who always comes on to her. She never ever comes on to me not in the 5 years we have been together. She says all i want is sex. Yes i have a high sex drive but would be happy if it was 2 to ... (132 words)

How long will I suffer following my husband's cheating? I don't want to think about it anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age - id like to post my feeling towards my cheated husband. how long can i recover this pain in my heart. im tired of thinking negative thoughts about him. please help me how long do i suffer of this angry feeling towards him after his cheating. he remain silent. he never argue. im ... (71 words)

My boyfriend still has a girl calling and messaging him all the time!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 2 month still has a girl calling and messaging him all the time!! Ive always found it very hard to trust men as ive been badly hurt before. Then along comes this amazing guy who treats me like a princess and i actually trusted him then all of sudden i feel th... (381 words)

Do I let my ex know that I have moved on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I was in a relationship for 5 years right out of high school. During the realtionship he lied and cheated multiple times and I stayed because I was young and stupid. I mean I took him back after everytime he cheated.... so dumb I even had 2 abortions because I knew that he ... (257 words)

Painful stubble after I shave my pubic hair!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm fifteen and everytime I shave, a day later I have itchy painful stubble, tiny red dots/marks everywhere and a couple of large lumpy red pimples that are sore to touch. I always exfoliate, soften the hair with warm water, use a quality razor and a mosturizer as shaving cream ... (122 words)

My male housemate doesn't talk with me when the other female housemate is there!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I share with 2 other people. He moved in first,and we got along really well. I had a crush on him. He taught me swimming, played cards, ... pretty much flirt with me. Then the other girl moved in (who is older and not good looking, but she has a cheerful personality). They ... (242 words)

He wont introduce me to his family, am I getting upset over nothing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend wont introduce me to his family. I asked him at the weekend why, but he didnt give me an answer. He just said I dont muscle into peoples business so I dont expect people to do the same with me. We have being together for 6 month now. I know he is a private person b... (150 words)

He keeps saying he wants to be with me but then he gives an impression that he wishes he had never met me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out a little while and he seemed happy enough, a few days ago he suddenly said he was not longer happy, so we decided to meet up and talk about it, we then decided it was in our best interest to take it slowly, and that our main issue was ... (245 words)

Colleagues are saying I have a cheeky smile, what does this mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - It is so confusing when people throw comments about you. I have just started work in a new place and so far three women have told me I have a CHEEKY smile. I just don't know how to take it, whether it is a good thing (complement) or not! Can someone out there help me explain ... (64 words)

My best friend's wife.........

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Alrighty guys and gals,I have a little bit of a problem. For the past year or more now I've had feelings for my best friend's wife.Now before you tell me it's wrong and to let it go, I know, I tried, and thought I was over it......well the feelings came rushing back.Now... (440 words)

How do I get over the hate I have for his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey(: i'd like to tell you of an ongoing issue i have with one of my boyfriends ex's. She's a true cow, a real evil piece of work and whats more, shes the mother of my boyfriends 3 year old daughter. He's taken her to court, he's tried reasoning with her even his mum has taken ... (183 words)

Taking a one-month long holiday and leaving my daughter with my mother, is it ok for me to do this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Agony aunts, Thanks for taking the time to read my post. I have an inner conflicts that is troubling me. Me and my husband are planning a one-month trip to the USA, and i have a two year old which i will leave back home with my mother. Is it right for me to do that? Sh... (126 words)

My husband cheated but we are working things out, how do I get over everything that happened?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age - My husband cheated on me with one of my friend who split from her partner last year. I knew something was wrong as he was not himself but I did not find out until a week after he left me in june. Up until then we had a full sex life and continued going out together socialising ... (440 words)

Birthday ideas for my online guy?

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16 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello again aunts and uncles! It's been a while since i posted on here, but i'm back again for more help and advice... A couple of months ago, i finally binned off my ex and joined a dating site. I met a man on there and we have been dating for about 3/4 weeks now. Things ... (186 words)

He is adding girls on a social networking site, should I say something to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - If your boyfriend was adding other girls on a social network site, would you say something to him? Girls he doesnt know, girls who are lap dancers, work for anne summers parties, strippers, work in porn industry or are just a lot younger than him.... (46 words)

How do I approach girls I like and what should I say to them to make them like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - You know, i'm new here.. Pls i'm lacking behind, in the sense that i don't have the knowledge of approaching a girl i love (i.e words that i will speak to convice her and that will make her love me more.. In general the tactics to win her heart. I will be very greatful if ... (64 words)

Little things playing on my mind....is this an issue or am I being silly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello- I hope someone can give me some good advice...I don't know whether this is an issue or whether I'm just being silly. I've been with my boyfriend for 3months and its been going at a really fast pace- he's 42 and I'm 39. We are in love and its a lovely relationship, we... (261 words)

Do I dump him and stop putting up with him hurting me over and over? Or do I just get over it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend never invites me out with his friends. They are people I know, so they are not strangers and a separate bunch of people from me. I have brought it to my bf's attention after he upset me once night by not inviting me out somewhere and then I caught him at a pub that... (274 words)

Going crazy for a friend......

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4682 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont know what to do. i just met this guy 2 weeks ago. i honestly feel im calling him to much and feel that he is getting annoyed by me. because i call him every day he does answer my calls but he talks to me like if im bothering him.. i dont know how to stop calling him i ... (97 words)

What really happened here? He said he was leaving her for me and would step up and be a man, but I have not heard from him in a month!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4697 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, My question is, I'm confused about my x, we broke up about a year ago...we didn't see each other for the whole year, we were under strict rules not to, after the year was up he came right to me, told me how much he had missed me, loved me wanted to be with me, he cried... (385 words)

My husband doesn't help me financially!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi my husband doesnt help me financially, im unemployed and its my last year at varsity. we have only 1 child and he pays only for school transport and i pays a school fees, i only survives with a money i get from doing people's hair. when he gets paid i dont get a cent from ... (110 words)

How to stop crying over a guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How to stop crying over a guy? Here a brief description of my problem. For two years I've been chatting with one guy over the Internet. First half a year I was practically obsessed with him. The thing is that he's from USA, and I'm from France. I woke up earlier in order... (307 words)

When should I just accept it is never going to happen for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - At what point should a guy who's never had a girlfriend, never kissed, held hands, or ever had anything more than a friendly hug from a girl just accept that it's never going to happen for them? Let's be realistic here, after a certain age and no romantic experience people ... (243 words)

How do I know if I'm really in love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I know if I'm in love or just infactuated? I've been with my boyfriend for five months ans I find myself always thinking of him. We talk every day and text multiple times a day. We were seeing each other 3 to 4 times a week but now he is away for work for 4 months :( ... (73 words)

Falling for the guy I am having casual sex with.....what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so, there is this guy that i am sleeping with at the moment and he is amazing. we started sleeping together under the condition that our arangment is purley just sex.. so we have been spending every weekend together for a while now and i have fallen for him. I feel that i ... (115 words)

We are having huge issues lately, could this be because he is cheating on me with a girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

16 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and i have been having HUGE issues lately, I really don't know why they started, the things he does are kinda making me mad though. He gets mad over every little thing i do wrong, he is always angry, he has been ignoring me sexualy, and he will not even... (113 words)

Does this mean anything or am I looking too deep into this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My friend told me how an attractive girl (lets call her Daisy) said I was funny but don't talk much at a volleyball event(his sister is on the team and he was there and overheard "Daisy" say this). The following week she came into one of my classes because she was out of school ... (253 words)

What was the point in doing the right thing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - When my ex betrayed me and dumped me callously for no reason, he somehow managed to turn everyone against me aswell. I don't know how he did it. I was shocked and devasted when we brokeup, it was completely out of the blue. I thought these people were my friends, but they also ... (286 words)

Is it normal that sex hurts?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - When im going to have sex I only want my bfs penis to go half way in it feels good for me but when he tries to go all the way in omg it hurts is that normal??? i havent gone to a doctor to ask im shy can anyone help? please thank you :)... (55 words)

I think my cousin's crush likes me! I feel horrible, how do I fix this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel really horrible, I have the feeling my cousins crush likes me, shes always complimenting me and I dont know what to do, I never compliment her back because shes my cousins crush and I grew up with my cousin were really close, but the thing is I really like talking to her ... (185 words)

Torn between 4 guys! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - OMG! I'm torn between 4 guys!! D: I like boy number 1 and boy number 2 who are brothers, and always look at me. Boy number 3 is older, hes 19 while im 15, and he's going off to college soon. And boy number 4 is just one year older than me, and he's recently been looking at me ... (91 words)

In-laws control my wife and are ruining what could be a good marriage!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 May 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I have been married for 2.5 years. Before the wedding we had a great relationship. I just recevied my Masters Degree and started a great job after being jobless for 2 months. The wedding was beautiful. Ok now imagine the sound of a car smashing into a b... (666 words)

Does performance matter with women?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I got out of a real nasty relationship one year ago and have not had sex since then. He was my first, and i am 25 i was with him for five years. My question is this:: Im not super experienced in bed, and do guys find that as a turn off? I mean I HAVE THE LOOK OF A PORNSTAR pe... (261 words)

How do I initiate phone sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4722 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a little embarrassed about asking this question.So I'll be direct. How do you seduce your lover to have phone sex with you? I'm shy but my man is a little bit more "experienced" than me But Im just curious and want to try it because I've never done it before and I wan... (74 words)

I'm getting bored with our relationship, we never talk. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in a relationship for almost a year now and things are not good at it is when we first started.. I'm getting bored with our relationship..I'm working and my bf is studying. he doesn't want to get disturb during his review, so i don't call or txt him. when we have the ... (129 words)

How can I get my girlfriend's trust back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4722 days ago

16 May 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Well I didn't have trust with my girlfriend. Do it let to a big situation. Bottom line her mom cursed me out. And my gf doesn know what to do. Because she doesnt know if she could trust me anymore:( how can I prove it to her that ima change and give her my full trust:(?... (56 words)

Does Smiling REALLY matter?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Does "smiling" REALLY matter?? Been "told" I'm "pretty" and have a nice "smile" (hardly ever use it though) but I never believe it. I don't think I'm "pretty" at all. ... (38 words)

Is it normal to have a crush on someone else when you're in a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4722 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently started a new job and met a guy there who I've developed a tiny crush on. What's bothering me is that I have a boyfriend who I love very much. We've been together for almost two years and in that whole time I haven't had a 'crush' on anyone else. The other da... (188 words)

Do rebound relationships work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex girlfriend broke up with me a month ago after 2 years together...and now she already likes someone else, and i have a feeling that this is her rebound relationship. We're still friends and talk every once in awhile and I think that that she's still in love with me, but ... (65 words)

Great relationship until he moved, now the distance isn't just about geography.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in this relationship for 3 plus years. The relationship is quite intense and we connect at a deep, soulful level. Unfortunately, A couple months ago, my partner moved cross country to seek work. He found a job and settled there. While we were together in the ... (292 words)

What to do if he pushes you away too much

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16 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi my name is alice. to start this off .. i fell inlove with a boy we'll call D. for three years now. we shared the same feelings so i thought. but , about six months ago, i lost my virginity to this fellow. and efter he acted weird(it was not his first time) when he... (461 words)

Should I let go of his past and continue our relationship, or move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So my boyfriend and I have been together going on three years now. We've known eachother for a long time, all throughout middle school, and high school and the years after. So we know eachothers past relationships very well. When we first got together he always told me he ... (1020 words)

Wife will not have sex with me if she's sober

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16 May 2011 (M)

age - My wife will not have sex with me unless she has several drinks in her. We have been married for over 20 years and this has been the case since the begining. When I was younger, I knew that this was kind of disfunctional and I tried to talk to her about it, but the behavior ... (189 words)

Contacted by my first years later, and he wants me to behave like a whore

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age - I am 55 yrs. old. Out of the blue and old boyfriend of mine from high school, contacted via facebook..He was my first. I was 17 years old and was what i thought was true love. I was inexperienced and scared back then. Throghout many years I have kept those images and feelings ... (438 words)

Should I move in with a guy who cheated on me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a long distance relationship for 4 years. Recently I found out that he was having sex with other women about every month. I was not happy about that at all. Left but he is trying to keep it together. He said that he always saw me as his future. I told him toda... (129 words)

One spot that seems too sensitive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello! So my guy and I will have our foreplay, but there is one spot on my clit that seems to be just too much for me. Such as it is so sensitive it hurts. Why is this?... (39 words)

Is my wife of 21 years cheating?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

16 May 2011 (M)

age - Well here goes. I suspect I already know the answer to this question but here goes anyways. I suspect my wife of 21 years is cheating on me. Over the last 2 years my wife has really changed. She is from the Philippines and the last time she went home she started getting lots ... (811 words)

My ex seems to be going out of his way to avoid me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i dated my ex for about 8 months before he broke up with me for reasons that I still don't know. and i didn't push the issue or demand reasons because i figured if he doesn't want to be with me, no amount of begging or tears would change his mind. So i accepted this breakup and ... (190 words)

How do I know he is serious about me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been having an emotional affair with a married man. I have fallen in love with him. I have been in an unhappy marriage for the past few years and I have finally told my husband the truth about the way I am feeling. I am prepared to leave my marriage. It is my hope that I ... (228 words)

Getting emails from the ex's new g/f

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I broke up with my ex-boyfriend a year ago. He was really a kind of insecure guy and very nervous to me. A year later he suddenely contact me and started to talking to me. He may have heard some sad news of my family. At this time he told me he has a chinese ... (457 words)

I may never see my ex again after the next time we meet... should I ask for my possessions back?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

16 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all, When me and my girlfriend of 4 months were together, I would often leave a long sleeved hooded top at hers. Eventually it got to the point where I would never take it with me. When we split up back in February due to the fact that I'm leaving town later this month... (382 words)

My current ex couldn't handle me talking to my previous ex!

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16 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This hurts so bad. And to warn you guys this might be a long post. So this guy and I have been dating for almost three months. I love him, I really do. However I still talk to an ex of mine. Now let me just make this clear...I do love my ex, but we are just friends! That's all ... (568 words)

Should I text him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

16 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi:) Was out a couple of weeks ago and met this guy thats living in another country - he living in uk and im in ireland. He was really nice and we exchanged numbers. Sent him a text the next day basically just saying hi. He replied and we texted a little bit. That was last week ... (174 words)