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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do you successfully pursue a Capricorn man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age - A mutual attraction developed between me and a Carpricorn man that I used to work with. Nothing happened but he was the one who initiated all the indirect flirting and the staring and the prying personal information out of me. I left the company nearly a year ago and I h... (336 words)

Why is my boyfriend not into fingering?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4707 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why does my bf not seem into fingering?? Well he hardly ever does it let alone oral sex... he's done it three times in the last year. If he fingers me its not for very long and he always wips his fingers on my legs or on my belly. Makes me feel like he doesn't want to be there ... (105 words)

Should I be happy that she thought my messages were nice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4705 days ago

30 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - ive liked this girl for a few weeks now and we live about 30 mins away so we speak mostly over facebook. since we have been talking we have been flirting and that and all of the signs have pointed to her liking me and people have told me that it sounds like she likes me. ... (386 words)

How can he think the world of me and then treat me so badly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4707 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm so confused.I was seeing this guy recently who is a nice guy in some ways, but he gets in moods sometimes. He walked out of a bar once and left me in there on my own because he was in a mood because i had arranged to go and see a show, and he couldn't go there with me, ... (1520 words)

He told me he's missing my company. What does that mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, what does it mean if a guy says "I'm missing your company"? My bf of 7 months has been away on a stag weekend (his friend is the stag) for 2 days now, and he sent me a text to say goodnight and that he is missing my company...what does that mean? Does it mean I am just ... (86 words)

Am I being slutty? How do I regain my self respect?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - all my friends (in a jokey way) always call me slutty and its always just been a bit of a laughy joke, but i really think i am, i seriously cant help it but its not like i have sex with loads of boys just i flirt with different boys at the same time, but recently i think i have ... (146 words)

I have feelings for my female friend, but I don't know how to tell her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4704 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hello... well, it appears that i have got myself into a really really annoyingly stupid situation. see. i like a girl. a lot. she's amazing and funny and too polite and kind. and we have a banter going about a lot of things, mainly about lesbian crushes. (although she s... (241 words)

Is it virtual love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4705 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been talking to a guy that I met on the internet a little over a month ago. He had posted a personal ad where he specified that he was looking for someone to talk to about anything and everything, and so I responded and now we communicate (emails and texts) several days a ... (226 words)

Should I leave him? Or am I blinded by the stupid things he does?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4704 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I've been in a relationship for a year and a half, everything was perfect. I have the perfect boyfriend, really, but I feel, and have been feeling like breaking up because little things DO GET ON MY NERVES. Here's the problem : - He is irresponsible - He ac... (665 words)

I cheated on my long term boyfriend, but I don't feel guilty at all!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - well... i've been in a relationship for almost 5 years, and so far, it's been ok... Lately we've been fighting a lot, mostly beacuse, even though we've been together for a really long time, he doesn't trust me. Sometimes it seems like he's the one that should not be trusted..... (222 words)

How can I cut ties with this amazing man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys, hope you are all well. I need advice on best way to cut ties from a guy. As I'm not liking the person I'm becoming. Ok, so I'm 30 and I met guy who's 27, about 3 months ago. We met in a bar. I'd just moved back to the big city and moved to flat and looking for a job. ... (335 words)

He's my best friend, but I think I love him. Should I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in love with my best friend. I know he likes me back because we always hug and everything. I don't wanna tell him cause I think it will ruin our friendship and I don't wanna lose that but I can't stop thinking about him. Should I tell him I love him??... (52 words)

I want to send this guy pictures of me, but I'm slightly overweight. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I put up a profile for fun and have been talking to this guy. He lives pretty far in another state. We didn't meet on a dating site but just had a connection (pun Not intended) So the time has kind of come for us to exchange pictures. The problem is I'm a bit overweight. ... (276 words)

My wife admitted to cheating, but she can't bring herself to end it with them!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

30 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I had a loving marriage 8 years back. I love her very much. She is a very sexy lady and she has had a large number of admirers because of this. Now she is interested in them and sleeping with them when I am not around. When I caught her, she admitted it but cant end ... (76 words)

Why can't I find a girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a 27 year-old guy, and I'm single. My problem is that I feel really like no girls ever really feel attracted to me, and because of this I'm normally on my own and feel I'll likely see my days out alone. I don't think I'm that awful to look at. I do have my flaws but who... (413 words)

How do I get a long distance relationship back into wanting to love me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age - I fell into a long distance online love relationship. Unfortunately we never met, but he promised we would, till I brought up life after death, and where we'll spend eternity. He claimed to be a Christian, but I was quickly told to get away, and that we are not on the same ... (368 words)

Body language signs of the guy I'm interested in...am I over-reading into it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I had dinner with 3 of my guy friends (more like acquaintance though), one of whom im interested in. i accidently gazed at him a little longer and when he realized, his eyes darted and he gave a slight frown, followed by some serious fidgeting of his hands, all these while ... (139 words)

I think he loves me, but I feel like I'm just a replacement for his crippled wife!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4705 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age - I am married for 4yrs now, my husband works 800km away from home and occasionally comes home for a day or two, we have been friends with our neighbours for 2yrs. My neighbour and myself have grown close because he keeps an eye on me (safety sake) while my husband is away at ... (185 words)

I believe my long-term girlfriend is having an emotional affair. What is the best way to confront her without losing her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I believe my long-term girlfriend is having an emotional affair. I do not believe it is physical yet based on the evidence I found, but I do know that she is very attracted to this guy. Should I lay all my cards on the table and ask her to explain away the evidence or ... (445 words)

Do girls dislike men who have bald/shaven heads?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 29 years old bald man. I lost my hair 8 years ago due to pimples on my head. Though the pimples have gone but the damage has been done. So to cover my baldness, I have been shaving my head for the last 6 years which gives me decent look. I had girlfriend and she would ... (210 words)

How do I get over this break up??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - how do i get over this break up?? my boyfriend of 7 months broke up wit me 2 weeks ago and i dont feel like its gettin any easier.. we have been friends for 4 yrs and he was chasin me for them yrs.. i didn give in because i was afraid of gettin hurt because of my past.. b... (233 words)

When or if do I give up and walk away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear All, Here's my problem - hoping for some views: I'm gay, 30, and I met a guy (also 30) online about 18 months ago, he's from the USA and I'm English. We were just friends though we got on great and sometimes talked on im for hours late into the night. We lost touch wh... (370 words)

A choice between two people!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi! I have sort of a dilemma, and was hoping I could get some advice.. I have been dating with person x for a period of 2 years now. It has been a very rocky relationship with lots of break-ups and problems the main being that he lives with his parents and works but doesn't ... (219 words)

Is he just trying to keep in my good books?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, ive been talking to this guy since september last year and we have never met, we met on the site plenty of fish. Anyway ive always wanted to meet him but hes always busy saying working or hes a big football fan so going to football all the time. Anyway i was begi... (226 words)

What are the defining qualities that you look for in a man, from initial attraction to wanting to develop a relationship with someone?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

30 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Question to the women out there on dear cupid... What are the defining qualities that you look for in a man, from initial attraction to wanting to develop a relationship with someone? I only ask this for a little advice as I struggle quite a bit with the ladies and it's s... (310 words)

I'm upset about not celebrating my birthday with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i have my birthday coming up very soon, i dont particularly like doing things for my birthday, but i do not mind doing something which may pleasantly surprise me. But anyway, my partner didnt cancel work in retaliation of me booking work, but nevertheless my work is ... (183 words)

My girlfriend still wants more after I finish. What do I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

30 May 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - my girlfriend has an extremely high sex drive, and once i 'finish' she still wants more. what do i do?... (20 words)

My interfering mother drives me crazy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - me and my mum have just argued AGAIN. this time is because i said i would be cooking our dinner quite late (7pm) after she was starting to make noises about being hungry (she never cooks) so she snook up to my son's room and gave him a banana and piece of cake, which means ... (404 words)

Wife in Girl's weekend . Do they have to call their husbands?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4704 days ago

30 May 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife spent the weekend with her friends, she just called me on Saturday night for one minute saying that your cellphone was working in the area and she was using her regular cell phone.Sunday she didn't call me at all( she could find a to place to make a he cell works to ... (249 words)

Only the creepy ones seem attracted to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I had my first boyfriend when I was 16. I am 17 now. He turned out to be a creep 'cause he was wayyyy more interested in my body than me as an actual person. I am no longer looking for a relationship, and rarely give anybody any hints that I want to be "with" them as anything... (298 words)

Stuck in the past; need help to move forward

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Its been a few months since I ended a relationship because my gf was cheating emotionally. Before this relationship that just ended I had a relationship with a woman named Katherine that lasted five years. Even when I was with my last girlfriend, I kept thinking and dre... (158 words)

Confused about being friends with my ex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hey everyone and sorry if this is a bit long: me and my ex went out for just over 8 months, things were good , only had one arguement in that time. however one day he decides to just tell me he's met someone else ( basically broke up) i obv was heartbroken, however i was civi... (292 words)

Girl I am seeing is very moody and never makes an attempt to control her moods!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

30 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - The girl I am seeing and I got into big fight the other day. She is very moody and when she is in a bad mood she makes no attempt to cover it up. So if she is sad or excited or angry or impatient...she lets it all out! Needless to say it makes every meeting with her sometim... (170 words)

He played me, but I still can't get him out of my heart

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I can't get this guy out of my head, he played with my heart for over three years, we became really good friends at first, he helped me with the bullies I worked with and he understod that I was shy and lacked confidence, I trusted him and after almost a year and a half we ... (272 words)

Is it wrong to not be career driven and financially motivated?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (?) age 41-50 - Hi there. I have a bit of a problem. I'm 38 and my bf is 37. We are currently trying for a baby and also buying a house together. My problem is that my bf is quite career driven and I feel he expects me to be. But I'm not. I currently earn about £16,500 but I dont do 40 hours... (462 words)

Ex has just broken up with his girlfriend. How can I get him back without being pushy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I need some help on how to get my ex boyfriend back. Him and his girlfriend just broke up and he's heartbroken. I'm trying to give him some space but I still wanna be there for him and spend time with him. How can I do this without being pushy? I just want him back so bad and ... (67 words)

I don't feel it's her place to invite others to my home

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4705 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So I've been in a relationship with my gf for about 5 mos. We argue occassionly. Never long lasting arguments though. The relationship is pretty healthy. The only thing is she has her own apartment that she shares with her cousin. Since we've been together, they've had a tough ... (280 words)

Can an abusive person change their ways?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my husband for 7 years and we have 2 young children. He is an abusive person - physically, mentally, emotionally. I must have known this for years but have chosen to ignore it but today, I am accepting that I am an abused wife. I want to help him and myself and ... (70 words)

What is going on with my boyfriend? He is confusing me so much

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - He hasn't called me in 48 hours almost and I don't know what is going on. Last time I actually spoke with him, he got off the phone after 10 minutes saying his mom wanted to speak to him, and he hasn't called back since even though he said he would. I sent many texts to him ... (446 words)

How do I tell my best mate I'm in love with his sister?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - im with my best mates sister and we have been together for about 3 months but known each other for a few years, my question is that none of her family want us sleeping together but we have and we had great sex but i dont know how to tell her brother (best mate) or her family ... (72 words)

What's a backhanded compliment?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What does backhanded compliment mean??? Someone wrote on a mates wall on FB after someone said "you cant handle her twin, she would ruin you," Then someone wrote a backhanded compliment. Ive never heard of it before, what does it mean?... (52 words)

How do I get over a married man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Cupids. I could really use everybody's advice. Can you tell me how to get over a married man I am in love with? I know it should never have reached this point but it did. I am a rational, smart and mature woman. I guess I just let my heart get the best of me. Perhap... (597 words)

I thought he liked me at first, but now I am not so sure.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - A few weeks ago I went to university a few times to sign in and to look around, and every time I was there, I met this guy randomly he started talking to me asking me lots of questions. He seemed really interested. He told me he is from Paris. I will be in Paris this summer on ... (495 words)

He think's I'm older than I really am! Do I tell him or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, okay this has proved to be tricky for me. I met this lad and it all started off as innocent fun, you know, talking, texting etc. Well I have been telling him the truth, except for one wee white lie... I live in Ireland and he lives in England, and the wee white lie that... (415 words)

I like him, and I think he might like me too, but I'm not sure! help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (?) age 30-35 - I recently met this boy (past few weeks) and I am beginning to really like him. He's very shy and quiet or at least he seems to be, occasionally I see another side to him. Anyway we started talking fairly regularly (in person and facebook). Generally I always start talking to ... (269 words)

He wants to move towns to accomodate his child from his first marriage...should I accomodate his wishes?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband wants to sell our house and move to another town to live in a rented apartment in order to free money to send his child from his first marriage to a prestigious school there. He is self- employed so will be able to work anywhere. I don’t want to leave our home or ... (331 words)

I'm worried my pregnant girlfriend is seeing her ex. Now she's not answering my calls!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi to all, I am not sure whether I am at the right place. I have this big problem. Me and my gf of 20 months are expecting a baby this days. We got in 2 arguments lately. She chat with her ex behind my back and she knew that I don't like that at all. Now its been 3 days and she ... (151 words)

He said goodbye to me, but then told me I hadn't seen the last of him...what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So, I've had a crush on my best friend for about 5 years. When I first started liking him he went out with my best friend at the time and she told him that I liked him. But I never knew he knew. Anyway he forgot all about it and recently we've been getting a lot closer, he walk... (202 words)

Why isn't there any English dating sites?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4705 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - There seems to be every dating site for everyone else: muslim, latinos, asians, but none for English. Why is this? My family originates from England and my father was born there. My dads side is still very English in their ways. I like dating Englishmen but apart from moving t... (57 words)

Do most infidelities go undiscovered?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there. Some of you may find my question strange but here goes. What I would like to know is do the majority of infidelities go undiscovered? I am studying psychology and I am really interested in this subject and I am in no way asking this question because I have been ... (174 words)

I want to go to this dance, but my mum won't let me. Should I lie about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I want to go to a teenage disco which my other two best friends have gone to, they said it was class. Its June now and the one for school finishing is on this Friday the 3rd, though my parents wont allow me till the one on halloween and I'm not waiting that long, no way.. so ... (140 words)

Should I meet him or shouldn’t I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I used to like to someone in the school and we used to look at each other very often, anyway the school was over we didn’t see each other since then. Anyway, I found him on facebook and I added him and he didnt recognize who I really was ! then I told him the truth and ... (229 words)

How do you forget someone after break up and move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (M)

age - A fairly common question I know- what is the best way to forget someone you have been attracted to (and in love with), who no longer feels the same about you, and you have decided (by default) to move on. I still find myself thinking about her on and off all day, and have do... (158 words)

Am I just an arrogant american?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it wrong for thinking my home country (U.S.A.) is the greatest country in the world? I come from a military family, and have such a deep respect for our armed forces. I am not the most patriotic person in the world, of course I do not trust the government, but God knows I ... (111 words)

Is it normal for men to get erections for no reason?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it normal for men (not teenage boys) to get and erection for no reason? My boyfriend gets them supposedly for no reason..he is in his late 20s. I am aware of morning wood and so on and so forth, but we will be doing something as simple as watching tv and he gets one outta ... (85 words)

10 years no sex, engagement ring I've never given to her..what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

30 May 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am 38. My girlfriend is 40. We have been together since 1992. When we first met I was almost (but not quite) totally inexperienced with women and my girlfriend, although having had sex with maybe 5-6 guys was inexperienced with relationships. She just did not relate sex a... (1581 words)

23 Years Old and Emotionally Retarded Needs Advice/Help/A Saving Grace...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - A case of being emotionally retarded... Hope the women in here can help... I am 23 years old, and have casually browsed through dearcupid for a while now only to realize I am not the only 23 y/o who has never had any close physical contact with someone of the opposite sex... (532 words)

My ex wants us to get back together. I want to have a longer break, but I'm also scared of losing the one I love!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My first boyfriend broke up with me 3 months ago. Within that time he has asked me to think about getting back together with him, even though at the time of the break up it was 'years' until he said we could get back together. I agreed we could try it for a while to see if i... (262 words)

110 guys before me??

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

30 May 2011 (M)

age - how do i deal with the fact that my wife has been with 110 guys beffore me 107 all f buddys or one nighr stands and i know knew 20 of them? i feel like a fool. one guy did her in a bathroom at a party and never spoke to her..... (52 words)

He's slowly pulling away from me and I don't know why!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know what to do. My best friend (who I happen to have a crush on) isn't talking to me much these past few days. He used to talk to me everyday for hours non stop and he would call and text me.. then he stopped calling and now he won't even text me anymore. For these ... (206 words)

I love (?) my best friends older brother. There, I said it. With a 5 year difference, I don't stand a chance with him, do I?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3943 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So I've lived next door to the "smiths" for 5 years (summer before 5th grade) and the two daughters Hannah (15) and Lydia (17) are my best friends ever and their younger brother Eli (13 but pretty mature) is also a good friend of mine too, anyways, there is also another son ... (395 words)

My GF broke up with me saying that once she finds someone that has potential for the long run, she no longer wants to be in a relationship anymore!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

30 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - One week ago my girlfriend broke up with me at the beginning of summer. We've been together for some time now and it felt like the breakup came out of nowhere since we had fun with each other earlier that day (interestingly enough, this is the exact same way my previous ... (279 words)

My boyfriend can't support himself, doesn't seek out jobs, is a druggie, can't drive, wont educate himself, is overweight, and wants to marry me! Do I stick to it and try to find him a job, again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, are u ready to read?? I don't know what to do anymore, we've been going out for more than 3 years now and he has never got a job. We are 25 years old, i'm a university student and i work and live with my parents, so i do have a little income. His better job ever was... (1605 words)

He masturbates next to me in bed - is this normal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3364 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - my huband masterbate in bed right beside me .is this normal?... (11 words)

I just want to know if theres a possibility this guy likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I just want to know if theres a possibility this guy likes me?? So Ive worked with this guy now for the past 4 years. When I first started working with him I fancied him, he is a very attractive guy and I liked him but after a while and finding out he doesnt feel the same wa... (441 words)

After a week of daily contact, he suddenly has stopped texting or calling and hasn't returned any of my messages!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy about a year ago, and we hung out for a while, and really hit it off, then, school and work got in the way and we didnt really see each other or talk very often for almost a year. Then out of no where he called me, and we started talking, practically every day. ... (228 words)

I've fallen hard for someone who doesn't want me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - i feel so stupid, i need a good kick up the bum! ive fallen hard for someone that doesnt want me. he is 10yrs younger than me and sees me as a mate only. we used to be neighbours and i moved, i thought that would cure the problem. unfortunatly he has had problems with his g/f ... (196 words)

What does it mean when someone says 'I need to work on myself first'??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) age 30-35 - What does it mean when someone says 'I need to work on myself first'? I can't think of what this means at all and how they do that.......... (28 words)

How do we mend our suddenly strained longterm relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there, I need your advice. (Sorry in advance if I add a bunch of random details.) My boyfriend and I have been having a pretty rough few weeks. We just haven't been getting along. We've been together for almost two years, and we've only ever gotten in 3 major arguments,... (405 words)

So how can I get over these feelings of frustration without cutting her out as a friend?

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30 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - alright, long question here: ok so about 6 months ago i had told this girl whom i had been really good friends with for about 2 years that i liked her as more than a friend and she was super cool about it but she told me that she liked someone else which i accepted and so we ... (294 words)