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Boyfriend has baby with me then gets another girl pregnant! Do I close this chapter?

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Question - (9 May 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 May 2011)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have a "MAJOR PROBLEM"....my boyfriend of 5years had cheated on after i had my baby the year of 2009. We decide to adjust to becomung young parents. But it wasnt my idea to break-up due to the fact i just had his son. So with that being said he end up getting with someone else and ending up getting her pregnant and he have decide 2 come back 2 me!! Im so confuse because i wanna work it out because my instnict keep tellnig me its not his baby and the feeling is so "STRONG" i feel it in my "GUTTS" but then again my heart says he have hurt you bad enough i wanna stay cuz we have a baby but then again i have been doing this alnoe for 17 mnths!!! PLEASE HELP ME..................

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2011):

I have "GREAT NEWS" i DITCHED HIM!!!.. & to be honest i FEEL GOOD!!!....I never got an explation nor an apology but like ive always heard: most things are best unsaid. He's now greving the way i once was.(LOL) All i was hearing is my faults( look what you did,how you use to act/etc...) to keep the heat off of him,because deep down inside i know for a "FACT" that he REGRET what he have done to me because i was GOOD to him my life was his life & he betrayed me in a VICIOUS WAY. So with that being said & done i'm going back to school as planned,taking care of my son, & LIVING LIFE LIKE ITS GOLDEN!!!.....Thank you soooooooo much

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2011):

If he was willing to cheat on you when you had a child together and were trying to make things work, it's not a good situation for you or you baby to be in. Move on. Be happy with your child and make your lives the best as possible without having to feel bad that he was willing to cheat on you.

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