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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Not sure whether my best friend if giving off signals

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

17 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all, i have one of the weirdest questions in the world lol. i am gay and my straight best friend is confusing the hell out of me. Basically I'm not out yet but I'm 99% sure he knows i am gay, and i have no idea if hes giving off signals. I'll lie down while watching a... (252 words)

Should I continue our long lasting 'thing'?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4685 days ago

17 May 2011 (?) age 26-29 - Well, hi there ...Me and this guy started talking a year ago. After two weeks of constant texting and hanging out a few times, he asked me to be his girlfriend. I said yes, but we only dated for about a month, because he started talking to his ex girlfriend, which he was stil... (255 words)

Is my husband just giving me excuses?

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17 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my husband hangs out with his friend seven days a week. He says im the most important thing in his life. Me and the baby but when his friend is not around he seems bored to be at home. It hurts me very much. When i asked him about it he said its not true, that he enjoys been ... (106 words)

I am not ready to be in the delivery room with my wife!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

17 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, my wife is about to give birth and I am not ready to be in the maternity ward when the process begins. I have no one else to be there with her as we are in a foreign country on our own and this is freaking me out. My wife thinks I will be there by her side, please help!... (61 words)

Should I marry this bad boy?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How to deal with possibly marrying a bad boy who is slow at shaking his bad boy image...... (19 words)

Woes of dating

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I was talking with this guy for over a week and then suddenly he stopped texting/talking. I assume he was busy with the jobs that he has. I texted him yesterday and he texted back today. Should I respond back? Am I being to uptight?... (45 words)

We broke up and then we started hanging out again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so there's this boy, iv known him for a few years now. and we dated for 2 years, we did brake up and its been about 6 months now. we stopped talking for a bit, and now were hanging out again and everything.. iv slept at his house a few times, and he acts like everything is ... (173 words)

He dumped me but seems emotional - does he still care about me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it true that if a guy gets emotional towards you after he dumps you, it means that he still cares about you ?. My ex recently dumped me, but he said some cruel things, so it seems like he hates me, but i read that sometimes guys act like that towards you when they still have ... (99 words)

I'm trying to find my biological father

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - im searching for my biological father, and i have been for a few years now. im getting told by a lot of people that its not such a great idea, my mother left him when i was about 2 years old, because he was an alcoholic and very bad drug abuser. but i think that i have a right ... (97 words)

She's hijacked my life and I feel like an empty shell!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I bumped into an old school who has just returned from travelling and started a new job in the same clinic as me. I was surprised as I have been working here for several years and she didn't mention it in any e mails. She moved away to Australia 3 years ago and we were not so ... (408 words)

I feel bitter because girls like me now that I'm cute

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

17 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Firstly i an 20 yrs old, i am a guy i am employed. lets just say if girls were to rate me on my physical appearance i would get a 7.6 out of 10. however it wasn't always like that. in my younger days i would have probably gotten a 5 out of 10. i had a really sweet friendly ... (323 words)

Why would photo of a girl in underwear be seen as porn but photo of a girl in swimsuit is ok?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

17 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - only real detail you need: I'm 17, shes also 17 and she never sent any pictures like this. so i don't understand something, about having pictures of my girl friend. Ok basically my friend said that if she ever sent me a picture to me through e-mail or a picture message of ... (200 words)

Girls: what is your view on scrotum hair?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 May 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey this is just a question I've been trying to figure out. I know overall girls like the pubes trimmed, but does it matter if the scrotum is shaved/trimmed? I cant seem to find an easy way to shave mine so I'm wondering if it's worth the effort? ... (50 words)

Could my abusive past be the reason I'm desperate for a baby?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wondering if my abusive past is linked to my desperate need for a baby. For as long as I can remember up until I hit 12 I was sexually abused by my biological father. I was wondering if it could be causing me to want a baby so badly. I'm only young (17) and, quite... (205 words)

Boyfriend doesn't want sex now and he says he's scared of the dark

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - This is a really weird problem that I have never experienced before. I've been with my boyfriend for a while and we have always have a healthy sex life. The other night we had sex. We had a cuddle for a while then I turned out the light. Things began to happen and he was erect ... (348 words)

How can I shake off this good girl image?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi :) If anyone could help that would be lovely. Basically I have a problem that I've managed to create a good-girl image of myself and i want to get rid of it. I'm quite shy and not very outgoing around people I don't know very well, but im completely different around my ... (112 words)

Threesome woes. looking for advice

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

17 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - i was in a 3 some the other day with 2 women, they are good friends, things went well during the activities we all had fun during, but afterwords the 3rd person seemed to go quiet and not speak to either of us other 2, this was her first experience with these kind of ... (193 words)

Grieving for my cat

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - This isn't exactly a relationship question, but so many questions here on DC start out this way. I'm feeling horrible, though, and feel a sense of loss and failure. I would like to have a pet, but recently a disaster happened with my cat, he's gone now and I feel overcome wi... (623 words)

What did my female friend's hints mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4684 days ago

17 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Used to be really close to a couple of female friends, so close we could play spin the bottle and stuff like that. One night after a family party me and these girls had to share a double bed, and all felt dead comfortable doing so. I'd heard that they both liked me [in that ... (151 words)

Help me deal with my wife's lies?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

17 May 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been together married to my wife for 10 years now, together for longer. All this time I always thought of her as a very honest person : one of the most honest people I ever met. However, over the last 18 months or so I have caught her in some lies. The first one ... (658 words)

I am overcome with rage and anger at other women!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - This problem is breaking my heart and I know that I'm risking being judged by writing this, but I don't have anyone to talk to about this! I'm originally from Spain but working in Cuernavaca, Mexico right now. I have a friend, and I had this brotherly love for him, but I h... (416 words)

How do I go about finding a therapist?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

17 May 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - So often the advice on here involves seeking out counseling or therapy. My wife and I have some sexual issues dealing with her lack of desire that she is not comfortable talking to me about. She sees herself as completely asexual at this point and it depresses her. I suggeste... (989 words)

About these teacher/student sex scandals...do you think that there is a double standard for the punishments?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4704 days ago

17 May 2011 (?) age 26-29 - About these teacher/student sex scandals - do you think that there is a double standard for the punishments? do you think male teachers have it worse than female teachers? do male students get lucky? do female students get abused?... (45 words)

I'm 5 years younger than he is and I'm worried that once I tell him, he wont want anything to do with me!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I met this guy online about 6/7 months ago and we started out as friends. He had a girlfriend but there was something obvious between us that we couldn't ignore, despite him being in a relationship, in January he decided the relationship wasn't working and he ended it with her. ... (132 words)

I watch pornography and then feel dirty afterwards...is it that bad?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4721 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - These days, i am really into watching pornographic pictures,and usually get aroused at the sight of big erect cocks. Although i love to look at them,i have never wanted to have sex, not before i get married anyway. Though i always feel dirty after watching those pictures, i st... (74 words)

Can you really ever stop loving someone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Can you really get over someone and love another person? I ask because I am in my first relationship with a man, and I love him SO much I cannot imagine loving anyone like him ever again. However, he i much older and has had a long term relationship before which ended really ... (140 words)

Is he just a friend or something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4684 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a guy friend who lives in a diffrent country.we met 2 years ago through mutual friends.one day,he asked me to go on holiday with him and i did.we had sex n a pretty good holiday.we're apart again now, and he texts me every few days and he's leaving his job soon to work ... (109 words)

Do you think it's possible for me to stay friends with him, even though I am attracted to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure what to do. I started a work placement yesterday at a recreation centre, which i have to go to for four weeks, and i really like this guy i have just met there who works there. He looks like Johnny Depp when he was younger !!. I'm 27 and this guy is a lot younger ... (345 words)

Untrustworthy behaviour?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Background: I have been quite close to an older guy for a number of months. We ended up getting quite close and he tends to flirt with me, especially when we're alone - though nothing has actually happened yet (he's married). He's been very distant recently because a ... (173 words)

Not looking for sex or anything serious, how to tell him without being harsh?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) age 30-35 - i met a nice guy on a night out, we didnt have sex, just cuddled and talked all night. he told me that he had been in a relationship for 4years and now he is just looking for something causal. i dont know what he means by that, is it causal sex or just like causal relationship. ... (116 words)

Is there any point in telling these roommates just how inconsiderate they are?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - sp im at uni in london living with my boyfriend and another couple who were once good friends to us. They have become un-friends because things just change when you live together. We have had arguments throughout the year on pulling weight and how its not fair that me and my ... (312 words)

How do I get into the friend zone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 May 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - i hang out with 2 very good friends, the girl i liked knows that i like her and she doesnt like me. i am getting over her now hopefully. Now this girl has really started to hang out with us and although she isnt into me, i just wanna be really good friends with her. The pro... (245 words)

Two boys that like me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i really dont have a clue of what to do i have to guys that like me one at my school and one at a different school. i have been out with them both before but the one from a different school i only broke up with 3 months ago. i like them both but i dont know which one i prefer! ... (67 words)

Why will he flirt with me online, but then act awkwardly towards me in school?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been friends with a guy (i'll call him A) for a few years, but in the past 2 years we have gotten to know each other a lot better than we used to, we're much better friends now. A talks to me on things such as MSN and facebook, and we'll talk for hours because we never... (267 words)

I can't have a relationship because there is always someone new! I need to break this cycle!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there , I thank you in advance for any help you can offer me at all. Its pretty hard to explain but I will try my best. I have an obsession with men. To the point where it takes over my life and I can't think of anything else. I was never given anything when I was a chi... (424 words)

I cant understand why I feel the need to go back to him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i really need advice, i dont know if people know how it is to be in a controlling relationship, but i've recently got out of one. my ex boyfriend started of by being really lovely, coming to see me, buying me things, making me feel special telling me he'd always love me etc, ... (358 words)

Does playing 'hard to get' and being slightly unavailable keep a guy?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 1776 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone. I have a question - does playing hard to get work and how do you do it? I am always the very willing one, always available, always wanting to spend time with my guy, quite needy and I always end up losing the guy I'm with! I think I am 'too availabl... (186 words)

Question for the men on penis sensitivity....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 May 2011 (?) age 30-35 - confused. question for the men. do you like the girl to exploit this sensitvity on the head of the penis or not? ... (25 words)

Can I trust his feelings or does he propose just to make me happy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been living together with my boyfriend for 2 years now. We love each other and are very serious with this relationship. Last christmas I asked him to marry me and eventhough he said yes, he later the same week didn't seem comforatable with it. So I asked him what was wrong ... (458 words)

The weight and height difference is getting in the way of us being together!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so im a freshman in high school so is he. we text a lot it seems like he likes me. the only thing holding me back is my weight. im 5'2" and 115lbs. hes 6'3" and so tall and skinny. what do i do?... (45 words)

His first love really hurt him and broke his heart, so why does he still want to be friends with her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year (11 months) and it has been a great and solid relationship for the most part. However, something I could just never quite get over is the fact that he still remains with his ex. Like many of you can say, "A lot of people are ... (659 words)

Why is he taking so long to make a move on me? Is it something to do with his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have known this guy for 4 years. His crush on me was obvious but he wouldn't make a move. I went out with someone else for the past 2 years and we broke up 3 months ago. The guy just broke up with his girl one month ago. I think they broke up after I told him I am now ... (237 words)

What does his slience mean? Why is he not calling me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - well...my ex came back to me after a long break up.But at that time I refused to mend up because he left me for another girl. Anyways I accepted him and everything was going smoothly at the beginning. after 4 months he again started avoiding me. When I stop calling him,usually ... (192 words)

I think I might have made a mistake by breaking up with her......

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all. A week ago today I broke up with my girlfriend and for the first 2 days I was happy but as the days went on I've been feeling less and less happy. I started thinking it was a mistake to end it and now I miss her. I thought it needed to end because it was a 1 sided... (246 words)

Living with my boyfriend and have a young child together, but thinking of meeting up with my online guy. Should I meet him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend on and off for 5 years, we live together and have a 10 month old son. For about 7 years ive known a guy online, hes sweet and we phone each other constantly, before I met my boyfriend we were planning to meet up as we had fallen for each other. ... (162 words)

Does he fancy me or see me as a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I need advice about a man from dating website ,he said i'm a really nice person and we are friends ,but he keeps sending me messages ,saying i have a really nice photo .Can you tell me if he fancies me or does he like me as a friend ? thanks... (52 words)

When a girl stops giving oral does it mean they are no longer into you?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4158 days ago

17 May 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi Just looking for some advice really Ive been with my partner for nearly three years now, things are great except for one aspect. We still have sex regularly, but the oral sex (from her) has gone from frequently to hardly ever- even as part of foreplay she will n... (398 words)

My girlfriend cant even be bothered to talk things through and always wants to leave at the first sign of trouble!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - whenever my girlfriend and myself have a disagreement her first answer is always well maybe we should just end it? or well shall i move out then? I almost feel like she wants me to say yes. I have been there for her through everything. Looked after her and even helped her ... (108 words)

I have gotten over depression, now how do I get over my poor social skills?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear DC readers, Around 2years ago I hit depression and lost many friends and contacts. I stuck myself in my room and never saw anyone. Due to this, I lost confidence and selfesteem and my social skills deteriorated. Of course I battled with the depression and have overcom... (222 words)

How do I forgive my husband and fall in love with him again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been married for 10 years. I chose my husband because he led me to believe that he was honest and spiritual. I thought he was perfect. As the years progressed, I found out that he was into porn, he would skirt around the truth a lot, and spirituality wasn't important to ... (652 words)

My girlfirend suddenly doesn't talk to me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a problem with my girlfriend. We are toghether for 7 months, and everything was going perfect, until this Friday. This girl really cares about me, and loves me a lot, I know it and showed it many times. I love her too, and actually, I can't imagine my close future ... (415 words)

Is there anything I can do to decrease my libido?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Ever since my girlfriend started her new job more than two months ago, our sex life has gone through the floor. Three times a week to one time a week, sometimes once every two weeks, and that one time she wants to do it is often when I don't feel like it (like when I've worked ... (217 words)

Will she ever go back to being the loving affectionate person I fell in love with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend came to me as her cheating/violent ex partner of many years finally beat her so badly that he put her in hospital she was to scared to go back and i offered a place to live. A few months later we started getting on well a physical relationship developed and we ... (280 words)

Boyfriend's ex wife is stalling to sign the final papers - not sure why this is and how to be around my partner?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Bf is currently going through a divorce - his ex-wife is stalling and delaying to sign the final papers. I am trying to understand why she is doing this. I believe this is down to them spelling her middle name wrong which I guess could possibly invalidate their divorce?? hence ... (689 words)

Did I do the right thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

- Hey guys I just want to know that Ive done the right thing. I was in a sort of LDR with a guy who worked in the military. Before he went away we were kind of seeing each other but it wasnt serious. We kept in touch via facebook and texts but I know that he was seeing other ... (349 words)

How did you meet your boyfriend/girlfriend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This if for teenagers mainly! But anyone who isn't a teenager else be sure to answer too :) ....How did you meet your boyfriend/girlfriend?... (24 words)

Does it sound like my ex is accusing me? And what should I say when I respond to his text?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, so I went through a break up with someone called, lets call him D, I was heartbroken because I really did like him a lot, I was actually properly upset for a few weeks, like to the point where I stopped my studies and just stayed home in bed... Then realized better ... (342 words)

In a relationship with a married man....where is this going?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I'm a confused, single woman, no kids, and living independently. But i am in a relationship with a married man for more than a year now. it's not like what most people think of when they hear of this type of relationship. we are not just for sex and i am not up for ... (238 words)

Why is it the second you ignore a guy, he comes running?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - First off, I apologize in advance to any decent guys out there; know that I'm not trying to stereotype you, I'm just really frustrated. I have had this on again/off again thing with a guy for over a year now. He'll do the most amazing things sometimes, defending me eve... (267 words)

My friend is afraid of getting hurt....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Help for a friend ? I've been giving advice but I'm clueless on this one...she meet this guy..been together a year and living together 6 months.she has never trusted a guy so much he's always straight forward when asked but at the first 6 months they had a lil argument he left ... (287 words)

Help me make a decision about this guy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need all the answers I can get here as this going to be make or break for me. Ive asked a couple of questions about this guy but now ive got to make my mind up once and for all and need an outside opinion. I met this guy over a social network site, didnt know him even tho... (685 words)

My relationship and life has little meaning. Where do I go from here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

17 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I had a rather troubled childhood which affected almost all areas of my life, particularly my schooling and studies. Along with our family always being in financial pitfalls, my parents weren’t really of the loving type, so I had to deal will all problems on my own. When I ... (791 words)

I'm totally in love with him and I want to know how he feels. But how? He has a girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 20 year old girl and becoming crazy because of my heart racing and chaos in my mind. It's a long story but to make it a bit clear: in November 2010 I fell mindlessly in love with this boy after just meeting him once, I am sure it is love because I felt the butterflies and ... (576 words)

My boyfriend of 2 years didnt acknowledge my birthday....am I wrong to be upset?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - hi there agony aunts, may i just say, i so thank you for all your help when i post a problem on here, and here i am again, i am not sure how to start this one but here i go, i am in a relationship and its LDR well a couple of hours away, we are committed we see each other as ... (591 words)

My boyfriend is sending flirty messages to his ex and is very distant with me....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have been together 8 months and things have been fine expect this problem with an ex-girlfriend of his, however she was from 3 years ago and is a friend of his family. A few months ago, she started to randomly text him in the blue just saying "hey how ... (713 words)

He used to be confident around me but now he's really shy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So there's this guy i know likes me. We've kissed (i was drunk at the time but knew what i was doing) and since then he's been very shy around me. Beforehand he was confident to me and seemed a bit of a player, but after that night he's gone shy. He still texts me and when he ... (170 words)

How do you get into a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

17 May 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm a teenager, and I have never had a girlfriend. I have had a couple of friends in school, but I never really got down to that. How can I get a girlfriend? What can lead to eventually getting in a relationship with someone? And how can I be ready for one?... (52 words)

What should I do to my bf? Keep him around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm not sure where to start but to simply put this into a shorter way is that I think I might be a psychopath. I know people keeps saying that if someone really is one, he/she wouldn't be looking for help or asking this question here. I keep wanting to hurt people who loves... (331 words)

My boyfriend was in bed with another girl but claims she is just a friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I caught a girl in my bf laying on the same bed with my bf, the door was locked. My bf is now telling me that the girl was just a casual friend, what do think? ... (36 words)

My LDR boyfriend is not paying any attention to me!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i m in committed ldr relation since 2 years. lately i have realised that the things have changed. my bf has stopped paying attention.he doesn't wish me gm, neither he texts me. At the night he calls only if i will msg him something. he was telling me that am getting overp... (120 words)

I need help deciding on which love to follow: The love of my life or current girlfriend that I love dearly, equally!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, I know I'm young, but I'm in love. My situation: I am 19 and in love with two young women. They are both 18. So let's call girl 1 Lisa and call girl 2 Tina. Lisa (girl 1) and I dated for a little over a year with the addition of a few months. I had been knowing her sinc... (365 words)

Is it selfish that I don't want my boyfriend's 2 kids to live with us?

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17 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has two kids from a previous marriage. One is 7, and the other one is 5. They are two very hyper boys. We have a 9 week old together. I never knew his boys were living with their mothers grandmother. So, not too long ago, she told my bf she wants my boyfrie... (215 words)

Is this a good long term method to desensitize the penis?

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17 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I read somewhere that for uncircumcised/sensitive penis a remedy to desensitize it is to expose the head of the penis (or glans) for by pulling the foreskin back, for long period each day for several days (or even weeks). Say I pull my foreskin and "tuck it" into my underwea... (74 words)

Will my boyfriend change?

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17 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it possible to change somebody in some respect, i mean to say my boyfriend had many girlfriends in past but he did not settle and I don't want to fool myself with the hope that he will settle this time. But I want to know if there is a chance that he will change and develop ... (152 words)

My mum split us up, but I still love him one year later! Should I go to see him?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I fell in love with this guy that changed my entire life! he made me believe my dreams were going to come true he made me the happiest girl in the world hes something god brought me!(tears) he loved me too I felt it deep in my heart !we lasted 8 months until something bad ... (284 words)

Why doesn't my hubby want to make love to me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm newly married for 3 months n I'm 22 and my husband is 30. I was a virgin when I married him and he is not. From what he says he's had many girlfriends and had sex with lots of people, obviously he went through that clubbing and player stage. Personally I dont care about his ... (639 words)

He has asked me to his friend's wedding.....does he want something more from me? Or just a date who everyone will get along with?

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17 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - this is just a random question but, What do it exactly mean when a guy asks a girl to be his date to his friends wedding? A guy I went to High School with and haven't seen since graduation (but through facebook we talk here and there) randomly asked me to be his date... (139 words)

My girlfriend is too controlling and needy, we fight a lot, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend is often needy and controlling and I am not sure what to do about it. We often fight over small things due to this and I want to have a healthier relationship with her. Please help me. I will give the following background: We have been dating for 3 years and ... (1131 words)

Married with a baby but missing my ex......

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17 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Married with a baby missing my ex husband I got divorce in December 2010 and by March 2011 I was pregnant from another guy, everything was so fast that I could not believe it, I moved to the States because the father of my baby is American so I decide to have my baby in ... (609 words)

Did my married lover ever really love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Does my married man really love me? I also involved with a married man for almost over a year. we were ex-coworkers. At the very beginning we are just friends, I have no feelings for him at all. however, I had problem with my own marriage, was thinking of divorce. But my ... (1164 words)

I got revenge on my cheating gf by cheating myself...but now I feel like a horrible person!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

17 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. I'm new here. I'm in a bit of trouble here. I'm 21 and I just cheated on my gf of 3 1/2 years. I feel really quilty now About 1 year ago she cheated on me and didn't feel guilty or anything, and the anger has kept burning in me until today when I finally go... (248 words)

How do you get over someone you liked?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 May 2011 (?) age 26-29 - What's a good way of getting over someone you like? Not dated,just like?... (13 words)

I need advice to get over my ex lover & focus on my family...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I had an affair w/a married man that lasted 2 years. He is my co-worker and was my husbands best friend, what makes it worse is that his wife was also my best friend. We were "soulmates" and very much in love. I got pregnant and asked him to leave his wife...he stayed. ... (106 words)

Broke up with my long term gf but am starting to freak out!!

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17 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with my gf now for 4 1\2 years, almost 5. We've always had the most amazing relationship we could have possibly imagined with plans on getting married in the near future. Thing is she moved away to california 2 years ago but she's movin back here to go to college and ... (799 words)

I can't read the signals this guy was sending me. Does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So, last week I went to the zoo for a class field trip. My teacher's son, I've met him before, honestly I thought he was cute, but he went on the trip with his dad (my teacher) and I thought he looked sooooo adorable! I really just wanted to talk to him, so he sat right behind ... (362 words)

Is my friend's ex trying to hurt her through me? What's going on here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4721 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend and I have been friends a really long time ( 4 years) , and she is a really good friend, but she was dating this guy for a while and ( he was controlling , and couldn't stand that she stood up for herself) I never met her boyfriend while they were dating ,but one ... (403 words)

I saw pictures of him with his ex? girlfriend on fb and am wondering if he's been completely honest with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I met this guy a few weeks ago and it started off as him approaching me at the gym and we had a conversation and led to us exchanging numbers. He goes to college about 2 hours away from where I live and is visiting for summer so of course I just had the intention of being ... (270 words)

Boyfriend's friend is trying to beak us up!

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17 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Everyone, I have been with my bf for almost 2 years, hes 21 and i'm 20. Everything is great. However, when we first started going out he was really close to this mate of his lets call him John. John at first was really nice to me we used to all go out together and get ... (331 words)

Should I meet up with this guy I have feelings for? Or should I stay in an okay relationship?

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17 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend on and off for 5 years, we live together and have a 10 month old son. For about 7 years ive known a guy online, hes sweet and we phone eachother constantly, before I met my boyfriend we were planning to meet up as we had fallen for eachother. ... (158 words)

Should I ask her out and risk the awkwardness of the friendship afterwards?

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17 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey there is this chick that ive been good mates with for ages and she broke up with her boyfriend about a month ago since then we have been spending more and more time together and texting each other more however sometimes she seems really interested and other times she sort ... (158 words)

Travelling to UK in next couple of days and would appreciate advise. Should I text him?

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17 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi:) Was out a couple of weeks ago and met this guy thats living in another country - he living in uk and im in ireland. He was really nice and we exchanged numbers. Sent him a text the next day basically just saying hi. He replied and we texted a little bit. That was last week ... (176 words)

My boyfriend is flirting via text with another girl!

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17 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So for the past couple of months, I have noticed that my boyfriend of almost 10 months has been texting another girl a lot. We're both 17. I first I noticed this when I just had his phone and I saw the text conversation with her. I didn't really think much of it at first, as ... (296 words)

He's cheated on me, but I'm afraid to be alone

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

17 May 2011 (F)

age - Dear all I have asked for advice before and hope you will help me again. been married 24 yrs with him for 32yrs 3 yrs ago i found out he was cheating on me with a co worker 20 yrs younger than him she was also married the affair had been going about 4 mths as soon as i ... (508 words)

His Gf is blaming me. What should I do? I tried telling him to back off and leave me alone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4685 days ago

17 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am still getting mixed signals from my best friend. I tried telling him to back off and leave me alone but that didn't work since he gets full on and will almost amount to behgavior that is like to stalk one until one has forgiven him. When I want to talk to him I can't, w... (157 words)