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Is my boyfriend losing interest?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I haven't seen my boyfriend since Mother's Day, and then the weekend after that I had gotten sick. He hasn't asked me to come over, but I'm unsure if he's waiting to see if I'll ask him. He's a workaholic though and has a graphic design and printing business. He also makes ... (193 words

Parents don't approve of a divorced older man as my mate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4713 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - i am a 27 yo female dating a 44yo man. we are def in love and going to get married. we have been together for a couple of yrs and he is going through a divorce. he has two young kids. my parents are not happy and i want to do everything i can to make them accepting and i ... (81 words

I think about my ex more when I'm at home than I do when I'm at university. Why is this? It makes no sense!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - I find myself thinking about my ex girlfriend more in some places than others. We're both at university and we broke up earlier in the year because she wanted to focus on her work and I am in my final year and will be moving back home permanently soon. I've been home several ... (145 words

B/f says leave him alone I screwed up his job!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years LDR, Canada and USA. I was up there just two months ago and we are talking marriage and he asked his parents and mine for a blessing etc..I get back home and lost my job got a bit too overly bored and over texted him at work. He got in ... (171 words

I wat to ask him out but don't know what to do on a date!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hellloo, I am in a band and have fallen for this guy who is three years above me in school, i want to ask him out and have been very close to this many times, but if i do what do we talk about and do on our date, it will be awkward and i want so much but what if he says no?... (76 words

Every time we are apart I find myself wondering if he's cheating on me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - hey everyone, so if u havent read my past questions, i am 17 and i have a 16 year old boyfriend. we dated from august 22,2009 to may 17,2010. we broke up then because he cheated on me. . .but we got back together in december 22,2010 and we are still together. well, around april ... (342 words

Guys from other countries--would you consider a US girlfriend?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - Guys from the United States as well as other countries, can you please opine on this? I am not putting down my country or my compatriates but sometimes I wish I weren't American! Sometimes it feels like a real cross to bear. I would LIKE to have a boyfriend and think... (549 words

Do I walk away from dating him because he does drugs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4717 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Getting to know this guy, really like him. He's wonderful and we're having lots of fun together. We're both at uni. But, I have some doubts. He's been really open about telling me he takes drugs when he's out in the evenings, it's the sort of scene he's in. Thought I could ... (150 words

People tell me I'll find someone else but I want HIM!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - It would be wonderful to get some insight into this situation. The short version is this: I've met someone that I felt this brotherly love for, as a friend, but recently I had an epiphany and realized I had feelings for him. The trouble is, that he has a girlfriend! N... (949 words

Are women just completely selfish?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

20 May 2011 (M age 41-50 - I was married for 12 years when I found out that my wife had been having an affair for 3 years. After about 8 months of trying to work at staying together for our at the time 8 year old twin boys I finally realized I couldn't be with her anymore. Since then I have been remarrie... (114 words

Does he care? Or just doesn't want me to fall for an idiot?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4588 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - Ok I have a question. If a guy wants to find out who you fancy, and you tell them (and it isnt the guy), and if he reacts by saying this guy is stupid and a player, and generally trying to put you off him, do guys do this because they're jealous, like you themselves, or just ... (72 words

I like him, my friends don't, and his g/f is evil

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hello! So I've started to really like this boy, who doesn't go to my school, but is part of my group. But none of my friends like him.. He is also a bit younger than me, which is another reason why I'm 'not allowed' to like him. He's known to be a bit of a bad boy, smoking... (205 words

I lost weight and now I am no longer interested in heavier women. Is that normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

20 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - I've lost quite a bit of weight this past year, and it certainly shows. I'm a bit worried about myself, however. Back when I was overweight, I never wanted to get into relationships. I really felt I needed to make a solid first impression first, so I finally did something about ... (149 words

Can you still make it work when you want to live in diffrent places?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - this is my problem, but let's just keep it on a general level. If the relationship works in pretty much all aspects (respectful, loving, sexual, everyday life, general believes, etc) but you can't seem to agree on were to live (in my case not the exact location as much as the ... (121 words

After we already go out and I'm interested she tells me she's been seeing someone else! What does that mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 May 2011 (M age 36-40 - Hi, There's a girl I've liked for quite a while now. I've taken her out for lunch a couple of times, just as friends and have got her number too. Its just about the end of school term and she said that we should get some dinner one day before she heads back home for s... (155 words

I love my boyfriend but keep thinking of my friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4687 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I am 20 and My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 1 and 1/2 year. We both say we love eachother because we both have never ever felt this way about anyone. We have talked about how we care about each other enough to do whatever is necesary to keep each other happy. I ... (229 words

What can I do to stop my feelings for my married lover?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 May 2011 (M age 41-50 - This has troubled since I got married two years ago. I used to have a married lady as sex partner where I lived in my school day. We loved each other before we both married. Now we still make love when I travel to the city where she lives with her family. What can I do stop ... (71 words

I am really sexually confused.and need advice.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

20 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - I will be 18 this year and I am still a virgin and the reason why is because I'm so confused and scared. So I spend time watching porn gay and straight and I am so sexually confused. I find a gay interesting first and ive been looking since about age 13. when I found gay porn ... (286 words

Are there any ways to increase girth?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - I am writing because my boyfriend is starting to develop insecurities about his penis size. I have had bigger in both length and girth, but it isn't his length that bothers him. I was wondering if there was any possible way to increase the girth of his penis. At the moment he ... (81 words

I need some advice to help pull me out of this rut.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

20 May 2011 (M age 36-40 - I think I'm depressed. I feel like I can't move forward with my life. I feel physically sick, my heart hurts and I want to cry. I'm 23, I'm unemployed again, through no fault of my own. I'm still living with my parents. My circle of friends keeps getting smaller and smal... (146 words

I plan to have sex again, but I have some questions.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I lost my virginity on 1/2/10 since haven't had sex again till this date. I hate sex because is very painful and I shed a lot of blood. My question goes is, it going to be painful this time? Is my hymen still intact? Finally can someone contact HIV from sucking of penis? ... (55 words

Help me with this situation. I wonder if I really love him and he really loves me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 51-59 - i am married and have been seeing a married friend for almost a year. we agreed on no strings attached policy. in Feb we decided to break it of as i suggested he try and work things out with his estranged wife. he still comes over. we don't touch and when in company not even... (344 words

Is it acceptable to send these TV personalities messages begging them to accept my Friend Request on Facebook?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I saw some On Air Personalities whom I learnt a lot from on facebook. It is been 2 months since i sent friend requests to them and yet some of them have refused to accept them. I don't know if they have forgotten or simply think that I'm not worth a friend to them (although we ... (88 words

Is he emotionally blackmailing me so that I'll stay with him???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I wrote on here a few days ago asking for advice and I got brilliant advice and took it. My thread was 'help me make a decision about this guy'. I talked to my bf last night about things that were bothering me about our relationship. He listened to me and seemed to understa... (165 words

The ball's in his court now... right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - So I met this guy at a party a couple weeks ago and he was a true gentlemen... he asked for my number... he arranged a coffee date around a week later and it went extremely well. We hit it off and had a lot in common so the date carried on from the coffee. Now hes been busy ... (274 words

The friend zone!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

20 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - hello everyone. basically i would like to know what is your stance on the friend zone. As a guy i think that it's wrong. there is this girl who is a close friend but whenever i try to get closer to her she resists. however she wants to be my friend. she doesn't have a b... (161 words

Is this a normal ex friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - Is this a normal ex friendship? My partner and i have recently seperated. we have 2 kids i am 36 and he 42. We parted for a number of reasons and it was i who instigated the seperation. One of our problems was his ex. At first i never had any kind of issues with there ... (295 words

Since I asked her to be my girlfriend she backed off, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hi dear cupid, I'm 19, she's 17. I met her, got her number we started calling and texting each other very frequently. After a month it was almost like we were boyfriend and girlfriend but I hadn't officially asked her, but in theory we were. I would always call to tell her... (343 words

Do my feelings make me a lesbian?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - I'm even more confused. My best friend is a girl and you see I'm also a girl and I am seriously developing strong feelings for her. I can't stop thinking about her. She is in the military and she is about to deploy. Should I tell her how I feel? Does this make me a lesboam? I ... (62 words

Should I fulfil my fantasy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a 21 year old male and I have had a girlfriend for 2 and a half years, we are very sexual in the bedroom and we are both really comfortable with each other, we watch both lesbian and gay porn together and she knows I get really turned on watching gay porn. We talk about ... (181 words

How do we develop friendships and socialise with other people in our community? No one seems to want to socialise with us

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 May 2011 (M age - My wife and I are in our mid to late 40s and have been married for almost 20 years and have one son who is ready to be on his own feet. Our BIG problem is that we do not have any friends. In fact no one wants to be friends with us. We have tried to analyse the situation from... (268 words

He's never going to let go of his girlfriend so I need to move on

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Basically i've been in love with this guy for over a year now and he has a girlfriend. He flirts with me all the time and we text most nights but i know it isnt fair on me as he is never gonna end it with his girlfriend for me so i need to get over him but i'm finding it so ... (82 words

Husband has bars on credit card statement but says credit card company made a mistake

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 51-59 - recently my husband's credit care statement had three different charges for well known bars in the city. not restaurants, but just bars. And not cheap either. each was a week night. We never go out during the week. We both work in different parts of the city, but often his work ... (349 words

Should I go see the ex? Look hot? Or just not go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Your Open Question: Why would he do that? should I still see him? ? My ex boyfriend's best friend told me my ex's been having a hard time dealing with our break up.. He says he's been drinking and he feels horrible for breaking up with me and that he misses he. So h... (277 words

I've been waiting for a sign to see if this is the real deal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 May 2011 (F - i have been with this guy for about 3 years . trust me i love him verry much . but i feel athough were not in love with eachother if that makes since . ive been waiting for some sighn that this is a real deal or not but its kind of in limbo . i ve tryed everything i could think ... (93 words

Does a bad experience with one guy color her judgement towards all future guys in her life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Why and how can a bad experience with one guy change someone to change how she looks and thinks about certain things, have trust issues and be more guarded but confident? I know it sounds silly, but i'm just interested how one guy can have this affect on someone. And wil... (85 words

How can I increase the size and pull back the foreskin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - hi my penis is typically very small in size at normal condition and when erected it gets to a medium size and my foreskin doesn't pull back at erection and at normal condition the foreskin appears to be covering whole penis and looks so small. and i'm interested in ... (65 words

How long do I wait before I give up on him? He's over there going out drinking, I'm still here paying the bills.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - When my fiancé moved to another city for a new job we decided he would get settled and find a nice place for us to live. Then the plan was that I would leave my job here and follow him. Once there I could look for another job, during which time he would support us. He has been... (256 words

I don't want to get involved in his custody issues. But should I be concerned about his drinking and his custody issues if he is to be my Bf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4702 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - I have been seeing a man for one year following the break up of my only other long term relationship. We don’t see each other every week because we live some distance apart. I am wondering how much I should concern myself with what, to me, is actually his business. He has ... (332 words

Is he trying to tell me something by taking longer and longer between when he calls me on the phone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - actually i do not know whether my boy friend is ignoring me or not. Things have gone from bad to worse. We only get to call each other. Before he was calling whenever he found time for me, but now he never calls me until a long time has gone by. I call him. But from him it d... (104 words

I'm not over her. How do I get over her so that we can just be good friends?.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4587 days ago

20 May 2011 (M age 26-29 - i like this girl a lot and i have been into her for the past year and she knew i liked her all along.... she then said that she didn't like me and that i was just a friend to her. Our friendship deteriorated because of the awkwardness and she wasn't comfortable talking to me an... (231 words

I get a hug and kiss once a week if I'm lucky...What's up with that??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - I have been with this guy for a year and he doesnt hug or kiss me. We have discussed this more than once because it bothers me, of course..and he says he is "trying" to be more affectionate. Am I wrong for thinking he just doesn't love me? He tells me it takes time for thin... (91 words

I wanted to just be friends. Yet I feel really hurt when I see him with this girl. why would I have this reaction?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I have a guy friend and we have known each other since we were very small. Anyway a couple of months ago another friend told me that he liked me. So when he asked me out I said I just wanted to stay friends as I didn't want to ruin a good friendship. But recently he has start... (139 words

She's pregnant. All good. But why does it seem I care more then she does in our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 May 2011 (M age 41-50 - I am in a relationship with an amazing woman for over a year. We live together, are planning on marriage soon, and recently discovered she is pregnant. All this is wonderful and she is constantly on my mind. I really love her she is wonderful in more ways then i can say. I f... (354 words

How do I tell him he's messing up? He only sees it in his point of view no matter how I explain it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - My guy never admits he's wrong in fights. Even though my feelings are really hurt and I am crying and everything, he acts like he didn't do anything wrong. In reality, he did, and he only sees it in his point of view no matter how I explain it to him. Its really annoying and ... (84 words

Do I care too much? I feel like he puts his friends before me. How do I make his less of a priority?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I feel like I care too much about my relationship. I've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years, and we love each other very much. I know he loves and cares about me, but I feel like I care about it way more than him. I want to spend time with him a lot (not every single day,... (250 words

Should I hire a private detective to find and contact my deceased friend's family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 May 2011 (? age 36-40 - I have contacted a private investigator to find the family of my deceased friend, but I'm afraid to go through with hiring them. The detective says that, out of respect for the family, they will contact the family and tell them one of their son's friends wants to speak with ... (290 words

She never wants to do couples things. How do I keep her happy and not lose my negative girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 May 2011 (M age 41-50 - My girlfriend is always getting mad at me no matter what i do for her. she never satisfied. It is as if whatever i do for her is never enough for her. She a very negative person always thinking negative as if nothing could never good right and she always takes the negative... (320 words

We both play sport. It's seriously upsetting me that she will not support me the way I support her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 May 2011 (M age 26-29 - I went to every one of my gf's games for various sports all year. She couldn't go to any of my baseball games this spring because of lacrosse. She decided to quit basketball so I thought she could finally come support me this summer like I've supported her all year. Her coac... (151 words

I want her so crazy it is driving me crazy. Should I go after her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - Ok I am an 18 year old male, and met a hot 16 year old female. She is super sexy, and fiesty, and the chemistry is on between us. I accidently saw a pic of her nude, and it turned me on out of this world. Should I go after her and have wild sex all night long or look elsewhere. ... (73 words

Guy I am dating is away for a month - How should I act now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Dear aunties and uncles, I met this guy at the end of March.Since then,we went out 4-5 times,before I went to my hometown for 2 weeks (easter break).We kept contact via phone,and when I got back to the city,we went out and he asked to see me the next day also cause he was leav... (423 words

Social behavior after sex...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

20 May 2011 (M age 36-40 - So I have no experience at all with women and I am just curious about the following couple of situations: How do you behave just after having sex with someone you care? How do you behave just after having sex with someone you don't care (as in a one night stand)??? Do y... (98 words

Should the pill stop my period right away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - I just started my menstrual cycle this morning, and my doctor had given me the NuvaRing to start, so after school I came home and inserted it. I noticed I hadn't bled much, and now I'm not bleeding at all. I was having scares that I might of been pregnant (but I took a test 3 ... (142 words

Am I making it worse by being with him now

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - so, i am deeply in love with my boyfriend. i love him with all my heart, and we've been dating for a while. but my problem is, that he's moving like 7 hrs away from me,on like july 1st. and i'm not gonna be able to see him anymore. he doesnt want a long distance relationship, ... (118 words

Theres a pic of my breasts on everybodys phone

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - ok, so i was with this one guy, lets call him bob, and i dumped him...the night that i dumped bob, i was texting an older guy, (fred)..and i sent him a picture of my tits...two days later i started dating a different guy,(george) and i'm still with him..i told fred that i ... (110 words

Should I appologise or leave it glossed over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hi everyone, hopefully you can help me out! There is an awful lot of background information here but I think it’s necessary for the ultimate question which is whether I should revisit a dark time in my life to apologise, or leave it glossed over. Please read to the end if you ... (1082 words

I broke up with him, now I'm scared that once he's clean he'll find someone else.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - im trying to stay away from my ex. im still completely in love with him but he smokes crack. i justy dont want that kind of lifestyle. im stupidly hoping he will quit and we can have our happily ever after. im scared im going to let him go and then hes going to get clean and be ... (86 words

Should I speak to him right now of how I feel or wait and see?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - Well, where shall I start? Over a year ago I started dating this guy a friend introduced me to. I had my doubts at first but then I agreed to go out with him. At first it was too incredible. He was kind, passionate. The first sign that something was not quite right was when he ... (983 words

Married, but fell in love with my first love.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - Im a 25 year old married women with 3 kids all from my husband. I have been with him for nearly 9 years now and been married for just over a year. A few months ago i got back in contact with my first proper love. We have been talkin ever since. An all my feelings have come ... (147 words

Needing a man's advice on texting!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - Okay, so I'm 23 and me and my man have not been together long- but we but be became serious pretty quickly... I never like texting much... Well we don't get to see eachother as much as we'd like bc I'm a mother and can't always get a sitter... When it comes to texting I usually ... (172 words

Is my teacher flirting with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - I'm just curious but...is my teacher just a big flirt? I've been in his class for two years, I always stop by his room before school starts to say hi, chat or to study. He poked my arm at times and jokes with me. I know a lot about him and he knows a lot about me. one day I ... (226 words

Why is it that when someone cries, my vagina gets this weird throbbing feeling?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4504 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - This has been happening ever since I can remember, and it's not like I'm turned on or anything.. I mean what the heck is this? I'm so confused. O.o Does anyone have any idea of why this happens?... (38 words

Do I make him chose me? or his girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Heres the story. He is my best friend but he has a gf that he has been dating since April 2007. We met in November of 2008. March of 2009 we were best friends and by June 2009 I was deffinately in love with him. We had always been close and he used to stay up and talk to me ... (720 words

Guy I really like is leaving soon after final exams!! Should I make a move??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - Dear cupid. this boy i keep crushing on and can't let go of is finally leaving my life after the exams. the next time i'll see him will be for the i.c.t exam that is in 11 days. i have tried moving on to other people but i can't stop thinking of him, i don't want to lose him... (84 words

Would you rather like someone too much, or have them like you too much?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

20 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - A hypothetical question: Would you rather date someone who you really liked but they weren't so into you? Or someone who you weren't really into but they really liked you? This is a real life situation I'm in right now, so thanks so much for the input!... (56 words

I'm the only single guy left in my group of friends. Feeling left out!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 May 2011 (M age 36-40 - I'm feeling really lost right now and It's starting to get me down. I'm 25 and recently finished my time serving active duty in the military. I was really excited about getting out and moving back to my hometown, but I'm finding the transition back to civilian life to be a ... (335 words

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