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Girlfriend and I broke up but are kinda in between dating and single now

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

8 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hello, Today, i found out that my girlfriend got a job 6 hours away from where i live for the summer (2 months approx, 60 days). I've kinda known about this all along, but she always said she didn't know if she got a job yet, or if she was even going... so i didn't put much ... (678 words

My ex dumped me for a girl he talks to online but has never met in person!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - my ex boyfriend has dumped me for a girl he talks to online but has never met in person . how can i get through this ?. it hurts so much. ... (31 words

He doesn't want to appear "pussy whipped" to his online friends and makes comments at my expense!

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8 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - This is a bit of a weird question. I want to know if I am being insecure of if something is amiss with this issue. My boyfriend plays games a lot as a way to escape. He has a close circle of online friends whom he speaks to a lot as he plays with them a lot. There is one guy ... (1116 words

He loved me when he was married and now he's divorcing he doesn't seem to love me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age - Hi, I've been dating a married man for more than one year. He was never happy in his marriage and during our dating year, I gave him advice about how to protect himsel financially, etc. He is now divorcing his wife and going through a mediator. Many times while he was ... (248 words

How does she feel about me?

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8 May 2011 (M age 36-40 - Hi, This might be long, so if you read it all thanks. I'm new to the terrain of serious relationships so I'm sure I'm making lots of errors, but its fun anyways. I met this girl who I really like. I can be very judgmental sadly and quickly reject those around me. But she is w... (659 words

Is my plan to propose to her...a bit too cheesy? What do you all think?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

8 May 2011 (M age 36-40 - Hi all. I just wanted some input on this plan I have. My girlfriend and I have been together for two years (I was 17, she was 14 when we met seven years ago) and she's graduating from her community college to be an RN the day that I come back from a one year tour in Iraq. (W... (256 words

Why is it so difficult to figure him out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - I've liked this guy for while now. We're both in high school, about the same age. He's such a hilarious guy, his sense of humor is amazing, and intelligent. He's a bit of a dork, but I find it adorable, it's probably my favorite thing about him. He's attractive, not extremely ... (274 words

Have I blown my chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I met a guy online, however it has developed more into a friendship, as we contact each other less and we have never actually met, But he has expressed interest in me and asks lots of questions. I know for a fact that it is not a good time for him to get involved in a se... (165 words

Long distance relationship entirely trustful apart from one incident?

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8 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hello, I was going to write a massively long message detailing myrelationship but would prob be better just to summarise: I'm 23 and my girlfriend is the same age, at different unis about two hours away from each other on the east coast. I met her a couple of years ago an... (529 words

Will this horrible sickening anxiety and paranoia ever go away?

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8 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I suffer from depression. This past 2 months, I have woken up daily with a terrible sickening gut wrenching feeling. It's awful and it never goes away. I've become increasingly paranoid, over sensitive, clingy and exceedingly untrusting. In my head, everyone is out to get me. I ... (79 words

What are the signs a guy ISN'T looking just to toot it and boot it?

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8 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - So firstly, thanks in advance for trying to help! How do you know if a guy genuinely cares about you, or if he's just acting all sweet and innocent to get what he wants out of you? There's this guy whose known for being a flirt-- not exactly a womanizer because he's... (543 words

Bf hasn't returned my messages in over 24 hours. Would it be stalking him to keep trying him?

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8 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - I have been seeing a guy for a couple of months, it is not that serious yet mainly due to the fact that he had just started a new job working nights and has had to do a lot of overtime so I only get to see him once a week- at weekends and we do not speak in the week as our ... (216 words

My family won't approve of my bf, who is of a different race than me. Should I continue hiding it from them?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - So iv been dating this guy for a while now , we are truly happy with each other but we not the same race !! To him and I race is definitely NOT a issue - His coloured and I'm white! My dad doesnt know that we seeing each other, the rest of my family does and the approve - My... (168 words

My parents are overprotective and I feel like I have no life!

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8 May 2011 (? age 30-35 - what, what did really bad...?.. okay I am an only doughter of four and I feel like my parents over protect me... last night I went to my x-boyfriends house to watch a movie..(we didn't do anything bad) however,my parents don't know that the problem was that it was around 9... (204 words

My husband left our son and I for my friend! How do I cope?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - I can't cope. I can't stop crying day and night, I try to keep myself busy but as soon as I am not busy I just feel this pain more and more, its unbearable. I am trying to cope, trying to move on but I just can't and I hate myself for feeling like this but I can't stop it. M... (212 words

If he isn't happy then I am not happy either...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - hi everyone :) i am 16 years old and i am with this guy for a year now and 3 months. he is almost 19 and i am crazyyyy in love with him. i just cant describe how much i like him, i adore him, and he is my whole life since we've been together. i changed my phone number i delete... (414 words

Husband has lied before. Do I trust him or continue with the divorce?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - Help! My husband and I met 7 years ago, we have now filed for divorce. When we met he told me he didn't have a gf and later I found out he did, but we started to date anyway. He had 2 kids by 2 different women when I met him. Two years later we got married and had a beautiful ... (268 words

My girlfriend wants another chance! Do I give it to her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

8 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - hi people. my girlfriend went with a guy alone, without telling me n later she lied. this guy studied with her in her classes, n he is an intelligent guy with good sense of humor. he liked my girlfriend n proposed her too. he asked my girlfriend to hang out n my girlfriend ju... (165 words

Broke off my engagement and fell for my lesbian friend. Now what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - My life has been confusing these past few months... I guess I will start with some background history. I am a 20 year old female that just ended a 4.5 year engagement with the man I thought I wanted to marry...( I still love him.. idk if it is that way anymore) That is until I ... (414 words

Both of my ex boyfriends want me back and I don't know what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I know this is bad. This is really bad but I am freaking out. In life you always heard the statement be careful about what you wish for you might just get it. Yesterday I got everything I ever wished for just in terrible timing. I have two people claiming love for me. I am in ... (271 words

Do irregular periods mean you won't be fertile?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Question for the girls mainly: Hello. I am a 22 year old woman. I started my periods a lot later than everyone else, and they were very irregular - once every two months for a while, then once ever 6 months. I have had an internal test and there were no cysts etc. I have now... (113 words

How can I avoid turning into my parents?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - I'm 24 and I'm afraid of this happening one day. I don't like my father, he's always in a foul mood, he's very negative. So I don't like being near him much. He tries and rules the house through fear. He sears and yells alot. Not a good way to communicate. He has a bad anger ... (140 words

How can I fake being a virgin?

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8 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - hi there, my name is nancy and i was wondering if anyone has any ideas on how i can fake being a virgin. because i'm gettin married soon and it's a crime in my culture to have sex before marrige.... (40 words

Why is my boyfriend calling other girls perfect?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I really don't know what to do :'( my boyfriend barely ever talks to me, in school he barely ever comes up to me, hes always with other girls. He comments on other girls facebook pictures saying 'every aspect of this photo is beautiful and perfect', he is making me feel r... (69 words

Does he think now that I don't want to have sex because I said no before?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4734 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - I'm so worrid. Have dated a guy for a month now. And we have been on about 7 dates.. Really like him and he told me very early that he liked me very much! I told him I did to. we have been sleeping togheter 3 times, no sex, just kissing and cuddling. I want him very much and ... (704 words

Should I try being someone I'm not to get his attention?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - I like him so much we have loads in common and get on i cant stop thinking bout him and its driving me mad But he basically doesnt like me he he says theres nothing wrong with me but does not have the spark he needs in a relationship I said im happy being friends but ... (190 words

Guy's advice on buying a belt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I know this is not a typical relationship question but it is about a gift for my boyfriend of 2 year's birthday. I want to get him a superdry belt that he liked but didn't want to spend that much on a belt, but I have no idea what size to order. I'm not entirely sure of his ... (117 words

I love my best friend but he likes my sister...and its mutual! What can I do to get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi. I have this friend, he's my best "guy friend", who means a lot to me. We have always gotten along perfectly. A year ago, I realized I liked him as more than a friend, and I thought, and still think about him every single day. Recently though, I found out he likes my sister, ... (186 words

I think my husband was cheating but he tells me to just forget about it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 51-59 - I caught my husband of 21 years hiding text messages and phone calls from another woman always had his phone on silent or vibrate and never left it laying around texted in the middle of the nigh while I was asleep even while I was taking a shower. At the time this was going on ... (209 words

How do I gently dissuade this guy from forming any stronger feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - I need some help please. There is a guy that I am quite friendly with, (to be perfectly honest it is more of a pity based friendship on my part - I feel sorry for him) and he has dropped several hints that he LIKES me and has even mentioned the word love. How do I gentl... (112 words

Tried so hard to looked toned and look the same!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 51-59 - I hope you can help and I would really value your advice :-) I am just under 5 ft 4 and I weigh just over 9 stone. I have been exercising pretty vigorously since January and yet there is little difference to my appearance or how I feel! I don't get it. I go to the gym about th... (358 words

Advice on buying a puppy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - ok what i was wondering is advise about buying a puppy chihuahua , ok heres wht i waan know : 1) do you HAVE to have a crate for it or could i just have it in a bed straight away coz i havent got money for crate . 2) with making sure it doesnt wee or poo evrywhere do you... (162 words

Need advice to cope with emotions during a 'break'...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4734 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - Me and my bf are on a break for a while (a month) and I am really struggling with it. It's only been a week, but we are still talking and texting and he tells me that he loves me still. Things have been tough for a while and although i thnik it's a good idea, I miss him so ... (341 words

What does it mean if I move on quickly from guys?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - What does it mean if I move on from guys quickly? Like a guy i really really like, could hurt my feelings and make me feel worthless. But i wont get upset over it, i just think i'm not going to let them get to me. Or if it doesn't work out with a guy, i don't think much... (218 words

A confused feeling left after being cheated on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

8 May 2011 (? age 41-50 - the question is for one of my friends. her husband cheated on her with her best friends, the didn't have sex, just flirting and sex talk, he told her to take more care about her appearance and she started to dress and put make up and he used to compliment her, but the did... (117 words

I don't know what to say during foreplay

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hey, I have this problem when getting it on with my bf. When we make out and initiate foreplay, I get really quiet and don't know what to say. Also I think I'm shy of doing things, despite the fact that I am confident to say what I'd do to him when we do sex texts. How c... (71 words

Gettin any kind of attention from males makes me very uncomfortable

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - Right, so some backstory, through most of my years in middle and high school I was mocked daily for being ugly. I never felt comfortable in my own skin and hated myself. It took a very long time to learn to draw confidence from within, and although I'm more secure in myself and ... (366 words

Did I say the right things to my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

8 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - I am currently 18 and i am in love with my ex girlfriend who is 17!!! I broke up with her about six months ago because she was so busy with school work and alot of peer pressure at school . Since then we have talked on and off and she recently went to prom with me and we had an ... (402 words

Why didn't someone tell me that the guy I was making out had a girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I'll make this as short as possible. But pleaaaaase read, i want advice as i can't figure this out!!? About over a week ago on a night out, i saw this guy who i haven't seen in a while. We've both liked each other so it was just a bit of fun. Instantly we were very close ... (498 words

Why does he text me like this if just wants be mates?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4734 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - 'm 16 and this guy is 18.i have only known him for a week. i met him through one of my other friends and met last monday and i had the mate wi me. we got on okay but he thougt i was very shy.we didnt text for bout 3 days and then he text me and we talked for like 6 hours and to ... (213 words

Condom talk and pregnant test talk have turned him off from sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for about a year now. Last week, we were getting hot and heavy and after all that, I asked him if he ever thought about having sex. I'm still a virgin, I don't know about him but I'm pretty sure he still is. Anyway, he had this big smile ... (152 words

Women over 40 and experiences of getting pregnant

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4733 days ago

8 May 2011 (? age 51-59 - My partner and I are trying to concieve. She is 40, I am 42. I have had 2 children, over 13 years ago, with another partner. She has never been pregnant. SHe has been taking prenatal vitamins. My partner is having surgery to remove polyps in her uterus. Her reproductive... (253 words

I just don't feel comfortable in THAT bed anymore.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hey, I need some help to be able to get back into my boyfriend's bed after finding him in bed with two girls a couple of weeks ago...now, every time I go into his bedroom, I get a sinking feeling and can't get into his bed. So, some background: we've been together 7 month... (483 words

How do I divide time between my best friend her brother whom I'm dating?

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8 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - So I asked out my best friend's younger brother yesterday, he said yes, and we were both overjoyed. She said we were cute together, but I'm not sure how to divide time between the two when I'm over at her place. She always said she felt like he was "stealing me away" and I'm ... (73 words

Is he just naturally affectionate and his action don't mean anything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I'm really confused right now. I told this guy that I liked him and he said he liked me too (supposedly) but he's really busy and doesn't think he has the time for a relationship. So we've been friends and we hang out as normal. But I just can't shake my feelings for him and ... (231 words

He never makes a move! Should I chase him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4731 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - do i need to chase him? this guy im dating never made a move for approximately 4 dates in which i invited him. i did keep wondering that whenever i ask him out, if he doesnt like me, he wouldve said no but he never said no to my invites, neither did he made any move to pursue m... (668 words

I miss hearing someone say I'm beautiful

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8 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - I don't find myself attractive. I think I'm fat and ugly. My ldr bf used to call me beautiful all the time... But now were not together anymore, and I still love him, but am trying to move on. And there's this other boy who lives in another town thtat thinks I'm pretty and a... (244 words

I miss oral sex and foreplay. Should I cheat on my fiance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 51-59 - my fiance doesnt want to give me any oral sex getting really frustrated,im a very pretty girl never had this problem before,i couldnt get ant of my other boyfriends to get out of my vagina,yet he cant even toch it i dont even think ha has ever fingerd me,and the few times he ... (203 words

What does it mean to say someone is "damaged"?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

8 May 2011 (M age 51-59 - So Aunts, I have a question. I have been hearing this statement a lot in the past few years. "You don't want to date her; she's damaged," or "Because of all his experiences, he's unfortunately damaged." What does it mean to be "damaged"? And, if someone is damaged, do... (72 words

Guy who I know is gay is dating my best friend who is a girl. Should I tell her??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - So a couple of days ago I found out my friend is gay, (I suspected it though he came out and told me) But he has been dating my best friend for over a year... and he like see’s these guys behind her back and things. I have some proof on my computer about him being gay, (i fo... (104 words

She smiles at me, and turns away when I look at her. Are these signs that she likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

8 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - I like this girl in my class and I think she likes me too because I notice her glancing at me a few times and when she notices that I'm looking at her, she quickly looks somewhere else. And when I'm presenting my work in my class, I notice her looking with a smiley blushing ... (73 words

Guy who I like so much got a gf. Should I wait for him or move on??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4735 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Ok well,I met a guy around the end of November,well..we started talking on facebook and i really started to like him. we met up in January after he had come back from his holiday and i thought it went really well but we didnt see each other since apart from at a bar but i didnt ... (388 words

Torn between husband who is good provider but cold, & poor but affectionate bf. Help!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I live with my sons dad and I have another boyfriend on the side, but I'll explain..my sons dad is 55 and he never--I mean never--touches me, hugs kisses or has sex with me and it's been 2 years. However he thinks we should be together for the sake of our son which I agree but ... (209 words

I'm still in contact with ex-bf, but gets me so angry with his flakiness and provocations. How should I handle this??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - I've been having trouble with my ex. I broke up with him because he stopped spending time with me. Maybe its the fact he was going to school full time, depressed, unhappy with his life..whatever it is, I broke up thinking itd make me feel better and id stop caring..but it ... (514 words

Obsessed with a girl for 4 years! How do I get over her??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

8 May 2011 (? age 26-29 - Hi, i'm Sean. I'll try to make this as interesting and as short as possible, sorry if it is otherwise. About 4 years ago, i met this girl on the internet, and since that day we could not stop talking to each other. We talked to each other every night for about 1 year we ... (517 words

I think my married teacher is having an affair with another teacher! Can I intervene??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - So I am madly crushing on my teacher. Don't worry this isn't one of those stupid "should I tell him!?" questions. I know he'll never reciprocate my feelings and I never plan to tell him and I am perfectly comfy with him not knowing and liking him from a distance. The REAL ... (382 words

After a string a bad relationships, I'm losing my faith that I'll ever find Mr. Right.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4673 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - This is not really a question, exactly... just that I've been having really bad luck with men for the last year. A few one night stands, loads of dates, but somehow from the guy who already had a girlfriend to the commitment phobe and the one who was perfectly nice but I just ... (171 words

The guy I have finally fallen in love with...has a girlfriend! How do I deal with this??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4705 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - This situation is tearing me up inside, and I am probably going to be judged for my words but I don't have anyone here I can talk to about it! What do you do when you have been in unrequited love a series of times, finally find someone, fall for that person... but th... (1629 words

My husband want to take a break from our rocky marriage by having sex with other women! And he says people do this all the time!!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

8 May 2011 (? age 30-35 - hey. im 25 years old and married. ive known my husband for 10 years, dating for 5, married for 3. we are going through a rocky patch. my husband has suggested we split for a week or two and have sex with someone else. i am worried though that he will prefer this woman (or wome... (96 words

After my break-up: Should I listen to my head that says "move on", or to my heart that says "wait for him"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4735 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - So, there's this guy. He was amazing in every sense of the word. He listened to me when I needed him, he'd hold me tight when I was sad, he talked to me every day and told me he loved me.... And then we broke up. I was upset over officer Tirado dying (he was the police offic... (387 words

My bf is not too interested in sex with me. What should I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4733 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for just under a year. We are both in our twenties. The first 6 months we used to have sex all the time. Now, our sex life is near nothing. We only have sex in bed and lucky if its once or twice a week. It lasts 10 minutes maybe and very ... (274 words

Does being ambidextrous mean I have something developmentally wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - This isn't exactly a relationship but a question about human biology... it's not sexual but a question about my body. I hope that counts? It's not a serious problem but I'm just dying of curiosity. I don't have a dominant hand and don't think I ever did. My handwriting a... (338 words

My boyfriend never wants to take any pictures with me & I have no idea why!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - First off I would just like to say I'm not the type of girl that stops and wants to take pictures every 5 seconds. I'm not that way at all, I actually kind of don't like taking pictures much because I don't like the way I look.. but anyways besides that, I have been wanting to ... (185 words

How can I make my Mom stop worrying about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4735 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - I should feel really grateful that my mom is still around for me to love, and I AM. My problem isn't particularly serious but I feel a little bit guilty because tomorrow is Mother's Day and I'm far away from my mom. Right now, I'm living in Mexico. I teach English here and... (327 words

What does he want and what should I do? I'm confused...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4730 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - I have a few questions. It's this guy, he's a few years older, we know each other from football practise and he has never ever shown any sign of intrest utill like a month ago. He asked if i wanted to go eat pizza after practise since both of us was really hungry. I said I... (347 words

Talking dirty advice and erection problems!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - (Mod note: two questions from same user combined.) can anyone please tell me what are the ways that I can turn a guy on and how to talk dirty, my boyfriend and I have difficulties when trying to make out and he told me talk dirty might help, but i don't know how..... my "bo... (291 words

How do I find the right man

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age - I seem to be getting involved with the wrong men I have a boyfriend now but he will move out next month he cooks cleans and we take turns doing the laundry and dishes I have a 18 year old handicapped daughter he is demanding and to me overkill with being clean he is separate... (147 words

Is it over? Why does he lie and hide things from me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

8 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - I Love my man so much, but he lies to me and keeps secrets. I now this as I'll confront him and he'll admit it... Why not just be honest with me in the first place? We went out last night and I knew he had business whilst we were out, he said he'd be ten minutes and left me ... (225 words

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