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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do men find skinny girls sexier than curvy girls?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I want you opinions men and women! I want to know do men find skinny girls sexier than curvy girls? i used to be rake thin and prided my self on that but now im older i have got bigger and im worried men wont fancy me as me! Given a choice what sort of sized woman would you ... (60 words)

On-line friend suddenly cut contact, but I'm still talking to her brother and want to visit their family!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So i'm in a little bit of a pickle. I am nearly 17 years old in July and i need support on an idea/decision i have made. I have been friends with my "online friends" for about 2 years. I live in Scotland, "tamara" lives in London and "Suzi" lives in Germany. Tamara and Suzi ... (463 words)

Help me, what should I do with this long distance relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4712 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i m in LDR for the last three years..... we deeply madly inlove with eachother.... sumthing happened 2 years ago that created lots n lots of troubles for both of us ... and eventually we had to get departed cuz NOW our families would nt let us get together ever again....but ... (557 words)

Six months and still he's delaying making out. Should I continue? Why is he so reluctant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend an I have been going out for 6 months now. We have kissed before, but i really want to make out with him. I have dropped subtle hints and even plain out told him. He says he wants to also, but will not follow through. I keep thinking, maybe he just doesn't like... (77 words)

The future holds... holds what for us? I'm so conflicted and uncertain!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4715 days ago

29 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I feel so conflicted I'm not sure where to start, I'm in a relationship with a girl I'm certain could be the love of my life, we love eachother so much, we talk about anything, we're happy, but there's one thing we can't figure out: the future. In the past we've discuss... (359 words)

How do I find out if there's a chance for us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4715 days ago

29 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-this-a-date-or-just-2-friends.html So I and my new friend went to that restaurant on Wednesday, before and after that he came to my place and we chatted for many hours and they were beautiful. I am now more in love with him be... (237 words)

The guy I dated briefly said that I scared him with my questions!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated this great guy for a month. He said on the third date that he like me very much, we also had such a great time togheter, lots of laugh,and a great chemistry. We were also very attracted to eachoter, even though we didnt have sex (he said it was ok for him to wait).We ... (342 words)

Should I forgive my mother?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I want some advice, my mother and i have always had a strained relationship, she made me live with my grandparents as a child and then would up and move me every time she found a new boyfreind, then as i got older she would help me get a car etc and then a few months later say ... (145 words)

Can women tell when men have erections, by looking?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4694 days ago

29 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I was reading the question about the guy who wondered if his girlfriend felt his erection when she brushed up against it while cuddling. It made me think of something even more base, which is: Can women tell when men have erections by looking? As a guy if I... (151 words)

How do I tell my parents that I'm gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

29 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, this might no be quite the right place for this but its the only place i know so :) i was wondering how to tell people im gay, all my friends know. but i need to tell my mum and my step dad and i really don't know how to. i would really like advice from anyone who has ... (81 words)

I'm wondering if this is all for nothing!

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29 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been married for 3 years and I thought we were doing okay. My husband's has issues with the way I raise my children two teenage girls whom has been with us for 4 years now. He is very emotionally needy for a Soldier. I do everything around the house for he and the girls ... (226 words)

Any good health tips, anyone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. I am 14 and this summer my goal is to be fit. It's not so much as losing weight as it is about becoming healthy. I want to have nice skin and a nice, healthy body. I've been doing research about vitamins I can take such as fish oil, vitamin E, flaxseed oil,and biotin. Not ... (135 words)

My insecurity is starting to affect my way of living and my relationship with my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - im a very insecure person, i dont like the way i look at all and unfortunately its started to effect my way of living. to make things slightly worse, i have a very good looking boyfriend. he knows it and so does everyone else. i always get 'you're so lucky to have him' from ... (167 words)

Disastrous visit to best friend and a hurtful remark!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

29 May 2011 (?)

- My best friend and I live about 1300 miles apart. I went to visit her in Florida for a weeks vacation. Things didn't go as well as I would have hoped. The problem was her husband hung on us every minute. I could tell she was uncomfortable and I was feeling like the third wheel. ... (122 words)

Falling for my best friend but my heart loves another too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey there im stuck in a mess with my best friend and my heart ive been in love with someone for 3years but dosent know, my best friends dose me and him have got very close and the more im with him the more i like him, the problem is should i follow my heart or my feeling ... (174 words)

My boyfriend wants to take our relationship to the next level and have oral sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, I really need some help. So me and my boyfriend have been dating over almost a year now. We are closer to each other than anyone else, and everyone knows it too. We were bestfriends before we started daying and had known each other for two years, so now i've known him for ... (152 words)

Is her telling me something like this her way of trying to make me think of her in a sexual context?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

29 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - A girl at work told me she had an embarrassing accident recently- her dress came apart and her breasts were exposed at a party. She told me this whilst we were alone. As the story finished, someone else walked in and she got embarrassed. Is the fact she wasn't shy to tell me ... (143 words)

Why would he lie about ending the relationship with this other girl if we were already dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend used to be in an open relationship when we stared giong but he told me he wanted to settle down and have a serious relationship with me, after he told me he had dumped her we spended around a month just dateing and he slept with two girls but since the day we ... (98 words)

No longer attracted to my wife

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

29 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Im not attracted to my wife. i know it sounds shallow and i feel guilty as hell about it, but no matter how hard i try to look at her with the same affection i used to have for her, i just dont have it anymore. i dont like kissing her and i dont like it when she touches me. i ... (264 words)

Is it normal to have such an amazing day with an amazing guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - so, me and my boyfriend had an amzing day yesterday. it's not often that i get to hangout with him unless it's at my house. so, when i got to hang out with him yesterday, we could do anything. it felt like we could travel to the moon. so, we went on these old trails behind the ... (176 words)

What's the problem here: Her or Me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 May 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm a guy, and there is a girl I met semi-recently and developed strong romantic feelings for. We've know each other about 4 mos, we've hung out, partied, we talk on Facebook, we text and we talk. She knows i like her as more than just a friend. She ONLY wants to be friends. La... (396 words)

I'm afraid he'll become more than friends with his childhood pal

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my bf have been together for 3 years, before our 2 years anniversary, a messed up situation occured between us and I know most relationships encounter this problem. It's not cheating, but we broke up and a friend of mine asked him to hang out with her and they kissed, ... (380 words)

Is it normal for a girl to bleed even at the third time of sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - so about half month ago I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time and i sort of bled a lot that we had to stop. I had some spotting for the following few days, which seemed to be normal according to what others say online. Then 4 days later when I thought that everything ... (165 words)

I am only attracted to older men

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I am only attracted to older men and that's not an exaggeration. For an attraction to be there there has to be a mature age (40-50). I have tried going out with guys my own age and I just was never turned on or excited by them. If I am with an older guy it feels like a h... (88 words)

Have I blown my chances with the girl who liked me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been flirting with a girl pretty heavily over the last three months online after we met in person through an extracurricular club at uni. She made is pretty clear she liked me a lot, and I hinted just as much back. I've never had a proper girlfriend before though (I'm ... (581 words)

How to get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone! I just have one question. How can I move on? I'm in love with an amazing man - smart, funny, charming, sexy, everything I've ever dreampt of. We'll call him J. We're great friends, and he's told me how much that means to him as well as that he really cares ab... (606 words)

I want to do something for him to show him how much I love and appreciate him...Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey guys - I need some ideas for something special I can do for my boyfriend. We're both sixteen and have been together a long while; we're happy I guess but recently it hasn't been quite so ... I dunno, nothing's wrong but I think we've been a bit more distant and not so ... (169 words)

He lied to me in the beginning of our relationship and I still can't trust him 2 years later

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf once messed me around a bit by meeting up with his [stunning] ex-girlfriend for coffee and lying to me about it, saying he hadn't. I also found pictures of her on his computer, saved after we had started dating. This was 2 years ago. We had a massive row and decided to ... (181 words)

Asking for forgiveness and trying to talk to a girl a year later?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I had a huge fight and fallout with this girl. Granted I don't feel the same way I used to about her but I still care for her. When it first happened I apologized but she seemed really upset and angry. I decided to give her some time and space. Idk why I care or want to do ... (133 words)

He says he's not ready for a relationship, but wants to continue dating...I'm not sure I want to go along with this.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there.. i really need some of ur help pls..u see one of my guy friends asked me for a date..we have been friends for like a year. I went out with him just yesterday and this morning he talked to me and all..he also said that he didnt want to hide anything from me and told me ... (140 words)

Is it better that I am not with him anymore or should I try to get back with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I was in a relationship with this guy. He though seemed to hate himself quite a bit and was really down and depressed. He would tell me about how happy he was to be with me but it got scary because he kept putting me on this pedastal acting like I was some type of ... (361 words)

Should I contact my ex-fiance?

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29 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My fiance broke up with me about a year ago, and just recently i just found out that she was asking about me, if i was dating or still single. I was shocked to hear about that because i never thought to hear from her again, but i can honestly say i still have feelings for her ... (330 words)

How long should I wait to start a new relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

29 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my girlfriend of 18 months about 3 weeks ago, and last week I met someone I really really like. People say you should wait a while to try and get over your ex but I feel like I am done with her - I dont think about her(excluding now), I only talk about her when ... (182 words)

Is this just a glitch in our relationship or should I worry?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4710 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, I need some help to work out how I feel about my bf - when I'm not with him, I miss him, and think how much I love him; but lately, when I spend time with him, I find myself getting bored and irritated, and I'm not sure if this is normal or if it indicates that things are ... (643 words)

Where are my friends when I need them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - i met a guy 12 years older than me, said he loved me (very early on, mentioned marriage etc) he really charmed me, promised me and my son all sorts (without any prompting from me) even though he had not met my son. the things he was saying didn't ring true but ignored my ... (412 words)

Am I being ignored? Why no messages back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Here's one of those typical, age old "Why isn't he contacting me back?!" scenarios. I went on a date last week. I felt it went super well. I had fun and was extremely attracted to my date. He seemed into me. So, the next afternoon, I decided to just message him a thanks and... (375 words)

Fat Admirers - Where are they? Do they exist?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - The idea of being in a relationship with a FA, or fat admirer, has always... intrigued me. I've met one in the past and ever since I've been incredibly interested in trying such a relationship out. I can't seem to find many more, which I'm assuming is either because a) they ... (139 words)

Last night I lost my virginity to him. Now I'm jealous of his past

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 23 years old and lost my virginity to my 26 years old boyfriend of 7 months last night. He's my frist boyfriend, my first kiss, my first everything, but I'm not his first. I'll start at the beginning because it will be a little easier to follow. In the beginning, we never... (404 words)

I don't like the engagement ring he gave me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance recently surprised me with an engagement ring. He knew I preferred white gold, but got me a yellow gold one. I do love my ring, but it matches nothing I wear and with me being OCD I'm now having to get all new jewellery and accessories to match. What do I do? If I off... (71 words)

I can convince myself of anything, just by saying it out loud

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I don’t know how I manage to do this but I can trick my brain into thinking something completely different to how I’m really feeling. It sounds odd, but If I speak out loud what I want to hear or feel like, I can change my brain way of thinking and how I look at something!? ... (233 words)

I don't like how she handles arguments!

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29 May 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Im dating this 1 girl for 5 months now and the first couple of months, she was amazing and loving towards me but i guess after some time she has changed so much, i really dont know what to do. She has been the girl of my dreams. When ever theres an argument or somethi... (229 words)

I am at a point in my life where I can't stop hating men and it is poisoning me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I need some help. I am at a point in my life where I can't stop hating men and it is poisoning me. Six years ago I was kidnapped and raped by a very sick individual. Since then I have honestly tried to not look for evil in men, I really did but I find it hard to ... (443 words)

My boyfriend has flunked the last year at school. should I break up with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and i have been dating for a year, i love him so much and i think he still has some feelings for me BUT the problem is for the past week he has been ignoring me....i was curious to know why then i found out he got grounded because he failed the whole ... (121 words)

Here I am, on a bad economical market with no plan B. How can I get back on track?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, this is not a relationship question, but I need your help anyway. To cut to the chase: I'm a 24 year old woman and I'm not sure about what to do with my life. I'm going to give some backstory. Sorry if it's boring, but I need someone to give some insight. Everyth... (375 words)

How can she love me but still have feelings for someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Here's my dilemma.. I have been with this girl for two years.. We net at our old job. She has been wonderful to me, and we were very much in love, to the point we had a child together who is now 9 months old. Just recently she broke it off with me, due to things I had not done ... (556 words)

Last night I danced with a guy, I really like him... but I've got a boyfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I really need some advice for this problem. Ok so i have a boyfriend of almost 3 months now. Hes a great guy, whose sweet and funny and cute.(IRONIC i had ended with my ex to go with him, because my ex was being a jerk) However last night i went to a party a... (297 words)

I saw my ex smile and kiss his new girl, and even though I have a new boyfriend now, my heart dropped. If they break up, I know he will come to cry on my shoulder....Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4710 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my boyfriend split up a while ago now, and i am now with another boy that is treating me like I'm the only girl in his world! if he think I'm upset he'll ring me straight away, the biggest smile ever comes on his face when he sees me walking towards him! he amazing to ... (319 words)

Staying true to myself doesn't make me cool, and if you're not cool do you stand a chance with women?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been trying to change who I am for the past two years, and it has not worked. If I'm honest, I've never been "cool", I've always been slightly kooky and individual. That all changed when I got jealous of my peers in relationships and felt like a loner, I began to hate ... (136 words)

If a guy replies to your texts straight away, the first time you contact him, does that mean he likes you ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - This might seem like a funny question but if a guy replies to your texts straight away, the first time you contact him, does that mean he likes you ?. This guy gave me his number a few days ago, and i got intouch with him, and he replied to my texts straight away. I'm supposed ... (115 words)

He left me heartbroken. How can I get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Your Open Question: Why is he doing this? am so hurt:( he broke my heart:(? I loved my ex bf so much. I thought we were happy and in love. He use to tell me he loves me everyday. Then he started acting weird and broke up with me. After the break up whenever I'd... (189 words)

I think my boyfriend is losing interest

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, quick question. Lately I've feel that my bf has been growing distant and he tells me that when I am away he's indifferent to the relationship but when I am with him he loves me. well lately he's been (I feel) not treating me with respect and he tends to say negitive ... (271 words)

I'm an awkward duck, and not comfortable with myself. Therefore, love isn't in the cards for me. Right??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - The only time when I feel comfortable and I can truly be myself (whoever that is) is when I am with my family or 2 of my friends whom I have known for years. Other than that, I find it so hard to interact with people. I always get the impression that people think I’m a bit of ... (640 words)

He patronizes me, and doesn't take it seriously when I try to talk to him about it! Is the respect gone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So I'll give you the background, I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year and a half and for the most part everything has been great, it's been since we've started our GCSE's that problems have been arising, mostly because of my absolute hate for being beaten or ... (321 words)

He's kept me as a secret lover for 3 years, and recently revieled he's got an 18 month old daughter! Now he ignores me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I come to this point that I’m, looking for others people opinion. Here is my story. I met this guy at work about 3 years ago we start sleeping together, there is a difference in years between us (he is 30 I’m 41); he said that’s not a problem for him. I’m very much in love wit... (383 words)

Is it asking too much to want to be loved?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. I think I need some help. I'm a lonely 24 year old guy. I have a few close friends but thats about it. I want someone to love me though. I was with someone 8 years ago, but after that ended i haven't been with anyone. I have female friends and just when t... (191 words)

I tortured him because he loved me. I'm a idiot.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - There was this guy that love me so much that it made me kinda hate him so used to do a lot of hateful things to him so he would suffer because I knew he would keep coming back for more no matter what. He finally left me and I can't forgive myself because I been stalking him for ... (250 words)

What do boys like for birthdays?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - What exactly do boys like for birthdays? Well, I have this really cool boy friend, as in a friend who is a boy,are there any presents I can get him without him getting the wrong idea. Alright, I once had this friend(whos a boy), I actually gave him this jersey for his birthday, ... (105 words)

My husband wont end his affair

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, i was hoping someone could advise me on my heartbreaking marriage. 3 years ago i found out my husband was having an affair, he swore he would give her up but he never did. Throught the 3 years ive found upto 30 secret phones - i bin them but he just buys another one. I f... (350 words)

The girl I like doesn't have any regard for me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 May 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - the girl i like said that she didnt like me. We were friends before until she found out that i liked her and it all started getting awkward between us. To end this awkwardness between us, i just said that i am over her and just wanna be good friends again....since then we have ... (212 words)

My beauty therapist is upset I don't buy all my products from her so now she doesn't treat me well!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I suffer from spotty skin so for the past 2 years I've been seeing this beauty therapist who gives me specialised facials. I have noticed a great improvement with them. Now she also reccomends certain products which she sells. For the past 2 years I've been purchasing these ... (456 words)

Guys do not respect our relationship and hit on my girlfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a really large frustration and would love some input and suggestions. i'm gay and have a great, happy relationship with my girlfriend. we've been together for two years now. she's beautiful. she's got a gorgeous face, sexy figure. she's extremely feminine and attractive. ... (390 words)

Do dotted and ribbed condoms make a difference?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4715 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - do ribbed and dotted condoms (such as durex pleasure max) actually make a difference to your sex life? can both partners feel the difference and is it a pleasureable difference? please let me know your experiences, stories, tips or advice with these type of condoms as i am int... (70 words)

Boyfriend always makes me initiate sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - when me + my boyriend got together we were both virgins . we have been together for 8 months + have been having safe sex for just 1 month. i enjoy having sex with him, but it always seems to be the same. he will innitiate it, + then lie back + expect me to take control.... (106 words)

Now that we've met he doesn't initiate contact like before?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all. I would appreciate some opinions on this matter. Thanks! I met a guy on a dating website. It is the first time I have ever used a site like that. We got to know each other and eventually met. I think it went well, and I really like him. That was two weeks ago. We ha... (230 words)

Confused about her signals. Does she like me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Me [18] and my college friends have recently started clubbing, and a friend of a friend called Rosie has joined us. I quite like her, and suspect she likes me. She laughs at unfunny jokes and 'brushes' against me whenever she can, holds my hands to dance, turns herself towards ... (183 words)

How should I handle living with my arty boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I am wondering if 'arty' people are difficult to live with in general? Is it hard to live with someone who likes to shut themselves away for a couple of days at a time while they fulfil this need to create? I'm asking this question because my bf of nearly a year is a musi... (254 words)

How do I end the relationship when we hardly speak?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

29 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey... everyone, i got this kind of confusion.. about my long distance relationship... am 17 and he's 21 and its been a year that we are apart.. but now i somehow feel that we need 2 end it.. but i dont know how to as we hardly speak cause he is busy all day long and ... (98 words)

His mother treats him badly. How can I help my boyfriend?

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29 May 2011 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been together for almost over 2 years not and he has a lot of problems with his mother. at the age of 12 she sent him to military school for no reason.. it ruined him. he still cries when he's alone. He is now forced to sleep in his van because his aunt ... (245 words)

Could my environment make me gay??

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29 May 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - i am 16 years old, when i was 13, i liked girls very much, i imagined sexual fantasy with girls. but now, after i entrance to high school, high school for men, just men, in this school there are no girls.. i start imagine sexual fantasy with boy. i just wanna go back to the ... (121 words)

How do I leave the man I love and start over at my age?

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29 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ummm....I am confused because I am in love with someone that is not willing to love me the way I had hoped to be loved. We have been in a relationship for over 8 years and I know that both of us have been faithful to each other. He is a workaholic and consumed with earning a ... (309 words)

Guys: How experienced do you like your girl to be?

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29 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So here's a question to the guys out here. Do you like the girl to just lay there during the first times you have sex with her so that you can feel more confident, do you like that she takes some initiative (like?) or do you just want to sit back and enjoy the ride? ... (110 words)

Remained friends even though she has a boyfriend, but she still hurt me

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29 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi Everyone, I’ve been aware of DearCupid for a couple of months now but this is my first question. Well, it’s not really a question. I guess I need a place to vent and hopefully find some sense in my confusion. I apologize if it sounds too long-winded, but I want to be... (1625 words)

How to break up with the woman I'm cheating with?

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29 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I've felt been cheating on my wife for a few days now and I've just realized it is so wrong. I haven't done anything with the other girl yet. I just took her out for movie and coffee like 2 times. The thing is this girl is really into me, I'm scared when I break up with her ... (77 words)

I need some tips. What is the best way too lose weight?

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29 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i am 174cm tall and weigh 95 kg. Over the last three years I have put on five kilos. Most of the time I eat fairly good food but i think I definitely eat way too bigger portions. And I also do eat some bad food if I have the urge. I have been with my bf for about a year a... (287 words)

I don't know if she felt my erection

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29 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so me and my gf we kinda cuddling one day on the couch. I kissed her and after, her hand brushed up against my erection. She didn't seem to notice or nothing. And after she said she was completely comfortable and didnt mention it. Do you think she noticed? Did she think it ... (72 words)

How can I learn how to kiss, especially how to neck?

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29 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I am not a good kisser. I admit that. I don't really know what I am doing. Women I have been with have either told me that outright or in indirect fashion by saying things like "I felt you were pulling away" or "I felt you just gave me a half-kiss." Some have said that I "... (525 words)

Is it far to keep me waiting? LDR woes

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29 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello.. I guess I will start off with some background info on my LDR. This may be a little lengthy, so please bear with me :) I met this guy online. He lives in the USA, I live in Australia. I have known him since Dec 2009 and we have pretty much spoken everyday since t... (600 words)

I have a bad smile. What can I do?

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29 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a pretty good-looking 20something male, with the exception that I have bad teeth. I don't mean just slightly crooked. They are not rotten, but really bad. They are stained, crooked, ground down, and overall I just feel awful about them. It really affects my relation... (777 words)

He's not asking me out...should I wait or move on?

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29 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been talking to this guy who works at my local supermarket on MSN for about two months, but I've never actually met him. About a month after we started talking, I mentioned this other guy, and he started arguing with me, telling me I'd found someone better and stuff like ... (121 words)

Did I get carried away flirting, at the bar? Not sure if I liked what I did! Help!

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29 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - The fact that i'm asking this straight after getting back from a night out just shows how concerned i am about the person i'm becoming. Tonight i went out and was stupid and the type of girl i'm normally not.. I went to this bar/club and i felt myself wanting as many ... (392 words)

Getting the place I deserve?

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29 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have very busy lives so we dont have time to see eachother a lot he used to be in an open relationship and he also dosent seem to put me in his priority list or at least not as high as i should be; how can i make him give me the place i deserve?... (60 words)

She accused me of touching her inappropriately! What do I do about this friend of mine?

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29 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a good friend who i hadn't seen in a few months but we talk everyday and have hung out a lot during the summer. Well we were hanging out today and the other day and she embarrassed me twice in public and It killed my mood so badly and i felt paranoid the whole time. This ... (280 words)

She has this annoying, troubling side to her personality...what should I do about it?

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29 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with this woman for over a year now, and I am truly starting to get annoyed to say the least. When I first got with her, she seemed to be what I was always searching for, but I noticed some early mood swings and dismissed them. She always seems to have a chip on h... (273 words)

Does my friend like me? I can't tell what he's thinking!

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29 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've known this guy for about 2-3 yrs. Hes my best friend's friend. Ive only hung with him at my friends house. Recently my best friend got married and his friend "Matt" was there. We sat at the same table and even though we've hung out before i never got to hang alone w/ ... (412 words)

What is the difference in these terms?

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29 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - What is the difference between these terms or states of a relationship in the American (or Western) culture? * Friendship * Dating * Relationship * Boyfriend/girlfriend Thanks... (36 words)

Boyfriend talks about sex but when the opportunity arises he backs out!

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29 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 1 year and 4 months (whos counting :P) and i am really beginning to think that i love him. the problem im having is that we are always talking about having sex, but when an opportunity comes up, he backs out. i dont understand why, ... (71 words)

He's trying to cope with our break up..how can I help him?

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29 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay I'm gonna try to keep things simple here...Ive liked this guy since 4th grade..and in 8th grade I finally got him. Things were going well for a middle school relationship I guess until a high school boy started liking me..so of course I chose him..my boyfriend was very ... (130 words)

I'm so angry and regret giving him my virginity..any advice?!

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29 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i have been really close to this one boy for almost a year and i have never felt this way about anyone before! but he gets through girls really quickely and i was just another one of them but then we both lost our v with each other a few weeks ago and since then he has given me ... (201 words)

Boyfriend spends all of his money on or for his mom. There's none left for me!

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29 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I love my boyfriend but I'm so very sick of hearing sob stories he is always broke. He lives with his mom, pays all the bills, and also just gives money. I admire someone who can help their mom so much...but when it comes time for me, his finances are depleted. It is so ... (208 words)

I'm wondering if my ex still has feelings for me?

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29 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I was talking to my ex the other day n we were gonna make plans to go hiking just the two of us, n he said he'd have to check w/his new gf to make sure she was cool w/it. n I said ok np, do u think she'd be ok w/it or that its weird since im your ex? (we just broke up maybe ... (530 words)

What am I supposed to do? Trust my ex or this creepy guy friend of hers?

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29 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Everyone has heard the phrase love is not enough. Me personally I find it hard to believe that if someone says they love you and continue to do what they want that is not love. I recently broke up with my girlfriend. Maybe I was a little over zealous. Regardless she was to c... (532 words)

Angry boyfriend won't go to counceling even though he promised

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29 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I love my boyfriend very much. We have only been together for about 7 months but spent close to everyday around the clock together the whole time so we are very close and very used to one another being there. I know I should have left him, many of my friends tell me I deserve ... (568 words)

I am ashamed of my looks so I used photos of a model instead of myself online!

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29 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel so sad and ashamed! I am very insecure about myself even though some ppl have told me I'm pretty I just don't see it or see mysef like that. Then I did a Horrible thing I'm terribly ashamed of. I pretended to be this other girl online. Actually I used a few girls and I ... (271 words)

Does it mean anything when he says he wished we slept together when we had the chance?

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29 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have liked a male friend of mine for a long time. Does it actually mean anything that he said he wished we'd slept together when we had the chance? Does it mean anything when he says he likes me better that he think I do? Does it mean anything when he's drunk and says he l... (72 words)