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Why do guys get handsy in a bar when a girl is JUST talking to them!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I don't understand why when i'm at a bar and a guy approaches me he seems nice, funny and pretty respectful at first. But then he'll start getting handsy whilst we're talking, such as putting his hand on my waist or bum and it's like they do it thinking i'm not aware of it!? I ... (183 words

I'm in frustrated love!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age - I'm "still" in love with my friend who is kind of still my boyfriend except we don't have sex now. I think he thinks we might not be quite right for each other in the long run, and so doesn't want to. But we spend endless hours together and he sleeps over in my bed and holds me ... (169 words

Please come back to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - Me and my ex have finally got talking after a couple of months of awkwardness. I still love him and have missed him a lot since we broke up. We broke up because he felt that we had drifted apart. Friends and people who don't even know me and him that well have said that he ... (114 words

How do I talk to my boyfriend about the abortion?

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22 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - How do I talk to my boyfriend about my abortion? It was a mutual decision that now was not the time, however we've been rowing a lot since. When we sat down to talk earlier today we realized we were both so raw after whats happened. We are usually very close and can tell eac... (99 words

What is cream pie?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I'm 19 years old and i had my first intercourse at 17. I do not have a boyfriend but I have a partner. Whenever we cant meet up I use my toy and sometimes there's a white creamy liquid on the toy. I'm wondering if that is girl cum or what? I've seen that in porn too its called ... (97 words

About to be married and I'm terrified... Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I need help here please. i am an 18 year old who is about to get married, ive had lots of friends with benefits in the past and 2 serious boyfriends. I love my 22 year old boyfriend so much i feel and im sure he is the one for me. We love each other a lot !he has been ... (123 words

Yikes! My friends know I like him... help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4717 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - I like this guy and usually when I like someone I keep it quiet because I never think I'd have a chance with them anyway, and I don't want everyone knowing in case they think, "Yeah, okay, in your dreams mate". I didn't tell anybody but my best friend sort of figured out and ... (143 words

How do I get him back without sucking up to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - okay so this requires an insight into the male species! to cut a long story short, ive met this guy, at first we got on really reallly well, could talk for hours without any akwward moments ect... he would occasionally ignore me for a day though? but then he'd be back as usual ... (169 words

What does it say about a relationship when a guy says this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I was talking to my ex the other day n we were gonna make plans to go hiking just the two of us, n he said he'd have to check w/his new gf to make sure she was cool w/it. n I said ok np, do u think she'd be ok w/it or that its weird since im your ex? (we just broke up maybe ... (192 words

Can he stop me from moving?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hi, some advice please. I have an 11 month old son, I split from his dad, my husband due to him having an affair. Now I decided I wanted to leave the area to make a fresh start for myself and my son as they only live around the corner from me and I am going to lose the house ... (446 words

Does she like me...should I make a move at the part?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4720 days ago

22 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - ok so back in february i went to a friends party whos a girl. at her party i met one of her best friends who is single. i thought she was she cute but didn't look into it much. i had to leave earlier than most people and when i left she hugged me goodbye. last week i sa... (290 words

I don't know what's happened to me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I need serious help. feel free to stop reading here as its gonna be a long one but if you carry on it would be very appreciated :) so, rewind my life back about a year and i was popular, was doing well at my gcse's and (not meaning to boast) but i regulary had boys interested ... (585 words

Was my ex lying about his responses??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 51-59 - ex replied to my text (answered my questions etc) but added some irrelevant stuff that made me smile, but i responded again, and he said it was meant for someone else? Was he lying?... (37 words

How do I make him feel very bad??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - So Recently i Found Out My Ex Only Came Back To Me Beacause he Only wanted Sex. If Your Ex Is Just Using You For Sex How Would You Make Him Regret Using You? I Mean I Don't Just Want To Dump Him I Want To Make Him Feel Like Crap. So If Anyone Has Any ideas Please Help!... (60 words

Should I still try to be friends with her??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4723 days ago

22 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - my ex is 23 and im 20 we lived together for 6 months and dated for a year before we broke up. i broke up with her first because we just kept fighting about stupid things and i dunno i was just mad. then she broke up with me a week later saying she cant get over her broken heart ... (220 words

Should I try to explain all this or what??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - I dated this guy for a month. He was the first to tell me he really liked me. We kissed and cuddeled, but never had sex. (He wanted us to wait also). He talked about future plans, and acted like he was interested in a relationship with me. We had a little disagreement one day. ... (390 words

Should I tell my boyfriend about kissing this other guy or not??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - I had a massive argument with my boyfriend. Like a HUGE glass-throwing, wall-punching, screaming argument with him, and now that we have made up and are together again, I'm wondering whether I should be truthful with him, or just hide this secret so he doesn't get angry ... (491 words

I feel I had an unnecessary abortion, how do I stop crying over this??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - Im an emotional wreck after having a termination 3 months ago. My boyfriend and i planned the pregnancy and he promised me he would step upto the mark, move into my place and that we would get married as soon as i got pregnant. I had no reason to not trust him so i happily... (386 words

He stands up when his 10 year old sister enters the room, is this too much?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - What would you think of a guy (27) who is handsome, has a good job and basically has everything going right for him who actually physically stands up as a gesture of respect for his 10 years younger sister (17) when she enters the room and makes her sit in his place? And she ... (197 words

What's up with this girl?? does she like me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

22 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - Long story short. I met this girl with whom I'm befriended —if you could say that, actually I got the chance of meeting her through a friend of mine who's her friend too, now we 'all' hang out together— who's 'shy', like me. Before we were officially befriended —meaning... (1516 words

He lied about his age...Turns out he is 18!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hmmm so the guy I am dating is away for a month,visiting his family....and today I found out he lied to me about his age. he's a professional soccer player so I looked up his name and found his age. How we met : We were on the same bus on our way to the Bus Station.The b... (274 words

What is a good way to celebrate our first anniversary?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi all :) Next week my boyfriend and i will have been together a year and i'm looking for a great/interesting way to celebrate it. We are both 18 and still live with our parents and he has work 5 - 7.30 on that day Any ideas would be appriciated!:)... (60 words

He dumped me, but now he wants to be friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - What is going on here? am I being stupid? My ex boyfriend dumped me saying he doesn't want a relationship and that he fell out of love with me. He was devastated when we split, we got back into contact again and he's saying he wants to be friends cos he's got sex buddy n... (222 words

I don't know which way to go with this relationshio, suggestions??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4722 days ago

22 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hey Guys, So, a girl I knew, we started off as friends (she's a really attractive girl and I've had something physical for her from the start) and one night after I saw her chatting to one of my friends who she'd known before we became mates and I thought they were gonna ... (878 words

How do I get over my behavior with him??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - alright. so im friendly with all the guys. and one of my gay best friends... i was over at his house and he has a younger brother thats a year younger. so me and my friend were watching tv and all his bro friends came and were watching tv in a different room. i went over there ... (344 words

My boyfriend wants my approval to be friends with another woman??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I would just like some perspective. I am aware I sometimes make mountains out of mole hills but I think on this problem, Im justified in being upset. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4.5 years. Back in October he decided to look up and befriend this girl on facebook... (440 words

He broke up with me. I'm shocked and it hurts. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Dear agony aunts, help me! I'll try to keep it short: Me and the ex-boyfriend are in our early 20s. College students. Up until yesterday my life was completely normal. I didn't suspect anything was out of the ordinary. I went to my boyfriend's house and had lunch with ... (374 words

Guys: do you like being called 'hot'?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Random pretty silly question, but do guys like hearing that a girl thinks they're 'hot' what do they think when they hear that? Because i met this guy and the other day i was talking to his friend and he asked me what i thought of his friend (the guy i met a few days before) ... (139 words

I love my first cousin. is this wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - what am i going to do, im madly in love with my first cousin..we first felt this special connection when he went home on the Philippines when we were just 14, one night when we were both sleeping on the same bed, he just kissed me and i got so shocked didn´t say a word thinking ... (405 words

Is 8 months too soon to know you want to settle down with someone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hey, I'd love your advice on my situation and on whether 8 months is too soon to feel like you want to settle down with someone, please. I've been with my bf 8 months now. We met through friends, both of us happily single and not looking for relationships at the time, and ju... (443 words

Wife treated me badly for so long, I met someone else, but I want back what I used to feel for my wife!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

22 May 2011 (M age 41-50 - My wife and I have been together for 6 yrs and married for almost 4. It was love at first sight, well at least it was for her because she fell in love with me when we met through work and I was still married (no affair, I never even knew about it until after I was divorced ... (962 words

Can you be a military officer with an Associates degree?

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22 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Can you be an officer in the military with an Associates degree? Or do you have to have a higher degree such as a Bachelors or Masters? I really want to go to school to be a paralegal and I also want to join the military after a few years as a parelegal in civilian life. I... (62 words

Three really is a crowd

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4723 days ago

22 May 2011 (M age 36-40 - alright, i've been here before... asking about the safest way to broach the topic of a threesome with a couple i know. but i'm a punk, and while drinking tends to loosen many people's inhibitions, mine are fairly deep rooted, so it would take more liquor than i can stand to get ... (127 words

I've seen him once in three weeks, is he my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - hi there ive been seeing a guy for 3 weeks but only ive seen him once a week cause he owns his bussniss so hes busy and hes a singel dad like me am single mum. But dose it mean that hes my boyfriend?... (44 words

What should I do about my friend's smoking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4723 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - I recently found out recently that my friend is a smoker. Apparently she has been since the age of 13. Where I live it's the law that you have to be eighteen to smoke. She's still only sixteen. I'm usually alright with keeping her other secrets, but this is one I'm having ... (94 words

How can I help my friend when I think she's making the wrong decision?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4723 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - My friend has a guy. He's a year older than us, and unofficially regarded as THE best looking guy in his year. There was a bit of competition to see who would get him as there were quite a lot of girls who wanted him. My friend hung out with him a couple of times and told me ... (434 words

20 years older than me, is he just being friendly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - I know a man who is much older than me, and he winks at me every time he sees me, and he always says i am special, and he said that if he was 20 years younger, he would go after me. He also knew about this guy who treated me badly once, and he said that he would never treat me ... (85 words

Should I give my ex another chance or will he just continue his previous behavior?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hey everyone - would appreciate your thoughts! Basically just over a month ago my ex boyfriend was having doubts about our relationship as he was really unhappy and didn't know if it was us or something else that made him feel unhappy. He even doubted whether he still loved me ... (370 words

What is it about musicians?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - What is it about musicians that makes them so bloody attractive!? Such as singers, drummers, guitarists those sort of people who I used to hear on television shows people saying about how musicians are irresistible and that you shouldn't date a musician ever! That sort of stuff ... (187 words

Badly hurt by a married co-worker

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - Last year I had a thing with a co-worker, whom neglected to tell me he was married. We were close friends for 6 months before it got physical for 4 more months until i realized things were sketchy and that he was married. I was in love and stupid. Anyway, I ended it right away. ... (313 words

It sounds like he's making up a lie

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hello everyone, I have a slight issue with this boy who I like and apparently he likes me too. You see he was talking to me on the internet and I don't know if he thinks I am thick but he sent me a message which was apparently from this girl who he had, or thought he had h... (305 words

I want him back! Should I tell him or just stay friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4723 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 51-59 - I was with a man for 2 yrs and he broke up with me but we still had relations for a few months afterword then he told me he had a friend so we quit speaking then we started talking and texting all the time .recently we have gone back to when we first started dating we see each ... (120 words

Is it normal to have this high a sex drive or does it mean that I'm a sex addict ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Recently my sex drive has been considerably higher than my bf's. We have sex quite often at least three week sometimes everyday but while my bf finds this plenty I still don't find it enough. He will often have sex more often than he would like to keep me happy but I feel like ... (98 words

How can I gently let him down and make him stop, when he hasn't even said he's interested, but it is VERY obvious that he is?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4712 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - this is kind of a variation on the how to let him down easy question. he's a guy i work with (which makes it even more awkward), but the problem i have is that it's really obvious that he likes me (texts regularly, buys me coffee, always suggesting we meet outside work for... (188 words

I want slim legs, which aren't toned... is this possible?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - My legs are quite well-toned as I do lots of trampolining and cycling. But I hate how they look, it makes my legs seem very curvy and I know that a lot of men like curvy women but I just hate how my legs look so much. Is there any way which I can lose the muscle on my legs,... (101 words

Want to be more Naughty in bed!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Me and my bf have started talking about different things we would like to try in bed. And this is really good because lately things have been lacking a bit. Like I love sex and trying all sorts of things but I wouldnt say I have any extreme fetishes or anything. Last night he ... (271 words

LDR--is he always out of phone credits because he's talking to someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hey guys! please I really need some help!! Ok so my boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months now. I recently had to leave the country and now i am currently in America, while he's in Africa. First of all prom is coming up...and i get that he doesn't want to go alone, s... (172 words

I don't trust girls because I hook up with girls who are cheating on their boyfriends!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

22 May 2011 (M age 36-40 - hey everyone, i have a small issue..actually its a biiig issue, i dont trust girls anymore, its like i really cant see myself trustin a girl in my life, im a goodlooking guy and i consider myself to be a player, im in a long distance relationship for two years with a girl tha... (354 words

My husband wants a life away from his family

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4717 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - I really need help as my current situation is driving me to despair: My husband is a Latin musician with a dream of selling millions of albums worldwide, going on World Tours forever and living the life of a rock star. Now, back to Earth – we are a young family with two ... (1183 words

What do girls think about an 18 year old virgin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4698 days ago

22 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - theres a girlm i have started to like and she sounds like she likes me too as we flirt all the time and she immediately replies to my messages that i send her. theres this friend who we both know she went to school with this girl i like and im at college with her. me and... (186 words

Husband doesn't understand that I don't have alot of strength for sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - Porn is playing a vital role in runining the minds of our spouse. More than once, I found porn on laptops, emails, and mobiles. My husband claims that his friends sent them. I have come to find out that porn differs from real sex life. They actually take a break in-between the ... (194 words

I told my bf how I feel, he freaked out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - Dear Cupid My bf of 2 years lately is keep on taking me for granted, spending most of the time with his friends, not spending enough time with me. Even if i am busy with something i used to pick up his call all the time, if he calls at all, he always comes first. I to... (129 words

I want to sleep with my co-worker but I know he would only be in it for sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I don’t know what to do. I don’t have any friends to talk to about this, so I’m coming here to get help before I make a fool of myself. There’s this guy (I know, so typical) anyway, I’ve been working with his for the past 2 ½ years. I’ve liked him since he started working with ... (558 words

I shouldn't still care for this guy, but I do and it feels like my heart is just breaking...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4723 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Here it goes, me and this guy have been friends for a long time. An have been off and on again FWB's over the past three years. We have talked about being in a relationship, but never ended up in one cause he says he is in love with another women. Even though he always has ... (190 words

We run out of things to talk about!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - ok so my boyfriend is in New Mexico at the moment and i hate being away from him and we talk every night but he always wants me to come up with the topics. I HAVE RAN OUT OF THINGS. but he gets mad at me when i dont have anything and we just ended our phone convo in a fight ... (131 words

Should I try again? The last time I asked her out she said she wasn't dating

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

22 May 2011 (M age 36-40 - So I was in another city visiting some friends so we could go to a comic convention. I went to visit an old friend at work (we still keep in contact) and give her a gift I found her. She seemed so happy to see me. She kept hugging me and laughing and poking me. She said I liked ... (165 words

Friend planning on having unprotected sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - My friend is planning on having unprotected sex with her boyfriend and I'm seriously worried she'll end up preagant at 17 but she won't listen to me when I tell her to get on the pill of use a condom and I don't know what do to get her to listen? She's crazy in love and lust.... (57 words

Is there a chance for us? What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4595 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - There's this guy I've been interested in for, well, basically my whole life, but it's really quite complicated. Let's call him Tim. We were best friends in elementary school and had crushes on each other off and on for like, 3rd-5th grade. Neither one of us really ever did ... (806 words

5 months of dating and he won't introduce me to his family!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for 5 months but he doesnt want to introduce to me his family.i have already introduce him to some of my family members.and i found out that he has a child from previous relationship bt he denies that.and the mother of the child have a good ... (87 words

Do men like being pursued?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I don't mean excessively, like being stalked or texted every two seconds, but the man I am interested in is notorious for not keeping in touch with anyone of his own accord. We go to the same college, and sometimes (maybe once or twice a week) I wait for him outside his ... (318 words

In a long distance relationship but there's someone flirting with him - should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I've recently entered into a long-distance relationship with a chap from Britain. We're both very attracted to each other, and talk almost every day (we've known each other for a year, and have recently gotten quite close). I'm saving up to go out to meet him, but there's ... (357 words

I really care for my friend but think our personalities would crash if we tried dating!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4724 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - I have a really great friend that's stuck with me for years, and this recent he's clearly displayed signs of wanting to be more than just friends. I've never thought of him that way but I wouldn't mind giving him a chance. The problem is that I think we get along great as ... (372 words

The way my husband acts I think he hates me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - I have had some problems with my husband and the problem is sometimes I feel that he hates me by his actions, when we first met he was the type to go out and party, but me, I was a homebody and I still am to this day, when we got together he stopped everyrhing for me, I did not ... (231 words

He wanted to kiss me but I was too scared!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Girls (or guys) I need help. I just went to my second date with a guy and everything was so fun, before he left, the only thing I've been able to say is "..eh...hug??". Like last time. MY GOD. And i'm seeing him again in a few days. On our first date he wanted to kiss m... (135 words

I have too much hair!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Every since I was about 11 or so, I've been ridiculously hairy. Kids used to tease me about it but I wouldn't let it get to me. It wasn't until I reached high school that it really started to bother me. I have hair on my upper lip, chin and breasts but I can't seem to get rid ... (118 words

Her told her to go hide in the basement! Does he have a girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I am asking this question for a friend of mind and she was at this guy house whom she sorta likes and he was about to take her home when a car pulled up. He then quickly told her to go wait in his room and then he was like no, go in the basement. Obviously trying to hide her ... (115 words

Ever since he seen me with a guy friend he won't talk to me, he's even changed his phone number!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Okay, Im a bit confused, Theres this guy " Joshua" that Ive been talking too and things seem really great. The first time I've met him, he was really quiet around people but i always noticed that he ALWAYS stared at me. For a whole year, he constaly stares at me, even when i ... (213 words

A harmless peck on the cheek has caused my girlfriend to break up with me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - Im a bisexual in a relationship with a female.. I have been with her for 6 months now. Im an outgoing person, when I go out Im friendly, I talk to anyone... I have silly fun with my friends like hug, kiss (no tongue, just pecks on the lips, cheeks) and all that kind of stuff ... (279 words

I feel guilty that I told this guy I liked him. I have a boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - hello, i'm 20 and i have been with my boyfriend for 2 an a half years. A few weeks ago i went clubbing with 3 friends, one of which is my friend that i used to fancy when i was about 12 an i liked him for 4 years which he always new about. anyway i got very drunk on this ni... (255 words

Should I tell my future husband I had sex with a married man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - pls i need ur help. i was disvirgined by a married man and we both find it hard to leave each other. but i know one day i will have to go and settle down since he is settled down. we had sex a couple of times. i am worried about my future becos i am confusing whether to tell my ... (80 words

What can I wear for swimming? I have huge legs!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

22 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - I would love to go Swimming this summer and my Best friend just put up a swimming pool in her backyard and invited me but my big problem is i don't do the whole swimming suit thing not at all, My issue is my Huge legs and i won't even consider wearing shorts, Question is does ... (97 words

After 2.5 years I still don't enjoy sex!

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22 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - hi im 20 and have been with my boyfriend for 2 an a half years. we have been having sex for about a year an a half an we were both virgins before that. we have sex once or twice a week but i just dont really enjoy it. i pretend to enjoy it which is bad i know but i dont want ... (135 words

B/f wants me to give up job to be with him

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22 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - Dear Aunts, I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 18 months now. We met online on facebook and started it out by being friends. I know it kinda makes no sense coz we live a world apart and never seen each other in person before. But anyway it is quite complicate... (374 words

Would most girls be ok with their boyfriend going to strip clubs?

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22 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - hey, i'm 20 and ive been with my boyfriend for 2 an a half years. he is going to bournmouth uni in september and i'm worried about him going to strip clubs. he has never been to one before. Would most girlfriends be ok with their boyfriends going to strip clubs with their... (58 words

I don't feel I can trust my girlfriend anymore!!

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22 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - i'm a little bit lost with what i want to do with my girlfriend. i've been with my girlfriend with literally over a year and we're both in college doing our exams, and we're going through a rough spot. from the beginning of our relationship, i've had some trust issues wit... (556 words

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