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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend's counselor may be trying to ruin our relationship. Should I suggest he try a new therapist?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age - Last week my boyfriend and I were closer than ever. We've known each other more than eight years. Then, after talking to his medical counsellor, he starts saying that we should just be friends, which I can't do, and his counselor had asked him why he limited himself? Limited ... (160 words)

Past events from my childhood still haunt me. How can I ever enjoy sex without needing to watch porn to enjoy sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I am a 39 year old woman who really loves sex and trying new things. My problem is that due to troubling issues from when I was a child, where a person did the wrong thing, it has resulted in me having trouble having an orgasim with my husband. How can I get over my past... (146 words)

I feel like no one will ever date me. What do girls do to get boys interested in that and want to date them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - ok i'm a thirteen year old girl who is confused i feel like no one will ever date me i would love to know what to do i feel lonely and hurt is it just that in ugly or something is it just the fact that i'm not like perfect or absolutely perfectly skinny. What do girls do to get ... (71 words)

He hasn't said ILY this week

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - He used to say 'i love you' we got into an argument on friday about something stupid.. I asked him if he loved me, he said he did.. But ever since then he won't tell me he loves me.. What does this mean? We've been going out for 8months almost 9..... (52 words)

Was this a bad idea?!?!?!?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

4 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I haven't spoken to my ex since the break-up four months ago...it end abruptly and she is now with someone new...straight away. Every says it's a rebound. the fact the latter part of ur relationship was long distance was the reason for the break up We have not s... (209 words)

My boyfriend seems to be a creep -- is this all there is?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf of 2 years seems to be a creep. I was looking for a movie to watch on my laptop and stumbled into Google documents for the first time ever. I saw everything that my bf looked up on the laptop for the last 5 years +. I saw all kinds of regular porn, big labia, scat, and ... (253 words)

We've been 'together' for 10 months but she seems to be pulling away

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4 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - why do relationships have to be so damn complicated? ok here's the story, I've been together with my gf for about 10 months, barely seen her during that time. She puts most of her enery in her school work (studying for nurse) I try to understand that, but I feel like I don'... (378 words)

Is this a sign he doesn't love me as much as I love him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4739 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Does my hushand love me? Sometimes I feel like my husband does not love me the way i love him, its like when i call him sometimes he don't answer his phone but if he calls me and i don't answer my phone he gets mad. Could this be a sign? Please help.... (54 words)

I feel like the biggest idiot, I used an old account on FB to flirt with my boyfriend. Now what?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I did something super dumb. I had this old facebook I made a while ago for kicks and I logged back in because i was bored. I saw my boyfriend online so I decided to start chatting with him. He started flirting and I let things get out of hand. I made up this big fake story ... (165 words)

He's broken my heart twice and I still keep running back to him. We still sleep together too. Lost cause?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4739 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My "friend" (if you want to call him that) and I have been sleeping together for 8 months. We dated for awhile and he even told me that he loved me and wanted a child with me. He's still married (but seperated). He and I have a really close bond and we have great chemistry. I ... (287 words)

Why is this casual sex not pleasurable for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've started sleeping with my best friend were not dating its just casual sex, we've "tried" to have sex twice but its just not pleasurable for me....Its Pleasurable for him but I don't know this has never happened with any of my ex's before! Is it cause I'm not that ... (54 words)

I cannot stop this horrible feeling that he only wants me for sex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year and we both come from a strict religion where dating and sex outside of marriage is forbidden. My siblings and his know that we are seeing each other and so do our friends but I haven't met his and he hasn't met mine because ... (312 words)

Have you ever been in a secret relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

4 May 2011 (?) age 26-29 - had been in a secret relationship with my current boyfriend for a year now we announced our relationship in september 2010 so people think we are approachign 6 months together when it is just over a year. we are expecting our first child together and are very happy i just wan... (93 words)

I feel ugly... and have no confidence to face his mum!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I rarely goes to my boyfriend's house because there was once when I have very bad acne and her mum actually asked my boyfriend to bring me to see a doctor. She said that my boyfriend needs to remind me to take care of my face otherwise when I got old I will have a very bad ... (175 words)

Feel like I'm trapped in a relationship where I'm not loved

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My problem is rather complex. For the last three years I have been in a relationship with this guy whom I love very much.We dated for 5 months but I broke up with him because I was young and felt I wanted to experience life. He took it pretty hard and tried to talk me out of it ... (475 words)

Army girlfriends and wives - I need some advice.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4591 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I work at a army base and i met my boyfriend there.Everything is lovely between us and i really do love him. But he has been posted to a new base and i am missing him so much. We talk every day, but i just want to see him. How do you cope? I know it's good to keep busy and make ... (97 words)

Wondering about dating my brother's friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4739 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, im not sure what to do about the situation im in. basically me and my brothers friend really like each other and have been texting for a while. we havent been on an official date yet but my brother is all for it and even makes jokes about when we will be giving him ni... (204 words)

I feel like I'm doing everything for her, and getting stress in return

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4739 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - my relationship has gotten unbearable. i feel as though i'm doing everything for my girlfriend, while i'm literally getting back nothing but stress and anxiety. this week, i'm picking up her son from school and watching him every day until she gets off of work, or last ni... (229 words)

Is one of your exes better than your current partner?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok guys please be truthful. I want brutal honesty! Are your exes better than your current gf? I realise that your exes are exes for a reason but all that aside, in terms of being a person, being attractive, being more fun/sexier/funnier/cooler etc etc was one of your exes... (154 words)

Should I stay or is it time to move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

4 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - my gf and i had a threesome with another guy and i went out side my room for a few minutes and they kept going. i have forgiven her but there has been nothing but arguements recently. i have also met somone else.what should i do, should i stay with her or move on... (54 words)

Anti social workmates - feeling isolated!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi. I'm not one for being anti-social. I'm usually quite a jolly person with a good sense of humour - but I started a new job not long ago (a temporary job) - and all my workmates just keep themselves to themselves! - If you've been on holiday - they never ask if you had a good ... (126 words)

Jealous now that my ex is with someone???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

4 May 2011 (?) age 30-35 - me and my gf have been together for 6 months and are very much in love. but my ex is my concern. many people saw me and my gf as the perfect couple, but we werent so we split up and we were still friends. there has always been a connection and in the past we kissed when we were ... (135 words)

Am I doing the right thing going on a date with a guy I'm not all that crazy about?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem. I am in grade 12 and I graduate in 35 days. I started seeing this guy after finally giving him a chance, I can't say I'm that crazy about him but he is a nice guy and he has formally asked me to be his date to graduation. I accepted because he was the first ... (315 words)

My whole family is hypocritcal about having sex before marriage!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

4 May 2011 (?) age 26-29 - My whole life my family told me, 'sex before marriage it wrong and they never did it' now I have just found out my entire family lied to me, literally everyone had sex before marriage. I was shocked about this news because my whole life they told me otherwise. I sti... (125 words)

Why do guys give mixed signals?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all. Can you tell me why men give women mixed signals? For example, they show you a lot of attention and clearly like you one minute and then the next they ignore you? Just when you were so sure you had them hooked, they suddenly act like they are not interested anymo... (89 words)

I still can't figure out why he decided to cheat on me. My friends say dump him, but they don't understand him like I do!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so I have a BF that had lied to me about being a virgin, I found out that he wasn't a virgin by a friend of mines who knew him longer than I have. I asked him multiple times, yet he denied it.. afterwards we was in a good mood.. and I asked him again, He finally admitted ... (232 words)

It's started to bother me that we haven't committed to one another!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4739 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so me and my best friend have been friends for about 3 1/2 years and we've always kissed and have done other stuff.......but we've never really committed ourselves to one another! Were always doing our own things,dated other people. This hasn't really bothered me until ... (112 words)

He says one thing and does another, help me understand my husband!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

4 May 2011 (F) age - hello , I have really difficult problem with my husband. Help me to solve this puzzle. I think he is a passive aggressive, or somehow just very tricky. I can't read him...But I know something is really twisted about him. He is kind to me and his children. He does not controls... (316 words)

She is trying to regain my trust. Does she deserve a second chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

4 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - This could be sort of long. I met this girl in mid-December on a website. I had no intentions of ever getting anywhere with her. As the title suggests, we wound up in a long-distance relationship. After a little over three months, she decided to break up with me, wit... (441 words)

He doesn't want to give me my stuff back. Do you think it means he wants to get back together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

4 May 2011 (?) age 30-35 - dear cupid, so, about three weeks ago, my boyfriend and i broke up. there aren't really any hard feelings, and we didn't fight about it--life just kind of got in the way of us being together right now, and we just calmly discussed the situation. he still has some of my s... (174 words)

Do you lose your virginity if you get fingered?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Do you lose your virginity if you get fingered?... (9 words)

How do you know if your hymen has broken, even if you havent had sex? Is there any way to tell?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, this is just a short question, but how do you know if your hymen has already broken, even if you havent had sex? Is there any way to tell if it has already been broken or not? I'm only wondering this because I do go out on my bike and horse often, but havent ever ... (125 words)

I am starving from lack of affection from my husband!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Everyone. I have been married since June of 2007 and my husband has been out of work this entire time. Originally it was that he couldn't find work no matter where we looked (believe me, I was helping !!), but then our daughter was born and we decided that he would be... (441 words)

Do you still have periods if you have a STI?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - do you still have periods if you have an STI/STD? ... (12 words)

Can you give me some suggestions as to how my fiancé might cope with my past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Last year, I left an abusive relationship. My ex lied, cheated and abused me physically and emotionally for many years. During the time frame (years ago), I also briefly worked as a porn star when we were in a financial dilemma. I'm now out of that relationship, wo... (341 words)

What's the point of saying it if it isn't even true?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4739 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - The guy I am 'dating' I guess you would call it said 'Love ya 3 xxx' when we were saying goodnight (we were texting) Now I KNOW he doesn't love me, because we have only been dating for a short while I guess. So why bother syaing anything at all? Especially if it is 'lov... (102 words)

How old do you have to be to buy the contraceptive pill in Queensland, Australia?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I was looking into buying the pill. Not really for sexual reasons (although it will come in handy), mainly to help clear my skin up, and to help regulate my periods. I am also wondering how I get the pill? Do I just go to the chemist and ask them for it? Or do I need to ... (120 words)

Is he keeping me hanging because he doesn't want to see me with another guy? Should we continue as friends or go no contact?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4739 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I posted a question a while ago for advice with my ex who still contacts me, meets up etc. This might be a long post but its not a drag I promise and I appreciate any advice given :-) For those who havnt read my previous post. Basically my ex broke up with me after n... (802 words)

Which of these 2 scenarios is worse?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

4 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm Doing a bit of introspection and have a very strange hypothetical question to ask: Which is worse; A) A guy who's a great provider, not very affectionate or caring, never helps out around the house, spends hardly any time with his kids but is loyal. B) A guy who's ... (101 words)

We are drifting apart, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4739 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years but recently i have noticed we are drifting apart rapidly when we are together we hardly talk he is always with his friends and hardly comes over too me our sex life is not really even there and i do everything for him i just ... (89 words)

He wants to marry me because I don't have any 'baggage'! Am I right to be insulted?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - It would be really great if I could get some responses from anyone who has actually been through a divorce and then remarried. I jokingly asked my boyfriend about three weeks before our engagement party why he’s sure he wants to marry me and he said what he loves most is ... (172 words)

Why does he suddenly want to rush things with me now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - im 18/f hes 19/m :) so me and my best friend like each other (yes haha i have posted earlier on today! haha) the thing is, for the last 5 months that we've been insanely close for we haven't done anything sexual with each other at all, we did kiss once but he doesn't reme... (341 words)

Why do I feel like this? What should I do?

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4 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do I feel like this? what should I do? :(? My ex boyfriend treated me like I was the only girl for him in the world and he'd tell me how amazing I was and how much he's in love with you and all the while he's cheating on me behind my back and eventually dump ... (278 words)

I think her vagina has stretched following childbirth, is there anything that can help her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

4 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - After natural birth of our son, her vagina makes fart sounds durng sexual intercouse and my penis seems to be a bit small. i think because of her vagina been streched during the delivery. Any help please, can she get help?... (41 words)

Does it sound like she likes me and wants to be with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4739 days ago

4 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i really like this girl and have done for a while now but the thing is shes one of my friends girlfriend. he isn't that good of a friend either. i was talking to her last night via facebook and i was talking to my best friend as well who also knows her. she told me that i w... (233 words)

Ex teacher has feelings for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I finished my last year at school last year. I played a lot of soccer, and the head of department seemed he didn't like me. He'd ignore me, or pick on me, or say some pretty harsh things about the way I played.. Maybe to get better play out of me. But then the next day he'd be ... (340 words)

Late replies......

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend and I got back into contact recently.When he came back on holidays, we hanged out twice. Once just the two of us and the other time with a friend.My feelings for him is still raw. I dont think he still loves me.We just hanged out as friends.Whenever I text him, ... (82 words)

My girlfriend is moving away and I don't think I can follow.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4739 days ago

4 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I feel like i'm in a catch 22 situation. My girlfriend recently has started to break things up with me, not because she does not love me, but because things are almost out of our hands. She is moving back to China after living here for a few years, not to cause offence bu... (280 words)

Confused with long distance relationships. Feelings but doubts at the same time.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4739 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a bit of a confused situation as I have never really experienced this before. Recently I met a very nice man, literally a perfect gentleman who appears to have feelings for me and has told me so. The problem is that he lives far away from me and really the distan... (127 words)

He gets short tempered when I get emotional.....any ideas on how we can deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I love my boyfriend of 18 months but when I get PMT and emotional he gets short tempered and can't deal with it. I get tearful if we disagree and feel over sensitive generally. He tells me I am over the top and he can't tread on egg shells. I never get angry or raise my voice ... (179 words)

Depressed after cancer... am I being overly sensitive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I was diagnosed with cancer last year (September 2010). My initial prognosis was not good as they thought the cancer had spread to my liver/adrenal so they basically gave me a year to live. It seems the tumours in the liver/adrenal are now benign so I've gone from thinking I ... (439 words)

Do I have to make special allowances because they’re from a “broken home”?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - We love each other and have had no other relationship problems, so is it a relationship red flag if I don’t like my boyfriend’s kids from his first marriage much after knowing them for 1 year? They’re 8 and 10 years old, live with their mom and visit him at weekends. I find ... (351 words)

Why am I so down when my straight mate can't enter a relationship with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

4 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been best mates with a fellow for around 15 years. I am 29 years old and gay. He is 27 years old and straight. He knows that I am gay. Over the past month or so, my strong friendship with him grew to the point where I began having feelings for him. I never felt like ... (495 words)

I'm worried that my boyfriend's large penis will hurt me when I have sex for the first time!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I read from one post before that a girl having very horrible experience when she lost virginity to her bf who having a 9" penis and felt like vagina split into two. I worry I will face the same situation as my bf slightly more than 8.5" and thick in around. We he hurt me bad ... (93 words)

My boyfriend has started ignoring me, please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

4 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I met a guy a month before, he and me were a best friend and then we became lovers. we talked to each other, we hang out with each other, he told me he loves me more than anything in this world. now he is out of town he make me call everyday but before a week he stopped making ... (177 words)

Best friends with my ex and feeling guilty now there is a new guy....what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4671 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy two weeks ago. On a night out we got dared to kiss, so we did. The next day I was in my hotel room and he came up to talk about it and we ended up having sex. Last night after lots of drink, he kissed me again. I really like him, and I liked him before all of t... (188 words)

Is there anywhere I can go for male advice on male problems?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

4 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - is there any agony site for men. similar to dearcupid.com but mainly for men. I notice that most of the male questions here are answered by female aunts. I need male views on some male questions. ... (41 words)

Should I send this mail to my girlfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

4 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - The e-mail she sent me: I don't know right now if we are in a relationship or just friends or even nothing. But i feel necessary to send you this mail. About the hurt feeling i gave you, i'm sorry about it. I know you have a lot of questions you would like to ask, dont ... (1613 words)

After 3 years fiance says we aren't compatible and doesn't want to marry!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

4 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my fiance for over three years. This was my choice as I wanted to be sure I loved the real her and she loved the real me. Asked her to marry me in June of this year and she happily accepted. We were scheduled to be wed in October. She is going through ... (175 words)

I just want a nice guy in my life but how can I when I'm still messed up over my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey there, so ok ive had some really bad relationships in my past and i hate being alone but i dont know how to find a great guy that wont hurt me...since i cant find a good guy i always seem to catch myself doing things with guys just so ill have that momment that makes me... (243 words)

My b/f keeps pushing me away. Why doesn't he just end things then?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has been acting strange for the past couple of weeks! He keeps pushing me away more and more.. The other day he told me he is tired of me and told me not to come over to his place. He needs to focus on himself and not the relationship. Which is fine every couple ... (211 words)

Does he still love me or just want me for sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been friends with this guy for 9 months. We're really close and even dated for a month or so. I guess you can consider us "friends with benefits". He told me that he loved me and he still says "he has love for me" but he doesn't want a relationship right now. He texts me ... (161 words)

What do you do when the sex isn't there and there's no way to talk through things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you deal with your confused feelings when your in a relationship with a man you truly truly love and care for but the Sex isn't there anymore and there is no hope of talking through it (trust me already tried) and i would never cheat on him never but i feel stuck in this ... (85 words)

Does he not want to act like a boyfriend? Or he doesn't know how to act?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4674 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So i really dont know what to do about my boyfriend. We have been dating for quite some time now but it seems whenever we hang out with friends he acts all tough. But when we're alone thats when his loving side comes out. But the thing is, he doesnt know how to act like a ... (157 words)

What are natural ways to grow a larger penis?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

4 May 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok, this is my question. I am 15 years old and I have a 7 inch penis. Is that normal? Is that small or anything, cause I'm kinda worried it'll stop growing. What are some natural ways to grow a bigger penis? Anything useful will help!!! :) Thanx... (48 words)

How can I tell her that we would be perfect together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4732 days ago

4 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My best friend since I was 16 has been a girl called Julia. We were friends all through elementary school but in high school we got really close and became best friends. She had a boyfriend "Mark" who she dated since we were 16 and he has always been a jerk to her, he cheated ... (134 words)

I want to have a threesome but he has cheated in the past...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to have a three sum with the man im planning on spending the rest of my life with. I trust that we can find someone that we are both comfortable with but... He has cheated in the past (we have gotten over it) an i have some issues with him checking out other females. Is ... (72 words)

Is he still deciding if he wants to be a friend or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4646 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I sent a friend request to a guy I used to see. We had seen each other on and off through a rough time in both our lives. We never really expected much from it. We were friends on FB. After seeing him again I realized it wasn't going anywhere. I was uncomfortable having him as ... (156 words)

Fiance wants an occasional threesome and I can't handle it!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

4 May 2011 (F) age 41-50 - i need help. my fiance and i just planned to get married. everything goes so well, i mean we went through many obstacles all the way here. but then he mentioned he would want threesome with me and another girl occasionally. i can't handle it. but he persisted to have it, and ... (110 words)

Is my friend trying to tell me something?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4671 days ago

4 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - im 18/f and hes 19/m :) ok so long story short, i really like my bestfriend. I've never met anyone more like me in my life and we both thinks its the most amazing thing. Im so lucky to have found him and im really falling for him. Anyway, two weeks ago i was nervous and hope... (717 words)

After all boyfriend has done to me I don't know why I'm still holding on!

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4 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, and thank you... First of all I'm very much still in love with my bf but I'm starting to give my head a shake. After all he has done to me, I don't know why I'm still hanging on. Its been a roller coaster ride from the beginning. From sweet and charming to anger... (370 words)

Do you regret having sex before getting married?

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4 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So, my boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years now and he's 19 and I'm 17 and we've been talking about having sex for a couple of months now and my question is do any of you regret having sex before marriage or just having it at all when you did?... (53 words)

Husband was never this way until we got married.....

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4 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married a year and a half and my husband does not show affection too much, when i try to talk to him he gets angry. He was never thos way before we got married, its like he changed, we don't go anywhere or do anything too much together. He say that he loves me but ... (81 words)

Since the breakup all I want to do is drink and have sex!

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4 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok Please someone help. I got dumped a month ago. Boyfriend got depressed, relationship became exhausting for him, he asks to be my friend no more gf/bf. I was devastated, couldnt accept it, went on about it for a week asked if he even loved me he said as a friend... Im ... (350 words)

Crushing on someone I hardly know...but I'm already in a relationship.

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4 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in a committed, 4-year relationship with my boyfriend, and though we've had our ups and downs, we've loved each other the whole time. Sometimes I feel like we're more companions than lovers. I recently met a guy briefly, but he's left quite an impression on me... (201 words)

Why do I suddenly feel so sad and betrayed when I see pictures of the Royal wedding?

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4 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Last week as we all know, was the Royal wedding in England. Well when the news broke out of the engagement and i accidentally read an article about it, i suddenly felt REALLY sad and i guess a bit jealous. A lot of people may have felt that way, but here's my problem, I have ... (162 words)

I still love my ex but I felt a great connection with this other guy...

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4 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do I feel so guilty?? I asked this question earlier but it got no response so Im gonna try make it shorter now. Im a single 21 year old girl. On Sunday night I went out with friends drinking for May day. I had the best night, I swear its the best night out I think I... (677 words)

I think he still has feelings for his ex!

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4 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - We have been together for about 8 months. But even from the beginning I have felt he had feelings for his ex. She is gorgeous but she cheated on him and broke his heart. She seriously is the type that only thinks about herself. I have found messages in the past too her which I ... (452 words)

If a guy has sex with a girl, does that mean he loves her?

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4 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - If a guy has sex with a girl does that usually means he loves her? Also If he didn't love her how can guys have sex with a girl without having deep feelings for them? Thank you just curious.... (39 words)