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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I get so frustrated about my bf's habit of walking away from our arguments!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it a bad thing to walk away from a fight? Or an argument? Instead of staying around and sort things out? My boyfriend and I ended up in an argument, where his final response was that he couldn't say anything right because it seems I get hurt by everything, so he wanted to ... (390 words)

Why can't he commit to just me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 years of age, and for three years I have been inlove with one particular male. We have been close from the day we have met. And I have always stood by him and been loyal. Although the relationship has been on and off for the past three years I have never even looked in ... (248 words)

Should I tell my bf that one of his friends told me he wants to have sex with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - One of my boyfriend's friends told me he wants to have sex with me. What should I do ? Help please. Should I tell my boyfriend??... (26 words)

My wife has gotten so fat, I can barely have sex with her!

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4302 days ago

24 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - When I married my wife she was smoking hot. I would say an LA "8". Everywhere we went cars honked at her, I couldn't take a piss w/o a guy taking my barstool and taking his shot. Even women hit on her So we got married. As the years ticked by she got more "full figured"' ... (440 words)

My married manager and I are invovled in an affair, and I want out--but I don't want lose my job!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Need some advice please. My married manager who I for the last year have seen more as an uncle and he's a great deal older than me, i'm only 20. He's met my parents several times and I always saw him more like a caring uncle than my manager. However things very slowly and ... (166 words)

My Mom and step-dad who I love to bits are breaking up, and I am falling apart. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok well my mam split up from my actual dad when i was very young because he was and still is an alcoholic. as i was young i never minded much because i didn't know what was going on. i still seen him every 2 weeks for a few hours. everything was fine until i started in a new ... (544 words)

I'm 15, he's 19, and he's giving me mixed signals as to whether he likes me or not!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so I like this boy, and he's 19, and i'm 15. And we're friends, yeah, and we just recently started talking again, and then he wanted to start texting. And even though he hasn't seen me in a while, he said I look good. And then when I saw him at his work place, he was ... (132 words)

Even though I broke up with my ex, why am I still asking myself questions about him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4713 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I'm not really sure why I'm asking this because it won't make any difference either way but I want to work out possible reasons for why I feel the way I do right now. This may be pretty long so sorry in advance. Basically my ex infuriates me beyond belief. If we ... (502 words)

How will I know she will want me to kiss her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

24 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - im going to a party at the weekend and the girl i like is going. it seems like she likes me as well as we both flirt and she starts it off. i think that we may kiss or snog at this party. the thing is i haven't kissed a girl properly in my life and i want to know afew things... (111 words)

Am I moving too fast in this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4714 days ago

24 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - well, i saw this girl for the first time in the mall. shes 16 and i'm 17 years old. then i made eye contact with her. the next day, on a tuesday i saw her in the train so we talked and i got her phone number. then we started texting each other. on friday we had a date and it ... (329 words)

If your husband gave you permission to have sex with another guy on occasion, would you do it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

24 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - If your husband gave you permission to have sex with another guy on occasion, would you do it? Can you think of people in the past you met during your marriage that you would have "done" if you had a "hall pass"? What is the option was one-sided: meaning he would stay ... (179 words)

Met a girl online, but she has a boyfriend! Should I just stop contact?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

24 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I've met some girl online we get along really well, Always talking (alot) Very open and honest, Play games together and even watch movies together..Problem is she has a bf :/ She knows how i feel and i beleive she likes me but i dont know anymore one minute we're watching r... (284 words)

What do I do about the abusive part of my relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend hits me and gets in my face all of them time and he will not let me do anything at all, what do i do about the abuse part of my relationship?... (34 words)

Teacher at school going to be a father soon. Is it ok to get him a card?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello all, My favourite teacher at school is soon to be expecting his wife to have a newborn baby boy. I really want to congratulate him, and came up with one idea. However I'm not sure if it's inappropriate. I was thinking perhaps I could buy him a 'congratulations' card... (75 words)

Why is she so guarded now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

24 May 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend of the past two months used to communicate everything to me, as I do with her about her, me, and us. It was the most amazing thing when we started dating to get to know this woman so openly and freely. But now she has backed off and has not had the time to even ... (293 words)

He asked me to marry him but he's still married!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age - I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 years. He had asked me to marry him but he is still married. His wife has a debilitating disease for last 10 years since he left her, he hasn't tried at all to divorce her. Just last week he told me that she will always be first in his ... (126 words)

Am I jealous or is it just concern for my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4714 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey friends I need to ask you something.I have a small story to tell you.Let myself be A,I have a acquaintance B(male) and a good friend C(female).This B person proposed me 1 day and I refused very gently keeping in mind all pros and cons since I don't know him for long and... (180 words)

Will the day ever come for us to move in together as a family

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - just a question to your great agony uncle and aunts who always helps me on here if i ever have a problem, just a thought, will i ever move in with my man of nearly 2 years, its LDR and we are fully committed see each other as often as we can, and we have talked about being ... (539 words)

Why is he hard in the morning? Soft during sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 18 my partner is 41 and I notice that he has very hard morning erections but quite soft ones when we try to have sex. Is he not attracted to me? Is it age? Is it stress?... (43 words)

He says he loves me but why can't he show me his love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4714 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age - Question: Does he really love me? i'm so confused, i cant talk to him about this as he wont talk about things, he gets angry, My partner says he loves me very much,we have been together on and off for 3 yrs but lived together 19 mths . Why can't he show me this love? o... (886 words)

My soul mate wants times for "disconnection" and I don't know how to deal with it!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

24 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I dont really know where to start. I have recently lost the love of my life. We were together for nearly 3years and perfect for eachother so happy and never made eachother mad or upset for that long. Never any trust issues were always true to eachother. We lived together at ... (305 words)

Are your heart and mind ever against one another?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi friends, I don't know whether you come up in this situation or not but I frequently get into this where my heart and mind are against each other.My mind gets its explanation,morals and plans right for me,judges all pros and cons whereas at the same time my heart would li... (100 words)

I'm having an affair. Not sure I want to. How do I get my will power back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Two weeks ago, my neighbour kissed me. We have been texting and meeting up secretly. I feel horrible...my conscience is killing me....yet I feel completely helpless. How do I get my will power back? I know this isn't good for anyone... and not least, me. It's too much dr... (149 words)

He takes so long to text back that it's tedious now. Should I bother with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy i am texting, he has a busy life from what i know so i can understand why he doesn't text back quickly. But the fact he takes 2 hours at MINIMUM to reply!!? And the other times it's like 5 hours!! What is up with that, it's just stupid. And it really puts me ... (153 words)

What can I do to break the weirdness with this guy?

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24 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hai. Im going to try to be shorter. There s this guy at school (he s 3 yearz olda than me), he s always checking me out(i mean like always). This started two years ago, when i was in the school band he was busy checking me out. He used to smile at me but now he doesnt, but he s ... (125 words)

Stupid thoughts about the grass being greener

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

24 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm in a great relashionship. I love my girlfriend, I admire her and I really see a great future and family together. We are both 27, on the verge of buying a house and talking about having kids. Still... I'm a stupid guy with a stupid instinct. Every once in a while I get de... (121 words)

I'm trying to conceive and my ob-gyn tells me that testing negative is "good." What gives?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I went to my ob/gyn for a check up and she did a pregnancy test. When the test came back neg she said the it was "good" that I was not pregnant. Why does she say that when we are actively "trying to conceive?"... (44 words)

After years of a sexless marriage my eye is beginning to wander

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

24 May 2011 (M)

age - OK, here's my situation. I have a good marriage of 12 years and a nine year old son. In the last 9 years my wife has not made love to me except for two times, even though every other part of the marriage works. Even after surviving SERIOUS cancer two years ago and trying to ... (500 words)

I told him he could sleep with other girls while he was away, but it's killing me. Should I try to make it work when he gets back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am writing this because I feel like I need an outside perspective on my situation. I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months now, I am 16, he is 19. In January, he left for China to teach for his gap year. Obviously this was going to be hard from the off, but we agreed to... (829 words)

What constitutes a pedophile?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Is a person considered a pedophile if they just have sexual thoughts about children and teenagers much younger than them? Or do they actually have to sleep with a minor to be a pedophile?... (37 words)

I like watching women in porn but in reality I don't want to touch one. What is that about?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I like watching women stripping porn, watching big fake boobs turn me on (like a fetish or somethinng) but in my reality when girls offer to kiss me i get turned off and im like no i dont wana do that, is this a weird fantasy? i love men, wana touch, hold, talk intimately ... (137 words)

My boyfriend of two years direspected my family member-he apologized but should I still dump him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My question is what should I do? Should I stay with him or should I dump the guy? So long story short one of my family members is a police officer and I was talking about him, to my boyfriend whom I have been dating for almost two year. My boyfriend rolls his eyes and just ... (202 words)

Tips for starting conversations with girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

24 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi im 18 and have just come out of a 3 year relationship. Previous to this i was incredibly shy and never really talked to anyone. This relationship i had was petty bad as the girl i was with would not let me talk to other girls not that i did before anyway, but my problem ... (109 words)

Found naked pics of a guy on my wife's camera. I'm not sure how to handle this...

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

24 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife and I are married 4 years this summer. Everything seems to be great, my problem is something from the past. I just bought my wife a new laptop and digital camera last Christmas. Her old camera she had when we met and was about 5 or 6 years old. This past weekend I d... (508 words)

Worried and depressed and food is the only thing that makes me feel better

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I really need some advice. Im 5ft 4 and weigh 12 1/2 stone (175 pounds) Im at least 3 stone overweight and i feel really fat and ugly. I used to be a healthy weight and have now lost all my confidence, i dnt even bother making an effort with my appearance anymo... (245 words)

If the first time you meet a guy he talks about sex, is that all he wants from you?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a couple of questions. If you meet a guy in a bar, and he mentions sex the first time he meets you, does that mean he is only after sex, or could it also mean that he finds you sexually attractive but could possibly want a relationship with you too ?. And, if a guy ... (114 words)

Is it ok to have sex with my professor?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, so my problem is that I'm in a relationship with my professor at college I'm only 20 and he is 42...we meet up 3 times a week in this apartment .However, we didn't have sex until now although that we have been together for 4 months because i said i wanna do it only when it ... (93 words)

Card help for a gf who believes in 2012.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

24 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hi can anyone help me please i need advice on a card for my gf, she believes in 2012, so im thinking this, but should i put (if your have me) or (if you have me that long) or something else, please help. thank you messages below for your viewing i need advice. One M... (172 words)

Being back in my hometown is making me miss my ex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4700 days ago

24 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So me and my ex have been broken up for about two or three months. I have not spoken a word to her since I left her house after saying it was over. She told me she had feeling for a friend of hers and they have now been dating for a while now. I lived an hour away from her ... (254 words)

My ex has moved on but I cant seem to!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

24 May 2011 (M)

Is he serious about changing his ways or is he just talking?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Cupid! Me and this guy met seven months ago through a mutual friend and instantly clicked. We both graduated from the same college, have alot in common and are relatively known for what we do. I'm a journalist and he's a filmmaker/journalist. He's also apart of a frate... (604 words)

My boyfriend is always breaking our plans for his friends, I'm sick of it and told him so. He hasn't listened. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend for 1 year plus always abandoned me last minute for our dating to go out with his friends. This has happened several times like during count downs and even on christmas eve. I am sick of it... Told him several times and he is still doing that. What should ... (58 words)

An ex-lover sent me a friend request on facebook...I am married-is it appropriate to accept?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it okay to accept the friend request of an ex lover on facebook even if im married already?... (19 words)

Should I just turn into a "cya" kind of person too from now on???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I’m really blue at the moment – a guy I had dated at High School came back into my life the other month and was still into me. He had always really liked me and said he considered me ‘the one that got away’. So naturally, when he asked me out on a date again, I... (849 words)

Why do women date the bad boys but marry the nice guys?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

24 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid, i was wondering why women date and sleep with bad boys through out there youth but run to marry nice guys in there 30's when there less attractive and are looking for stability and safety for a guy who has worked hard, being dumped for being nice to women. Why ... (63 words)

In love with my cousin, but I have a boyfriend too

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i had a crush on my cousin since i was a child..until he told me he loved me..we had sex two days after he told me how he felt.i really ,really love him.but i also have a boyfrend..nd besides both our families will not approve if we decide to marry.these days he doesnt col me ... (108 words)

Thank you for all the help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This is not a question just a big thank you to people who have helped me over here for the past few months. I came across this site through internet browsing, looking for the answers I needed with my relationship. I met a guy who i never thought would mess with my head and... (185 words)

Should I try to contact her one last time or just say bon voyage?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

24 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone! So here's the deal, my ''ex'', and I met over an internet game, at first we really didn't care for each other - I thought she was a terrible player, in turn she thought I was an asshole. But then as time went by we kind of grew on each other, we became good frie... (933 words)

How can I get over my paranoid fear that my bf might be talking to this other girl? Should I take one last look at his phone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Due to past relationships, it took me around 10 months to trust my boyfriend fully. I was on his phone the other day, I was using the internet to check my bank account when I found myself on his facebook. I'm not usually one to snoop, but after a girl that used to text him ... (275 words)

He broke up because he's worried I'll cheat on him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I and him broke up 1 months ago. In that time I think very carefully and figured out that he is the love of my life. But after I stopped contact him one week then he called me last saturday but then after 30 minute talking very nice, he asked me giving him back the engagement ... (521 words)

How do you know when you're ready to move in with your girl/boyfriend?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - How long do couples date usually before moving in together?... (10 words)

Is it wishful thinking that he likes me? Or could it be reality?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - dear readers i need help i know you probably get questions like this all the time...im falling for this guy and im unsure if he likes me back...can any one shed some light on my situation? okay the background.. i met him 5 weeks ago, i only seen him in person for 5 days...... (242 words)

Husband hired a sexy escort to work for him!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I really need some advice as I am in shock and don't know which way to turn. I dropped by my husbands office (he is 43) recently as he left his phone at home and walked in to find him drooling from his desk at his new receptionist as she was walking past in a very short skirt ... (209 words)

I was unhappy about what I found on his phone and then he asked me to marry him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - To be honest, I have been trying to stop my obsession with looking at my boyfriends text messages. I have problems trusting people and I explained that to him. Also I went about a year and a half to two years practically living on computer/text messages. So I know how easy it ... (756 words)

He said I'm only with him because its free and he doesn't love me or consider me his girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my bf have been together for over a year now and at first everything was so great at first. cute tests, cuddling, i love yous, kisses. the works! but then i moved in with him 2 months later because my mom kicked me out...i knew it was too fast, but i was so into the ... (331 words)

What exactly does everyone consider cheating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

24 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi aunts, a question: whats really is cheating? When someone u are in relationship with chat with her ex but not tell u until u ask when u see received calls in her cellphone... (34 words)

Nothing I do entices him sexually, should I just leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of a year is completely different to when I met him. When I was with him first we had sex several times a day, and now we rarely have sex and when we do it's me who inniciates it. I am 20 years old, he is 25... I always thought I was an ok looking girl until re... (441 words)

Husband being extra nice and hiding the cell..is he cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age - ive recently noticed my husband has been keeping his mobile out of my sight,by keeping it in his pocket,when before it was left anywhere around the house.at the weekend he did leave it in the bathroom,so i took a look but a password lock had been put on,when i confronted him ... (125 words)

His ex wants to "catch up" with him. I'm afraid of what will happen if they talk. Please advise.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - im 18/f and my boyfriend is 19/m my bestfriend that ive liked for months and months asked me to be his girlfriend only 2 days ago.. and now that im in the picture as his girlfriend, it would seem his ex wants back in too. He and his ex girlfriend were together for 5 year... (184 words)

I Had Trouble Finishing During Sex, and I Don't Know Why.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

24 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Today, I had sex with my girlfriend for the first time, and I think that I was very nervous; throughout foreplay, my legs kept trembling, and eventually my whole body started to tremble a little, much like shivering. Once we had actually started to have sex, I was unable to ... (283 words)

He's making me feel guilty when I did nothing wrong. How do I get him to listen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This past weekend i was suppose to hang out with my boyfriend, but he had to work so instead i went to a party with a few of my girlfriends. when i got to the party, i noticed my daughter's father was there. Me and my friend had a few drinks and left shortly after arriving. A... (428 words)

How do I deal with a husband who ignores me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4714 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - How to deal with a husband who ignores his wife for a period of 2 months now? Basically, we did not consumate our marriage as I am working abroad and my husband is in our home country. My husband was my ex-boyfriend, but when I went on emergency leave last 2009 we met and ... (257 words)

Guys : Girls what do you think of "the rules?"

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - The Rules: do you ladies out there follow them? And men- does it work? Do you like a lady better of she ignores you until you call? I'm asking because I'm such an open book and I think I make it too easy for guys by being easy going and not playing games. Should I start?... (83 words)

I feel like this LDR is making her suffer

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

24 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear all, I'm in love with a beautiful and bright girl in the world, nothing makes me happier than spending another day with her, She is an insecure and sensitive lady, but that's not the point cause I love her no matter what. I need help from all of you, because I've be... (146 words)

If she loves me so much then why does she want to be with another guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4714 days ago

24 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so here is my situation. I had a girlfriend I broke up with recently. She's just now telling me the truth about a lot of things. We are friends but she tells me she loves me and wants to be with me. Well this co worker at work that I de friended beacuse I thought she was ... (402 words)

Why am I so entranced by this freak?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been talking to this guy I met online for about 2 years now. I like him so much and I am not sure why. He's not the nicest guy, for example, he refused to come see me for the longest time until I basically gave him an ultimatum. He also places blame on me when I am upset ... (297 words)

One minute he wants a relationship the next he just wants to be friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4714 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age - I have been seeing a man who has had his share of heartache not only through his children, but through his two marriages, both of which were fairly long term ( 22 years for the first and 6 for the second). He and I have an obvious chemistry, however, he blows hot and cold. One ... (249 words)

Ran into my cheating ex, what does all of this mean?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

24 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Wow, what a long road it has been since I first found this website and posted my own question. I had my heart broken by the girl I really thought the world of. She had cheated on me.br brI have come to terms with what happened, and am OKAY now! I have to say that first.br ... (834 words)

I want to be with her but don't know how to go about it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 21 and my best friend is 35 she has a 4 Yr old boy, we've been friends for years and help each other out all the time, last Saturday night I was a mess really upset, so we decides to drink etc and jus relax. We got into bed and and started spooning which then led to us ... (113 words)

My boyfriend told me to never wear my sister's dress again because it made him feel he was kissing her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

24 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So today when i went to see my bf i was wearing this dress, it belongs to my younger sister and she wore it to a dinner we all attended a while ago. So when my bf saw me he asks me about the dress and said it looks like something my sister would wear. So i told him it was ... (176 words)

Isn't it time for me to be happy and move on?

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24 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my best friend have been in love with eachother for 2 1/2 years but he has been with his gf for 4 years. I never ever ever had any intention of trying to break them up! Infact two years ago when we confessed we were in love with eachother, I told him I didn't think it ... (290 words)

Should I be forced to invite my cousin to my bfs small birthday dinner?

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24 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Today I called my mum to invite her and my father to my boyfriends birthday dinner in a couple of weeks. I explain that we don't have a set date put aside but heads up - it will be in two weeks. Immediately she tells me that as my cousin will be here in Australia - he can atte... (195 words)

Boyfriend's adhd is causing problems in our relationship!

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24 May 2011 (F) age 30-35 - my boyfriend had adhd as a child and does affect him as an adult in our relationship in that he fidgits alot and i need to tap him to remind him to keep still i tolerate it when we are going sleep, that he moves alot before he gets comfortable, of which it takes him half a... (430 words)

Does it make men mad when they can't finish

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24 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I last longer in bed I'm 18 and when me an my boyfriend get intimate I always have to stop an he don't get to finish sometimes because it hurts. I want him to be able to finish an be happy. And one more question does it make men mad when they can't finish. I feel bad ... (68 words)

A million thoughts are going through my head after he told me he cheated on me!

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24 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey heres some background my boyfrind who iv been with over a year and is pregnant with his baby (just found out 2 months ago) Cheated on me about 3 or 4 months ago he confessed and i know he was truly sorry he was crying well he was tring to tell me he got depressed and even ... (208 words)

What would be my type for a girlfriend?

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24 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - What do you think what would be my type of girl for a girlfriend. My hobbies are playing video games, hanging out with friends, using my computer for different things, reading comics and I'm a happy person.... (39 words)

Do porn stars really enjoy very hard core porn?

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24 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I recently saw a porn that was very hardcore in my eyes, and was wondering if the women that star in the movies actually enjoy themselves. There was 5 men and one woman and they each did her anally, directly followed by orally till they cummed in her mouth, and they wanted her ... (76 words)

He will not leave his girlfriend now or in the future for me!

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24 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - i've ben dating a man and i guess he knows i am his girl friend for the last 4 months but he told me he would not leave his other girl friend and she will remain his girlfriend in the future. How can i win him and want me to stay with him?... (53 words)

Is it possible that he can turn his feelings off and never return to me?

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24 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - my boyfriend and i had a very strong relationship. it was filled with love and compassion and it was beautiful. we were like best friends. he left not long ago to take care of problems at home and then told me he wasnt coming home. i found out some things that may mean that ... (115 words)

I think I may have PCOS. Does this make me unattractive?

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24 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I think I may have PCOS. I seem to have many of the symptoms, including unwanted facial hair, hair on my nipples and I struggle to loose weight. I first noticed them when I came off the pill a few years ago. (The pill was making me crazy and turning me into a manic depressi... (165 words)

My wife's sex life before she met me, and her attitude towards sex now have left me shattered....

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24 May 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - This seems to be a big topic here. I have read a lot of the responses from people and they are helping. What I notice is that there are two categories of people suffering from this. One is people who have had a lot of partners (maybe even more than their SO)who just cannot g... (1551 words)

I cant understand his mixed messages

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24 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i was seeing this guy last year and recently weve started hanging out because hes friends with my friends. i was talking to him once about being friends and he said "just friends it is then." he can be a sweetheart to me at times and at other times he can be completely rude. i ... (129 words)

I like my older sister's friend!

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24 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, i am so terribly confused!i really like one of my older sisters friends, he is 24 and we used to be friends, he told my sister to tell me to stop texting him after he told me to keep it a secret because he was back with his ex, he really is a sweet, kind guy and is ... (144 words)

I feel guilty after sex with a guy, not with a girl

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24 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to do, I need advice and guidance. Ever since I was 14, I knew I was bi, I had a sort of relationship with a girl before hand, and since then had a brief relationship with a guy. I say brief, we got intimate sexuall, not actual sex, but oral and stuff. I'd l... (238 words)