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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

It kills me inside every time she rejects my sexual advances...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm having a problem as of late. I've been with my current GF for almost two years now (we are going to Amsterdam for our two year anniversary in May) but I feel all emotions have gone from my part. We are in a long distance relationship (i'm currently in uni and she works full ... (964 words)

Why is it so hard for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Where do it start off? I'm just sad..... Nothing in my life is not going right. I want to start school because it took me a while to get my dipolma. It was very hard for me. I didn't have a way there to take my tests. So I had to take a cab and/or bus. And when taking a bus, i... (502 words)

She refused to shave after eveything I do for her...

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

18 May 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Dear fellow readers, I have found myself stuck in a very fragile situation and I am in need of some serious, thought out advice. I am 16 and have been with my girlfriend for about a year now, and I have hit a brick wall. A few weeks ago I ask her to shave for me because I think ... (292 words)

Emotionally scarred by my ex. how do I move on from this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to cut my "ex" from my life completely and its too hard. We live in different country's now but i'm the kind of mug that would jump the next flight out to see him, where as he wouldn't. Its been also 3 years we have been seeing each other, he's never EVER brought me a ... (595 words)

To be an army wife or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - OK, I really need some serious help! Let me start from the beginning. I have only been in two relationships and my first relationship lasted for about 6 years. My ex is in the Army and 2 years ago he was deployed to Iraq. He broke up with me before his deployment, there was ... (235 words)

My guy broke up with me because of family issues...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age - In January I met this guy and at first I wasn't really attracted to him. I thought hey why not I might just give it a chance. We met for lunch really nice guy. He then ask me out on a date, I accepted and I met him for dinner. I was starting to become interested.Though I was ... (375 words)

I just need an unbiased opinion on what to do. I am confused about everything now.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a man about six months ago through an online dating service. I found him on facebook and requested him as a friend. That is when we really started talking. This was in January. He told me he only pursues then dates one woman at a time. I asked him on FB to be my valentine ... (612 words)

I hit her, but now I want her to see I'm getting help for my anger problem

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

18 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my ex for almost 4 years. We were 17 ans 16 I know this is young but it was perfect. We have had our ups and downs. But our love has always won. We got our apartment in January of this year. We ended up getting into a fight and I hit her. Over the past 5 months ... (302 words)

Is Skype sex forgivable???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I found out my boyfrind of almost 2 years has been goong on skype to talk and masturbate with a girl he met in a sex chat room. I kicked him out, but then we talked and knowing his history, decided to take him back and go to counseling. I love him and I want things to work ... (375 words)

Why do some men not care about women's feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Why some man are so unconsidered of someone elses feelings... He stringing me along for over a year, always coming back saying that he wants to try things out, knowing how in love i was, I was always honest about my feelings hoping he would make sure he would not hurt me again, ... (405 words)

We are opposites of each other. can our relationship work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year and a half now, and we've been living together nine months. I love him dearly and he is a really good guy but I don't know what to do. On one hand, I'm thinking "maybe this guy isn't for me." and then the other is "there's ... (1123 words)

I hate the smell of condoms!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I hate the smell of condoms. I use trojans, lifestyles, durex, basically anything latex because they protect against hiv, stds, and pregnancy; however, every single time my boyfriend puts one on, I smell the condom and I get completely turned off by the smell and if that isn't ... (135 words)

Does it look like she's started having feelings for me or is it part of our flirting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4689 days ago

18 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - ok i like my friend's girlfriend so much and they're going through a rough patch and there close to breaking up no question. but i thought that she is with my friend and i should respect that. so i have decided to move on and just see what happens. i started talking to this ... (188 words)

I've put up with this for nearly 3 years, have I really been that unreasonable?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my partner and I have been together 2 and a half years. there is a big age difference but everyone has accepted our relationship... everyone except his daughter who is out to destroy us and has been since day one. I appreciate the fact she is a year and a half younger etc etc - ... (732 words)

I sometimes get anxious and nervous when receiving oral sex. How can I relax more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I like receiving and giving oral sex. Sometimes that is the only way I can reach an orgasm and not by being penetrated. but sometimes I feel nervous when a guy is going down on me. and sometimes I will just go down on him and won't let him go down on me or not mention him to ... (154 words)

Do you have weird or disturbing sexual fantasies that you are not sure if you want to make happen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Do you have weird or disturbing sexual fantasies that you are not sure if you want to make happen? I have a recurring fantasy. I guess you could call it one of my go to thoughts...you know, when your having sex, or masturbating, and just can't seem to totally get into... (366 words)

Me and my husband argue too much. how can I solve this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (F) age 51-59 - I really want to stop fighting with my husband,but I can't, and soon I will have to end the marriage, or he will. We have some ongoing very stressful and painful issues, and we cant seem to deal with them. One,his family hates me, but he does not think I should care. Th... (290 words)

Am I still the marrying kind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

18 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a Female on a friends account A couple of my friends and I were talking about our previous sexual encounters. I was always raised with morals and told to wait until marriage. I am 22 years of age now. I have never had oral sex, anal sex, and I messed up and had vaginal ... (212 words)

My husband has had a 13 year affair. what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have recently found out my husband of 13 years has been having a physical and emotional affair with a woman at his work. This has been going on since the day we got married. I am in shock. He says he wants to "move forward" with me and "get past this" willing to do ... (252 words)

He seems more interested in money than our relationship

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18 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This is gonna sound very silly but I have somethings which has been playing on my mind for a couple of weeks now, my boyfriend has a villa in Portugal and has only just started making money off it however he seems to worry more about money now than me! Moneys his first priority ... (120 words)

Female orgasm from performing fellatio?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

18 May 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Do some women experience orgasms while (or from) performing fellatio ? She stops (hesitates) several times while performing fellatio and seems to need to get her breath.... almost like choking but different. She twitches and gets her breath then continues... I think She's too ... (60 words)

I like Tim, Tim likes my friend Lucy (his best friends girl) please help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4688 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i have really liked this one boy im going to call him "tim" for nearly a year and we have gone out a few times but have broken up over silly things, but he gets trough girls really quickly and he will want a girl and then when he gets then he doesn't want them any more... the ... (159 words)

He's got a girlfriend but I think he's attracted to me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This is probably a silly question. There's a guy in my class - I'm friends with him and his girlfriend. We hang out a lot after school, sometimes all three of us, sometimes just me and him. I'm not looking to be his girlfriend or anything, because I'm not into ruining other ... (335 words)

Work outs...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have gotten interested in working out recently but I don't have a clue about the topic. I have a friend who works out (hes the only friend that does) but he is a little shy and secluded. He talks to me fine but is still shy. The thing that scares me is that I don't ... (103 words)

My boyfriend only sucks my nipples

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i am a 24 year old girl my boyfriend always sucks my nipples very hard, bites, applies chocolate on them, squeezes my boobs very hard for many hours that leaves bruises on my nipples and boobs, initially i never used to get pain, he fiddles with my boobs and nipples for ... (110 words)

Revenge...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I read a question early today where somebody asked 'is revenge worthwhile' and the answers on there were very interesting! The main thing everyone said was that 'ignoring them and showing that they didn't effect you, or that they aren't a part of your life is the best ... (71 words)

What does her behaviour mean???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

18 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - During last semester a girl of my class started gazing at me which I noticed two or three times but I just turned my attention to some other work because initially I wasn't interested. Then I and my friend were talking about our group assignment when suddenly she interrupted ... (756 words)

How do I deal with these games???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a difficult situation and not sure what to do I have been with my partner nearly 18 months. He has two kids and i have none. I love him but just lately i have had my doubts... We both can be jealous. He gets more jealous when he has had a drink and we are out in th... (697 words)

I feel he needs to make more of an effort!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4690 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

- Okay, i want to be with him and he says he likes me.. but when he texts me he's like really blunt and he never puts the effort in with me.. i wanted to distance myself a bit to see if he would care, and i told him to tell me the truth cos he treats me the same as every ot... (113 words)

I''m falling for my boyfriends friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm falling for my boyfriends friend, what do I do? He gives me more attention then my boyfriend does!... (19 words)

He promised he'd never cheat,

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 9mths now, and he has recently cheated on me. the whole time we were together, he always promised that he would never ever cheat on me, and if so then he would break up with me first. since he has cheated on me, this has put me ... (371 words)

My friend says hurtful things

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - It would be amazing to get some insight from other people... I am feeling terrible about myself, but I am profoundly hurt by some of the things that my friend said to me, and I feel misunderstood. I'm not exactly sure what to ask. I could use some insight regarding some t... (1475 words)

My husband dictates how I'm to dress

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - my husband and have ben married year. for as long as ive known him hes been concerned with the way i dress. he dictates how i dress. im not allowed to wear short dresses or hot pants or low cleavage showing tops. he expects me to dress like a nun. i havea very good figure ... (119 words)

Guys hit on me and I rejected them, so why do I feel bad?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so I submitted this once and got no replys so i am trying it again. So please please help me! this weekend I went to a friends house and got on facebook and two different guys kept calling me hot and sexy, and I told them I had a boyfriend. And I had no idea who they we... (216 words)

Questions about stopping the pill?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone! :) I am 20 years old and started going on birth control about 6 months ago. This past Saturday was my last day on the pill not only because it was getting to the point of being $50 a month but also because we honesty don't feel for it be necessary with t... (126 words)

Don't women like to receive oral sex?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my partner are in love for a long long time. The thing is that my partner gives me wonderful blow jobs but when I go down on her vagina to lick it she gets reluctant. She doesnt want me to lick her down. I wanna know the fact - dont girls like oral sex on themselves?... (58 words)

Is it a good thing or a bad thing to just have one child?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Im 25 with a 6 year old son, i always dreamt of having more children however i am adamant the next child will be born inside marraige. The problem is i am still single and worry about my son being an only child. By the time i find someone to settle down with and tie the knot... (144 words)

Should I see the guy who dumped me? I don't want to hurt any more.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4691 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What should I do about him? I dont want to hurt anymore:(? My ex boyfriend's best friend told me my ex's been having a hard time dealing with our break up.. He says he's been drinking and he feels horrible for breaking up with me and that he misses he. So he begged me to ... (204 words)

Hate myself for feeling jealous at my gf's success

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - This is gonna sound like I am a jerk but I am gonna be honest because I need help, if you can help. I am dating this girl, she's real pretty and an aspiring actress. I am a regular guy with an office job. I encourage her but truthfully I am scared that if she finds success sh... (166 words)

How do I communicate more with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I would like to ask all the kind agony aunts and uncles on how to improve communication with my boyfriend. He just seems so hung up on work. I understand that he will be busy during work, but what got me was that he seems to prefer anything else to me. For example, s... (300 words)

I know he doesn't mean to but boyfriend keeps hurting me. I'm really unhappy in this relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is in the middle of his final exams, and he needs to do better than usual to get the minimum results for the masters he wants. He tells me every day how my support is the only thing keeping him going and that I'm the only support he has. He says that being with ... (211 words)

Why does my ex log into messenger everytime I do and stay on for as long as me, when he had blocked me before?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - HI All, Your insights would be most welcome!! I finally ended it with my ex- well he was an ex but we were still kind of in touch. It was a very volitile relationship,I really loved him, but I got very hurt, and was very angry that he would send me random messages just wh... (171 words)

I can't use anything with hormones for birth control. Anyone have advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm going for an STD test soon (with my partner), but am concerned about finding a gynaecologist and contraception. I know that condoms work well, but I also know that two types of contraception is best. Obviously the second kind is solely for preventing pregnancy. Assum... (281 words)

39 weeks pregnant--can how I sit affect the baby?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 39 weeks pregnant. can how i sit affect my unborn baby? i also sleep on my sides and sometimes it seems as if he is on the side that i'm sleeping on am i hurting him? Thanks a lot for your answers.... (44 words)

A night of fun or the real deal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - At the end of the school year I ended up going out on the town with a good female friend of mine. Alcohol was involved, and by the end of the night we were sleeping together and making out. When we woke up the next morning, we were both sober and held hands and talked for ... (99 words)

Why am I getting myself hung up on this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, I have connected with a girl i met through scouts network (18-25 portion)shes 19 and really intelligent, clever, into similar stuff to me. iv known her for about 2 months now. I only really started talking to her when i said i would fix her car for her and we learned ... (420 words)

What type of girl appeals more to men?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This a question I have wondered for a while, and men would probably find answering this one easier, but what type of girl do guys usually go for? I know it's personality that counts and I would never change how I looked to please someone else, but what type of girl would gu... (169 words)

Could these pills help my friend see her life as it really is and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (?)

- I have a friend who is 57 yrs. old. She told me she is not in love with her husband and really only got married to get away from her step-dad. She now has been married for 37 years. They have two grown but needy boys. She told me she is sad all the time, that nothing makes her ... (183 words)

My Ex is sending me weird messages and telling me some confusing things.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - First i am sorry this is sorta long My ex BF and I had an awesome relationship and the only reason why we ever broke up was because our age difference (he is 17 and I am about to turn 15). Well lately we've finally started talking again (its been a month since we've talk... (260 words)

Do I read too much into his actions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - There's this man I really like and I think it's mutual, but sometimes it's hard to tell. Oftentimes he shows romantic or attracted interest and others, like lately, he shows disinterest, as in not responding to my text messages anymore. Has he lost interest? Or perhaps ... (62 words)

How do I make my husband see what his lying does to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - How do you get your husband to understand the amount of pain his constant lying and flirting can do to a marriage?... (22 words)

Boyfriend of 8 years is going to online sex sites

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm devoted to my boyfriend for 8 years, but i recently only found out that he is going to online sex partners and he wrote that he wanted to have group sex.. When i asked about this, he said that its for fun but he didn't meet anyone. i wanted a break up but he is pleading... (101 words)

She's holding out waiting for me to ask her out but I don't like her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i am 19 yrs old and i belive in the value and principal of sex only after marriage. there is this young girl 17, who attends the same church i do. ever since we were young some of the adults in the church touted us as the next couple that we would get married to each other ... (340 words)

I want to break up with him and walk away

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 and a half years. We've broken up twice. Both of which resulted in his undiscussed trust issues when I went away to college. Recently, we've been doing good...or so I thought. I had a girl come to me and tell me that my ... (156 words)

My boyfriend shuts down when I am ill and it really hurts me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. Has anyone else have or have had a partner who can’t handle you being ill? I get a lot of gynaechalogical pain as I was diagnosed with endometriosis in 2003 and although it was removed, I am still having problems with pain management. I also suffer from anxiety, which I ... (298 words)

We had sex on our first date and now he's ignoring me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, well a few months ago I met this guy on a bus and we got talking and it was an instant attraction. I totally fell for him we didn't exchange numbers we added each other on Facebook and I found out he had a girlfriend. I just forgot all about him after I seen that he was in ... (224 words)

When guys hit on me, I feel badly

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - this weekend I went to a friends house and got on facebook and two different guys kept calling me hot and sexy, and I told them I had a boyfriend. And I had no idea who they were. one was bugging me so much to give him my number I had my friends mom blocked him. the other still ... (192 words)

My lecturer says boundaries have been broken and is now avoiding me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (?) age 30-35 - I’m having problems with my lecturer. To keep things short we used to be very close. She asked about my personal life and she was always there for me when I needed her. Recently she started ignoring me in class it was like I didn’t exist. I emailed her saying what’s wrong ... (280 words)

Ex says he will always love me but has to move on

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My ex is engaged,. I just moved out of the house a month and a half ago. I am so hurt. I lost twenty pounds. He tells me to give him some time he needs to find himself. He is not even admitting to me he is engaged.(He says a promise ring) We have been together over ten years. I ... (123 words)

Mutual break up, but ex has a new girlfriend already...and I feel terrible!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am feeling really distraught at the moment. After 2 years of being together, me and my partner decided to end the relationship. This was a mutual break up, as we just weren't compatible. Throughout the relationship we have really respected each other, always trusted each ... (935 words)

I just can't figure out where this guy is with us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy online. I'm in my early twenties and he's in his mid thirties. We talked on the phone a lot. He was very outgoing! Really nice gentleman. We had a lot of the same interest and he seemed lik a really cool person. We even talked about mayb a relationship if thing... (913 words)

What does her behaviour mean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

18 May 2011 (M)

Partner has walked out on me but is coming back to talk tonight, how do I make sure he gives us another try and doesn't leave for good?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone i am really upset my partner of three years has walked out on me. he says the spark from our relationship has gone and he doesn't love me anymore. we have a five month daughter who is recovering from meningitis, i had a difficult pregnancy losing her twin at 20 w... (201 words)

He doesn't care if he sees me before I go on vacation, but wants me to buy his groceries for the next month! Am I right to be upset?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I need advise from guys who can relate to my bf's kind of thinking. I am about to go on a vacation and I was thinking of spending more time with my boyfriend at least during the weekend. However, he told me today that he will come home on monday after work as he will need to ... (202 words)

How do I stop being so horny?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

18 May 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I am Thirteen (Almost 14) and almost always horny. I'm ok with the fact, but not that I am horny all the time. Is there any way to keep my self from being like this so much? I know it would go down if I had sex, but I'm 13, that's not happening any time soon. Please help?... (58 words)

Crush on a girl but she doesn't like me.....what should I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4727 days ago

18 May 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - My best friend is in a relationship with a girl. The girl i like is friends with that girl. She doesnt like me, she made that clear when one of my friends asked her abt me and i didnt even bother asking her...she does consider me to be a good friend but she is even better f... (270 words)

Is revenge worthwhile or just a waste of time?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I would like to know what you think about this question.. Is revenge really worth anything, or it is just a waste of time? ... (33 words)

I read her diary and found out she was bi-sexual! Should I confront her about this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

18 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been dating the girl of my dreams. I have been over the moon for the last 5 months because I have finally met someone who I feel real love for, and who loves me back just as much. She is gorgeous and kind and I truely have fallen head over heals in love with her. The best ... (287 words)

Not sure what this guy's intentions are and worried he might have a girlfriend....what do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4727 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone thanks for taking the time for reading this. Let me try and make this short. I've been single for 2 years now. I was previously in a 5 year realationship. But found out the whole thing was based on a lie. So now its hard for me to trust guys and since then I have ... (507 words)

Why would this 28 year old want to date me? And if he just wants sex, why would he bother asking me out to dinner?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there, Agony Aunts. (: Just a few things I'm wondering about... I am recently single and an attractive 19 year old. The other night while I was clubbing, a guy bought me a drink and we ended up spending most of the evening dancing and hanging out together. The ne... (441 words)

Are some people meant to be alone? Are trust and intimacy overrated?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4690 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So my mom was addicted to crack for about 6 years and she was in and out of hospitals, rehab, prison..and my life. She also had a baby in that time who I knew for less than a year before he was taken away. Since then, I haven't been able to relate to anyone or get close to ... (179 words)

No communication, he wont initiate sex, no kissing, and he wont say he loves me in person! What is going on here?

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18 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i have beeen in this relationship with this guy for 6 months now and he doesn't likes to kiss me.and when we're having sex he just lays there.i have to always do all the work.and we never communicate with each other.what does that means and what should i do.he tells me that he ... (72 words)

Why doesn't my wife believe me when I say she is my true love?

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18 May 2011 (M)

age - I treat her like a queen, why doesn't my wife believe me? What can I do to convince her she is the love of my life? We were at my school reunion. I was talking with my ex-girlfriend Linda and her husband when my wife Sally,not knowing who they were, came up by my side. I got ... (380 words)

Current boyfriend wants to spend time with me but wont open up about his feelings, whereas my ex was the complete opposite! Now my ex is back in the picture, I don't know what to do......

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18 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship with a really great guy for about 9 months now. About a month before we started dating, I broke up with my boyfriend of almost a year. I wanted to get back together at the time, but he made it clear it was out of the question. I ended up ... (248 words)

Is it possible to go from love to friendship so soon?

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18 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've always been highly skeptical of the love at first sight discussions. Or the 'when you met the one, you'll know' theories. And then it happened to me, a few months before I am leaving the country. At first it was a whirlwind of coincide about how much we had in common, h... (351 words)

Family issues affecting our relationship.....what can I do to help her?

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18 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, i am typing this because i simply dont know how to handle this situation anymore and i have no-one else to talk to. This question is about my girlfriend having issues with her family, but let me lay down some background info to help you better understand. When i was 15... (891 words)

All of my best friends keep leaving me or hurting me, what am I doing wrong?

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18 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a best friend for 7 years, and we fought all the time, but we were like sisters, inseparable! Always there for each other. Then a new girl came along and screwed everything up, try to turn us against each other. I was going through a personal issue (dont feel comfortable ... (1061 words)

Do I bug him by always texting him first? Should I keep texting him?

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18 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i am 14 he is 15. i like him. i dont know if he likes me. we cant hang out a lot due to out young age. so we text. but i always text him. when we are texting he flirts a lot. i feel like i bug him always texting him first. should i keep texting him or not?... (61 words)

In love with my friend but she is dating a much older guy, I'm sick of just being the friend but too scared to speak up!

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18 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - -Sigh- okay. My best friend (a girl) is dating a guy old enough to be her dad. This guy is a doctor, so of course he has money up the ass. Buys her gifts and all the crap I could never afford considering I'm a car mechanic with an Associate's Degree. Well, as cliche as this ... (368 words)

Boyfriend's new friend worries me......

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18 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend recently reunited with a friend of his, "Josh", that I think is a very bad influence. I don't understand their relationship at all. My boyfriend is loyal and sweet and I dont think he would cheat on me. However, tonight he is hanging out with his stupid frie... (120 words)

I really like this girl but........

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18 May 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - alright so there is this girl that i am currently talking too, before she started talking to me first, and everything was alright, the way she talked to me was all good and the way we laugh together. and awkward funny moments where i ask something about who she likes and it... (510 words)

How can I boost my boyfriend's confidence?

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18 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriends self confidence is 0. He thinks he is fat and ugly. He is not thin, but in my option he is not "fat" either yes he is probably over weight but he has A LOT of muscle . And lately it's actually been frustrating me that no matter how hard I try he doesn't believe ... (92 words)

Why is my ex so mean to me?

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18 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - why is my ex being so mean to me...he calls me names and tells me other crap flirts with my best friend in my face and doesnt even talk to me....i am a very kind person and just want it all in peace so we can be friends...and he seems to hate me but his best friend tells me he ... (79 words)

She wont committ, she hardly ever has sex with me and wont even tell people we are together! What can I do to get this relationship back on track?

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18 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Been with my girlfriend over 4 years now. After first 2 years we split because I did something stupid, I stole from my employer. She ended it because she said I was not the man she thought I was! After 3 months we got back together, mainly because she said she needed me in... (382 words)

How do I stop being so clingy?

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18 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I feel like I'm about to cry. So I know that I'm extremly clingy. And everywhere I go and tests I take to see where/what degree I'm in it seems like there's no hope for me. I don't know what to do and the reason I'm sad right now is because the guy I'm interested in hasn't ... (162 words)

Would a happily married woman want to know that she has an admirer? Or would it complicate her marriage?

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18 May 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Does a woman who is happily married want to know if she has a harmless 'secret admirer'? Does it flatter her, or complicate her marriage? If someone has fallen for her, but has no intention of ever pursuing her, does she want to know?... (50 words)

Swollen vagina normal after anal sex. Is this normal??

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18 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex with my boyfriend twice tonight and the he really wanted to try anal so I let him (this was my first time at anal) after he finished I put his hand down there to finger me and he said I felt really swollen so I checked and struggled to get 1 finger comfortably inside. ... (69 words)

Why am I dragging this on?

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18 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, over summer break I went on a vacation to another country, where I met a boy who we will call Carlos. He was basically my vacation boyfriend, and to be honest I did and still do have feelings for him. During our time together, we did hook up. It was much more than a hook ... (213 words)

How do I get my hubby to tone it down a little?

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18 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, i need some advice. My husband speak loud. He said this is his normal way of talking. Im trying to get used to it. The problem is im having now a nervous attack. Only one little loud thing i got totally nervous. I try hard to explain that to him, that maybe we can learn to ... (139 words)

Why is he pulling away from me when all I want is to be there for him??

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18 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everyone, please I need some advices from you, I am in a relationship with a guy 3 years older than me, I am 21 years old, we have been together for about five years now, he knows that I love him I show him my love in every possible way, I know that he loves me but how ... (158 words)

He says there is no chemistry between us,...

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18 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - im close friends with a guy and we was talking the other day and we spoke about dating, he said 'to date someone you have to have a chemical reaction and i dont feel that with you' he said i had lovely eyes and a brilliant personality but couldnt date me ? i dont understand ... (144 words)

Do you think she could smell it on us???

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18 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it true that you can smell when someone has had sex after they have had it?? I had sex with my boyfriend in my house with no one there this past friday and then my mom comes home an hour later. She never tells or asks me if we had sex or not but she does ask me when he's ... (165 words)

What are the rules about second cousins getting married?

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18 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So my 2nd cousin and I finally admitted our feelings for each other. I fell completely for him. we both love each other and we plan on getting married here soon in the next couple years. I truly love him but I'm afaird what other people will say i don't want to ruin his life. ... (74 words)

Serious relationship question, why is he in such a rush?

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18 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i was in a brief serious relationship with a guy who I had been in contact with about a year ago. just recently we became back in touch and decided to try a serious relationship. the only things was that he didn't tell me what his background was and I don't think I remember... (289 words)

Is he checking me out, or not?

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18 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - How can you tell if someone is looking at you out of the corner of their eye? ... (23 words)

What does he see me as? Does he like me... I am so confused.. please help.. I'm in desperate need.

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18 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - met this guy the other weekend. and I have been running into him at this nightclub I am usually out with my friends. everytime we see each other we get really touchy, we have amazing conversation, we almost hooked up, but I am not that kind of girl on the first date kinda... (293 words)

I'm tired of my sexless marriage, please help!

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18 May 2011 (F)

age - my spouse and i havent had sex in 9 years our kids are grown he doesnt want me to touch him he sleeps fully clothed i have tried to undress him while he sleeps but he wakes up before i can get his clothes down. what can i give him without him knowing what is going on? he is ... (117 words)

Ex wants to be friends but I told her I needed time. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

18 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So my ex girlfriend broke up with me about a month ago after 2 years ago and when she broke up with me, she said that we could still be friends, but the other day i told her that i still wanted to be friends with her, but i need time to myself to get my head straight and that ... (103 words)

My girl friend gave me a picture of her in her bra but I think its illegal because were minors

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18 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i cant stress the fact that i didn't ask her to do this more. just randomly one day my girl friend send me via e-mail a picture of her from the waist up but no shirt and just a bra, i deleted it a day later because when i first got it i wasn't curtain how to react. just kinda ... (208 words)

How can I find friends with similar interests in highschool?

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18 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi guys so I am going into highschool and I haven't really been myself. I guess I'm kinda affraid that people will think I'm weird. I really like the scary movies and the punk rock music. I am also really into drawing and art. But there aren't many people who I can talk to any ... (90 words)

I need advise, are we just friends or can I hope for more from him?

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18 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - 2 years ago I met this guy online we became friends straight away It seemed we connected really well we had almost everything in common He asked me to meet in real life and I accepted. He didn't try anything bad with me and we had a great time In fact he asked me to go and see ... (644 words)

What is the definition of a real man?

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18 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - just need answers, i want to know what is the definition of a REAL MAN. ive been dating this guy for over 3 yrs and he tells me he is a real man..... first of all he is 26 yrs old, doesnt have a high school diploma, or ged, doesnt have a job at this moment,he lives with his ... (273 words)

Best friend going off into the military but wants me to have his baby. He already has a girlfriend!

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18 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a senior in high and my best friend is going off to the military. He wants a baby... by me... However, he has a girlfriend. I don't know the girl and she doesn't know me. I do love this guy ever since I was a freshman though. I am also a virgin that promised to stay pure ... (69 words)

Why do I keep attracting stray animals?

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18 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help me, as my heart is breaking! I love animals but I don't think I'm meant to have a pet for thte rest of my life. I have always loved pets, but right now I am not in a position where I would deliberately go out and adopt one because I don't have the stabili... (598 words)