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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I like her but I am going away soon, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4732 days ago

12 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am currently revising for very hard university exams, but can't stop about this girl that I have liked for a while. However, I don't know whether to gather confidence to ask her out now, even though I will not be able to see her until after exams and even summer, perhaps ... (99 words)

His parents are driving him away from me, literally!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4678 days ago

12 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Today I have a emtpy feeling and I'm bored. I want to go get my hair done. I want change. Because im going through a change with my bf messing up and it's suddeningly over. So it's day 1 he hasn't tried to call yet today. Im looking to change since things here are changing I ... (661 words)

I think I might be Bisexual, but I'm afraid for others to know...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

12 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Im 15 years old. There is this feeling in me. I think im bisexual. I think girls are sexy. there is this one girl name "Abbie". She asked me out. I said yes to see what its like. Now everyone at my school is making fun of me. And this boy I also really like hates me cuz im ... (99 words)

My BF is chatting with a hottie from work! Should I be worried??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

12 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid My bf of 2 years has started chatting with his collegue ( a girl) in IM almost everyday. i saw his messages in his computer, it was just hi, how r u doing kind of messages, but she doesnt respond much and he is the one who always initiates the chat. I am ki... (106 words)

My crush has a BF but she wants to sleep with me. Should I do it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

12 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So here's the deal : I have known this girl for a long time and we are best friends. I fell in love with her like a year ago. She has a boyfriend for like 3 year now and I quess they seem happy together. I expresed my feeling toward her like 6 months ago and she was really s... (265 words)

I am uncomfortable with my girlfriend's past, but I see her as my wife. what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4732 days ago

12 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - hello, So here is my story. I met my girlfriend less than 6 months ago, and shortly after we met we really hit it off. We have so much in common, we are really honest with each other, and we showed each other a lot of consideration throughout the relationship. ... (796 words)

I'm worried about having a DNA test....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

12 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I had unprotected sex with my ex-boyfriend before 2years but I did not get pregnant since he ejaculated just on my vagina. Later I had unprotected sex with another guy he also used to ejaculate near my vagina. But a single drop went inside. So if I go for DNA test will it get ... (63 words)

Is the long time friendship finally turning into love, or am I just afraid to lose him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4684 days ago

12 May 2011 (F) age 30-35 - Ok, so there is this guy, and he's had feelings for me for a long time. I know, because he flirted rather obviously, though he never actually said it straight forward. I've known him for years and only seen him as a friend... up until now. I've rejected him more than once, but ... (236 words)

I love my wife but I am attracted to her sister too...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

12 May 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I have been married for 13 years and have a wonderful wife and 3 kids. During this time I have always loved my wife, but have always loved her sister as well, but kept this info to myself. On a scale from one to ten, I would say that they are equally rated tens. The... (522 words)

Why is my husband looking at porn instead of me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4704 days ago

12 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently caught my husband of 4 years looking at pornography on the internet. He admitted to having done this for the entire length of our relationship...over 8 years in all...and even from the time he was a teenager...he is several years older than me so has essentially ... (664 words)

He kissed my puppet, does that mean he likes me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

12 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear readers, Long story short. I've had a crush on this guy for the entire year. Sometimes I think he likes me a lot, and then sometimes I feel like he's given up. Anyways (we were in drama, and we're getting ready for a show--I'm in grade 11 by the way.) My crush is in my c... (337 words)

Did he watch gay porn? Or was it spam? I'm a nervous wreck, please give advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

12 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a bit of a state. 2 weeks ago, I found on my boyfriends internet history that he'd watched gay porn. I went further back in the history by a couple of months and there was straight porn and also another one link to gay porn. I freaked out completely and asked him abou... (766 words)

How do I tell him I have a child?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4732 days ago

12 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi! I am a single mum and I am 26 years old. I have been alone for 3 years now. I have a child and a career and tons of friends which takes up a lot of my time.But recently I met the best looking man I have ever seen in my life in a random situation and we got chatting and ... (241 words)

How can I show him how truly sorry I am?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

12 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, Sorry for this post being so long, i did try to shorten it. So this guy started talking to me a few months ago on facebook, I barely knew him but he seemed alright. After about a week of us talking on fb he asked why 'how does someone as pretty as you not have a... (510 words)

My boyfriend is jealous of my friendship with my daughter's teacher

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4730 days ago

12 May 2011 (F)

age - Hello I need advice on how to handle my jealous boyfriend we live together I have a 18 year old handicapped daughter who recently as of March started with seizures she is now home schooled on Tuesdays and Thursdays 4 to 6p.m and Saturdays 9 to 2p.m teacher during the week ... (332 words)

Everyone says he's bad news - but I think he's lovely

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

12 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, i was just wondering what people's opinions are of this and if they think it would ever work. Basically i'm a pretty average girl, not particularly popular but have loads of good friends, i'm quite clever and focused at school and stuff, but lately i've been going through a ... (151 words)

Tips for talking to girls please

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

12 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi i am an 18 year old male. I came out of a 3 year relationship a few months ago, i think i should mention this was my first relationship. And i dont really have many female freinds so to be honest i do not know how to talk to girls.Especialy ones i have never met before a... (112 words)

He wants a baby - is it a good idea?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

12 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a single mom of 2 boys ages 16 and 10..I'm 36yrs old and have been dating a man for 6yrs who has a daughter who basically he see's every other weekend!!He's been asking me to have a baby so that we can be a family cuz he feels that he has nothing by me and he does ... (209 words)

How do I stop imagining how my wife cheated with this older man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

12 May 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Please help! I am still coming to terms with my wife having a full-blown emotional and physical affair with an older man. What I absolutely cannot get out of my head are the thoughts and images of these two people going at it - this man doing things to my wife that I shou... (264 words)

I have been turned down so much that I wonder f my husband prefers his hand to me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

12 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know where to begin. I guess its quite simple. My hubby and I have been together for 7 yrs. Married for just over 1. In the beginning we had sex non stop. Then it went down to a few times a week, then once a week, then once a month, then once every other month or so. ... (254 words)

She said I feel more strongly about her than she does about me...I don't want to lose her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4732 days ago

12 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok I'm a mess and it's only been a few hours, and I'm looking for advice!! My girlfriend and I have been together for about 10 months now, and I am completely head over heels in love with her. I don't get to see her more them a few days a week since she lives about 45 mins a ... (317 words)

Is married man hinting for me to sleep with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1671 days ago

12 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, What does it mean when a married man hints to you that he is staying in a bad situation? Is he lying or telling you the truth? Does he want to sleep with you? Interested in a relationship? Wants to give you a green light to pursue him? What does this mean? I w... (69 words)

In a stalemate situation with colleague!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4587 days ago

12 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I've fancied a senior colleague for about six months now. hes 11 years older than me and we are very different to each other. We have been teasing/ insulting/ bickering with each other for months now and we always talk - about 2 hours a week is spent in conversation, just ... (494 words)

I had a child at 17 and the father denied the pregnancy...ever since then, I haven't been able to open up to men!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4732 days ago

12 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Helo aunts.. Need some advice. Im a 27 year old lady whose being single for almost my entire youth. I had a babe when i was 17 the father denied the pregnancy, then i told my self it was a lesson for me and since then i never had a relationship until i was 24, 25. During those ... (340 words)

How do I ask out a shy girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

12 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - How do I ask out a shy girl? I 'arranged' to meet her however there's no set time or place. How do I get a time out of her so we can meet up and get to know each other? I don't know her very well and I don't want her to feel intimidated, i'm a little older and outgoing whereas ... (73 words)

I feel inadequate because my boyfriend has more money than me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4732 days ago

12 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - We met on our year abroad. Ok so for the first five months or so I would always pay half the bill. After sometime when we formally started going out he started to pay more and now I don't pay at all. We live in different countries and meet regularly. The thing is he is supremly ... (438 words)

I'm SO confused about my sexuality it's killing me. Is this normal? What on earth do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

12 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 21 and I have come to accept that I am gay. I've had a long term girlfriend before and was sexually attracted to her. But now I'm single I barely see girls as sex objects anymore. I am only attracted to guys. Now, I can't see myself having sex with a guy but that might just ... (248 words)

I want to be there for both friends, but they are making it hard. Any advice is welcome.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

12 May 2011 (?) age 26-29 - I'm worried about what to do about my two friends. The background info is that last time my friend who I will refer to a 'Beth' had a boyfriend my other friend who I will call 'Cyndi' started sleeping with him at the same time. They both fell out big time and now hate eac... (255 words)

I like a player. What can I do to get him to like me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

12 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey ! (: Whenever I used to go out with my group of friends I used to notice a very pretty guy there... so when we all went out he would look at me and smile , at first we didn't speak very much... UNTIL the last Friday. We were at a friends birthday and we got both... (336 words)

I've been hurt and I'm not sure how to proceed with this new relationship..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

12 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. I need quick help with my situation. It might be a little long but your time and attention would be most appreciated. Some background information (I have again and again posted on this site about myself and in my profile too and got great responses): Alright... (702 words)

Everything has to be perfect for my wife to have sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

12 May 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife is only open to having sex once between day 5 and 8 of her cycle. Everything has to be perfect. The house has to be empty. We have three teenagers that are in and out of our house constantly so that doesn’t happen very often. It can’t be before 9AM or after 9PM. I ... (237 words)

He has urges and wants me to let him go through with them!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

12 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have a very satisfying sex life and I was surprised when he began asking about threesomes and open relationship. What irks me about this is that this only started when we met a friend through a friend, and she happened to be "cute" by his standards. My ... (590 words)

We broke up but I think we both want to get back together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

12 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so my boyfriend and I broke up 3weeks ago, he recently wrote to me expressing how much he missed and loved me but had no intentions of doing anything about it. He's starting a new job and a course so hes busy and that is why he can't be in a relationship. I recently told ... (280 words)

Kissless virgin

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

12 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - There is a stigma surrounding virginity. But there is a much bigger one surrounding kissless virginity. I have told some people I am a virgin, if the moment seems right, and they just assume it's because I haven't found the right girl or something like that. They even seem to ... (157 words)

How do we get my husband's 14 year old daughter on the right track?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

12 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and his ex wife just found out that theyre 14yr old daughter has been ditching school,smoking weed and having sex w/ a 18 yr old.When all this came to light I finally spoke out letting them know how this lil girl has no manners bad behaved and that the mom needs to ... (153 words)

My Girl suddenly broke up with me. And I don't even know WHY?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4732 days ago

12 May 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey Everybody, i'm Ryan, Im only 16 years old. I'm so upset right now. I know it's a little awkward asking you guys for some help. I don't know what's going on between Us. I've been with this girl for 1 year and 3 months. IN our 6 months together We often go out togeth... (763 words)

How often should I contact my LDR?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

12 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm in a long distance relationship we have been together for about a month now, but as we are both students and she has heavy studys for uni right now we can't meet up till the summer, but I'm just wondering how often should I text her, as I dont want to sound too clingy ... (140 words)

Why act jealous if she just wants to be friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

12 May 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - this girl i liked said that she didnt like me.....i am kind of getting over her....but i still have a feeling for her and its hard to get over it but im trying. Things were getting very awkward between us when she found out that i liked her....she wasnt comfortable around ... (238 words)

Post-abortion relationship problem

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

12 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I had an abortion about three weeks ago. I was feeling fine about it the first two weeks but now I'm not feeling so great. I feel like I see babies everywhere, and I'm sad about it. I want to talk to my boyfriend about my feelings but I'm really struggling to feel close... (205 words)

Short tempers in a relationship, can it work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4732 days ago

12 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What are some tips for couples who have short tempers? My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 2 years now and we love each other very much. The only problem is our tempers are short and little disputes can heat up quickly. We both are working on it by taking a t... (81 words)

Is my idea romantic, or over the top?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

12 May 2011 (M) age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a affectionaste person and I just want to know if sending a truck filled with roses is an over the top espresstion of love.... (26 words)

I'm an average weight for someone my age, but my legs look awful in leggings and shorts!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

12 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am a 17 year old teenager and now that I am older I tend to 'dress up' more than I used to, I normally wear jeans to school, but Leggings are so much comfier than jeans. so I would like to wear them more often. I have a problem though, I would say that I was an av... (220 words)

What can I do to address these demons from my past relationships?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

12 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need help. All my adult life I've had disatrous relationships. I was always too trusting and have been cheated on, lied to, used, even raped, the lot. 8 months ago I met a woman and begun a lesbian relationship. We hit it off straight away and I know 100% she's the ... (463 words)

Am I a potential husband or Mr. right now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

12 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a question about what i am going through right now. I am about to graduate high school and move to college about an hour and a half away. I am seeing this girl who i dated 3 years then we broke up because of some problems we had but as of a few months ago we started ... (448 words)

Why am I to blame for everything?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

12 May 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - why does it seem that i am to blame for everything in my relationship? Any argument that we have, any fall out it is always me to blame, even when its not my fault ! My girlfriend and i have been together for a few years and on the most part have had a happy relationship, ... (269 words)

Advice on how to deal with spouse's emotional affair

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

12 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - please help im trying so hard to deal with my husbands emotional affair/flirting with a woman at work. we have only been married 17 months and im really trying but im so hurt and upset about it i cant stop the sadness. a few months ago when i was on my hubbys phone i noticed ... (247 words)

Why won't ex partner let me move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

12 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Why wont he let me move on. My problem is my ex partner we were together for 7yrs and had 2 children together, we only lived together a short time and he moved out in july last yr. The problem was i suspected he had a thing going on with his ex. I had read messages etc. I know ... (293 words)

My husband is buying a flat and puts it in his name. If he dies, who will get it, me or his son?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

12 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have question about the law in Europe ( Germany ). I'm come from Asia but married to a German. My husband wants to buy a flat here in Germany. He said he will put the flat only to his name. But he said he will make also another paper that when he die the flat will be mine. Is ... (143 words)

I only want to be mates but I think he wants more!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

12 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 17 and a guy i really like 19. i only known him a month and met him twice but talk him a lot. last week i was really upset because a family member is terminally ill. and he said i will give you cuddle when see ya but when i saw him 3 days later at his flat we was in his ... (168 words)

I cant stay with her but I can't be away from her either

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

12 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi i am 29 yr old.. i met a girl over internet 2 year back and became close to her . she confessed me about her past relation ,that time her ex bf had ditched her.we became very good friends and spent more time to get to know each other. gradually i liked her candid attitude ... (402 words)

Man in a womans body, but where do I start if I want to change gender?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

12 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - ive known that my gender and my sex didnt match since i was a toddler and now ive come to realize that i could be ftm (female to male transgender).i want to start transitioning asap but i dont know where to start.how do i come out to my family,how do i start therapy,how will ... (69 words)

I lost my ambition since I met my partner, and don't know what to do anymore! Suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

12 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I would appreciate any advice that you could give me. I am in a dilemma. I am coming towards the end of my first year as a PhD student and I left a job I enjoyed (very people orientated) and I find the research itself a bit boring and I cant get excitied about it. I have may ... (216 words)

The girl I liked ignored me, so I moved on to someone else, and then again to someone else. And now I'm wondering if I should let my current girl go and pursue the first one I wanted instead.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

12 May 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok here's the deal I have a gf and I really like her but there's someone else I like even more. In January I really liked this girl (the one who isn't my gf) but she ignored me so I moved on to another person. And after that other Person I moved to my current gf. My gf has been ... (125 words)

Desperate to fix my relationship with a single mum. When do you introduce the new man to the kids?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4732 days ago

12 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - So my esteemed aunts and uncles, perhaps you can help me with the pressing issues surrounding myself...I have written before about my on again off again relationship and its gotten worse to be frank - when we split up its terrible, worse than can be imagined. When were together ... (257 words)

How do you know the difference between being in love and having a crush?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

12 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you know the difference between being in love and having a crush? I have feelings for my best friend but I don't know if it's love or just a very persistent crush, because I've felt attracted to him since last March. The intensity fluctuates a lot and at times I want ... (108 words)

Should I just see it as him being a player, or as an opportunity for a first real relationship in college?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4732 days ago

12 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Last summer, I went on a program where I met this guy. We weren't extremely close - we had some friends in common and talked once or twice, but we were never really good friends. But a few weeks after the program ended, he started texting me and sending me pictures from the ... (274 words)

Should we be more committed at this stage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

12 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Am I a mug? I have been dating a man for coming up to 17 months. We have been talking about moving in together for months now – about 5 to be precise. But last month we had a lot of very bad rows. I will admit I said a lot of stuff about his ex (mother of his children) an... (451 words)

Any advice on making my broken heart feel a little better because I feel horrible..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

12 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - There was this guy i fell hard for recently. I got advice from a lot of people that i should tell him how i felt and to go for it to see how things would go because i really thought he was interested in me (he acted like he was). For example, he ditched his friends in class for ... (219 words)

What did I mean to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

12 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Sorry for my grammar. I met a girl recently online and for a few weeks we literally spent half the day talking to each other and watching movies etc. We got close very fast and I got strong feelings for her very fast. She returned them and everything seemed perfec... (422 words)

Should I stop replying to my ex's texts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

12 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - It's been two months since my ex and I broke up. We broke up because we had some communication problems which we both believe we could fix, though we decided we both don't want a relationship right now. He has said he wants to give us another try eventually, though I'm unsur... (210 words)

If we're just friends why does he kiss me like this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

12 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i am not sure if this guy likes me we been talking and he says that we are friends but we do kiss. he says he dont want to lead me on but than again he still kisses and flirts with me?...we both got out of relationships so we ended up talking to each other but the more i talk ... (136 words)

My bf is now bi curious and a x-dresser....help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

12 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so... my bf and I have been dating for over 3 years now. He has admited to being a crossdresser. I have seen it, was fun at first now hes really into it. AND now is bi-curious. We had talked about him trying a tgirl and i was alright with it. So one weekend we ended up at a ... (265 words)

Do I just have some issues or could it be that I am a lesbian?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

12 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Am I a lesbian? I've never been in a relationship with a guy for more than a month, and never had sex. I know my friends find that odd as do I and they've made comments regarding it, not insulting but kind of questioning and even letting me know that if I were gay they'd s... (224 words)

Relationship Problem, seriously confused

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

12 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a fiance who i have been with for 3 1/2 years, we have both cheated before, made our peace,and moved on from it. My best friend just returned to the area,and I have always had a crush on her,for about 9yrs,recently she seems to be sharing those feelings,and wants to ... (102 words)

Verbal abuser feels he too was a victim and I'm the bad person

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

12 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - im confuse i broke up with my boyfriend for 8 months he called me names like ugly, crazy , stupid i told him to stop but everytime i upset him over small things like he doesnt like the way i snob him for small reasons he yells at me. hes financially dependent on me for 8 ... (370 words)

Why won't my boyfriend buy me presents? I do it for him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

12 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. I had learned that I had been so selfless in relationship. I had always bought him stuff, when I go to the mall, see something he would like, I buy for him. But he has never did anything like that. I dont expect anything... (97 words)

Why would my crush be mean to me on purpose? I thought he liked me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

12 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My crush told a mutual friend that he hated me. My crush and I have had fun together and talked and laughed. Why would he do this? He never acted like he hated me. I have done so much for him. Why would he do that and what does it mean? Thank you.... (53 words)

He deliberately embarrasses me. What can I do to stop him being Mr Wize Guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

12 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My guy thinks it is funny sometimes to call out silly things in front of strangers, to embarrass me. It is not funny. The things he calls out are not true, but he bursts out laughing once he has done it. I have told him I find it embarrassing. that did not work. Then I have ... (153 words)

Have I been masterbated to the point where my output is now being affected?

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12 May 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Have I been trying to masterbate too many times every day? Now I am wondering how much masturbation is too much masturbation? Usually I masturbate four times a day. But now I have reached the point where i can barely ejaculate anything anymore and it is pale and very watery is ... (66 words)

I'm a mess and not sure how to be happy again... Please help!

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12 May 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I can't take it anymore. I was in love with my cousin for 2 years, but when I asked her if she shared my feelings she said no and told all her friends at school. Now I'm being picked on by every one... Even most of my friends have stopped talking to me. Now Im in love wit... (104 words)

I came home and found my hubby had been going on porn sites, now he says I'm over reacting! Am I??

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12 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I came home from vacation and found out my husband was going to porn sites. That didn't bother me as much as him going on live camera sites and was able to chat with these woman. He thinks I am over reacting. I feel so cheated on. I know porn is normal I gues it is the fact ... (78 words)

Sex can wait and I am not interested in giving my BF a blow job.What can you suggest I try instead?

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12 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am not interestd yet in having sex and I am not yet ready to give my boyfriend a blow job. But how else can i pleasure my boyfriend and how do I do that without having sex or giving a blow job??? What can you suggest I try instead?... (50 words)

How do ladies who need a larger bra size cope with finding the sizes they needs?

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12 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so my bra cup size and overall size is a little larger. Would a push up bra make me look too much? And bigger than they really are? Does anyone know the largest size that Victoria's Secret make in bras? Or any other bra company that makes bras for larger girls? Or should ... (74 words)

Girl I am dating asked me if I want to see sex tape of her and a guy from college, and says her ex-bf liked to watch it! What do I make of this???

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12 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Aunts, can you please give me some perspective of this please. I have been dating this girl for like 3 months. she is gorgeous, 26, very sweet. I know she has a number of bfs in the past and she's experienced with guys. But i dont let that intimidate me because I felt w... (535 words)

Old boyfriend had cancer and I want to start it up again but I'm scared

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12 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I think i need some opinions because am at a crossroads! Sooo I will have to start from the beginning so it makes sense. When I was 14 I went out with a lad I went to school with and afterwards we generally stayed in touch. He got diagnosed with cancer at 16 (we're the sa... (384 words)

We broke up because of other people, how can I get him back?

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12 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am still in love with my ex boyfriend. we were together for 4 month. We broke up because people were saying shit. It's been about 2 months. He has a girlfriend now, but we have been talking. He told me he still likes me. I really want him back so badlyy!! I truely love ... (91 words)

Is it bad to give your guy a bj but not finish??

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12 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - During foreplay, is it bad to give your guy a bj but not finish (make him cum) bc you are so turned on that you just want him inside you. So you stop, and you start having sex. Is that a bad thing? is there some kind of rule when it comes to oral before sex for a man??? He ... (76 words)

My girlfriend slept with a guy we work with before me...and it's really bugging me!

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12 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, Me and my girlfriend have been together for 8 months. She is 7 years older than me and we work for the same company. I heard rumours before we were together that she slept with a guy at our works party. He told people the filthy details and someone told them to me too. ... (258 words)

How I forget about a guy who used me??

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12 May 2011 (?) age 36-40 - I'm a person who worries a lot about what other people think and tend to base my own self esteem around their opinions of me. I hate the feeling of someone ignoring or disliking me because it makes me feel like there must be something wrong with me. Because of this i tend to be ... (338 words)