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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why do so many people try to push you to get out and look for girls just to hook up with and have meaningless sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

25 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My friends are the type who are confident with girls who can chat to them no problem and don't mind meeting up with them with only one goal in mind. The problem is, that's not me at all....I struggle so much with girls as I'm not super confident, I'd say I'm a good looking g... (248 words)

How can I convince her I'm not too young?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

25 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 nearly 18, and about 3 months ago I met a girl who is amazing, she looks young for her age so I thought she was about 19 but she is 23 which doesn't bother me but she says i'm too young. The frustrating thing is that I know she likes me and I don't care about the age ... (88 words)

I've been waiting for my best friend's relationship to end so I can ask her out

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4712 days ago

25 May 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - My most best friend in the world is bi-sexual. I've had a crush on here and liked her for a long time now. But she has a girlfriend which sucks big time. I know that a-lot of people say that a relationship with someone that is bi-sexual is not healthy, but as long as she loves ... (103 words)

Does he want to be with me just to have sex because I'm a virgin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

25 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boy frd dated me for 2month,nd left without any explaination.after 7month he come back for me.i accept him back.on my birthday he didn't get me any bday present.and yet am madly in love with him.he ask me that am i still a virgin,i told him no.but i am.can i tell him am a ... (93 words)

This girl doesn't seem to realize what she did to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

25 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey Guys, Feeling so stressed out at the minute, I have an unrequited love and not much else going for me at the moment either. I've always been shy with girls in the past, but managed to have a little fun with a girl that I was friends with, it lasted about a month or... (514 words)

I'm not sure what is going on with my body but I'm too embarrassed to ask my doctor

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4712 days ago

25 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i've recently become active again with my current partner after splitting up with my ex 8 months ago. I haven't used a comdom because we were both checked before we started sleeping together and one morning i was in the shower and i noticed what looked to me like some extra ... (92 words)

Should my sister marry this man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

25 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi The problem I'm writing about it is not my problem it is my sister's... so we are Americans but we live in Saudi Arabia in Aramco (which is a very open place, not like the rest of the country).. about 2 years ago my sister met this Saudi dude and fell for him..they still to... (124 words)

Will I ever stop thinking and dreaming of him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

25 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i bumped into my ex of four years abt 3days ago..we broke up fr a year it was a bumpy relationship but i loved him through thick and thin.he ended up breaken my heart into thousands of little pieces and i felt exactly the same way at dat moment.it ws the second time since our ... (277 words)

Why is my friend angry with the way I broke up with my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4712 days ago

25 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I became friends with this really nice funny guy and we walk home every day with two other people, a boy and a girl. So basically I was going out with his friends but I started to have feelings for the guy and we were always flirting and things werent going well. So, because I ... (150 words)

How do I stop my girlfriend from leaving me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

25 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend of three years has presented me with the idea that she is unsure about our relationship. We live together and she is everything to me. I told her that the feeling is not mutual. I still love her dearly. She is my first thought in the morning and my last before ... (166 words)

It seems like my father hates me, what should I do?

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25 May 2011 (?) age 30-35 - My parent's divorced when i was around 2, and my mom remarried to a WONDERFUL man, who treated me as I was his own. My step father died when I was 11, and it was really dramatic for me, and i went through alot of pain and suffering from it. Every summer I would visit my real ... (350 words)

Can a woman give herself completely to a new love, despite having had many lovers in her past?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

25 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 31 years old and dating this girl (27 3rd year surgical residency) which I absolutely love we are both very sexual beings. The problem is that we have different views on sexuality, even though she says that we don't. I have only had one sexual partner before her (my ex), ... (473 words)

With 2 weeks left of Senior year should I finally make a move or just let it go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4713 days ago

25 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So there’s this guy who has liked during High school and possibly middle school too, the typical staring, trying to walk close by me in the hall and hair fixing. He’d always been someone I was attracted to but somehow we were friends with the others friends but never directly ... (594 words)

I cannot seem to win, there always seems to be something she wants to have a go at me about!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4712 days ago

25 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so my girlfriend has been having a go at me alot recently sometimes it's very small things, sometimes not so much. But when she realises that she's wrong about something, or that she took something the wrong way, or she overreacted about something small, she has a go at me ... (190 words)

I love this girl but she said 'no' when I asked to be her best friend. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4711 days ago

25 May 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - CAN YOU HELP ME?? I loved a girl she also going to be 15. i loved her more then 5 years but when i told her after 4 years she told me that she had a boy friend so i left her but everytime she looks at me she kills my heart. because i think she want to talk to me soo i add her... (131 words)

How do I get his ex out of my head before it ruins our relationship??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4712 days ago

25 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Cupid, Ive been going with my boyfriend for just over a month now and already we've fallen for each other and we're very happy. However, I'm really struggling to get his ex out of my head! I know im being silly, but I was going through his computer and he still has loads ... (180 words)

Jealous of my boyfriend's ex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4712 days ago

25 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been with a guy for nine months and i am i am jealous of his past reationships. He is really faithful and i have no reason to be jealous. But i feel inferior. His exes were all good looking and all. He has always told me that i am the only one he has ever loved but ... (213 words)

My ex-girlfriend only wants oral.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

25 May 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Ok so I have an ex-girlfriend, who is in her mid-20's and I am in my later 30's. We live 1,000 apart now. I was visiting the city she lives in and on her birthday we hooked up and then two days later we hooked up again. She wouldn't have sex with me either time nor would s... (166 words)

I overheard my BF telling his cousin he doesn't really love me. Now I'm not sure how much to trust him or how to feel when he says anything to me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4713 days ago

25 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months now, we were old friends along time ago and when we ran into each other, we got along great! We have a great time together. He has always been very independant and has never "needed" a women and when we have a problem, he just says ... (200 words)

My GF thinks I cheat on her and is subjecting me to immense physical and mental abuse!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

25 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hey guys n girls, longer story....help me.... im sorry if im not typing correctly to be honest im so depressed and sad. ok 3 yrs ago me and my gf got into a very big fight and she smacked me in my face then later she hit me with a bottle. I left her for a few months and was s... (706 words)

We're both happy with the FWB scene, but not knowing wen he'll drop me, is scary...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

25 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - This relationship tbegan by sms chat nd 2 months later...we became friends with benefits. The arrangement is no expectations. Either of us can opt out anytime. Its a year now nd the uncertainty is becoming harder to bear.... Wen we 2gether im in a fantasy... But it remains a ... (85 words)

My girlfriend "needs her space" and doesn't know if she wants to be with me or not.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

25 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi so my girlfriend and I have been together for a year now and she does not know if she wants to be my girlfriend at the moment. She says she needs her space and she is in school as well which stresses her out completely. Well about a month ago we started fighting about ... (144 words)

I'm afraid to tell him what I want, because I know he won't approve.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

25 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for a year and 3 months. i love this boy with out question. I want to go with my aunt this summer and see family and friends i havent seen in a long time But he doesn't want me to. ???... (52 words)

I made a big mistake while drunk. How do I move on?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

25 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - About 4 year ago, I went to a bar. I was 21 at the time, and pretty inexperienced when it came to any sort of physical interaction. I felt as though I needed to get out and see what I was 'missing'. I was sitting outside of a local bar on a patio, and, with the bad judgemen... (279 words)

I am still in love with my adopted cousin 25 years later

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

25 May 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - When I was 17 I had an affair with my 15 yearold addopted cousin. Before anything happened between us I was always excited to learn my family was going to visit with hers as I always had a crush on her. I obvisouly could not tell her or anyone for that matter until one day ... (409 words)

I'm 32 years old... and I've never had a serious boyfriend or even slept with someone!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

25 May 2011 (F) age 41-50 - I could be wrong about this, but most people believe that if someone is in a relationship, then that's it, you can NEVER have a chance with that person. The trouble is, I'm 32 years old now... and I've never had a serious boyfriend or even slept with someone. I know this sou... (193 words)

I thought I could deal with the break-up, but knowing now that my BF is moving on and I'm not, is killing me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

25 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, me and my ex bf split up about 3 weeks ago, although i wasnt full over him i was getting there, but then today he came to pick up some of his things, as he finished me over text, we was talking about it, as i just wanted to know answers. he then said we could never get ... (159 words)

Do you think it is okay to have a relationship with the ex-husband of my ex-husband’s wife?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

25 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - me and my ex husband have been divorced for almost 11 years now and have a 14 yr old daughter and an 11 yr old son. he is now re-married and has been for about 4 years or so. his new wife had also been divorced for a while and has a son with her ex husband. her ex husband and i ... (138 words)

Can a narcissist and a co-dependent person have a relationship that works?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

25 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. I am a co-dependent person. For those who do not know what this is, it is a person who feels the need to please other people in order to get his own validation. I have had treatment for this but still ahve strong codependent tendencies. Last few months, I met a woman who ... (196 words)

He's a lovely guy but his clothes are not stylish and he smokes. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

25 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, i feel quite bad asking this because its all common sense but we all have preferences. I met this guy last weekend, I wasnt even meant to be going out, I was just meeting my sister in the pub for a few. Her boyfriend was in there watching the boxing and within twenty mi... (295 words)

Does he like me? He has his life planned out for at least the next few years and is not looking for a girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4713 days ago

25 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I'm in my first year at university and am wondering if the guy that I like likes me. We are both studying music but he is older so I usually only see him in one class plus at our concerts twice weekly. One of my good friends sees him a lot in their instrument ... (436 words)

Is there a place you can touch that turns a girl on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

25 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - is there a certain place of a girls body where a guy can touch to turn a girl on? i heard that if you touch a girls thigh or ear they get turned on is there such a place you can touch that turns a girl on?... (52 words)

Partner gave too much information!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

25 May 2011 (F)

age - My partner has admitted in very graphic detail a 3some he had in his past. This plays on my mind a lot. How do I get over what I know? ... (31 words)

Why doesn't he look at me when we have sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

25 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok here goes. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 months now going onto 3. There is one problem: when we have sex he closes his eyes, turns his head away, and bearly makes a sound besides breathing and a rare grunt or gasp. He's a really nice guy and (believe it or not) ... (207 words)

I don't find my wife attractive anymore

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

25 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my wife have been living together for nine years and married for the last six we have two children the youngest is four years old throughout our relationship her weight and appearance has fluctuated. in the last few years I have found her less and less attractive I guess ... (327 words)

How should I approach the topic of dating with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

25 May 2011 (?) age 26-29 - I really like this girl and I've been talking to her (on fb) recently and every time I speak to her I like her even more. I really want to ask her out but I'm too shy and half of the things she says I don't even understand. She uses language that I never use and so I keep ha... (133 words)

My insecurity and paranoia are ruining our relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

25 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I need some help with my insecurity. I have been with my boyfriend for two years now and I am paranoid about him cheating on me. I have never caught him with another girl, the only things are making me paranoid is that a while back i did see an email to an ex but nothing in ... (249 words)

Why are my parents strict? The rest of my family isn't

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

25 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My cousins already have children and don't live at home. I'm a grown adult and my parents never want me to leave home until I'm married. I can't stand their outdated rules anymore. When my cousins were living at home, they were also allowed to have boyfriends and girlfriends ... (64 words)

Married woman's marriage in trouble. Can I be there to pick up the pieces?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

25 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey guys. First time here. Hoping you can help. I have feelings for a woman who is married. She is going through some hard times in her marriage right now and seems to be struggling about whether to stay with her husband. We have been having an emotional affair for s... (248 words)

LDR boyfriend and I got into heated argument on the phone. Should I apologize?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

25 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a long distance relationship on and off for about a year and a half! I really care for this person. He only lives about 4-5 hours away and I have yet to physically meet him. He's put me through so much emotional stresses so I never felt like it was worth meeting ... (511 words)

I like boys but think I might be bisexual

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

25 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, so i'm a 14(nearly 15) year old girl and im only in y10 at the moment. But i'm a little bit confused because i think i miight be bisexual. i defintealy like boys bcos i crush on boys just like all my other friends do and have liked some boys i know., but some-times i thi... (267 words)

Could there be any tips or advice on how to get over my guy making out with a girl last summer on top of a dumpster?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

25 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So I am finally with the man of my dreams... We have had our ups and downs... good times and bad times.. and yet, we always managed to work things out, through communication, open mind and trust for one another. He's the first man in my life that I trust, and the first man in ... (323 words)

Should I try to get things going again or just try to get over this girl I like so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4713 days ago

25 May 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - i was talking to this girl and we had a thing going on. We met up one day and shared a day and we kissed. After a couple days things started to change and did not feel the same. I was going to ask her out the day after that, but then she couldn't go out. That's what went wr... (301 words)

Have some space or be togther when the relationship is breaking down?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

25 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi me and my bf have been really struggling for a while - i dont have time to go into detail. We have the opportunity to spend the whole weekend together this weekend but I want to know, is that a good idea? The idea is that we get to chill out and have some intimate time ... (117 words)

He loves me. He loves me not? why is he confusing me like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

25 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am really confused and i dont know what to do! It 's about my ex and I. He told me he loved me and would never let me go and we dated for a while. Then he told me that he wasnt the one for me but the one who is, will be a very lucky man, and broke up with me. Now he is ... (99 words)

He won't get a divorce till the property settlement. Am I being used?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

25 May 2011 (F)

age - I have been dating a guy for 18 months. We dated over 25 years ago and have re-connected after he split from his wife. He is going through a property settlement with her (they are not divorced) and it will be long and protracted as it is worth a lot of money and is very ... (309 words)

Is my husband interested in anal or just shy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

25 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I initiated anal sex with my husband, we tried twice but could not get it right, then the third time we did, but once again I initiated it. Afterwards he said that it does'nt bug him and that he does not worry about it. I wan't to try it again but I don't want to ask if he is ... (68 words)

Why does ex still message me after all this time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4713 days ago

25 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello all, Please can I have your views. I managed to get out of a pretty nice then preety destructive relationship with my ex, but he has been on and off contacting me for over 9 months now, and when I respond to him, he either sends a one line answer, or dissapears again... (230 words)

Is there any way to reject someone nicely?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

25 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, This is just a short question but is there any way to reject a guy nicely? this guy keeps asking me out and I haven't ever given him a straight answer because I just dont want to offend him, any ideas? We are quite good friends, but he is staying in the friend zone, I dont ... (111 words)

Is this insecure man testing me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

25 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Would an insecure man who constantly tests you go as far to tell you he is engaged and going to get married just to see your reaction? And would he then have a problem if you just replied and said she is a lucky girl and i hope it all works out for you?... (54 words)

How can I get pregnant quickly?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

25 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i am currently trying to conceive i would like some advice on the any quick ways to get pregnant? or anything i can do to get pregnant faster? i have been with my bf for 2years and have had one misscarraige before we have been trying again for the past 3months ... (55 words)

How do I let him know nicely that I am not interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4713 days ago

25 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - this is kind of a variation on the how to let him down easy question. he's a guy i work with (which makes it even more awkward), but the problem i have is that it's really obvious that he likes me (texts regularly, buys me coffee, always suggesting we meet outside work for... (186 words)

Fiance cannot stop bringing up old lovers!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

25 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance can not stop bringing up my past lovers and Its ruining our sex life, as well as our relationship. I am 27 years old and have been with 38 men, and I'll admit, thats a lot. I have much regret for my bad choices in lovers, and wish I could offer an explanation, some ... (1006 words)

Its just not working and I want to break up but I'm afraid he'll tear up my house

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

25 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 29 yr old black female I've have been in a relationship for a year now my boyfriend doesnt want to have sex he say's it's because he doesn't want to get me pregnant, he has to work etc. If i try to make a move he turns on his stomach wow, just excuse after excuse. My ... (128 words)

Is this "If I ignore him he'll go away"?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

25 May 2011 (M)

age - I have been friends with a lady work colleague for a few months and we got on very well, however we have now moved apart and now work on opposite sides of town. She went on holiday and I sent 1 message to her on Facebook, a month ago, to which there has been no reply. On her... (202 words)

Why are my colleagues resentful of me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

25 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Im finding recently that my work colleagues are becoming resentful of me. The 1st thing that happened was I got engaged last year and my boyfriend and I designed my engagement ring and had it made. I absolutly love it so when I showed it off at work and got lots of c... (525 words)

Just how likely is my penis size going to be a problem when I do become sexually active?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

25 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - This will seem like it's verging on a question I've seen asked a hundred or more times across the net, but bear with. Does size matter? I've read up on it enough to have my own thoughts on this, but it's still playing on my mind a lot. I've recently become rather obsessed ... (448 words)

I've lost attraction to my wife and fell for a co-worker

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

25 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok so yes I know I'm a p.o.s. I've come to grips with that. Here's my problem... My wife and I have been having problems, some pretty major, but we are dealing with those. Ive lost attraction to her, which I hate, and again I'm trying to get over that. The issue is in the ... (301 words)

Is my man with the wrong girl ME cause he cant fully commit

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

25 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - hi cupid, just have to thank you for helping me everytime on this site, but just had a little thought, is my man with the right girl meaning ME, if he cant fully commit to me, i am on about being together as a proper couple with our kids we have from different partners, cause ... (179 words)

I'm torn between my ex and my friend!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

25 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex is back. He is 26 and I'm 16.I love him. During our break-up I met one guy online. He is really good. He is 23. After my break-up I was depressed he helped me to get over him. But He is addicted to sex. And He love some other girl,He never told her about his feelings... (357 words)

Should I tell my ex gf I am moving and the new place is by her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

25 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok. I am selling my condominium. I am sick of working on it. I have found a great deal on an apartment in a neighboring city. The only problem is that the apartment is only about 6 blocks from my most recent ex gf. We dated only 4 1/2 months but I was involved with her and her ... (122 words)

My ex-fiancée, who I still have feelings for, has been asking about me again. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

25 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - well it has been a year in a few days that i have not been with my ex-fiance, i was starting to get use of my life without her but all of a sudden i hear that she has been asking about me again. Also just yesterday my sister calls me and tells me that she was talking to her, ... (239 words)

I queef, therefore I blush. Make it stop?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

25 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Here's an embarassing question... So, when I get turned on, my vagina seems to open up and suck in some air. The result is queefing. This doesn't happen if something penis sized is inserted (except once with a very small penis), but if something smaller like a finger or noth... (146 words)

I don't want to end things when they're going so well with my current boyfriend, but I don't know if I can keep going when I can't stop thinking about my ex. Help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

25 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend of 11 months almost a year ago. I didn't hear from him for 4 months afterwards, and then he got in contact asking how I was. I was already seeing someone else by then, who I like a lot. The problem is, we kept talking after that, sending me... (270 words)

I made a special effort to be with my girlfriend, and twice in one day she said she preferred to hang out some other time!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

25 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so me and my girlfriend dont have as much time to spend together as we like because we dont live together yet, but we see each other as much as possible. But my girlfriend recently took an extra shift at work on one of the few times we had to see each other. I was bummed ... (272 words)

Should I continue trying to be his friend? Also admit I have feelings for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4704 days ago

25 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry this is a bit complicated: Back in January I met a guy through a friend,Lora, I didn't think much of him at first but then really got interested. We flirted for about two months before our first date; he took me out on my birthday while making it obvious that he ... (564 words)

My cheating lover doesn't have time for me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

25 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Been having an affair: were both married. He's about to have his second child any day! He's been very distant lately: won't text or call. I asked him if I should leave him alone and he says no! I am having a hard time with the no communicating and giving him space! How do I do ... (61 words)

I've never dated anyone who looks like him before!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

25 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is amazing. His personality is everything I've ever wished for, and he's tall and decent looking. Despite that, I usually don't fall for guys that look like him: mature with heavy features. I usually fall for cute guys with soft features. I feel that as soon as I ... (101 words)

Short and sweet: I'm falling in love with my best friend!

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25 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i appologize ahead of time or my grammar and spelling. ill be short and sweet. im falling in love with my best friend. hes so sweet and i feel like hes perfect for me. he sends mixed signals like completly flirting with me and asking to hangout and hes always there for... (153 words)

He gives me mixed signals about having a baby but I really want one!

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25 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi any and everybody... here is the deal... I've been seeing this guy, I'm in love but I can't tell if he is... he hasn't told me but when I'm around I can feel it... my biggest problem is I want a baby, he talks about it..."we gonna make a baby" "I don't wanna wear condoms" ... (94 words)

Why did he change his screen name to this girls name?

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25 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok my boyfriend dumped me almost 2 month ago. I was in a LDR with him for 3 years and in real life we are perfect. Absolutely amazing. Last time I saw him was January and not long after I left he became depressed. He got really bad and lost all feelings and no longer f... (373 words)

He's living 3 lives with 3 wives and I'm tired of it all!

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25 May 2011 (F)

age - How do I handle all of this? I have been with my boyfriend for over a year. We are both in our 50's. We live 30 mins. away from each other. With his work schedule, we don't get to spend much time together. He has been divorced for 8yrs and has a 14 yr old child. Last yr. ... (487 words)

Does he like her?

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25 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so My friend is wondering if this guy likes her so i am just coping what she told me so sorry if it dosn't make much sense, and if it dosn't just tell me and i will have her explain better. OK. Thank You for your answers. Here is what she said: He follows me around, alw... (138 words)

I'm just not feeling it anymore with this relationship

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25 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so it's coming up to the 6 month Mark of my relationship, and I'm just not feeling it with her anymore. What first attracted me to her wa that she is really nice and sweet. But I think we don't have a lot in common. As time goes on I find myself getting more interested in ... (198 words)

Should I pursue things and find out? Or let go?

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25 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so my typing will probably be terrible and im sorry but im on a cell phone and trying to go fast. theres this guy, his name will be tom. we became friends this year and slowly progressed to being best friends. i figured out i liked him more than a friend last mont... (240 words)

Dating is frying my brain and I am becoming obsessive and stupid! Help!

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25 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys. So, I'm sure this is going to be a bit redundant, as I'm sure others have asked similar questions in the past, but I really am confused and am curious as to what people think about my situation in particular. This is a book, unfortunately. I'm sorry it is so long! ... (1308 words)

My husband cheated on me while travelling

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25 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I'd just managed to make my huaband of 15 years confess he cheated on me almost everytime he went on a business trip; almost 6 times a year. The hardest thing about this truth is that we had a solmen promise from day one to be honest to each other. We agreed if any ever ... (313 words)

Hot when I don't see him ...

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25 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months now, when I'm not with him I miss him soo much but when I see him it's not the same thing. I dnt get as exited. What's wrong with me ? Sometime I do get exices to see him but no always.. Help me ... (53 words)

Was his non-reply a sign to stop?

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25 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay I like this guy, but he doesn't know me. He actually knows my sister's boyfriend. While we was texting he asked to see a picture. I sent the cutest picture in my phone. I'm really not ugly okay. So he said he couldn't see my face I was told to say Well look harder there is ... (121 words)

Should I pursue a relationship with a bisexual girl?

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25 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in a bit of a dilemma, and was wondering if you guys could help me. There's this girl who I think is so pretty, and she has all the qualities I am looking for in a girl. However, she likes both guys AND girls. I don't know whether or not I should pursue a relationship with ... (104 words)

Is it wise to give a girl the cold shoulder to see if she likes you at all?

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25 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - There's this girl at work that I really like (but I can't ask her out cause she holds a higher position than me *this is retail* it would only work if she asked me out.)I'm getting mixed signals from her, some days she's really into me and others she talks to me but theres ... (184 words)

Should I be me or the dancer?

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25 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am an ex dancer so used to have a good body and be considered attractive. I got treated really badly by an ex boyfriend who I lived with for 2 years, he cheated on me with about 8 of my friends and ended up becoming violent. My self esteem plummeted so much so I had to ... (208 words)

Is is ok for married people to be physically attracted to others?

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25 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Is it acceptable or not for a married person to have sexual attractions to other people? I have been married to my wife for about 7 yrs. and she told me that although she is COMPLETELY happy with me sexually and I treat her right AND I give her more than enough attention, she ... (418 words)