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Was he offended by my height?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - I am an outgoing 27 year old female. I am 5 foot 4 1/2 and slender. I recently had a date with a guy and went to the river. I wore flip flops because of the rocks, he (6 foot 3) thought that I was taller (I wear heels a lot) Was he offended by my height?... (58 words

He's 20 years younger than me, I think of him as a nephew, but he's showing too much attention to me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 51-59 - a little advice im so confused i dont know what to do i have knowen this boy since i was in my twentys he was only a young boy then and as he become a teenager he did the usual harmless flirting im like his auntie but he is now an adult and when he is around he will look at ... (137 words

His ex is calling all the shots with their baby and its making me very unhappy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4718 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - this is a complicated question but really need help! me and my boyfriend have just got back together we split up 4 years ago and stayed friends we both still loved each other but didnt no how each other felt we love each other even more now but his ex has just had his bab... (345 words

If a girl gives out her contact info to a guy without any intention of dating him, is it leading him on???

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

23 May 2011 (M age 41-50 - ok this friend of mine (a girl) got into an argument recently and i would love to hear your opinion on this. she is very pretty and she gets hit upon a lot. she is very friendly too so she engages guys in conversations. then they inevitably ask for her number and her email, a... (286 words

I'm going to lose him if I end things, but I don't want to be the other woman!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - there's this guy i met on a penpal site last summer in July; he's from Jamaica and when we started talking; we just clicked; we had so much in common especially since my background is jamaican as well. we talked every single day for hours on the site; we eventually started ... (284 words

He left me hanging without an explanation. How do I cope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I was dating a guy for two months, until he began avoiding me. He would take longer and longer to respond to my texts, and then he just stopped responding period. He hardly ever called me either. After he hadn't contacted me in two days, it indicated to me that he no longer ... (157 words

When do you stop listening to your heart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - When should you stop listen to your heart?... I've fell for someone who I really don't know if was honest with me at least once!... I knew he wasn't giving me what I wanted (a relationship) and I kept seeing him, we were in a relationship for 3 months but lasted as friends with ... (278 words

I'm confused about where we stand

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - i posted this question a week ago and havent got any replies, so i am trying again dear helpful people :) this is a long story, im confused where i stand. i met this guy at a club, and we got on really well. we agreed to go to the next one a week later and we just wander... (410 words

He's flirty and touchy -- I'm confused

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

23 May 2011 (? age 30-35 - Ok, well I'm quite confused about this situation at the moment because... My friend, he's a guy is extremely flirty with me! At first I thought he must like me, but one time we were answering loads of personal questions and stuff, and he admitted to me that he was "in love"... (419 words

Is it weird that I have these sexual dreams of being abused?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - hey it feels rather uncomfortable asking this, but i've no idea who else to talk to. I'll try to be brief but i'm sorry if it isn't. well i'm 16 and i'm a virgin, and i'm happy that way, i want to save it for someone special. but recently i've been having desires, i've be... (218 words

Why does he text me if he isn't going to reply back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I don't understand this, why would a guy go out of his way to text you and then you when you reply back, he doesn't text back!? What was the point in him texting in the first place if he wasn't going to bother replying???... (45 words

I want to show her that I clean up well

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

23 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - hey guys i'm going to a party on saturday and the girl who i like and she apparentley likes me too is going. the thing is i don't know what to wear i know it sounds girlyish but i want to look good and show that ican clean up well. i don't want to wear long sleeves or wea... (101 words

B/f blowing hot and cold with me and its not the first time he's done this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - I'm so confused.. please help! I've been seeing this guy for four months now. I met him online. we are both 36. I have a little girl who is 4 and I'm divorced. I have some trust issues from my past relationship but other wise I'm in a good place (its 2 years since I left my ... (359 words

I always ruin things with a guy cause I feel he is too good for me. How do I change this way of thinking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4720 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I'm not unattractive so I don't know why but when i meet a gorgeous looking guy who shows interest in me, i tend to think after 'how on earth did i manage that, why is he interested in me?' and i see other girls who are beautiful that I'm jealous of and I'll think if he saw ... (209 words

I just can’t be just a friend because I will always want her. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

23 May 2011 (M age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I have a huge shot in the heart right now and its been two weeks and still feel the same pain from the moment it happened. The final result before you all read the story is that she emailed me and said she wants to be friends, that she cares about me, and that she ... (828 words

Have I completely misread the situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - I've been friends with a guy for a couple of years, he's been flirting, making all the right signals and chatting each day online. we see each other quite often, and recently met up on our own. all seemed fine, but then he started talking about wanting to get back with his ... (80 words

Any suggestions on getting wet naturally?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone1. Please i need help. Am so worried about getting dry whenever i am having sex with my boyfriend. On many occasions we have to stop d sex and use gel or saliva just to get wet before we continue. Please is there anything i can do to get wet naturally?... (53 words

Need to break ties with a non-trustworthy friend...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - I believe it is time I cut ties with an old friend of mine. We have been friends for about 7 years, and lived together twice. Even though we get in some very heated arguements I would like to end things on good terms. Her morals are very different than mine and she can be p... (335 words

I love him too much to just be friends with him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - What do you think? did I do the right thing? am so upset:(? My ex boyfriend apparently was having a hard time after he dumped me. We went a month without contact then he got into contact, said he misses me. and asked to be friends.. Cos he doesn't want a relationship. ... (183 words

I want to be friends with my guy friends like we were before they got girlfriends!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - This situation is really upsetting to me. I'm a woman who has always gravitated to male friends. Having friends that I can share things and confide in is really important to me, and I need to have friends, but I feel that guys understand me and I feel lonely when I'm around ... (589 words

I have a couple of questions about pursing a relationship with my professor.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - I am interested in a professor of mine that is almost 20 years older than me. However I am in my mid 30's and not your typical college student. Over the semester, I found myself developing feelings for him and, after a few interactions about a semester project, I had the feel... (272 words

Do I like him or am I suffering from "no reply?"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4708 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - I like this guy so my cousin texted him for me. I was mad because he doesn't even know me. He is friends with my sister boyfriend and my cousin's boyfriend as well. She texted him right and asked where was he so he could go to Albany for a graduation thing with a group of my ... (389 words

I saw a picture of a guy kissing her on the cheek. How can I get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

23 May 2011 (M age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I broke up about two weeks ago... We saw each other once a few days after the break up to talk were she ended things completely for now. A week went by and she called me in Friday saying that she wanted me to bring all of her stuff to her on wed and left off ... (138 words

We had the discussion about my feelings for him, but I still wonder if he cares. What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I'm in love with my teacher. Yes, yes, i know what you will tell me... But let me tell you my own story frankly. I'm not English first of all, got an excuse for my bad english haha. i live in a far away country. i'm 22 years old and it's my first year in university. My teacher ... (493 words

Is it love? Or am I just longing for him because I know I can't have him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - i am currently 15 and my mum and dad got a divorce a few years ago and im perfectly fine with that, but the thing is, when my dad found a new girlfriend last year (i was 14), she had 3 sons, 2 of which i was extremely close with. i will call them two J and D. a few months p... (383 words

I don't understand relationships

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

23 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - I really need some help. Im 22 and ive never had a gf. i've never understood how the relationships work. it seems quit complicated for me. and i don't like do things without figure it out what i'm doing.u know makes me feel like an idiot and idon't like to fe... (189 words

Don't know what to get b/f for our 1 year anniversary

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - My one year anniversary with my boyfriend is a month away and I have been running out of ideas of what to give him. He is the type of guy who doesn't care much for clothes or material stuff that much so I think giving a nice shirt is not the most meaningful idea. I am an avid ... (166 words

I want to see my b/f more but he won't make the effort

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - How often should a couple spend time together. Ive being with my bf for nearly 8 month and we see each other 2 nights a week. One day in the week and a saturday. We live in the same area. he could walk to mine in 3or4 mins. I want to see him more but he dont seem to want to. Am ... (65 words

I'm a 40 yr old female in love with a 20 yr old

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 51-59 - I'm a 40 yr old female in love with a 20 yr old. I struggle with our age difference and it doesn't bother him at all. He wants to marry me and loves my kids as his own. I've discussed with him that someday he would like to have his own children and I can no longer have kids. ... (123 words

My Girlfriend told me she needed some space and after a few days she dumped me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

23 May 2011 (M age 26-29 - i'm ryan, i really need some help.. im just gonna sketch my situation. My girlfriend and i are been together for a while My girlfriend asked me for some space and time and I am worried because she has not contacted me in almost a week. I'm so tempted to call he... (239 words

Our problem don't include infidelity, but everday is agony for me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4717 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - How to deal with a husband who ignores his wife for a period of 2 months now? Basically, we did not consumate our marriage as I am working abroad and my husband is in our home country. My husband was my ex-boyfriend, but when I went on emergency leave last 2009 we met and ... (260 words

My best friend is stealing my ideas...including the one about the tattoo that I've always wanted!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3987 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - Basically the question is, am I making a bigger deal of this than I should. Here's the situation: So, I've always wanted at least one or two small tattoos. That's it. But I'm not going to get them until I'm older. So what I did was I took the time to create my own and pu... (537 words

My bf thought I was asleep and started masturbating to porn. How should I deal with this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed cuddled up to my boyfriend about 1am this morning. About an hour later I was only... (259 words

Whats wrong with me? Every guy I've dated they have broken up with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - Every guy I have gone out with has broken up with me and i dont know why! I try not to be so clingy, I try not to hug all of my guy friends all the time. I dont know what I do wrong. It seems as if I'll always be lonely :(... (55 words

Should my boyfriend want to go off with his friends on a bank holiday?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - Okay, so this weekend is a bank holiday, my guy is off work Saturday and Sunday (he works a lot of weekends) and basically he has been invited to go camping with his two best mates. I’m pi***d off. I don’t have a problem with either of these guys, apparently one of them is ... (480 words

Is this a dysfunctional relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - Is this a disfunctional relationship? I have recently come to a cross roads in my life and have to make a choice once and for all. I have had a troubled relationship for 7 yrs and have children from this. My partner i think has been abusive emotionally throughout this time. He ... (191 words

Can I stop myself from being so wet?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3557 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hey, I'd love some advice from guys and girls about whether I am getting too wet to pleasure my guy during sexual intercourse. We've been together 7 months and everything is great :) He's the most well-endowed guy I've ever been with, and when we first had sex, it kinda hurt ... (386 words

How do I talk to him about our relationship going too fast?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I’m not very religious. But my last boyfriend of a little less than 2years was very religious. Because of that, we didn’t have sex. We broke up just under 2 months ago. I’m seeing a guy that I go to college with. His name is Martin and he is not a virgin. Although he really ... (125 words

My bestfriend confessed his feelings to my (sort of) girlfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

23 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - This may be a bit of a long read and for that I'm sorry. Basically, for the past 5 years I have been in love with my best friend, and after a lot of drama in the past 6 months we've finally decided to give it a go. We aren't public, because we aren't going out. We're 'just ... (983 words

She thinks I'm boring but its just that I don't know what to say!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

23 May 2011 (M age 26-29 - there is this girl that i love so much that there almost nothing i cant do for her. I have liked her for almost 2 years now and i have not bin able to tell her bcos i am not sure if she likes me or not. Sometimes, she does like she likes me and other times, it is d other way ... (131 words

I'm so confused.. should I leave him if I love him but it makes me sad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone.. I loved that guy though I never talked to him in person, I used to see him at school but we didnt try to talk to each other. One day I found his profile on facebook, I added him and started chatting. I loved him more when I found out that he's smart and clear pe... (255 words

Boyfriend of 2 years refuses to say that he loves me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi Everyone My 25yr old boyfriend of 2 years simply refuses to tell me he loves me. I think the last time he said those words was on the first 2 months of our relationship, its been 2 years now and it's really bothering me. I dont want him to say it all the time, but i real... (245 words

Bigger boyfriend has made me looser?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - Super quick question! Recently I've been having sex with my boyfriend who is very very well endowed. He's the biggest I've ever had in me and sometimes it's even very painful. But, a couple minutes ago I was fingering myself and it just felt looser. Nothing anyone else would be ... (96 words

What is the best way to talk to my boyfriend about problems in a our relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - hi everyone,i am having a problem of not knowing my boyfriend and we've been together for 6months .i want to talk to him about him not being open and about not knowing each other since we dont spend time together,how do i talk to him about thisin advance for helping me.... (53 words

If you believe its true love, how do you not let them get away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - if you believe its true love? how do you not let him get away? the man im so in love with, with everything i have says that he still means everything he used to say to me like he can't wait to have children etc, that he's lost me once and never will again...how do i get him ... (206 words

Retro-active Jealousy With A Difference

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

23 May 2011 (M age 51-59 - I know that this topic has been covered but not from my situation so I would genuinely appreciate any help. I had a healthy sex life up until 27. about 12 partners, lot's of fun, innocent enough sex. Nothing out of left field as it where. I would say I was highly sexual bu... (857 words

Why is it ok for my boyfriend to have sex with other women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend stays in london, sometimes we have misunderstanding but recently we settled every bit of the misunderstanding. But before he came back to nigeria he posted on him wall that he is in luv wit another woman which he mentioned her name, when confronted n threatened ... (350 words

My lover said its none of my business if she's cheating on me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

23 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - Have been dating my lover for the past 11mnths and i discovered about 2 weeks ago that she is having afair with another guy. I accused her for this yesterday night and she said it is non of my business if she is cheating on me then she slapped me. Please what should be my next ... (61 words

Why did my ex look at me when we were dancing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4720 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - so on saturday we had this dance at skool for only 8th graders ...my ex went and my friend had left and he was coming he had a plate with pizza. i thought he was going to throw it away but he gave me a hug ..i didnt notice till after i was gone..so i said i was sorry and ... (181 words

Can men and women be friends with the opposite sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

23 May 2011 (M age 41-50 - I am a married man. Most of my friends prior to meeting my wife were women. Because of issues relating to jealousy and competition (on the part of my wife and on the part of my female friends) all of those relationships were lost. I have not replaced any of those. I intentio... (931 words

Boyfriend says we are co-dependent

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 2 years. i have a 2 year old baby that is not his but he seemed to be fine with it when we met and so on... he is really into smoking and doesnt show that he cares for me the way i care for him or love me or anything! we are always ... (106 words

My smart girlfriend is sabotaging our relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

23 May 2011 (M age 36-40 - My new girlfriend is very smart and she has been creating issues out of small things and bringing things we have discussed in the past back into it. I feel like she is sabotaging us. I have a child to a previous relationship and i have good communication and understanding with ... (256 words

I want to talk to my mom and bdsm but when I tried she said she'd send me to a therapist!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I am a masochist and I learned that I like bdsm. I mentioned the subject to my mom and asked what she thought and she told me that if I liked that stuff she'd send me to a doctor to get checked out. I dot think there's anything wrong with me. But I want to talk with her about ... (207 words

I don't know if he needs space but we're living in the same place and it makes it rather impossible!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - How can I deal with someone who seems not interested in me any more or I don't know but sometimes he acts like he care for me still.but he doesn't want to be around me much and have sex with me anymore.I don't know if he need some space or hate me.how he's acting right now ... (273 words

How do I move on into a relationship with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4681 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - my junior i got preg.i moved away from home had my baby boy. his father had "feelings" he said for me but was in another realationship with everyone. i wasnt going to deal with that and after everything he put me thru i lost all those feelings..well most.. like i get mad when ... (760 words

A fun gift basket for my boyfriend's birthday

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4720 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi. My boyfriends birthday is coming up. So far I've planned going to six flags during the day(he really likes this place) and getting a hotel at night. The hotel is going to have a hot tub. I want to put together a "fun" gift basket for him. I've thought of things like whi... (114 words

Boyfriend is always referring to his ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - hi my guy friend, he had an 18 yrs relationship with a girl , they have broken up. i really want to know after being in an 18 yrs relationship , how can ppl still break up , was their no love or why does this happen ? now the point is i love this guy , he says he loves ... (164 words

Questions about being in the reserves

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - In reserves, do you have to be stationed in another state from where you normally live? Also, are people able to have a regular job such as a lawyer or nurse and be in the rerves as well since reserves is only a once or twice a month thing?... (52 words

Bisexual who's still in the closet and in love with her best friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4718 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - so i'm a bi.. but i'm not out... certain people knows about it like my real friends... in a place where i am staying right now has a high percentage of discrimination about gay, bi, les, tran and homos hence the reason i'm still hiding in the closet... also, i don't know how to ... (483 words

My boyfriend behaves like a 5 year old!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend behaves like a five yr old. i love him we met on freshers week i had just come out of a bad relationship and needed someone who really appreciated me, and he did he told me all the time how beautiful i was brought me gifts unexpectedly, surprised me with massages. ... (379 words

I feel like a crazy person. It's as if I won't allow anyone to love me, but I WANT somebody to love me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Why am I so picky when it comes to men? I'll like a guy and the minute he starts to get interested in me it's like I completely go off him, infact I can't stand him to be around me or touch me. And even liking a guy is a rare occurance, I never fancy anyone. Literally nobody ... (521 words

I want to express my feelings but should I do so on facebook?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I just graduated from college and was in class with a guy I was attracted to all semester. I was too shy to flirt with him publicly in a classroom like that, and he seemed very reserved as well. We did talk maybe two or three times before class started about our reading ... (320 words

What would you do if you found out that your bf/ husband is into transexuality...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - Okay I need help/advice.. My mind has been going crazy trying to figure out what to do. Okay here is my story. Today, I used my husband's laptop to check my email and it just happens that his email account was open and out of curiosity i opened one of the mail that has a ... (211 words

I'm completely against my BF getting a bullet bike, but he says he would choose the bike over me without a second thought!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now. He is amazing in almost every way. We are so alike and we have so much fun together, and we have a passionate love life. I love him more than anything but recently I have begun to have doubts about our relationship. He has ... (262 words

I really cant figure out if he likes me or not!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - so there is this guy I've been crushing on for the past year. we went to a concert last nov. where we got into a water fight and kept pouring water over each others heads and he kept looking back at me throughout the concert and smiling. I asked him on a date before and he s... (639 words

I think I've done everything wrong that women aren't supposed to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I haven't been dating for very long, only four months but i feel we have a very good strong relationship. My boyfriend tells me how much he loves me and has even spoken about marrige or spending his life with me, im his first love and he is mine. Lately i've ... (295 words

I'm sleeping with a married man and he wants me to stay at his house. Should I?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

23 May 2011 (M age - I am seeing a married guy 3 or 4 times a year we meet in cities away from home in Fl and or Ca I am 69 and he is 40. When in Ca I have dinner with him and his wifr, I am goig to Ca next and he suggested I stay at his home. Good idea ?????"??... (62 words

How do you put the past behind you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4720 days ago

23 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - How can I forgive people and put the past behind?and how do I erased the feeling for him from me faster eventhough we're staying together?... (25 words

I love this girl but I'm not sure if she even likes me or if there's someone else in her life...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

23 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - So there's this girl that i really like. So here's the story. I moved to a new state during my senior year, and i met this girl on my first day at the new school. She seems really cool and all. At that time, she had a boyfriend. After getting to know her,i started to... (354 words

I've been in love with my teacher, is this note good?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

23 May 2011 (M age 26-29 - I've spent most of year 11 being secretly in love with my re teacher, a fact which in itself has nearly torn me apart, however to spare her feelings I have decided just to write her s note saying how much she means to me so I can get closure because I'm about to leave the ... (209 words

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