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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it possible to just stop the sex with this married guy but keep the friendship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys, I need some advice here...I met this married guy at work about a year ago. We both liked each other and became friends. We finally crossed the line about 3 months ago and we both knew it would happen. He has a baby with his wife but he never talks about them. In fact ... (207 words)

Iv been stuck in a rut all my life with disgusting boyfriends. How do I get out of this and what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I apologize in advance for how ridiculously long this is. It's an all around vent/question thing and I'd really like some sound advice from anyone who has either gone through this and knows how to get out or would just like to help. Thanks... My first serious relationship las... (771 words)

He knows I like him and keeps teasing me about it!

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21 May 2011 (F)

age 22-25 - i like this guy in my class, he knows i like him and he never stops teasing me about it, no matter how much i argue he always gets his way... what do i do??... (35 words)

40 weeks and no sign of labor starting

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - im 40 weeks and my baby's head is not yet straight down and im showing no signs of labour soon as im not dialating or anything. what do you presume my doctor should do?... (34 words)

Boyfriend turned on by pregnancy porn?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'll make this quick...me and boyfriend just started dating a few months back... We have amazing sex life as his very open and so am I! We have totally fallen for each other and his wonderful to me and my 2 kids... However...he recently told me he gets turned on by pregnant ... (112 words)

She won't give oral sex because its dirty

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

21 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm dating this girl, who has told me she'll do anything for me. However, she won't give me head because it is dirty.. meanwhile I give lots. How can I go about getting head and is it normal to feel bad for her reason? And I'm very clean, medically clean by the way... (53 words)

Our relationship is getting rocky. Can I fix it? he's acting like a jerk

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am feeling really unloved by my boyfriend of two years. At first we were really close, and did a lot of things together and we're inseperable. He said and did all the right things. But lately, it's just been a rocky road and I mean rocky. He acts like a complete jerk at... (347 words)

Older men equals fetish?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it a fetish to be attracted to older men? I only seem to like men 45+ ... (18 words)

Why do I always dream of my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Im always having wierd dreams about my ex its itheir that I have twins of him in my belly or a baby in my hands I wonder why they also look like him and sometimes I dream wonderful dreams about me and him I wonder why?we been seperated for a year im goana see him already but ... (67 words)

He will not talk to me do I just move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4717 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - dear helpful people :) this is a long story, im confused where i stand. i met this guy at a club, and we got on really well. we agreed to go to the next one a week later and we just wandered outside for most of the night and talked endlessly. he lives around 20-30... (392 words)

Would a guy act this way if he wasn't interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4724 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Random pretty quick question to answer. The other night i was out and met this guy and it was evident he was drunk. But other than the friends he was there with, I was the only girl he talked to! When we were sitting down he had his arm around me, bought me a drink, asked me to ... (123 words)

I've been told I'm fussy, is that why I can't seem to get into dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help understanding men. Recently I met a guy went on one date and realised it wasn't going to work and we weren't that compatible. So when he texts asking if I want to meet up again I say no because I'm busy and moving in a few months (which is true but if I was really ... (495 words)

Why am I so sensitive when it comes to my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

21 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Why am I so sensitive? Any time I go through a break up it takes me ages to get over them. My most recent relationship only lasted 9 months, but we were very close and we were in love. We had to end the relationship back in September because she was moving to university. That ... (161 words)

What do you think about open relationships?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello there, I would just like to ask people what they think of open relationships.. Do they really ever work? Interested to hear about experiences and or opinions of any type of open relationship. Are there certain conditions under which they work better? Can open relation... (178 words)

Are these marriage proposal signs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4694 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I've been seeing a 28 year old man for 9 months now. We're quite close (we've discussed our future together, even though we are currently long-long distance me in the US, him in Germany). This summer I'll be staying with him and his family. When we last met, he sai... (428 words)

My best friend is blowing me off for a guy I hate!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

21 May 2011 (?) age 26-29 - My best friend is dating the one person I DETESTE and I'm cool with that but she keeps using the same excuse every time I ask her to go somewhere 'oh I'm ill' or 'I had a bad night's sleep' and really all she's doing is blowing me off so she can go and see him. And the annoying ... (164 words)

I'm scared I'm going to be left on the shelf!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - It seems like if you arent young (18-29) then there is no point to living. Everything is geared to being youthful, creams, adverts etc. Men all want younger women, from 20 year old men to 60 year old men, they all want women in their late teens to early 20s and it just seems ... (129 words)

The action didin't happen and now boyfriend doesn't want to talk about it!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Last Saturday, my boyfriend and I planned on having sex with each other for the first time. He planned a date and everything was really nice and by the end of the night I was definitely ready to do it...but he was too nervous or something to get it up. We've been together fo... (198 words)

Heatbroken! I broke up with him. He came back and broke up with me! Why??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Guys, can i pls ask for your crucial advice.. I met a local guy who was chasing me on facebook over xmas. After around a month of talking we met up. We knew we liked each other. We continue to date. On our second date we became intimate. following this i had to resist an... (360 words)

Whats the use of being married to this man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age - i ask myself every day whats the use,i'm married to a man that keeps telling me things will get better,but they never do,sex is almost never and when we do have sex it always leaves me drepressed because all the man does is get it hard stick it in and make three or four strokes ... (191 words)

He just looked at me like I wasn't there! What does that mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4724 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So, I really like this guy, and I thought he liked me to, even tho we didn't speak to eachother. So, the other day, I walked by him, and smiled at him several times, looking away between smiles, but he just looked at me as if I wasn't there or as if I was about to kill him... (90 words)

Can we make good friends or should I let it go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Met a new chat and phone friend.He wants to know every personal matter of my life.If I don't he says I don't trust him. He proposed me on the 1st day by holding my hand (as a bf or lover not just as a casual friend).I declined definitely but he has the hope and I should give ... (137 words)

Do people go through life feeling awkward, without maturing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

21 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I watched a documentary about the human body on BBC iPlayer and it made me realise how empty my life really is. p /> It was about how the human brain developed. He (the presenter) was reflective on his teenage life and how he fell in love e.t.c. He also talked about how tee... (413 words)

Is it weird that I want my boyfriend to think I'm pretty?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, so first I want to put it out there that I'm not a naturally insecure person or one of those people who need compliments in order to function. Anyway, I've been with a guy that I'm absolutely in love with for 8 months. The one thing that bothers me is that for as long... (152 words)

I had sex with a transexual, does that make me gay?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4147 days ago

21 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - i had sex with a transexual, it it really bugging the hell out of me.. does that make me gay?... (20 words)

She thinks I'm obsessed with her and this whole situation is draining me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

21 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Am I really that bad? In the past 8 months have been loving a girl and it was an emotional exhausting process becuase we started from very good friend to she fwent out with anothe guy to now she thinks I am obsessed with her. I don't want to be obsessed with her and I do han... (181 words)

What is the point of having one partner for all of your life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - What is the point of having one partner for a life time? Why not change them for a younger/hotter/sexier model every few years? What is the point of staying with someone for 20/30 odd years? its unnatural? Deer and lions do not do that and yet we do. Opinions please from... (79 words)

! still love him..how do I tell him this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - me an my ex have finally got talking after a couple of months of awkwardness i still love him and have missed him alot since we broke up. i dont know whether i should tell him or not? and if i do what words should i used and what do i say ? please help!... (58 words)

Are teachers prepared for their students to be attracted to them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, Dear Cupid. Would like to know : Can teachers be JUST attracted by their students who are 16/17 or even 18 ? Are they trained to be prepared that some of their students can be attracted to them? Can teachers be attached to their students? Why it's so di... (88 words)

I don't want to be an abuser, I just want to be happy. Help!

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21 May 2011 (M) age 30-35 - I think I have Borderline Personality Disorder. There are several reasons I think this and all of them are very private and emotionally exhausting. Before you say "seek professional help", I looked into it, I tried it and it didn't help at all. I have to admit, I can be ... (621 words)

Why is he rubbing my nose in this ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - im close friends with a guy who i adore. ive been a great friend to him and the other night we were talking and i got onto the subject of dating. he said in order for him to date me he would have to feel chemistry. i was shocked as we've been pratically joined at the hip at w... (169 words)

Does the guy.. with plans and direction in his life... like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4689 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I'm in my first year at university and am wondering if the guy that I like likes me. We are both studying music but he is older so I usually only see him in one class plus at our concerts twice weekly. One of my good friends sees him a lot in their instrument ... (427 words)

Is he secretly gay? Or do I just want to believe that he's gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

21 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 20 years old and I'm bisexual. I have a friend who is pretty cool with me and at first I think I had mistaken some signals I was getting from him as just mere "bromance", but I just have this feeling in my gut that he likes me but he's too scared to accept it. He's in the ... (171 words)

Cheaters: Did you regret leaving your SO for the person you were cheating with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, is there anybody out there that as cheated on their husbands/wifes, left their husbands/wifes and moved in with the person they were cheating on them with? How long did your relationship last and did you end up regretting it? The reason I ask is because my husband as do... (307 words)

Am I just getting my hopes up for nothing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4724 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there , I met this guy last march (lets call him x) X and I really got on we got with each other a lot and became good friends as well. When me and x are together we are so comfortable with each other we have good banter , play fight , talk about our families and our ... (214 words)

How can I practice giving more affection?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

21 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. I'm in a relationship with a girl, it all seems to go really well and I love her more than anyone. But the thing is, when we're hanging out and stuff I often feel like she wants to be touched. I don't mean grabbing her butts/breasts/whatever, you know, maybe a cheerful ... (201 words)

We have trouble agreeing on things, how can I make my boyfriend happy?

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21 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help me! I love my boyfriend so much and I don't want to fight with him, on every topic we've had a fight I don't know why it is so. @hat should I do to make my boyfriend happy? ... (41 words)

Is he interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4724 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I volunteered about 2 weeks ago at a pound, and met a guy looking for a dog who went to the same college as me. Then by chance the next day we were in contact on the student forum......which led to exchanging numbers and having coffee together. At coffee I met some of his ... (209 words)

I'm really interested in Norwegian culture, can anyone recommend any websites?

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21 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I hope this won't seem like a funny question, but I was wondering if anyone could recommend any websites where I could meet some Norwegians, not necessarily to have a romance with, but to meet some friends as well? I love Norwegian culture, and I am hoping to move to Norway ... (73 words)

He has cooled off a little, should I bring it up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4698 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - If you've been dating someone for a little over a month, and you've noticed they've sort of cooled off (not sending sweet little text here and there, not as passionately kissing, less "rapturous) - would you just give them space to figure things out and not say a word OR ask ... (207 words)

He knows I have feelings for him and he keeps bringing up things about this other girl!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4724 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I really don't know what to do! I'm in despair writing this. I'm close friends with a guy and have been a brilliant friend to him. I really like him and he knows this. We spoke about dating and he said he didn't have that chemistry with me but valued me as a friend. Then a few ... (234 words)

Am I being irrational?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

21 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Do good guys get what they deserve? I don't really understand why girls at my age do not appreciate the things that good guys done for them and in my case she thinks I am obsessed with her. I love her but not obsessed with her. Sometimes is really hard to control the feel... (217 words)

Did she blow me off or do I still have a chance later on when she's not busy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4683 days ago

21 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - question, so I asked out a female friend of mine that I've had a crush on for a few months. I asked her even though I knew she was working and volunteering this weekend, I just did it anyway. I think subconsciously I just wanted to throw the idea out there for her to let it ... (158 words)

When a guy calls you beautiful is he flirting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4724 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry for it being long but i really need some help thank you. When guy friends says your beutifull is it flirting? They know i have a boyfriend who iv been with over a year but they comment on my looks alot and say good night beutifull at first i took it as just a complamint ... (314 words)

What do I do? My husband is deployed and I have a crush on his friend who is deployed with him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Most women who develop crushes while their husbands are deployed develop the crushes because they are longing for someone to be intimate with or get attention from (or they just want to have sex xp). That isn't the case for me. I have developed a crush on my husband's friend ... (310 words)

He says he wants sex but never makes the first move

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4724 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Been with boyfriend for over a year and seems he's gettin less interesred when it comes to sex. He says he wants it all the time as do I but he doesn't act like it and never makes the first move toward sex. How do I get him more interested to wanting it more?... (54 words)

Why should I go to the cinema with my ex when he has a girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4712 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is my ex boyfriend doing this? should I text him this? I loved my ex boyfriend so much, I thought we were in love but he dumped me saying he felt out love and that he doesn't want a relationship. I was really hurt so I told him we can't be friends no contact. We s... (299 words)

I like two girls and I can't choose between them!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

21 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - just want to say sorry if i drag on a bit but im desperate. i like two girls and can't choose between them. i see one every morning just about cause she passes me on her bus and we both smile and wave. we also talk on facebook and im always pleased and happy to talk to her. ... (388 words)

I have accidentally got two girlfriends and now I don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

21 May 2011 (M) age 30-35 - I have accidentally got two girlfriends and now I don't know what to do. I have a girlfriend and we have been together since our teens and have known each other since we were born practically. Although we have been together for so long our relationship is some what an open ... (334 words)

Is ignoring my ex a good idea or will it push him away? I miss him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel silly but I miss my ex. we had a great relationship but towards the end it sucked. We took a break cos he got too busy with school and work and neglected me. He promised itd change but it it didnt. So I said we should take a break. Ever since then, I feel he wanted it to ... (389 words)

My boyfriend is going into the army!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4724 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend went into the army for some days agoo, and im really sad, because i live in spain, and he's going to manchester .. im really upset, because i dont know anything about the army, can somebody please help me? ... (41 words)

There is no valid reason why my husband refuses intimacy. What can I do about my controlling husband?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - can anyone help me find out why my husband 46 won't get intimate or even have sex with me? This has gone on now for over 7 years now. Before it all stoped, when we did have sex, he humiliated me in telling me how to do what and when. He is a very controlling person and I neve... (130 words)

She knew I liked her. Things are awkward with us. How do I try to handle it better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

21 May 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - i liked this girl, still do, but she doesnt like me in that way, and only considers me as a friend. She knew that i liked her though. Because of this there was much awkwardness and it affected our friendship, that's why one i just told her that i was over her and we can just... (227 words)

How do I get him to stay at home with me instead of going out till all hours?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4519 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I wonder if anyone can advise how to get my partner to stop leaving me by myself for hours and not coming home till 11 at night. I know he isn't cheating or taking drugs. I work from home, so I'm often tied to being in the house, but I haven't always got time to do all the ... (143 words)

My wife thinks sex is optional.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

21 May 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I will have been together with my wife for 19 years in August. Our sex life was great for only about the first 6 months we were together. It was my wife who wanted to get sexual, as I was a virgin and way too shy. She was somewhat experienced. Since then it got steadily... (782 words)

My long distance boyfriend has changed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i m 17 in committed ldr relation since 2 years.my bf is 18. lately i have realised that the things have changed. my bf has stopped paying attention.he doesn't wish me gm, neither he texts me.at night he hardly calls. what to do so that my bf will text me,communicate wit... (309 words)

My ex-boyfriend keeps putting himself on me, why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4724 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so i used to date this guy back in freshman year. we are both now seniors. i never really cared about the situation after we broke up. I was his first girlfriend, but he was my second boyfriend. i went to a party last weekend where i ran into him, and he was hugging me the w... (205 words)

My girlfriend is going abroad for a week with her girlfriends and I'm worried!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4724 days ago

21 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - i have been with my girlfriend in a relation ship for 3months, i know its not much but before we use to be with each other as dating and we know each other for 4 years. i love her alot and i really want her to be happy and so on. right now she have exams and next month she... (424 words)

Why do my co workers want to pry into when I will have children? To me it's rude, and I'm single.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My co workers always ask me when am I going to have children, even though they know that I'm single. I find this extremely rude. My co workers are all older and most married with children. Married people really annoy me as they don't remember what its like to even be single. I... (116 words)

Should I try to fix things up with my ex or stay with my new guy? Both LDR.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4469 days ago

21 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 20 years old, and I've only been in one relationship. I was with a beautiful kind boy named Y. We met online, and we were long distance. It was very difficult, but it got even more tough with my first year of college. I was busy living the moment, and I flirted around a... (396 words)

My receptionist gf adds guests on her personal facebook account! Am I right to be angry??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

21 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend work as a receptionist in a hotel and she really loves her job. i work in the same place as a security guard (that's were we met) we trust and love each other and she shows me everyday and i really love her and trust her too.. we've been together for 3 months now ... (355 words)

She cheated, I forgave her, but I still hurt inside. Will this ever go away?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and i have been together for two years. We've been through a lot together and i love her very much. Our relationship is far from perfect, but we work very hard on our flaws together. One thing, though, that's really difficult for me, is that about four months ago ... (304 words)

Would I get more attention from boys if I let my grades slip down to C and Ds?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4697 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Do some boys feel intimidated if a girl gets very high marks at school? It seems to me that the girls who get so much more attention from boys do not get as good grades? Or am I wrong here? Should I try to slacken off a bit at school? One of the really nice girls told I would ... (203 words)

I had sex with my ex-bf and am now confused as to what he wants.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4725 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex boyfriend have been dating for a year and we recently broke up for good and I still love him. We broke up because we were both stressing about things and decided to take a break. The reason we never got back together is because his friend likes me and he ... (222 words)

I am torn between two guys and don't know whom to choose

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a bf for the last 1 year. I fall in love with him for his good nature. So i only proposed him. Everythng went well for 1 month. After that, he started ignoring me. Situation became so worse that he even didn't talk to me. I was so depressed to react. But after 7 months, ... (233 words)

What is the difference between "cute", "pretty" and "beautiful"?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend said I wasn't considered pretty or beautiful but cute, and he said that he would prefer cute over anything else. I saw something on the internet about cute vs pretty vs beautiful and hot. I can't find it anywhere; can someone help me out so I can tell my ... (65 words)

Does Plan B reset your menstrual cycle?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - A month and a day ago, the condom tore and I took Plan B the morning after. I have read that the only way you know it worked is when you get your next period. Five days after I took plan b, I bled for four days. Then it stopped. Then I had cramps and bloating, and a little n... (209 words)

My gf is ignoring me ever since she did bad on her exam. What can I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

21 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend's examination went bad. ever since then, she's been avoiding me (2 days). someone tell me what to do? if it isn't my fault, why is she ignoring me? i tried to cheer her up, but to no use. what shall i do ?... (48 words)

Just found out I am 4 months pregnant--and I had no symptoms! Is this unusual??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4698 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So, simple question to all the couples/moms out there. My boyfriend and I just found out I am near four months along, I had NO idea, just 2 random positive pg tests! So my question to you all, has this ever happened? An undetected pregnancy, or a pregnancy with very minimal ... (58 words)

Is it okay to switch back and forth between anal and vaginal sex during intercourse?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

21 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it okay or not to switch back and forth between anal and vagina (in same session) when having sex? My boyfriend and I love anal sex but sometimes like to go back and forth from anal to vagina and back to anal when we really get heated, but not sure if it's okay to do that in ... (60 words)

What do I get my friend (who got a full college athletic scholarship) as a present for graduation?

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21 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My friend is graduating high school and getting a full ride scholarship because of football. I really want to get him something really nice, since i never thought he would be getting a full ride or going to college at that, but i have no clue what to get him. I know i should be ... (130 words)

Bf asked me to get kinky in bed...but I don't know how! Help??

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21 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm trying keep my boyfriend interested in bed. He's asked me to act like a slut in bed but I don't know how or what to do. How do I act slutty? kinky?...in bed. Help me please!... (37 words)

Girlfriend breaks up with me, then says she misses me. What does she want???

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21 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok I'm in need of help... Heres the long story short. I was with my girl friend for about a year. She is two years older then me and she and I have both been thru a lot in past relationships. She and I both agree that what we shared together was something, that something being ... (556 words)

Dad is sick, boss is angry at me, bf is neglecting me. How do I go on????

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21 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I hope you can help me as I really don't feel I can go on anymore. Last week my dad had a huge heart attack, we were told to say our goodbyes to him but fortunately he recovered but needs to have a triple heart bypass. I am emotionally and physically drained from thi... (300 words)

Why does he go limp when I'm on top?

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21 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend just started having sex. I was a virgin before I met him and he always says how sexy I am and he is alway all over me but here's the problem..... when I'm on top he goes limp. why? when he's on top it's fine but he goes limp every time I get on top. and ... (93 words)

Could I wait till my exams are over and then ask teacher if she'd want to be in a relationship?

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21 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 18 year old female, i'm about to leave school for good, just have my exams to complete. I've developed a strong attraction towards my female teacher. She is 30 years old, and i sometimes do think she has feelings for me too. She hasn't acted on anything, but i sense she's ... (161 words)

Husband doesn't want to be with me anymore because I support my family

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21 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband says that he doesn't want to be with me anymore because I support my family. My family is overseas and I am living in USA since 2007, I have a decent job and YES I help my family sending some money each month. We both work and we don't have kids and the amount that I ... (274 words)

He says he doesn't have time for a g/f but I don't know how to move on

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21 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I date this guy for about 7 months. He broke up with me in February because he's very busy with work and wasn't able to fully commit to me because of that. I was still very much in love with him and wanted to get back with him however he wouldn't take me back. I was going ... (239 words)

I love my b/f. How to tell her?

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21 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello people! Okay.. recently I've noticed a really weird change after previous relationships and my ex lied to me and such.. I'm not sure if I turned lesbian or anything but.. recently I just lost the attraction to men and I got a huge crush on my best friend.. She don... (115 words)

Friend keeps texting me but he's got a girlfriend

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21 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I casually hung out with an old college friend about 3 times. We both didn't want anything serious because we both had recently gotten out of a relationship. Then he tells me he's getting back with his ex so we agreed to stop talking and hanging out. 2 week later he contacts me ... (183 words)