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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I contribute to the household but she doesn't seem to find me attractive

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (M) age 51-59 - I like to have my home clean and organizied even when there isnt anyone coming to visit. I cook do laundry vaccum dust, clean two bathrooms,groceries.I fold my own clothing and put them away in the draws.I do so much I forget about my self.at night when the kids are asleep and ... (198 words)

He thinks I'm psycho, how do I let go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) age 36-40 - My ex and I met 2 years ago through a mutual friend. We ended up becoming really good friends who had similar wants and desires out of life as well as a relationship so it was pretty natural when our friendship turned into more. We would talk all the time, spend lots of time ... (613 words)

I'm not sure how to take the last text he sent me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I began a long distance relationship about 7 months ago. We would text each other from the moment we woke up until we would call each other to say goodnight. Distance eventually got the best of us and we broke up. We hadn't spoke since. A mutual friend called to tell me how bad ... (184 words)

We don't see each other much, he hates to text, but when we're together, it's great! What to do...?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - okay so this guy i have been dating for just about two weeks tomorrow (i know not a long time) but usually for me it's really easy for me to be with any guy. But this guys is so difficult! I don't get to see him everyday, I see him at church on Wednesdays and sometimes on the ... (207 words)

Am I just a thing for him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hello aunts... me and my boyfriend , though we were never ever in a relation but always behaved so speaking on hours on phone or texting each other or chatting online but after an year i asked him out but he said he was already in a relation and was sorry to me anyhow things... (125 words)

Should I stop stretching and bending my fingers?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Cupid. This isn't about love but it's a small question. When im in class or just bored I start messing with my hands. I gently yank my fingers and then I bend them one at a time to each side. I was just wondering if this helps in any way to get my hands more flexible fo... (68 words)

Why is masturbating so painful for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm a virgin but I masturbate with a vibrator. It's a 6 inch bullet so is rock hard. Every time i've used it to penetrate it's really hurt! I have to use lube every time before hand so i'm really worried that when i first have sex it will really hurt and i'll have to use ... (128 words)

Boyfriend looks at friend's facebook profiles when I am sleeping!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf of almost 14 months gets on my facebook while im sleeping to look at other girls profiles. he also watches porn while im sleeping and even mutes the laptop so i cant hear. what is going on??... (39 words)

How do I deal with being unable to see my boyfriend??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i haven't seen my boyfriend for 2 months because he fell out with his family and went to other relatives for a while. we called each other every day and i think it was ok but now hes moved closer to his aunty's and he has to go on a police tag because hes in a bit of trouble. ... (174 words)

How do I let go of the anger at the woman who was responsible for my leaving my last job?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age - I left my management job paying over £40,000 a year due to institutional bullying and due to one very insecure member of staff I was managing nearly a year ago. After nearly a year I have only JUST got another job at 1/3 of what I was earning previously. Its a very ... (291 words)

I have genital warts. How do I tell my b/f?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I've been with my current boyfriend for 7 months and everything has been going amazingly, but I just found out I have genital warts. I know that HPV can be in the system for quite a long time before breakouts occur, so I'm not worried about him having cheated on me at... (201 words)

Why did my friend go ballistic on me after we slept together and I asked if we could more than friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

26 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I slept with my very close friend of 7 years, and wondered if it was a start point to go further. I got the courage to ask and was expecting a sad no, hoping for an excited yes. I wasn't expecting the complete embarrassing rejection that i got. I didn't get past can we talk... (202 words)

How can I make boyfriend feel more positive before he loses all motivation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf has this job which is pretty intense and the training is very hard. He is struggling and doubts he will pass his exams. I've done the standard "you'll be fine" prep talk, but it doesn't wash. What can I do to make him feel more positive? I need to help him before he loses ... (60 words)

The girl my cousin is dating likes me! What do I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Today I found out my cousin's fling likes me and my cousin is really depressed and I want to talk to her about it, but I don't know how. I feel really bad because my girlfriend told me she liked me but I thought she was being paranoid. I also want to tell this girl that I can't ... (92 words)

He's such a nice guy but going nowhere. How do I break up with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I actually don't know what to do. I feel like I should break up with my boyfriend but I don't know if its the right path to take or even how I would do it. Here's a bit of background, apologies if its too long. I've been with my bf three years, and known him for five. He's ... (528 words)

I kept forgiving him. Why did he do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4715 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy 2 months ago, he was my best friend's boyfriend. However, she break up with him coz she was still in love with her ex. This "guy" was so depressed for what she did to him and he started to called me for advice and moral support (we were kind of friends before my ... (615 words)

Wasting my time on another dead end relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I've been seeing this guy for nearly 4 months now. I really like him. He lives about 40 mins away from me and I don't drive and have a little girl of 4, so most of the time he travels to me. He was really keen to start, he has asked me for exclusivity, texts me or rings... (411 words)

I want to trust again but don't know how to make that step in life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4693 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure if my post went through earlier but here goes. In the past iv been taken for a ride, I alsways fall hard for a guy I like an at the end they either lie cheat or just stay away or just let friends talk thr head over. I'm single for two years but have trust issues , ... (270 words)

He rejected me on facebook! Is it because he didn't recognize me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok well... I'm prepared and prewarning that some of you may find this problem totally lame and childish but I'm gonna go ahead and ask anyway lol. Basically I met my crush about a year ago at work but where I work means I hardly ever see him. I'm quite a shy and quiet person ... (339 words)

Do I have double standards when it comes to dealing with an ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, thanks in advance for your advice! My boyfriend keeps in contact with his first girlfriend (his ex) of 5 years ago, she's a little mentally unstable, and she treats him like crap. She is disrespectful of our relationship and of him. She demands he talk to her and calls hi... (523 words)

Wife is angry because I'm not interested in sex anymore

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

26 May 2011 (M)

age - I don't know what is wrong with me . I totally lost my sexual self. I don't know ,if it is because I'm no longer attracted to my wife,or is this something else. She is very mad at me, because I can't keep an erection,and I rarely ever desire sex .I would say never actually... (145 words)

I don't think she likes me as much as she likes him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4714 days ago

26 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I met a girl a few months ago and we have been talking lots and lots. We have been texting near enough every day. I really really like her and she has said she has 'a serious soft spot' for me. She puts 6 x's on the end of each text. I normally don't read much into that stuff ... (229 words)

I'm paranoid because he turns round suddenly at a short skirt!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I nudged my boyfriend for looking round quickly at a very pretty woman in a short skirt. I notice he looks round at blonde women in short skirts a lot and its embarrassing. I'm slim.and attractive and not insecure but every time I gently nudge him he accuses me of being ... (92 words)

I'm obsessed with what my girlfriend is doing!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4508 days ago

26 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently found myself being overly obsessed of my girlfriend's doings. She loves me as much as I love her too but I feel like i'm wasting alot of time talking to her over the phone ! I'm trying to stop the habit of calling her all d time because i've got my studies to c... (155 words)

Guys: Would you take her number and text her if you weren't interested or attracted to her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Random question. Guys if you met a girl at a party but she left early and you didn't see her go. However, your friend told you she liked you and gave him her number to give to you. Would you take it and text her if you weren't interested, or attracted to her? I mean would y... (96 words)

Is he just messing about?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi so i have a slight problem, i dont no what too think, this boy who i will call P has been flirting with me for about 3 months we have 3 lessons a week together and we sit next to eachother in all of them one the teacher put us together and the other two he decided to sit ... (218 words)

Do you think it would be ok for me to meet up with him, even though I don't know what is happening with the other guy yet?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure what to do. I was seeing a guy recently, but i'm not sure what is going on with us at the moment. We have only been on a few dates, so i'm not sure that you could say that we are in a relationship yet, but neither of us has said that we have stopped seeing each ... (388 words)

I want a relationship with a celeb but the past won't allow me to be positive and have trust!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm seeing this local celebrity. At first he said that he does not want a relationship because he is too busy but he visits when he has time. With my experience in the past I can never keep a relationship going for long,too many guys has taken me for a ride an now when I'm in ... (173 words)

Is this new amazing boss showing signs of liking me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (M)

- I've worked in a organization for about 3 years, and we got a new boss about 4 months ago. She set up a one on one meet and great with everyone, most peoples meetings lasted 20 minutes, whilst mine lasted 3 hours and we got to know each other very well. Now i can't sto... (165 words)

Guys, do you follow the 3-day rule or the one week rule when asking a girl out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - guys, how long do you usually wait to ask a girl out on the first date after you've gotten her number? i recently met a guy and we clicked really well, good conversation, flirting and all. when i got home i got a msg from him saying he would think of something for our date and ... (113 words)

My husband's female co-worker seems to be stepping out of bounds in texting non-work related things at all hours. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband works with mostly females in an office including his boss. That sort of bothered me at first but not that much until his boss began sending emails to his phone on the weekends that had nothing to do with work. Sometimes the emails were in the middle of the night. ... (191 words)

I've been focusing on her friend but do you think it's possible she likes me, even though she has a boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4705 days ago

26 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - ive got this friend whos a girl and she is really pretty. i have really liked her in the past. she went out with this guy who was a rubbish bf cause they went a full 5 days not even speaking or seeing and he has got a new gf after about a week after they broke up. she has... (313 words)

How do I stop my compulsion to try to fix things for my boyfriend?

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26 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, I'd love some words of wisdom to help me change my pattern of behaviour in my relationship...if my bf seems down or has worries about work, etc, I always feel I need to cheer him up, and get really sad when I can't. I know these problems are not things I can fix, and I ... (414 words)

My ex cheated on my with his sister's ex girlfriend. Why does he keep in contact with her if he has no feelings for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - my ex bf cheated on me with hius sisters ex gf, he saids he has no feelings for her, but he keeps calling her and visiting her. why does he keep lying to me about seeing her? what should i do? i still love him.... (45 words)

Attached men visiting strip clubs?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - How to deal with a man who use to visit strip clubs when he was single!!My boyfriend was a strip club visitor when he was single. He tries explaining to me that he feels those were better places to hang out, have a beer and relax, than a normal bar. He also explained he wasn't ... (361 words)

Should I just not argue ever with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I had an argument with my boyfriend and he told me he has enough stress to deal with from his ex wife, he didn’t want more from me and that I was starting to sound like her. So I should like never argue and always be agreeable just because he has all this stress with ex? I ... (83 words)

The whole relationship has been me worring that she'll cheat

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - okay so there is this type of club thing that me and my girlfriend are going to this friday (tomorrow) and last time she went on her own (when we were both single) she made out with this random guy. i think that when we go this time she may do the same thing again and is tex... (140 words)

Should I Sue Her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

26 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Okay here is my previous post and question: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-if-she-is-genuine-and-it-is.html My girlfriend and I have broken up now.I have spent more than 20k on her in the past 8 months. I bought her various gifts from Bobbi Brown, Charles and Ke... (350 words)

Is there anything I can do to have my g/f want anal?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

26 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend since one year ago has had very many sexual partners and she is only 19 years old. (i am 20) People always say that it is a good thing because she is very sexual if she has been sleeping around, but she isnt. She only did it because she was weak and insecure... (367 words)

So why haven't I met someone who seems like a good match?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - So I'm 27, almost 28, and I've never had a real serious relationship. It frightens me, because I feel like there's something wrong with me! I date guys, but they never seem to stick around long (I'm not clingy, I'm actually pretty cool and funny.) But I tend to get with guy... (327 words)

I really like both these guys. My ex is now ignoring me. I need some clarity please? What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy. I will call him Y. And I really like my my ex, who im still in love with. I will call him X So X and i broke up in june last year...8 months later after a different girlfriend, he came back begging for me to take him back that he made the wrong decision... (217 words)

Is she manipulating me? Does she want me back? Should I move on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

26 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex and I broke up about 3 months ago but decided to stay friends. The first big torpedo for us was me catching her sexting her ex- from long ago and hurting my trust. She begged for forgiveness and for us to stay friends; I caved because I still loved her so much. A mon... (544 words)

Could my wife be falling for her attorney?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

26 May 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife hired a new attorney in December based on a recommendation from a friend to help her setup a company. The first time she met him she came home and told me how young he looked (even though he's not too much younger than she is) and that he was so well-dressed that she... (1442 words)

I'm not asking you to choose for me between these girls, I just would like to know what I should be asking or thinking about!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

26 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - okay so I really like these two girls both have great personalities and both seem to like me so here is a little info about them. girl 1: we've know each other for 2-3 years. i asked her out when we first met and she said she wasent interested in anything serious. more re... (427 words)

I don't know if we can fix this relationship, she's very stubborn!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (?) age 30-35 - hi. Im dating this 1 girl for 5 months now and the first couple of months, she was amazing and loving towards me but i guess after some time she has changed so much, i really dont know what to do. She has been the girl of my dreams. When ever theres an argument or something... (214 words)

My boyfriend's behavior changed after we got married!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - my husband was my best friend before our marrage,we use to talk hours n hours we discuss everything.but after our marrege he dont share anthing with me he want priwasy from me.even i think he dont love me any more,i want him in my life.. i was only expecting good caring friend ... (62 words)

What inside of me makes me wanna be so attached?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and my girlfriend and I have been dating for about a year and a half and things were going great. There was a time before during the relationship where i felt i needed her and when i didnt see her for a day i would feel awful and not want to do anything but i got over it ... (295 words)

I don't want her to be with some other dude, especially a friend of mine!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - i liked this girl who knew that i liked her but she said she doesnt like me. There was alot of awkwardness between us for a long time and it was annoying, so i just said that im over her and i want to be just good friends. Since then we have become really good friends and have ... (264 words)

Why would he tell me about his vasectomy. Is that not too personal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age - Why would a married man in a relationship have a vasectomy and then tell me about it. I have been working with a professional guy and he had his kids a little later in life (40's). He has a much younger wife. A strong attraction grow between us but nothing happened.... (167 words)

Boyfriend is becoming distant

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex fiance and I have gotten back together and have been looking at apts. Now he is acting strange. We have gotten back together after breaking off our engagement last summer. Before I broke the engagement off, he had gotten distant and no matter how many times I said I felt ... (405 words)

My aunt has been rude to me ever since I didn't have any bridesmaids for my wedding.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I got married 7 months ago and because between my husband and I have lots of nieces and cousins we decided not to have bridesmaids as I would have ended up with 11! Which we couldn't afford to do. We didn't want to choose just a few of the children and leave the r... (562 words)

How can I get him to notice me without creeping him out or being to pushy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay... So there is this guy i like... Im a freshmen and hes a sophomore and i like him a lot. A ton of my friends are cool with him but he doesnt even know i exist. He doesnt even look at me. So my question is: how do i get him to notice me with out creeping him out or being ... (106 words)

Should I be worried that his female friend will eventually replace me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been in a relationship for about a year now. I love my boyfriend very much and he's told me the same. But sometimes I get the feeling he doesn't like what we have. He has a friend he always sees and they've known each other for a long time. He's openly told me he used ... (263 words)

Should I wait any longer for him to contact me or is he not interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 19 year old girl who just moved from the UK to Canada on my own, and I recently met a very lovely guy after a friend took me to watch a few local baseball games (he's on the team). About a week ago all of us went out to a bar, I caught him staring at me from across the ... (267 words)

Pregnant at the same time as my mother...how do I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am pregnant the same time as my mother and i cant tell her please help me?? i am really scared as amy father will really kill me and also i am still in college as well as my boyfriend we both have part time jobs wat cn i do,??... (50 words)

He's is acting crazy after he went though a breakup! How can I help him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So I have this friend..I dated him about 2 years ago..he just recently went through a bad bad break up and is being really rude and just crazy.. It's scaring me..I like him a lot..and I wanna help him but he's going crazy..like calling his ex a bitch on facebook and drinking ... (60 words)

Am I being paranoid about money, or is he just using me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - help iv been dating dis guy for the last 6 months..i told him right in the beginning that i wanted to split everything 50/50. he seemed happy about it..but i realized now that i'm slowly ending up being the one that pays most of the bills...say for example if the bill is 115..... (164 words)

I think the girl I like is over me. How can I get over her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - well im starting to to think the girl i like is over me. we use to have a thing but now things have changed and she barely talks to me anymore. i really like her but idk how to get over her. any suggestions please? i mean i wanted to ask her out before but i think th... (72 words)

I need advice for staying in the friend zone.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear agony aunts, This year, I've starting hanging out with a new group of people, and they're really fun to be with. We're four girls and a guy. Now my question is about the guy. I've only ever seen with him when the other girls were around, and right from the start... (178 words)

I am lazy when it comes to relationships now because I had a bad breakup. Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I went through a bad breakup because of my infidelity...I made mistakes and ultimately paid for it by losing someone I loved...she started dating a guy immediately after breaking up with me. I had a long recovery period from this and can finally say I'm OK, although i do think ... (280 words)

I am in a committed relationship but in love with a man who lives far away.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a man about 4 years ago and we spent about two weeks together. I absolutely fell in love with him, and he claims he felt the same way about me. But he lives on the other side of the country. He soon had to return home, and I found myself able to forget about him for about ... (168 words)

My husband treats me with no respect!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been with my husband for 3 years. i think we married too soon after meeting. hewas the most amazing caring considerate person. would always think of me and look after me and i inturn did the same for him. however while i have not changed ..he has. living with him is ... (328 words)

Fight for the ex? or leave the past in the past?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - A few months ago, my ex boyfriend and I broke up. We had been having some problems, it had turned into a pretty unhealthy relationship and it was time to move on. Since then we've had limited contact- occasional texts/calls- but nothing else. That is, until a few days ago when ... (186 words)

My mom is a hypocrite and I can't stand it anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, so it all started awhile back. Ever since i was little my parents have pinched my butt, i've always hated it, and whenever i complained they still didn't stop. When i was in kindergarten, i had a little-kid-crush on this kid in my class. Apparently, it was obvious and my ... (376 words)

I'm not happy single but I don't trust women!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - This isn't really relationship advise i'm seeking, more advice in general. and has spurred from relationships. I was in a relationship for two and a half years. i was absolutely obsessed with her. but now i realise she wasn't good for me, she undoubtedly cheated on me, a... (948 words)

I found explicit photos of my g/f and they burned into my head!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I started going out with my fiance about 8 years ago, and we have a 6 year old son. We broke up for about 4 years ago (I broke up with her), and we got back together about a year ago. I recently discovered some photos on her computer that I'm somewhat concerned about.... (635 words)

I feel I should have someone to love. Are these feelings normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm always thinking about girls and want a girlfriend. I never had a girlfriend before. I starting to get the feeling that having someone to love is the best thing that I can have. I know school and having money is important to have, but I feel like I should find someone to ... (82 words)

Oral sex with a canker sore?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - so i perform oral sex on my gf and i had a canker sore... im super scared and so is she...can she catch somthing from it??? and if so what?? ... (33 words)

Should I leave my marriage or tough it out?

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26 May 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello, This is gonna be long. So if you don't have the time, you might want to click through this one, lol. My wife and I have been married for 12 years and together for 14 years or so. To start from the beginning, initially we got along really well. I was attrac... (936 words)