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After seeing hickeys on her, my girlfriend's parents are not going to let us see each other!

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28 May 2011 (M age 26-29 - okay so i need some help with this problem i got.i have been dating this girl for over 3 months going on 4 and her parents are some what cool with it so i was walking her home like 3 weeks ago and she was giving me a hickey and her dad drives by and sees us and he just honks ... (264 words

B/f won't hold hands with me around his brothers!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4713 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - help me!!! i really like my boyfriend but he wont kiss me. he wont hold hands either when we are around his brothers... is that bad??? how do i get him to kiss me?????... (35 words

B/f in touch with alot of his exs and hooks ups. He says its nothing but I don't trust him

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - Ok, My husband left me when our daughter was just 18 months. He was having an emotional affair from what I gather with a girl he worked with. My problem is now that I'm finding it hard to trust my new boyfriend. We have been together almost 12 months. During that time he was ... (252 words

How do I tell my dad I"m dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - Ok so i'm dating this guy and he's really sweet but i don't know how to tell my dad about him. I'm only 13 and my dad is kinda overprotective. I really want to tell my dad but my dad's the kind of guy who only looks at the bad things that could happen. my mom knows and she's ... (110 words

Why does he say those things to me when he's with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Okay, how long is this box? I have a lot to say. But how to word it. I'll start from the begging and I will try and keep it brief. I was thirteen when I met him, yes him, you know the one. He's the one that makes your heart skip a beat, the one you think about before you go t... (344 words

My ex is playing mind games!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

28 May 2011 (? age 41-50 - My ex has been plating mind games a bit. For the last few months we have stayed in contact after the break up. I now have got to the point where I have had enough and have previously said for there to be no more contact. Now I have been ignoring him, am I wrong to do this? ... (109 words

How can I overcome being so very shy with my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - my boyfriend loves me going on top,infact he more than loves it, but i get shy sometimes and at times i feel like i'm not doing anything good enough, has anyone got tips on how i can overcome being shy and how i can do anything special whilst on top? oh and we have been tog... (60 words

How do I behave towards and demonstrate to him how much I want to make him feel special to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - i wanna treat my boyfriend of six months who im due to be engaged to this year with something special if you know what i mean (; we have tried some positions but mainly girl or boy on top, he loves it when i do something new and afterwards he is always like wow you are truly am... (112 words

Is it time I stopped this? I am still trying to get over my ex. Is it time I moved on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - My ex and i are trying to get to know each other again, to see if we can get into a relationship again. some history we dated for month and a half before we became official and in a relationship for 6 months, we both think we should have got to know each other better before ... (231 words

Why do other people feel the need to comment on me liking this boy? How do I stop them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - ok, so , i'm ''dating'' lol this guy in my school who i talk on fb everyday and he's really cute, really really sweet, who i've got like EVERYTHING in common with. And which i can now admit i really really like , but he's 15...and i'm almost 17 , and at school EVERYONE now ... (203 words

I've just left university, but a part of me wants to go back for the girl I like! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

28 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - I really like a girl - My heart is saying yes, but my head is saying no. I've just left University. In my final year I had a girlfriend for 4 1/2 months. We were very good together and we both really enjoyed our time together. We broke up in February because she was a first ... (368 words

Why did he say he didn't want to hurt me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - This guy i really like, we have been talking for a while and he has told me he likes me and all that. The other day out of the blue he told me he did not wont to hurt me...what does that mean?... (44 words

Boyfriend's hygeine keeps me from doing more than handjobs

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28 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hi this is kind of an embaressing subject and I wasnt sure where else to turn... it's less about the relationship and more about my boyfriend's hygiene... basically I always put off giving him more than a hand job because he always has a slight bit of smegma build up (not much) ... (208 words

Is it just junk mail?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I need some advise I was behind my boyfriend while he was on the internet he went to his email and I saw all these messages from fling.com sayin firls wanted to meet him I couldn't tell if they had been read or not but he deleted all of the messages in his imbox. Should I be ... (69 words

Embarrassed to tell my boyfriend about my problems?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hey, I was wondering if anyone could tell me how I get over my shyness in telling my boyfriend about issues/stress in my life. We have a habit of not telling each other our problems, because we're both very private by nature, and it leaves me feeling very alone because I ... (180 words

There's no going back from this split, so why am I so broken up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - I need serious help with my mixed emotions. I split from my married man just a few days ago- he betrayed me in the most unforgivable way and it is 100% clear to me that there is no going back. However, he has gone on holiday today for a week with the wife and children and i am... (140 words

Affection from my boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I'm currently in a LDR. I'm very attracted to my boyfriend, but there are periods where my feelings are very conflicted. I'm romantic by nature, and love to make him handmade presents, cards, and goofy online links and pictures related to his interests. He enjoys getti... (144 words

A friend suggested my crush was gay. Am I just wishful thinking?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4704 days ago

28 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - ok my question is a kind of long a complicated one, im a gay, 18 year old male from ireland. so, i have this friend, lets call him john (: weve been friends since i was about 14, and he would of been one of the first people i ever came out to (when i was 14) at the age of 1... (323 words

He wants to try oral but I don't want to

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28 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - I just turned 15 in February my boyfriend just turned 14 in may well im a virgin and we have been going for three weeks now. He says he wants to eat me out but the thing is I dont really want him to should I let him do it? ... (50 words

I love him but I'm sure she's after him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hi, im 13 and i really like this boy, well in fact i love him, we went out and he dumped me a week later, we talked ans he asked me back out, i said yes and we were together for two weeks then he dumped me again! I really love him, but theres thia girl who is so much prettier ... (147 words

Opinions on young teens fooling around.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hi, im 14 and have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years, the other day suggested that we take things further. When he says further, he means blowjob, fingering, dry sex and sexting. I spoke to my mum and she said she wasnt bothered as long as we didnt have sex and we did ... (94 words

Husband jumping to conclusions.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - I really need you help here.....please be patient with me as this is very confusing to explain.. here a bit of background.. my husband of 7 years constantly brings up my past, he doesn t believe what I have told him is the truth and thinks I have watered things down etc whic... (431 words

I'm enjoying keeping him a secret

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Why do i like the idea of seeing a guy secretly? Normally if I'm just texting a guy or seeing someone, i always tell my friends. Literally anything to do with a guy i will tell them!! But recently, I've decided that i like keeping it to myself and seeing how things go with the ... (149 words

When a man says I love you first

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - Been seeing this man for 7 months, I always knew he had feelings for me but never knew how much until he told me a week ago. He told me he loved me and he wanted to me to have his baby. I was shocked by this, I had no idea he felt this way. He always told me I was beautiful and ... (206 words

I still have a bedwetting problem at my age. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

28 May 2011 (? age 41-50 - HELLO AUNTS I have an issue of burns in my inner thighs, yesterday my girlfriend noticed the burns while have some oral fun with her, she asked me how did u get burns near your penis balls and inner thighs, I did not mention about it at first, actually I got these bur... (385 words

I am not attracted to my husband and I have a crush on my CPA. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4714 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 51-59 - I am a 40 year old woman in a marriage for almost 20 years. I love my husband, but I may not be "in love" with him. I'm not really sure what the difference is. I had other boyfriends sexually, but he was my first real emotional relationship so I don't have a lot to compare ... (1573 words

I'm interested in my new co-worker but don't know if hes married or interested

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

28 May 2011 (F - Hi, A new guy has just started at my workplace (last few weeks). He doesn't seem to talk to anybody much except the children (we work at a school). He does not wear a ring so I don't think he's married. Since he first started, my colleagues have been teasing me ... (566 words

Boyfriend said he just stopped loving me and broke up with me

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28 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend just broke up with me. He just said one day that he didn't love me anymore. Then he just started being really mean to me. His whole personality changed and he tried to kick me out of his house. I couldn't believe he was being so callous. I didn't leave because I ... (392 words

My husband promised to end contact with his female friend, but he didn't and now I am considering a divorce

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age - I have been married for 3 months and am thinking of getting a divorce, once the year is up. To answer my question I need to give you a bit of background information. My husband has had a female friend for nearly 17 years. I have met the lady on and off over the years but she ... (439 words

After 1 year of being the perfect FWB, I ended things. I will miss him but did I do the right thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 51-59 - Hi, Everything started one year ago. This guy and I got extremely close and I honestly thought he felt the same as I did. We slept together during all this time but he started to be more and more distant. It was clear for every one that he didn't had feelings for me but I was... (329 words

I suspicious that he's cheating again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4714 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I have been dating a guy for awhile now. The relationship started off kind of rocky, as he was an alcoholic. We fought about this for a long time, but he promised that after his birthday he would stop drinking. I didn't completely believe him, but I just went with it. I was... (704 words

Am I in the wrong relationship? Or just a commitment-phobe?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We have been generally happy together and suit each other well (are told so by everyone around us). Even though I was the one to make all the first moves and then later asked him to move in with me, I go though periods where I feel ... (221 words

I told my husband about my affair and now I know he will never be with me again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - So I told my separated husband the truth about the affair I was having during the split. I believe that it help but I know I lost him for good. There is a pregnancy involved that happen from the affair.i dont know exactly how I feel about my husband but unsure of my lover. I do ... (132 words

Is this LDR guy trying to say I love you to me without actually saying it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - I am involved with a guy long distance, and we have been talking for a long time. He usually tells me that he likes different things about me, but lately he has started replacing the word like with the word love and when we are online he emphasizes the word love by using ... (111 words

I'm the perfect child yet my family loves my drugged up problem sister more!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - I'm in my mid-twenties and throughout my life, I have been a near-perfect daughter. I've never gotten drunk, never borrowed money without paying every cent back, never smoked, never done drugs, never lied, never stole. Yet, my parents and sister cannot stand the sight of me. ... (1163 words

What should my next move be here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4714 days ago

28 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - Basically, I've been very antisocial for the bulk of university, and I just graduated. This started when I had a massive falling out with my high school friends during the summer between high school and uni, with my girlfriend breaking up with me and going out with my best ... (788 words

Boyfriend makes decisions and applies them to our relationship without asking me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4707 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - my bf always makes decisions and applies it in our relationship without considering my opinion. at the last time, i shouted at him, cried and had a break. When i talked to him about every thing that upset me, he told me that he was just teaching me how to deal with people... (106 words

Husband won't have sex and its driving us apart

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 51-59 - my husband wont have sex with me and its driving us apart. we have been married for 5 years and in the beginning it was great. but for the last 2 years im lucky if we have sex once a month, and its always me who instigates it. ive tried talking to him and he says its because he ... (184 words

I find it so hard to interact with people

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4714 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I know there are a lot of pleas for help on how not to be so lonely and how to make more friends but here is mine, another to add to the list! The only time when I feel comfortable and I can truly be myself (whoever that is) is when I am with my family or 2 of my friends wh... (676 words

I don't believe a word he says but I still love him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I need help!!! I have been datin my bf for one year now, 2 months ago i checkd his fone randomly n saw his bbm chats wif some chic n she was talkin about takin pills n being careful n he was saying he ddnt want to be a father, meanin they had sex, and then in other chats wif ... (136 words

I missed an opportunity with him last year; is it reasonable to contact him now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - I'm in high school at the moment, in my last year, and am interested in a guy I used to know... here's the history: The boy in question is a year older than me, in the grade above, and late last year he asked me out. I didn't really know him at all except from having seen him... (245 words

I'm gay only on the internet. Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

28 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hey, i need some help, i don't think i'm gay or bi, i love girls, i like them. But actually i like jerking off with boys in the Internet via different chat or something like that. Few time ago i watched gay porn, now i like jerking off wih boys, i like to see on dicks. But i ... (129 words

Boyfriend stubborn, never makes the effort to say he is sorry

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - i have been with my partner for 6 years now, i got with him at a very young age, i was 17 and he was 21, i have always had the same problem with him, his stubborness. Everytime we have an argument, he will NEVER make the effort to come after me and apologise or sorry i hurt ... (456 words

Boyfriend is never supportive of me!

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28 May 2011 (F age 51-59 - I've just got my divorce papers and feel very sad about it. Don't want to be married to my ex husband. I'm with a wonderful man for over 2 years now. The only problem is he I feel he don't support me emotional. I really didn't think I would feel upset about the divorce but I ... (173 words

I don't want him to know I'm a virgin. How do I fake being Good in Bed and experienced, the first time?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - So I really like this guy and he really likes me but he doesnt know I'm a virgin and I'm not planning on telling him. I've told him that I haven't slept with anyone for over a year but have said I have had one sexual partner. There is no way I am telling him. I've broken my h... (252 words

People say once a cheater always a cheater, but considering we were on opposite sides of the world, is this different?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - hi there Im feeling really insecure.Iv been with my partner for 5 years. He is from Germany I am from America.I met him when he came to university in america. As far as i was concerned our relationship was perfect and I wanted to spend my life with him. After universi... (404 words

I always thought that a marriage proposal should be a happy occasion but it’s left me struggling...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - I always thought that a marriage proposal should be a happy occasion but it’s left me struggling with the answer. My boyfriend is a really nice guy and we were living together. He was having a difficult time financially and with his ex wife. I have a decent job and my own h... (428 words

My colleague offered me a low price for some kitchen items& isn't talking to me now!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hello! A girl I work with is moving in to a new house with her boyfriend and she sent an email round with a list of things she needed ie microwave, toaster, kettle, furniture etc....as they don't have much money. She said if anyone had these items she would be happy to buy ... (328 words

My husband's sperm count is too low but he thinks the doctor is lying!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - hi,i have been trying for a baby for 7 years but nothing happened so the docter decided that we do some test mine was fine bur it turned out my husband cant have kids and theres nothing that can be done his sperm count is too low no treatment can help him,its been a month after ... (113 words

She constantly brags about her daughter. It wears me down. What can I say to her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4705 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - I have a friend that constantly brags about how "advanced" his daughter is. It's incredibly annoying, and not even true. I find her very unfriendly and she doesn't even say a word to me at all. Why do people do this? What can I say, so I don't have to listen to another whol... (66 words

How do I find other people that like going clubbing, but aren't in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - I'm 24 and don't feel like I've grown out of going out all the time. I like going out clubbing but I can't find otehrs to go with. Everyone else I know is in a relationship and spends all their spare time with their boy/girlfriend. And I don't really want to go clubbing alone. ... (58 words

What is this beautiful girl doing with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

28 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - After a night of her crying on my shoulder over the last douche bag to cheat on her, my best friend of over a decade and I slept together. Believe me, I've been totally in love with her since we pretty much met and believe me, it was totally not how I wanted it to happen. If it ... (453 words

Why is so grossed out by what is natural during sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4714 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend takes forever to bust and I cannot last long in bed. IS there any way for me to be able to last longer than just 5 minutes? Also, he gets disgusted when my cum is on his cock, why is that? Hes also grosed out by his own cum. Why?... (52 words

I married for love but I don't know if that's what I got?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

28 May 2011 (? age 30-35 - Ok so I have been married to a woman for a year now and we dated for one and a half years b4 we got married. I think i love her but there are a couple of problems or more. She is very demanding, doesnt work, doesnt clean, very rude to me and doesnt appriciate me, and makes me ... (135 words

On husband's laptop found 5 messages written to different women! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 41-50 - I Need Hlp Plz Don't Know what to do=(,,,, I've been married for almost 7 years I've been with mu husband for 11 Years.well I've been through so so much with him and put up with a lot from his family causing problems to getting involved in our marriage and so on..... been thr... (311 words

I broke up with her Two weeks ago, so why is she still texting me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4714 days ago

28 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - I'm not going to explain the whole story, because it's long, but I broke up with my ex two weeks ago. We had been together for almost five years at the time we broke up. We've been through break ups before, but this is the first time I've broken up with her. If anyone wants th... (692 words

Lm confused about my best friend

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28 May 2011 (M age 26-29 - lm 14, and i kinda feel confused cause its been some time since i feel attracted to my best friend (hes a boy too), we are close friends, he tells me secrets and i do too. i feel attracted to girls too but not as strong as i feel attracted to him, ive hugged him several times, ... (156 words

Older boyfriend doesn't call me when he's away

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Am 22years old my boyfriend iz twice my age he iz 48 despite differents of ages I love him regardleSs and we been living together for about ayear now but what worries me is that he doesn't believe if I love him and when him travels he doesn't call me unless I taxt him and ... (94 words

A constant reminder, in my thoughts, and dreams... Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hey guys, so i need some help and don't know where else to go, people tell me to do all different things but i just don't know what to do! Ive been broken up from ex boyfriend almost a year ago next month. Realising it's been a year blew me away. I havent heard from him s... (491 words

Why did my ex leave his current g/f when he says shes better at sex than me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Me and My Ex Broke Up 2 Months ago and a month later I found out he had a new girlfriend , his friends told me he would say she's awsome in bed better than me and gives him whatever he wants when he wants it. but Recently their relationship ended and I found out he ... (150 words

How do I ask him for help or hint at it without seeming needy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hello. I am currently in a LDR relationship. I have been working hard saving up to pay for the plane ticket in order to visit my boyfriend. However, even with my working, I am still short in cash and will only be able to visit him for a few days without his help. I am to... (139 words

I'll give him hand jobs, but won't let him finger me. ..is that weird?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

28 May 2011 (? age 26-29 - Hi there, So, I've been a 'thing' with this guy for over a year. We've started to 'do' stuff, he knows I won't go all the way, we're both virgins, but I've given him hand jobs and he enjoys it, I enjoy it. Except, he keeps trying to finger me, but I won't let him. For some rea... (156 words

How do I put all of these feelings behind me without cutting her out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4715 days ago

28 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - alright, long question here: ok so about 6 months ago i had told this girl whom i had been really good friends with for about 2 years that i liked her as more than a friend and she was super cool about it but she told me that she liked someone else which i accepted and so we ... (385 words

Should I continue our 'thing'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

28 May 2011 (? age 26-29 - Well, hello... Okay, there's this guy and we've dated, but broke up after a month. We continued to talk and we became a 'thing', we act like we're dating, but we're not. We've been a 'thing' for over a year. ...but he's going to college soon, leaving in the fall, he'll be in a ... (108 words

Do girls like to change guys?

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28 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - I heard girls like to change guys. Is that true, I'm a gentlemen. I never had a girlfriend before, but I'll always be there for my girlfriend. I'll love her the way she is, I'm a sweet heart guy. I'm smart, I make people laugh, I'm well groomed, I clean after my self, I... (124 words

Should I teach my clingy cousin some modesty?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

28 May 2011 (M age 30-35 - hi i want to ask your help. i have a 13yo cous who is pretty clingy. and by mean clingy, i mean like hugging (tightly), grabbing my arm, etc. sure shes sweet and i love that she adores me but im just wondering, should i teach her some modesty? you know, because she h... (128 words

My boyfriend (who is also my ex teacher) has started questioning our future together. Is there anything I can say to persuade him that things will work out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are going through a very rough patch now. Basically our situation is special in the sense that he was my ex-teacher (but we started after I graduated) and that there's a 17 year gap between us. We've been together for 4 years plus now and things were goin... (261 words

Am I allowed to get waxed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - Basically, I'm a sixteen year old girl and I want to have my vagina waxed because lots of the girls I am friends with in the sixth form have had it done and their boyfriends love it, I'd probably prefer getting a wax because I'm guessing it looks better than shaven also. B... (80 words

My friends set me up! Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

28 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - My best "friends" set me up one day because I was grouchy. What they did was have one of them text me and ask if I was mad at another friend, then reported back to the other friend. I didn't expect it to go the way it did. I said, "It was really g*y you guys cut practice just ... (286 words

Any tips on performing oral sex with a small tongue and a sensitive partner??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4715 days ago

28 May 2011 (M age 26-29 - so me and my gf had oral sex... i have a really short and small tongue... i can't seem to please her really well... she says her clitoris is too sensitive... when ever i try to lick it she cant take it... even if im being slow, soft , and gentle she still can't take it...she ... (76 words

How do I deal with somethng I did a long time ago??

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28 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - I have a really big problem along time ago when i was 14 i did a sexual act with my third cousin i regret it so much i not attracted to him at all this mistake i made was because he harrased me until l gave in now im 20years old im still a virgin ive never had a boyfriend or ... (151 words

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28 May 2011 (F age 36-40 - My ex called me after 8 mo or so.. saying he missed hanging out with me etc. When we were dating, he was going through a custody battle, living with his mom because he was helping her out (she had back surgery) and they fought alot. We ended on a sour note because we stopped ... (242 words

I really dislike my boyfriend doing these chats on this site!

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28 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - Ever heard of a website called blog tv? for those who haven't, its a website where you broadcast yourself live and anyone can come watch and chat to you. Well lately my boyfriend of two years has been doing broadcasts and i thought nothing of it, till i found out he was doing ... (280 words

We broke up, he requested to be my friend on a Facebook & apologized, what am I to think?

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28 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Well i split up with my boyfriend of 2 years just over 3 months ago. We ended in a pretty bad way leading me to delete him from facebook. He completely cut contact, although i finished him, he drove me to it and all i wanted was answers to why he broke my heart, but he wouldnt ... (143 words

Does my ex boyfriend's apology mean he still has feelings or is he just feeling guilty?

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28 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - Well i split up with my boyfriend of 2 years just over 3 months ago. We ended in a pretty bad way leading me to delete him from facebook. He completely cut contact, although i finished him, he drove me to it and all i wanted was answers to why he broke my heart, but he wouldnt ... (143 words

I think he's going to leave me, what do I do??

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28 May 2011 (F age 30-35 - What do you do when your pretty sure the love of your life is going to leave you? Im worried that im going to resort to drinking to not feal pain. hes been the love of my life for so long the only one i ever been able to count on the only one who i can talk to all the time and ... (84 words

Need serious answer to big problem?

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28 May 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hi aunts, i have a bit of a problem. Its a long story: I have a boyfriend, he's a muslim. I had a boyfriend before him. He didnt treat me well, took me for granted, commented on other girl's pictures on facebook telling them how sexy they are. I thought "if he talks to girl... (737 words

I like her, she has refused me before, what do I do now?

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28 May 2011 (M age 26-29 - I have just turned 15 and i really like this girl but i think she is way out of my league. I'm 5'2 9.2 stone (not fat) and i kinda get bullied a bit. She is much taller than me but i really like her, i have asked her out once before (last year) and she said no but thanks for ... (68 words

Girlfriend punched me in testicles, so I punched her in the hip. Now for some reason, she won't talk to me. What do I do?

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28 May 2011 (M age 26-29 - I need your help. I'm 15 and my girlfriend's 14. We're in the same year and basically the other day we were in my house after school just chilling, we were having one of our fun little arguments but then we started toy fighting and I floored her and she was laughing but she ... (125 words

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