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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Guy I thought liked me left abruptly at graduation and I will probably never see him again. How do I get over my broken heart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - There was this guy i fell hard for recently. I got advice from a lot of people that i should tell him how i felt and to go for it to see how things would go because i really thought he was interested in me (he acted like he was). For example, he ditched his friends in class for ... (219 words)

Is this my soldier bf's way of saying "I love you"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a guy friend who ive been seeing for a while. he is in afghanistan now. before he left we didnt see one another to say goodbye. I was very hurt and upset. Well recently before he left for afg he was training in another state. he has emailed me, said it was good ... (245 words)

Should I ask my wife if she would like to watch porn together to spice up our sex life?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

11 May 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been reading this site and a lot of women seem to question why their husbands like to look at porn or even disapprove of it completely. I think I understand that. It makes you feel inadequate and like he's cheating on you. However, does it make any difference if y... (446 words)

How can I stop by bf from coming so fast during sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, me and my boyfriend have been having sex for the past two months and we have been real happy, I lost my virginity to him and he told me he had sex before, he is real open and caring about it. He always asks me if I'm on with him trying something new, he is truly amazing. ... (110 words)

My parents hate my LDR and refuse to let me talk to him, let alone see him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Some basic info first: (sorry, this is going to be a bit long) I'm currently i'm a 19 y/o above average college student, living at home. I'm unemployed, but i'm currently looking for a job for the summer. I'm the oldest child of two. My boyfriend is 20, and he's not in coll... (1520 words)

I don't know if it's really over or if there's still a chance

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i split up about a week and im finding it so hard. all i seem to be doing is crying and if im not crying im thinking there is still a chance. we have split in the past and have got back together but dont see how we can this time, but we are still in contact... (310 words)

Could he like me too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this boy. Every time I'm around him he stares at me. He doesn't look away when I catch him either, he just smiles a little. We have really good banter, when according to his friends, he's kind of quiet and sensible around most people. He tickles me a lot. He teases me, ... (201 words)

I'm willing to make whatever changes are necessary to improve my chances for intimacy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I thought that my teenage years were going to be about out who I was and to some extent I have. But I am missing the one thing I desire most, intimacy. I guess the care from my family isn't enough any more. I want someone I care about to feel the same for me. I... (189 words)

I can't win.... I already go out of my way to spend more time with her but it never seems enough, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been with my fiancée for over a year now and lately we've been arguing more. We're both full time students and still live with our parents and I try to spend as many nights as I can at her place. Lately every time I go back to my place to take care of various chores and ... (145 words)

I'm now in love with my best friend instead of my boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a girl and i have a boyfriend( we,ll call him bob) andy best friend whos a girl ( we ll call her lucy) well the otherday lucy was round and she came out to me and i have always been bisexual and before i knew where i was we were snogging and then my boyfrjend came in and ... (98 words)

Is my intuition correct?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - ok so ive been dating this woman for a month in a half and all of the sudden she tells me this guy she used to have sex with {just a FWB relationship} keeps texting her and asking to have a threesome..so was she really wanting to do this and we would she just out of the blue ... (142 words)

How do I improve my sex drive and our sex life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has only slept with 2 people in his life - myself and one other that was a drunken moment when he was a teenager. Consequently, I found him to be a bit inexperienced (he was 33 when we met) so sex has always been polite and nothing crazy. I have never orgasmed ... (281 words)

We just need to start talking and become friends again, but how do I get there?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - This boy and I ended badly 2 years ago, and didnt speak for about a year. But about a year ago we started texting and talking, and got better friends. I never stopped liking him. He looks at me all the time at school, but says mean things about me? I really like him, and now ... (145 words)

I'm thinking there's something wrong with me, my libido is so high!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, im 21 and i thinking that its something wrong with me, im insatiable, my libido is so high. Even when i have 3 or 4 orgasm, im desire more and more, if the girl is tired or something then i turn to masturbate at least 3 time. is normal? it happend to you? ... (54 words)

No one else will make me feel this way. How can I get him to notice me as a girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've fallen for someone and I know that no one else will ever be as special to me. I'm originally from Ireland but live in Mexico City, and I have no one to discuss this with and feel desperately lonely. He's dating some whore right now, and I feel overcome with rage an... (633 words)

I'm pregnant at 15 and scared to tell anyone

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Please don't judge me, but I am pregnant. It was a mistake, but my own fault. I live with my Grandparents, my parents died. They are really strict. I need to talk to someone and the only person is my Head of Year. She has been really comforting over the past months. I ju... (93 words)

Looking for advice about my online friendship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been sending messages to a man on a dating site ,almost everyday for the past 8 months .We get on well ,last week when i didn't reply to his message ,he sent me a message saying why didn't i reply and if i didn't want to carry on writing just let him know .The other day ... (133 words)

Could I have caught a disease from the toilet?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

11 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't normally use public toilets to poop, but today I had to go pretty badly. but instead of putting my cheeks to the toilet, I just kind of crouched, and I noticed that the water was yellow (many people at my school don't flush) which is probably another great reason for ... (131 words)

Vaginal discharge and spots. what could this be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i have red spot like things on my vagina and discharge which smells quite like vinegar, i'm not sexually active some please help me to find out what it is!... (30 words)

My friend has taken me for granted. how do I deal with him in a nice way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I used to be friends with this guy in my class. We were really close, but then fell apart after I went through a difficult time with my parents and lashed out at him. Since then, though, he's been borrowing my bike, money, headphones and getting help with homework, because I'm ... (231 words)

What's going on between my best guy friend and I? Please help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend is a guy, we have known each other since 2006, I am 21 he is 23 but we became closer in 2009 and then best friends in 2010.We call each other bff or booboo. We would meet after school (we attend different universities but they are not far from each other) go to ... (176 words)

His ex has wrecked our relationship and now he's left me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, me and my boyfriend have finished it has been hard from day one but we have been though so much. it all started a few months into our relationship, his ex kept emailing me saying she was still with him, and then it was he was still with his baby's mother. when i a... (603 words)

Vagina problem

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have always found sex quite uncomfortable and painful which worries me, especially when I went for a smear test the other day and the nurse couldn't even insert the speculum. I have had a smear before but it took 3 appointments and 3 different doctors to do it and they only ... (106 words)

Lost my heart in the breakup. How can I make and keep new friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't know how to explain but I'll do it as best as possible. Two years ago I was dumped by my gf for reasons that weren't making sense at the time. It became apparent she had met another guy and so I figured it was for this. I feel I've lost my heart. Since then, I've los... (299 words)

I have to beg for sex. Am I being selfish for feeling hurt and sexually frustrated by his waning sexual desire?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 years. He has been very stressed out with work and our finances. We are business partners so we are constantly together. We have an amazing relationship but unfortunately, our sex life has gone down hill (down to only once a m... (231 words)

I've given him 30 days to decide if it's her or me. Am I being fair?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I started seeing a new guy about 4 months ago. In the beginning he made it clear to me that he wanted to take it slow and not rush into anything. So of course we were both still seeing other people, and I appreciated the time. As things have progressed the feelings between ... (387 words)

For anyone who has cheated after agreeing to get married.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (?) age 51-59 - Have any of you had affairs after you became committed to a person, but before getting married? If so, what were the reasons? Was it ever revealed or did you keep it a secret forever? How do you feel about it now that you are married? Does it drag you down or do you feel ... (71 words)

I need some relationship advice. I don't like the way she behaves after an argument.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (M)

age - why does my girlfriend always have knee jerk reactions and go overboard, over trivial matters? I am a not happy that every time we argue she adds men to her social network site, she has deleted them before but now says there is nothing wrong in it but will not contact them. So... (104 words)

I just hate him, but I love him. His behavior is driving me away. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So... I've been with my boyfriend for about two years. We have a lot of unresolved issues but we really do love each other at the core of our relationship. ANYWHO! My dilemma is this. He aggravates me like no other! He is like my annoying son who won't leave me alone. H... (210 words)

Do you think he cares or not? Will I hear from him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question. Why do some guys admit when they have done something wrong, but they don't do anything about it? This man I know admitted that he thought he had been treating me badly lately (he said that to me, and to a couple of his friends. he hasn't been contacting me as ... (276 words)

What is a reasonable budget for a not too over the top wedding?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi We would like to get married but we are trying to pay off priorty debts first. Does any body know what a reasonable budget is for a not too fanciful basic wedding that we can do ourselves. We are thinking of £1,000. Is this a reasonable amount.... (58 words)

With all of his problems, what can I do aside from leaving him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for about 5 months now and I'm completely confused as to what to do. I have no doubt that we completely loves me and wants to have a future with me, but he is unemployed and has been since I started going out with him. He has many issues like ... (549 words)

Why does he keep leaving me and then come back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and My ex boyfriend were broken up for two month now he Left Me Because he said that we Just weren't right for each other. Well it's been sometime Now and I was starting to be okay with out him in my life. Until he called me saying stuff like how he still Loves Me and ... (124 words)

I just wish he loved me the way that I love him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4732 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I know i'm pretty young to be in a long term full on relationship, i also know alot things that everybody i know tells me. But thats not the problem, the problem for me is that my mind is telling me not to be with the guy who cheats on me,and obviously who does not care nor ... (387 words)

I ache and saw blood. Please advise.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I forgot my last period but I think its in mid 20's. We had sex last night, it wasn't my first time because we had done it 3 times or 2 before, but this time we had sex it was really painful and long, so it was really painful. My problem is after the night we had sex, in the ... (121 words)

The first time we tried a relationship, he said it was too fast. Now, the "fast" behavior is happening again -what does he want from me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - First Story: (Sorry its long but it is the whole story) This guy I briefly went out with (a week and a half) broke up with me because he said we moved to fast and he needed time to find himself (Hes 26 im 19). To me he wasnt over his ex wife. He told me they had split someti... (1617 words)

He won't text me back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Basically this guy and I have been great friends for a while. Then, he did everything he could to make me think he liked me - flirting, texting, etc. But recently, he won't text me back, and when I ask him why, he just gives me a stupid answer, like he doesn't know what to ... (91 words)

Sex advice needed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I get over my boyfriend touching me down there while we're having sex? I don't really get any physical feeling from sex unless he does but then I get squirmy of the fact that he can feel everything including hair or his... I am 20 years old and we have been dating for a ... (70 words)

Still can't come to the conclusion of why he text his ex, who interfered in our relationship so much!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been with my boyfriend for nine months now and everything was great at first. I'm 17 and he's 18. Just before he went out with me, he was with a girl for 6 months and apparently they were 'first loves'. This girl came back into the picture at about 7 months in. She's... (437 words)

How do I end things with a FWB who is delusional about where she stands?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

11 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl a few months ago at a party and we began to have a sexual relationship. We agreed to be no strings attached BUT she began to catch feelings. After that I reminded her that I'm not into her that way. She cried and made a big scene but in the end she said she'd be ... (332 words)

Is the apology genuine, am I being too sensitive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi good people! I have a friend who I regarded as more than just a friend. We went through a rocky period, more on my part, we had little contact, and what I regarded as little effort on her part (not replying texts, not returning calls, not returning email's etc etc.) So I... (211 words)

Just co-workers, or is there more to it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hoping for some common sense input here. I am a female working with a guy (that's how we met about 2 years ago) who is about 9 years younger than I am. There has been some light flirting in person but he is now some 2,000 miles away so our contact has been phone, email, text, ... (304 words)

We haven't spoken to each other for 2 weeks! I'm not good at talking!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for 2 years. We normally get along great and hardly argue at all, however when we do things always get blown way out of proportion. Recently I have been feeling that he has negleted me and am starting to feel like a boarder and not his part... (501 words)

B/f keeps cheating and lying and I've had it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This is not a good day. Okay, where do i start? I guess i'll have to tell you everything so you can get it. This might be long.Sorry. I've been dating this guy for 4years now. We've been down some pretty tough roads. The first year he seem into it,into our relationship, h... (1479 words)

Should I give my virginity to this married friend who wants to help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My story you may feel different. I'm 26, healthy, handsome and still a virgin man. I had tight foreskin and consulted doctor recently. He advised try to do handjob always with the help of porn in net or books which doesn't worked actually. And later done with a small surgery it ... (234 words)

How do I reset my feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - A while back I realized I had fallen in love with my best friend, and he was constantly on my mind. In November last year he started dating this girl at my school but I could see that she wasn't really for him. He changed, and became two different people, the real him when he ... (382 words)

Does my TA have a crush on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I’m a humanities student in the middle of my college career. My TA is somewhere between 26 and 28. The semester ends tomorrow. I didn’t really think anything of him until I started going to office hours—his course material is extremely difficult. Over time the ap... (342 words)

Should I send my soon to be ex-boyfriend this e-mail?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear readers, I am thinking of sending this email to my (x)boy friend as we have a rocky relationship. Many times I've tried to end it but he has asked me to tell him the reasons as he will try and I've told him, but he never redeems himself and does the opposite and do... (413 words)

I want children, but he's ambivalent. What goes through his mind, and is there hope for having children with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid Well, I think I would like to hear if anyone has been in a similar situation like me and how they decided... I am in a very happy and stable relationship and it is save to say that this is it for both of us. We are both 32. There is just this one thing, i ... (229 words)

How do reset my feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - A while back I realized I had fallen in love with my best friend, and he was constantly on my mind. In november last year he started dating this girl at my school, but I could see that she wasn't really for him. He changed, and became two different people, the real him when he ... (382 words)

She didn't want me 6 years ago, but now she's all over me. Shallow, and how do I get back at her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid, 6 years ago I asked out a certain woman i was 22 she was 20, she is very beautiful,smart and fun. She rejected me bluntly because am 5'7 and she needed to feel protected shes 5'2. It hurt very much but she said it was her preference. Well now 6 years later am ... (104 words)

Boyfriend is lying to me about having his ex's underware!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend keeps lying to me about underwear. Hi everyone, I would like some advice on what to do! A month ago i had a fight with my bf about him telling lies and half lies about his ex. Not only when i confronted him did he didn't come clean until I really pushed but I als... (185 words)

How do I get my bf to move out of my place when I am pregnant...he won't leave??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am currently pregnant about half way through. My bf - 41 is currently living with me but I am thinking it would be much better if he left. Last night we were having a good night together, I cooked him a v tasty meal and we watched tv for a bit. Suddenly out of the blue he ... (734 words)

What are the signs a girl is playing hard to get?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - What are the possible signs if the girl are just playing hard to get? ... (14 words)

Having an issue with my boyfriend's close friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4678 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated a guy, for about 3 weeks, who later broke my heart and made me very miserable for a year or so by coming around, not giving me time to get closure, moving behind my back by asking my best friend at work out (she told me later and she was not interested), using up my ... (400 words)

Girlfriend gets upset if I don't call when I say I will

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend of 8 months gets upset if I don’t call when I say I will. Sometimes I say I’m going to call, then something will come up or work will get busy. Then I call later. What’s the big deal?... (43 words)

Should I tell my wife to get professional help or hope she straightens things out herself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been married to my wife for 6 months. She is a medical professional. One of her co-workers contacted me to ask me if she has problems because she is not enthusiastic or energetic about her work like she used to be, and made a “joke” about suicide the other day. S... (225 words)

He puzzles me. Why Can't he show love for me? I miss his smiles. He doesn't listen and ignores me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I have been married for 3 years, blessed with a son. The only problem is my husband.. he rarely smiles at me now, doesn't talk a lot with me, never spends his precious time listening to my "evening chat". When I married him 3 years ago, he wasn't like this. He always smiled... (470 words)

I like him, he flirts back, but he has a girlfriend!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I posted this question earlier and didn't get any replies so in reposting it. I'm falling for a mate of mine pretty hard. We both flirt with each other a fair bit and joke around .. Thing is I've just found out from another that he's got a girlfriend. When my friend asked him ... (265 words)

I'm afraid I've put him off by holding off for sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm seriously so confused, and dont know what to do. Have dated this guy for about a month. We have been out on about 6-7 dates. He told me on the 3 date that he liked me very very much, and I said the same to him. We have great chemistry and it is fun to hang out with him and ... (1068 words)

What do would classify as 'sweet talk'? Do all women like it? Or what is the alternative if women do not like it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - hi girls! I want to understand how to talk to girls in a way that the girls really appreciated. What do I say, how do I say it? Some men seem to be able to charm girls whatever they do. But I am not sure how they do it. What do would classify as 'sweet talk'? Why do women lik... (101 words)

Other people have good relationships. How do I get over a relationship that I ruined, learn from my mistakes and move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Over 5 years ago the relationship with my then girlfriend of 3 plus years ended very badly and I have still not been able to put it out of my mind and move on. Before I go on I would like to make it clear that I do not want to get back together with her, we were wrong for each ... (371 words)

How can I rebuild our relationship before her deadline is reached? I feel I walk on eggshells to please her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4734 days ago

11 May 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Good Afternoon Aunts. I hope you can help me as I do not know what to do. My Wife and I have been together 8 years, we have lovely children and a great life style. We also have argue often and have been in a very up and down cycle for a while that has put stress on the r... (408 words)

What would represent a creative, memorable, thoughtful, romantic proposal of marriage that I could arrange?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

11 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - what are some creative, thoughtful ways to propose to your girlfriend? i know it sounds terrible that i'm having to ask, but i've just never been very good at this sort of thing. i try so hard and love her very much. i just want to make this memorable for her and make her feel ... (94 words)

DId my girlfriend fix herself up for this other guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4727 days ago

11 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - im in a relation with a girl since a year. and cos im dark, shes not so much into me. im a singer by profession, im 6'2" tall, great physique, but im little dark. i guess for that reason shes not able to adjust with me. she works at a place, a guy there flirted with her... (424 words)

My parents don't believe in my talent

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (?) age 26-29 - I need advice on how to deal with.....this struggle that I am going through. You see,I have had this very strong desire to become a multi talented artist. I want to sing,dance,act,write,draw,etc.I understand very clearly that it takes many years of training to accompli... (355 words)

Do I tell my parents about my non-christian boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

11 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a Christian, and have been my whole life. I am very open to hearing about and understanding peoples points of view, and am not offended by people who think differently than I do. I am currently dating a non-christian boy. We broke up before, and my parents were ver... (217 words)

Will she put up with this and be patient? I failed the exam and now I am so worried I will lose my Gf over it/

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I'm 24 and my gf is 23.. The thing is recently i failed in my recent examination to get into my final year at my university.. It was really depressing and demoralizing as i have truly burnt the midnight oil for it..however slowly i've recovered from it but still i h... (225 words)

Does he not care any more? Should I try to mend fences, or is it too late after two months?

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11 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, I dated this guy for a few months. Things got off to a slow start, but then they started to pick up and I really thought that he liked me. Our last date was probably the best...but that's just it, it was the last one. We just stopped talking as much, but he still seem... (244 words)

He broke my heart today. I feel alone and sad. How ever will I deal with this?

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11 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex broke my heart about an hour ago. I ended up deleting him from everything, erasing all memories of him, basically pretending he never existed. but I'm so sad i feel so sad that he won't be there anymore. I can't just call or text him to say hi anymore. He's not going to b... (110 words)

Can you break your hymen during a shower?

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11 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to know is it possible to broke hymen while using shower water for masturbution ... (16 words)

Am I the one for her? how can I get her to trust me again? Is she doing this because she still loves me?

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11 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - i was with a girl for a year in a half in a pretty serious relationship. We lived together and it was really good for a while, but i ended up hurting her really bad because i cheated on her and then after that she had pretty much forgiven me but i broke up with her because "i ... (559 words)

Fiance went AWOL; can we work this out?

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11 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - To be completely honest i'm not sure if i seek guidance or reassurance but as of right now i think i just need to know i'm not alone even though i am both mentally and physically . theres no good or bad way to say it so i'm flat out gonna say it like it is . my fiance i... (570 words)

He was really attentive, then acted like I was bothering him. Why?

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11 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ill make this brief: Went out on a lunch date with this guy who Im interested in dating. He paid. Said he wanted to see me again after he got back from army training which is only for 2 weeks. After we ate we held hands, kissed..thats about it. When I got home he texted me ... (145 words)

I'm being blackmailed for having a one-night stand!

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11 May 2011 (F) age 30-35 - Hello, I was just wondering if anyone would be able to help with this rather unusual predicament I'm in. Two and a half years ago I had a one night stand. I didn't think clearly about it and I instantly regretted it. The guy I had sex with remained in contact though however a... (311 words)

I wronged her two years ago, now we're together and I feel empty. Is something wrong with me?

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11 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I figured once I left my ex (the girl I dated for 9 months) whom I had no love too, my world would get better. And for a short period it did. I got great friends, I started new hobbies and I got the chance to fall in love again. As if the universe wanted that... Now, I am... (270 words)

Is it bad to have casual sex after a breakup?

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11 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So my question may seem a little odd. More from curiosity than the need for advice. Basically I have had a series of bad relationships broke up with my long term bf. Met an amazing man. Moved in with him. Then he list his job and we lost our place and he moved 6 hours away. ... (224 words)

How do you know if you're in love?

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11 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - How do you know if your in love? I don't think I am, but could you tell me? I'm in an interesting position with the guy I like and i have never liked a guy this way before. Its not that i like him alot--which i do--but i've never liked a guy like this. I realize I'm young, but ... (82 words)

From friend to boyfriend to friend again...its super awkward!!

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11 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend, who was my best friend before we started dating, broke up with me because he said he wasn't ready to be in a relationship. We only dated for a month and now he wants to return to being friends which is what I want too. However I still have feelings for him. Also ... (92 words)

How not to be jealous and insecure when my wife works with a lot of single young men?

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11 May 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife has a job in a male-dominated field. I would say it's about 85% men. It also tends to skew young. We are in our 40's, but most people she works with are 25-35. That means that the great majority of them are single or have girlfriends that they may or may not be serio... (1538 words)

How do I make her realize that I love her beyond our religious differences?

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11 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. Since 7 months I've known a girl who was just a friend in the beginning but as I got to know her more and more I was deeply, very deeply attracted to her. It's just that only I see her that way and since she doesn't want to get into relationships until she's independent ... (592 words)

Getting over work crush...

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11 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've worked with this guy for a while. We're so comfortable with each other, touch or even talking wise. We play fight most of the time, talk about random stuff, insult each other playfully. Well, I stupidly fell for the guy. I guess the way he would always end up holding me or ... (182 words)

I have the hots for my older Land Lady! Does this relationship have a chance?

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11 May 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I feel confused by my land lord. Shes 64 years old and not married. I'm 36 years old. I feel something for her; she likes it when I buy her gifts sometimes she lets me kiss her on her lips but that's it, nothing more. I feel I want more than that. I have told her that, but she ... (101 words)

My girlfriend wants me to chat with her friends, but I'm not comfortable doing that. What should I do?

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11 May 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok me and my girlfriend been dating for 3 months now and lately things have been feeling off... At school she wants me to sit with her and her friends but I don't say nothing when I'm around them and she doesn't like that..matter fact she hates it! What should I do? She tells ... (64 words)

Why does my husband watch porn videos?

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11 May 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I been married for 8 years and I just found out that my husband likes to watch porn videos. And I don't know what to do about it? When we are in bed together he aways claims he is too tired (for sex) and I don't know what to do. I asked him if he is happy with our sexual life ... (81 words)

My friends have all turned against me and now I'm afraid to go back to Uni!

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11 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have fallen out with my friends at university, they have been leaving me out for months due to my depression. (Long story but basically they see me as a psycho). Anyway, we have all recently been on quite civil terms verging on friendship again until today when I got a text ... (354 words)

Why is he even with me?

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11 May 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so i ve been dealing with this one guy for about a year on and off,im 16 him 18. the whole time we have been attracted to each other. i mean off because we stopped talking for about 2 months, and when we restarted we were both happy about it. We are good friends now, we ... (359 words)

My sister's child is calling me mama...

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11 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my sister got pregnant by a fool and lives at home with my parents and me and my 2 other younger siblings. She goes out when she wants and pays for nothing for the child and has no responsibility for the child. I babysit it quite a bit when my mother is out and recently it has ... (111 words)

Why is she so distant with me lately?

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11 May 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so iv been with my gf for almost a year now, she and I have grown up much faster then we have both had to, due to family problems when we were younger so we have a very mature and open relationship. However she has seemed to be a little distant or short with me lately and ... (176 words)

My self image is shattered by BF's obsession.

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11 May 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - All I want is to feel good enough for someone, ever since I found that my boyfriend looked at loads of pictures of women with large breasts I've never been the same. I have quite small breasts, and have always been a bit conscious of that. But when I met my boyfriend I thought ... (147 words)

Adult dating websites. When should a wife be concerned?

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11 May 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Why do men register on adult dating websites? Let me rephrase: Why do married men register themselves on adult dating websites? Are they bored with the wife? Are they just trying out a new porn sight? Like trying to see real naked girls instead of porn stars? What is the appeal ... (63 words)